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greiboy:
value and dignity goes hand in hand

A cheap thing is some thing requires little effort. So what will you qualify as cheap?

Anything that has a price is cheap.

Don't you think so?

lefulefu:
guys use dat statement just to get back at a lady the same way ladies get back at us by calling us broke

In other words, it's a countering motion not a logical motion

greiboy:
Now you are mixing two important issues together

1) It is not a crime for women to offer sex or ask for sex from their partners in romantic relationships because we all have sexual orgies that must satisfied and who is in a better place to satisfy it than your partner.

It is way better than cheating

2) It is wrong when women or men offer sex to every random stranger or guy/ladies they meet.

It is a bad that can become a habit which may eventually wreck any present or future relationship


It doesn't make them a LovePeddler/prostitutes, but it makes them promiscuous or even sluts.

That single act of offering sex to random people is what gave rise to the use of the word "bitcch" among humans to qualify a woman that bleeps any random guy.

Nice point brO, applauds.

But, how about men, do they aswell offer sex?

Most guyz tend to get at ladies with the motion of "Women offers only sex in a relationship", but do you really think a particular gender do offer sex?

If YES, do some men aswell offer sex in a relationship?

lefulefu:
i dont believe women offer only sex in a relationship. there are some women who have gingered their men to success and some have served as a bedrock of success to their men.only dull empty women offer nothing but sex in a relationship .having said that let me add that if a lady collects money or some sort of gift b4 you sleep with her its prostitution .

You have a good point brO.

Now, my area of confusion is, why do we say "Women" offer sex?

Does a particular gender offer sex?

greiboy:
same set of cheap mother fuckers

How can you have sex with someone that you know very little about. You really believe those guys had no gf

The word dignity isn't gender specific you know

Never knew having sex with strangers could define a cheap person

Sex should be a mutual and equal possessive emotional feeling that can only take place with the help of both genders(M/Female). But as a result of our African societal believe and mindset comes this rude motion against women that goes like this.... MOST WOMEN OFFERS NOTHING BUT SEX , yes, I may have used it, but loudly and logically thinking, I simply do not think a woman can only offer sex without the contribution of men, I don't think a particular gender offers sex, I maybe wrong thou.

Now my questions are.

-Is it proper to say "Women" offers sex when it's a two gender thing?

-Can we say "MEN" offer sex aswell?, if YES, why then do they foot the bills of some women to get sex they offer?

-Do women offer sex?

-Do men offer sex?, if YES, can a broke man who offers only sex in a relationship be tagged "Cheap and useless"?

-Who offers sex?


greiboy
Antibrutus
MissWrite
lefulefu
RuthDaniels
tosyne2much
ubunja


Any form of opinions are highly welcomed.

greiboy:
She is cheap because she doesn't have value.. She is promiscuous.
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Not everything that has value can be sold or bought with money

Value = dignity in some cases

What of the men?

Who told you "Virginity" is the pride of a woman?

Papanwamaikpe:
Make I give you her number make you help me tell her to come back?

70k for collecting the number from you.

140k for telling her to come back.

190k if she comes back.

Deal?

Papanwamaikpe:
I heard she deactivated​. Do you know her personally?

No brO, I don't.

Merryglad:
we never had any issue, he loved me to the extent i did not suspect anything it was later he told me he got her pregnant and he could not tell me.

Be careful.

Some issues are not advisable to be gisted on Nairaland.

Asowari:
ok she looks like Chinese have seen her. kk men.

Lol, chinese?

Dope for her.

Asowari:
is not the Alex

I don't know how she looks, haven't seen her picture.

Asowari:
u mean that Lady that look like those poor chinko people, she don deactivate

Which lady?

Papanwamaikpe:
Crush ke? For a woman old enough to be my grandma? Mba ooh

C'omon shut up osiso , who are you deceiving?
Go and sit down

She's on ban, I guess..... She might be back sooner for you to start crushing the more with your "Fake trolls" on her.

Papanwamaikpe:
I no go lie I dey miss her true true

Lol, it happens.

It's cool now that she's away, so that you'll miss her so much that you'll know her value in you.

You were crushing on her, you thought we had no idea

You are obviously missing her
I understand

Start a similar attitude, if she doesn't feel hurt, then know that something is wrong somewhere in her school.

*Modified*

Oladimejyy:
[s] Thats his choice. A guy dates a lady doesnt mean he must marry him.okay? [/s]

Apart from brain, what else are you lacking ?

liljaydee:
Bleep him.... black is beautiful

You are right

This is so disheartening and bad, it's no surprise that most men crave and pray for hardworking and supportive women, but when they see one, some of them will do nothing than to take advantage and ruin their emotions and loved life.

Move on sweetheart, you are a rare gem, he doesn't worth you. ....He lost a Hardworking, supportive and good woman , while you lost a Fool, scumbag and ungrateful BOY .

Be your wonderful self and move on with your life, the right man will come.

Adamummya:
yes dear

AY in the making

MissJoy29:
Really?

Sure, serious

Ladyhippolyta88:
You can't say you don't love your mum so much that you cannot do anything for her Read what the guy posted.The best way I tell my mum I love her is by giving her a hug twice daily.And her labor for me can never be in vain.She would never suffer while I am alive.

I don't get Is this why women should be appreciated more?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Women should be appreciated more.

Why and how?

Ladyhippolyta88:
The guy was right.

Right in the sense that men doesn't need appreciation or right in the sense that women should be appreciated more?

I don't get.

MissJoy29:
Why do people confuse "a lot" for "all" these days?

I hardly generalise o. So I use "a lot", "some", "many" etc rather than "all" when giving opinions on topics like this.

Some "A lot" and "Some" can be generalized

MissJoy29:
Yes. Isn't that why we have a lot of immoral activity in the world right now. It's also another reason for the high rate of divorce now. So yes, a lot of men and ladies are immoral.

Nne, I won't to get you well
Are you saying that we are all cheap? ,