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Teewhydalegend:
Seeing a girl begging for money from guys.



It was so embarrassing!!

really.. You saw her kneeling infront of the guys and begging

Fresca:
I did not say that. Why won't I let him go to work?? That's not the space I'm talking about. I can't stop you from going to work or chilling with your friends or whatever, ofcuz I will allow you to do that because I wouldn't want any man to stop me from doing those things. That's called "freedom" The space I'm talking about is when a guy says "I need a break for like a week or two" for what?? To bring out the ashawo in you?? No ways, if we taking breaks because you need "space" please come and be breaking up at once.

lefulefu:
endtime photoshop

slimthugchimee:
haters will say its Photoshop

dukeolumde:
Lol...apart from those points mentioned, men love the following too:

1. Head of State: No future explanation here...
2. Doggy: Chops.com from the ....
3. Good food: Most women of now adays cannot every boil water talk more of cooking. Men don't joke with good food.
4. Obediance: It's one thing to respect a man but it's entirely something else to obey him. The more u show obedience to
a man, the most likely u will win his heart.

N B: These are essential to make a relationship thrive not only for a man but also for women...unfortunately most men/women
pretend alot hence drive home the wrong massage to their pertners...dennnnnmm, I hate been serious for once

head of state

Fresca:
All this "SPACE" you people are wanting, when we marry nko?? Please deal with it, it's part of the training process.

xynerise:
See your face like who better mess dey catch

lofty900:
If falz catch u ehn By the way, u should have reduced the size of ur head

Ma head no big Na

Hin reach Falz own

richommie:
Loool, no be only chemistry.

Laveda:
Why her fingers come change to coke and fanta?

Guy your dream long no be small

Its good to dream big!

LEBEfirstson:
Hello NLanders. I met this girl sometime in November last year. At first she seems to be the kinda girl I have always wanted to get. I'm a kinda person that likes balance in everything That I do especially when relationship is involved. I'm beginning to believe that it is always ABOUT HER.. since I met her, she has not contributed anything even thou I haven't asked her to get anything for me She will always tell me about call cards, my phone is not good again, get me some handbags, shoes and stuffs like that All those things to be honest I always get for her just to make her happy and understand that I'm so much into her. What I have actually bought for her, I swear I have never done it to any girl in my life. Just few days ago I decided to tempt her about taking me out, she started " oh baby, I don't have no money on me " not only that, she never done anything for me since the start of the relationship. What should I do please

And he is still asking bout what to do

You are very dense....no offence

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agitator:
I have noticed that most Nigerian women exhibit that kind of behaviour. You tell them to give you space, they take it to the extreme. Tell them to give you time to read, they won't talk to you anymore. Tell them there is too much salt in the food, they stop adding salt.

They always go for the extreme. This implies that you either accept it they it is or you don't have it.

VICTOFX:
All these points are cool, but I'll advice d ladies to study their men, if u can get his communication code, uv gotten it all, communication is far more important than sex in a relationship, if u love him, uv got to know him as him, and don't go about relating with him based on some general ideas you've got abt the male folks.

And for you guys clamouring 4 sex to top the list,y wont you, wen thats all you really care 4 and wanted all the way, i don't blame you guys though, it's the ladies I'll advice to be wise,

debbie223:
Op u r rite bt nt all guys think the same as u.


Any time i give my man space say like 3-4 days without visiting or maybe i called just once a day.the next minuite he'll come straight to my house n tell me i value my work more than him.



If he does something i admire say work related m i praise him he gets angry n tell me he thinks am lying that he sees the way i tackle my work related issues that he can never compete with me.



If i tell him i like the way he dress or speak he will tell me how outspoken n how he sees my male colleagues dress dat i'm making mockery of him.Sometimes i just wish he will understand that I love him n i mean everything i say abt him.

Destinyy22:
We learn everyday. No one is perfect in a relationship, both parties should tolerate each other and learn to forgive easily too.

Yk1506:
Guys and their rules.....u do problem,u no problem,u do too much wahala.we r learning.am a new comer here!

dukeolumde:
What u said is true. I for one don't raise my hands on any woman. Thought there are other things Op didn't mention ...



MODIFIED: Beg me to tell u na...

trustyshoess:
Women want all these things too and more! A relationship is a two way street. Respect from both sides is essential. This title should be "6 essential things in a relationship". It's things like these that make some men feel justified in beating up their spouses because "she did not respect me". What happened to walking away or dumping her? Beating her up shows how disrespectful you are as well

madridsta007:
A non-nagger. You forgot to add this. Men detest nagging. Nagging is so frustrating, extremely. Especially, the types laced with sarcasm.

For most men, when the lady starts nagging, he immediately starts looking for someone else if he is unmarried. For the married ones, he starts looking for a non-nagger, a non-complainer to "rest in." A non-nagger.

That's why a man seem to move on quickly and with someone new immediately after a break-up from someone who's a champion in nagging. No, you don't understand. A man needs peace; nagging takes that peace he needs and he finds that intolerable.

Bumbae1:
Interesting

But even with all those points .. some still wont be satisfied

MzEddytan:
@op you re absolutely right. I can do anything for my man to make him happy and luv me more everyday. Thats what keeps relationship growing stronger.