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I think you’re trying too hard and you’re setting yourself up to get hurt then you’ll join the angry men’s club and start calling women names. Learn to respect yourself and others will follow suit. Never call someone you don’t know more than once. If they don’t call you back or acknowledge your efforts then move on.

That’s so cool! Pidgin is hard because it’s not just words to learn it’s a whole theatrical performance 😫

Curiosity killed the cat so let me try something 😝

Kimo21:
Dem go still repeat that black bra. Smh

What’s wrong with wearing a black bra again?

Designer perfume.

budaatum:
Mba! Mba! Mba! mikejones07, don't listen to this person!

Double0h7, abeg what is the matter with you? Why are you telling mikejones07 to cut off his d¹q? Don't you want us to read the next episode that his wife will be having twins? Be careful there and stop disturbing our entertainment please!

🤣🤣🤣

An abortion (forced) could cause serious resentments and trauma in your wife. The impact on your wife’s mental health if you push for an abortion will be devastating; especially when she is excited about the pregnancy.

I suggest having a good conversation about finances and the importance of your wife contributing to the family finance. Then you could get a vasectomy to avoid facing the same issues again.

Saybal:
she can't fulfill are dreams by herself , what a shame,she has to stressed another adult to get her dream fulfill ,men dey marry rubbish

Well she probably can fulfill her dreams by herself but she’s wants a capable man who can shoulder the responsibility of taking care of her and his children. If you want to be taken care of then find your own man ☺️.

Men take care of their parents, wife, and children with extra to spare for those around them. Pray against fear of economic hardship! Ask God to bless you abundantly so that you could be a source of hope and joy for the people around you and those God may put in your care. It’s not by pissing while standing that qualifies you as a man.

folake4u:
What the helly? 😂

What? Let the man rest! He’s worked a lifetime to secure a room over his head. ☺️

Oracleee:
But what's it with ladies and dream marriage they can't afford. Respectfully, a major red flag for me is a lady with a fantasy marriage which she expects the guy to sponsor.

That’s your choice! And it’s her choice to want what she wants. May you find your dreams and may those women find theirs.

RealityKings1:
Bio Boy don go far oh
Congrats 👏

🎊 🎉❣️

Thank you ☺️

Workch:
lol, I will resolve it the way I just did. We are renting the gown, period

Okay… so what was the point of creating this thread?

Congratulations 🎉

Best wishes! ✌️

Workch:
Renting a wedding gown is not a good compromise?
It is what it is. One need to manage women desire properly when planning for a wedding else they might ruin you. I don't care what you call it but it's fact

Technically renting the gown is not the compromise, it’s the other option: buy or rent. A good compromise would be something that requires both of you to sacrifice your options.

Are you asking whether renting a gown for your wedding day is right? Of course it’s okay because millions of people do that.

Do you want to be right or do you want to be happy? That’s what it comes down to.

This is your first test as a husband. How will you resolve this conflict?

It’s really very simple; can you afford to throw the wedding she wants? A girl looks forward to her wedding day. Yes, it’s only one day blah blah blah, but it’s her one day. I think if you down play it and make her feel stupid for wanting to celebrate you two becoming one then you’ll start your marriage with a resentful wife. How old is she?

You really need to be honest and transparent with her. Promise her an amazing one year anniversary or something so she feels special to you. Don’t turn your marriage into the battle of the sexes! Find a good compromise with your girl. What she wants isn’t out of the ordinary but you need to be honest with her and try to find a middle ground.

Now, you can retire in peace 😂

They get hard for their hand so does that mean they find their hand attractive? 😅

Fake! But let’s insult women as we do here on nl 🎊 🎉 🥳

Liquid fertiliser 2ml to 1 litre water

🎉 I’m celebrating 🥳 🎊

It’s been 10 days since I started BB on the liquid fertiliser and he has taken to it amazingly-Alhamdulilah ❣️- He’s showing new root growth and a new leaf 🍃. I was really anxious but BB just did what he does best which is to survive. He is a visual representation of change, and the power of support, love, kindness, and companionship in the process of becoming. May Allah continue to preserve him for me. Ameen 🤲.

DemonSlayer:
20 characters.
This will make the forum more interesting for everyone

This is really interesting! The dream and the reality is so different though…

JobuTupaki:
full dove therapy. nice.
Seems I will try this full range with NIVEA but na only dem cream I don use and I don't know how if their roll on and deodorant lasts long.

When you say “last long” what do you mean?
A combination of a roll on then a deodorant can hold me for up to 48 hours. Obviously I shower daily and don’t need the 48 hours hold but that’s what they are designed for. Are you noticing BO smell during your day or are you noticing sweat marks? What does lasting long look like for you?

Her shame wear me g-string 😭

I’m obsessed with the dove family: shower gel, body cream, roll on and deodorant.

budaatum:
Well, this is a first try. These had no leaves when I started, so they must be absorbing water somehow. I did put some in a dish, but they died, sadly.

I'll see how they fair, and adjust from my learning.

Ah! Okay. Then it might take longer for the roots to grow because if it’s growing leaves then it’s definitely absorbing water. I’m so excited. There’s this guy on YouTube who grows his own vegetables in his living room! He has a wall of cucumbers 😱

budaatum:
No visible roots yet. The stem just swells and absorbs water, the shorter one much better than the tall one, which looks brown and unhealthy. I'm cutting off the dead part today in fact, hoping it might thrive.

Will pot in soil once healthy roots appear.

I might be wrong but I don’t think you should put the whole branch in water for it to grow roots. You need to snap off the stem and put it in water, and it will grow roots in 7 days. Then you put it in soil. Use a small dish like a plate so the stem doesn’t sink or fasten it to a small stick 🦯 to keep the leafs afloat.

Snap off the small tree like part that’s growing off the main branch. Lol! I don’t know the correct terms for all these plant lingos 😂😂😂 I hope you understand me though 😭😭😭

budaatum:
Double0h7, I could not wait till February, and by your inspiration decided to try bitter leaf, a vegetable I love so much.

I put stalks in water mid December, and now have some leaves.

Yaaay, buda! I love this 😆😆😆

Show me the roots, have they grown?

Are you going to pot them or grow them in water?

The guy didn’t even recognise you; you called him, refreshed his memory, and then took a picture with him while dressed like a homeless beggar😭

This tickled me 😂😂😂

Forget all this; I wanna know which part of Nigeria pays dowry? What money is he returning

How much energy does cooking a meal really use? Are you guys cooking banquets? You’re not saving much money by not cooking so check where else the energy is going. Do you have a washing machine? Are you using AC? Are you leaving lights on when nobody is in the rooms? Are you watching tv/playing games/on the computer? Cooking isn’t the issue so find the issue!

budaatum:
Thank you so lovely you open my eye.

I've set February in my diary when we get sun, so expect me back then if I go missing.

Hey budaa ☺️

Just a reminder to buy yourself the best avocados and to start putting the seeds aside because February is a week away ❣️

BB says hi 👋

I’m sorry you’re experiencing this at the moment. I think the best thing to do is to redirect your attention inwards.

Show yourself love, compassion, and kindness. Take care of yourself physically, mentally and emotionally. Everything you are missing, you can give to yourself.

Focus on your own self development, set goals for yourself and enjoy the dopamine boost when you achieve them.

The world mirrors back our beliefs and thoughts, so consider what you’re putting out there. We teach people how to treat us by the way we treat ourselves. Don’t let these current feelings trick you into further self sabotage (looking for those things outside your marriage) and cause you to further hate yourself.