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kiddaz:
Good morning
Okay... Me reaching out has nothing to do with all or any of that though but I get you sha 😁

I understand.

kiddaz:
Yeah I had to travel to my home town, been a while. As for your q, I have been a bit fuzzy until now... I hope I still can though

Nice! So, you’re waking up in your family home, eating everything edible 😂. That sounds like a fun Christmas.

I would like to experience Christmas with a family so I could just observe the going ons. I think it’s no different to other religious traditions though: prayer, family, food, fun and laughter. We humans are more alike than different.

I’m volunteering at Christmas soup kitchen today. It’s somewhere for people without family to come and enjoy a warm meal, come in from the cold, have a chat and connect with other people.

kiddaz:
Welcome, I thought in that direction but... it's all good I'm just home chilling, eating everything and anything that comes my way. I'm only allowed this opportunity to indulge in binge eating once in a while. And I sent an email to you only to find out I cant even access the email attached to this account

Are you spending the day with your family?

Same! I can’t access the email either. However, my boss won’t allow side chats in our office hours 😂. I hope you’re picking up what I’m putting down! 🤣🤣🤣

folake4u:
I welcome all the Nairaland ladies to this Roundtable Discussion.

This thread is for chitchats, everything feminine, friendships, money-making opportunities(if any), useful information, and general discussions.

Shall we, Ladies?

Cc: Magnoliaa
Persephone1
Pocohantas
Cococandy
ahnie
Geminita
Alexaonfleek
mysticgal
Klass99
Farfalla
AmazonTopaz
geekybabe
Ishilove
PrimadonnaO
Please tag other females. Thank you.

RULE 1: No lady should mention a male on the thread and if a male comments, he should be ignored.

I was looking for this thread!

I just want to wish you all a merry Christmas 🎄

Double0h7:
Who else is suffering from the anti spam Bot!?

I'm getting banned and blocked for simple things like editing my previous comments. I honestly feel targeted. I'm losing my will to stay here!

I don't break ANY rules! But spam bot is banning me and deleting my comments! It's the deleting of comments that hurts more than being banned because deleting my comments (which broke zero rules) is invalidating!

It hurts more than being banned for 2 hours.

Seun.


I've been here for 10 + years.

Your juju has worked!


But your spam bot will have me leaving even though you won't let me delete my account.

I have messaged mods at every level and section complaining about the spam bot but I get band 3 times a day everyday!

For what?

Commenting?

You don't want your member to comment?

We can't edit our comments?

Seun!

Help me understand or your Juju will finally break and I will leave your website.


Keep my moniker since you won't let us deactivate.


What is happening here Seun!

I'm so sad and upset. Delete this too so I can leave your website alone... finally!!!

Damn! I was crashing out 🤣🤣🤣

kiddaz:
Thank you and I wish you the best Christmas ever.... celebrate beautifully and responsibly of course

I don’t celebrate Christmas because I’m Muslim, but thank you for the best wishes ☺️.

How are you celebrating today?

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essentialone:
A Lady is a:

L - Lazy
A - And
D - Disgusting
Y - Yanch


But as for Ladies, it is:

L - Lazy
A - And
D - Disgusting
I - Irritants
E - Emotionally
S - Sick

Mr, should I call you Mr…?

Why are you gea?

Kiddaz, Merry Christmas 🎄

FreeSpirited:
Strip club on first date.
You no be better pikin... that date only signifies the relationship is mere chop clean mouth

How is the weather up there on your high horse as you judge us mere mortals 🥸

VeraAg:
Exactly. They will mess her up. We should look at statistics and ask ourselves while they marry black woman last. They created racism so that’s not the answer. I don talk am.

You’re talking about a whole race of people like they’re monolithic. In every race you will find a mixture of people with different personalities, abilities, and disabilities.

If a white person spoke about black women the way you’re doing, you’d be the first one to shout racism but here you are!

Statistics show that relationships between white men and black women have the highest percentage of success, while black men and white have the lowest.

You don’t have to do this to be picked by Nigerian men just continue washing dishes, and clothes for every man you lay down with; one of them will put you out your misery and choose you!

You can’t touch the dancers before the bouncers play you like basketball 🏀 and bounce you outside. It’s a nice atmosphere. I’ve been to a strip club on a first date. It’s no different to a good club just that the ladies where less when they dance. Op, be honest you just don’t want your girl to cramp your style. 😏

kiddaz:
Interesting. No wonder. I always wanted to meet a Somali girl, same with Ethiopian, Rwandan and Ugandan girls...

You’ve gotta make your way to East Africa then! The weather, food, and the people are amazing! I want to visit Rwanda someday soon and Tanzania too. Beautiful countries! So green, hot sun and cool breeze because it’s so green.

DemonSlayer:
You wey know! 😄
Tuwon shinkafa with miyan taushe particularly.

Rice and stew must dey, that one na constant K. Masa too go dey. Chin chin and zobo na the snack of the season oo.

I need pictures for all these! Except the masa, I think that’s the only one you’ve shown me. Do these dishes have English names or equivalent?

☺️

In my culture a married woman doesn’t sleep anywhere but her bed. This modern day madness has levels!

My parents gave birth to us like hehehehehe 😆

thisisit:
were is AIREGIN? the biggest big for nothing black nation

* where not were 😩

Olive4570:
After what I passed through in relationship first I trained my sef through med skool nd my ex through health skool brought her from village to asaba find job for her nd rent house infact made her comfortable what its my gain now wen suppose to enjoy my ex leave me tag me toxic cus the church wen I introduced her to she don see men for house on the rock lol she left me im doing fine my sef though bt my heart can never love again I see all women as betrayal i can only be a baby daddy I will never marry im only after spoiling other people love relationship so they will feel my pain also if I drive or see couple that are very much in love I will try my possible best I will always put issues in that relationship I will try to end it with my money nd resources I will mk sure they feel my pain after that I will move on the next aside my job nd business my vow its to end relationship especially those couple that re truly I love.

You could barely string together a coherent sentence, but we should believe that you went through medical school?

Nairaland is full of mad people 😂😂😂

essentialone:
Have you taken time to go through Facebook? Comments from ladies both married and singles, makes me wonder how they still pray to get married. It's a cold war declared on men, as in their war is tagged We vs Them kind of War. It's toxic. You wonder what mental baggage these ladies go into marriage with. I hear they even have a group called Di Gbaka Oku. Whatever that means.

Mate! Get off the internet and go touch grass!

TrenchesPreeq:
2 and 4 years. Omo I dey fear you and Charis. Na real James Bond double 007 you go be once you catch am. Sha I get new year resolution for you. 2026, you go end this your stint... award no dey o😩

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣!

Obierika:
How.many black women have you actually seen with white men?

Countless women. I didn’t count them but it’s not out of the ordinary to see them abroad.

Charis15:
Thanks dear.
I think this is exactly what I needed.
To me this is the best advice I have gotten here.
Believe me those words calmed me so much.

Maybe you were ovulating that day and you picked up on his pheromones, he was a healthy man and your biology took over. If you see him again with clear eyes, you might change your mind.

Omg! It just happened to me 😂 I’m ovulating and I just caught eyes with a healthy specimen of a man and my insides moved! I looked back and caught him looking back and I felt 🔥 💥. It’s all biological.

kiddaz:
Na wah ooh 2 years 👀
Like I said it's not impossible but... Well, it's even more possible for you that resides outside the shores of naija especially if you haven't been there that long to mingle enough to trust someone for that. But two years is long oooh how do you cope when the hormones are raging cos it's natural?

I’ve lived here my whole life. I just let them (hormones) rage it’s only a few days a month. I don’t wake up with a woody 😂. I’ve gone 4 years during my undergraduate studies, that was my longest stint. The fear of diseases is the beginning of wisdom.

kiddaz:
So you're not a virgin but you have been celibate for over twelve months right

I’ve been abstaining from sex for 2 years come January. Some people can control their bodies rather than their bodies controlling them.

toboizilla:
Where you Dey see them? better set your priorities right else you have yourself to blame.
A stubborn always end up …. Be warned

🤫🤫🤫
Let me hear beta people talk.

Globad:
Wait, are you okay?

If you’re looking for sense, you’re on the wrong thread 😂

Wow! So all these black women with white men that I see daily are all ghosts 😱😱😱

ManknowThyself:
That's life karma:

At the restaurant of karma, everything is free cos they already know what to serve you with what you sowed.

Some do carry it to the next generation before getting it back, that's why some driver bl**ping his boss wife.

There is a great force behind life and it's all about energy.

Energy can never be created neither be destroyed but can only be transformed from one form to another.
Life itself is a mystery of energies
It's sacred

I respect your beliefs 🫶

SpaceX:
"My uncle got his stipend- 7 million after working for 35 years"

Sorry is that including his wages? So it’s like a severance package? Thank you for taking the time to help me understand 🫶

Tenrack:
lmao. You're not in love. Quit deceiving yourself. Na Dubai and Amsterdam wey you hear dey make you even more interested. I'm pretty sure you have a bf currently. I fear who no fear Una. I can imagine how many things have ran through your mind, how you're gonna have babies for him and elope with him to Europe. Lol wake up abeg.

You’re the grinch of Xmas 🤣🤣🤣

What is 7 mete?

What is stip end mean?

I don’t understand the thread, please explain 🙇‍♀️