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ManknowThyself:
LoL.

Real men don't bed other men wife's.
It's only low self esteem men that does that, marriage is sacred to God and never be the reason breaking of another man home or marriage.

In a nutshell!!!!!!

You might think you smart laying other people's wife, just remember God will use even men not up to your standard to lay with your wife. There's no two ways about it.

Life experience from my school days, big man when they lay with he driver wife out of help.
The wife discovered through the driver with evidence and start bleeping the driver and got pregnant.


As a man, not matter the lust never lay with a married woman neither your wife friends.

Hmmmm. Why would God use an innocent wife to punish a sinful husband? The punishment for adultery isn’t more adultery!

AI mod got you speaking proper Henglish 🤣🤣🤣

DemonSlayer:
Jollof for Christmas? Since when?

What do you have instead?

Let me guess: swallow? 😁

marlow1962:
Which one is victim mentality? Did I tell you or have you seen me forcing myself on somebody?
I no cun dy understand the way una take dy comment for here o

I was responding to the message not the messenger 🫵🥜😝

marlow1962:
Women love bad guys and toxic guys.
Kpons her, give her dark ring light around one of her eyes and she will still be down with you, as longs you got money, handsome or other women wants you.

But if you treat her well,don't love violence, love her well, never stands the sight of cheating, don't talk to other woman, she's always free with your phone, you got nothing to hide from her, you always talk about the future and how to progress, you don't bam bam, you don't shilibolobolo, you don't pablo yourself, don't go to club and so sort of other bs, you're just kind,responsible and caring, "man you boring af". Even if you got money and still handsome (my nigha you boring af)

Those creatures are weird. They make a good man turn nasty and later complain there's no more good men.

Victim mentality at its finest. Maybe stop forcing yourself on women who don’t want you. She wants all those things but not you. Instead of being with your league you run around “conquering” women who told you no! And then cry foul because she won’t be the virgin Madonna! We need to go back to when our parents decided our mates because too many children are masquerading as adults.

KobolanderSegun:
Fine Girl, wishing you a day with Tickling. Happy Tickling Tuesday

I wish you a day filled with laughter too🤭

Kcash200:
Thanks i will look into the therapy as i really want to be with someone and build a family for myself too.

You’ll benefit greatly! I wish you peace and joy 🫶

Mikocake:
Amen. Good people are very rare, but if you’re lucky to have one in your life, don’t fumble it.

💯 🫶

Well, I guess it’s time to put your foot down. You’re not a donkey so stop acting like one. If you are the breadwinner, then you should be the one who decides how the bread is shared. Take back control of your finances. Close that account and move the funds into a savings account with only your signature since it’s only your money going in. Stand up for yourself because nobody will have mercy on you.

Set boundaries: “this is what I can afford (.) this is what I can do (.) this is what I need, and if you can’t provide it then this is what I won’t allow (.).”

Be the head of your home. Your family must live in a house that you can afford, eat the food that you can afford, go to the schools that you can afford. If your wife wants more then she’ll have to be able to afford those things she wants.

If you continue going the way things are going then your marriage will break down and your daughter will suffer the consequences. Be the man of your house. No be by penis ooo but actions and decisions make a man. But what do I know! I’m just sipping sauce 🙇‍♀️

My beautiful sis in law (ex now), and my best friend. My brother married the sister I needed (then fumbled the bag 😔). For the last 25 years, she’s been a friend, a sister, and a mother figure to me.

She pulls me out of my darkest moments, and this year she’s been her amazing self as usual. I struggled with my health this year: mental and physical health, and she’d surprise me with gifts just to lift my spirits. She’d have food shopping, takeaways, deserts; just because! all delivered to me. She’s obsessed with surprises so these things would just arrive out of the blue.

May The Most High; guide, protect, preserve, and honour her for me: Ameeeen 🤲

You’re only as sick as the secrets you keep.

Your mother was not the best wife or mother, and the fault lands squarely at her feet. You and your dad are the victims of her selfish actions. What was done to you was abusive. You were a child and had no business holding that kind of burden.

As for your gf, I don’t think you need tell any woman about your personal trauma. Maybe you’re not ready for marriage just yet because whether you accept it or not you’re traumatised. Maybe, look into getting therapy before you consider marriage because this pain will bleed into your relationships with women.

You may even attract a woman who has your mother’s characteristics. You really need to unpack this FOR YOURSELF and once you make peace with it then you can work from a place of healing. Right now; IMHO, getting married and bringing children into the mix is a risky decision.

Some men are drawing hair on😱

I bet he’s afraid of a wet wipe 😏

This made me so sad. Where is the love, loyalty, compassion for another human being?! Let alone your wife and the woman who brought your children into the world. But, humanity isn’t lost because look what strangers were able to do for another human being. Faith in humanity is undefeated. This is life.

ManknowThyself:
Respect and more respect for you

The beast in him will rise this week, all he needed was advice and motivation.
That's empathy for you

I hope he learns from his experiences rather than becoming the victim of them. You’re very kind and I appreciate your presence on nl. 🫶

Rynny:
She moved in with me, the relationship is messing with my mental health, I can’t concentrate like she literally gets pissed at every little thing, stuffs couple laugh over she gets pissed and flips and start been insultive and saying all manner of hash words, even when I say it ok she keeps talking. So has portrayed this attitude even while we went out sometime, cos I went to get an item I asked her to wait for me, cos I had to delay a bit, when I got back you needed to see the way she be yelling …… and talking a lot of stuffs. I felt embarrassed and Omo… I honestly don’t have an exit strategy, am so tired…

So, why won’t you end the relationship?

Have you lost confidence in your ability to find someone better? It’s better to be alone than to be lonely and abused in a relationship. When you’re ready nobody will tell you to leave. You haven’t suffered enough yet…

None. Nothing.💀

Did she move in with you or did you move in with her?

Is she violent? There’s a lot to consider when breaking up with someone you live with. Depending on the health of a relationship, breaking up could be the most dangerous thing to do if you don’t have an exit strategy.

People still throwing around the word friend so loosely 🥱

infogenius:
Bros, I’ll keep it real and straight with u.

U met her through hookup, u pimped her to other men, she featured in ur adult content, did orgy, threesomes, girl-on-girl, smokes… and now u want to turn her into wife next year because she says she’ll stop everything?

Here’s the hard truth:
1 She fits ur “spec” sexually because u’ve seen (and sold) the extreme version. That excitement is not the same as wife material. Wife material brings peace, respect, and stability, not a past that will haunt both of u.

2 People can change, yes. But real change takes time, not “last month I stopped.” Marriage is not the magic that fixes deep habits.
If smoking and hookup were her lifestyle for years, the test is not one month—it’s years of consistency.

3 Imagine ur family finds out (and they will—one day, one video or one ex go leak am). Imagine ur kids grow up and someone shows them mummy’s past. Imagine u wake up one day and the old memories start to eat u.

4 U’re having double mind for a reason. Listen to that voice. It’s not weakness; it’s wisdom speaking.

My advice:
 Don’t marry her out of pity, guilt, or “she’s my spec.”
If u truly love her, give it 1–2 more years.

Let her prove the change outside marriage. Build something clean. If she stays consistent, then consider it.

But rushing into marriage now? That one na recipe for regret.
 U deserve peace, not constant doubt.


Choose wisely, king.

Ur future self go thank u. 🙏

What do you think of “King pimple?”

Would you be happy with him marrying your sister?

Op is a perfect frequency match for his spec and that’s what he deserves. What amazing woman who gives peace and 1k yard wife material deserves “King pimple?”

I guess his receipts won’t hold up in court. The husband didn’t appreciate that and called his bluff. Some men of nowadays lack honour. He is basically telling the world that he mixes with prostitutes. He is no better than her since he is found in her company. Zero shame.

This is a weird time that we’re living through, because there is a very vocal minority who don’t like the opposite gender but won’t join the rainbow 🌈 and love whoever they want. This goes for both genders. I’m starting to believe that there’s an agenda at work.

Future leaders of Africa; I greet you 😒

Why did this tickle me LOL 😂

Whooo is arguing with you? 🤣

DMCA:
I can make ya legs shake

I guess you just want me to block you… am I filling up your FG tab? See you in 3 weeks ✌️

DMCA:
do u like nigerian cucumber?

You’ve started again?

chudez0147:
Hey. Compliments of the season.
He chatted him up informed him that he had a special gift for him , but the big man didn’t want to say anything on how to collect the gift , all he kept telling him on voice note messages is God bless you.
What should he do next ?

The man may not want the gift… he might feel it’s a conflict of interest; to get your friend a job and to accept a gift is a thin line between bribery and gratitude. Maybe he should leave it at that. Read between the lines because he can’t refuse a gift outright (to not offend) but he also doesn’t need anything from your friend.

Also, some people are superstitious and don’t accept gifts from people they don’t know for whatever reasons they believe in. I would ask one last time and emphasise that I want to appreciate him and give him a Christmas gift. Don’t talk about the job… if he doesn’t accept it and tell your friend where to meet him then he doesn’t want anything so your friend has to respect that and just thank the man and move on.

DemonSlayer:
Yo!!

Look how beautiful he is ❣️❣️❣️

Rhymesy:
Have been dating this particular babe for 5 months now. Ever since she comes into my life, everything in me is not stable again. I started experiencing unnecessary hatred. Things in my place of work have not been going well. I will gather money planning to execute a particular plan but all of a sudden the money will just vanished without anything necessary. Setback have been the order of the day ever since she came. What should I do?

The unnecessary hate; how is it connected to her?

Your workplace; are you losing focus because your mind is on what she does or needs?

The money disappearing: are you spending more money because you’re buying gifts, spending on outings, is she living with you thus increasing the cost of your daily expenses?

If you’re implying a spiritual/change in luck etc then that’s irrational but if there is physical evidence that being in this relationship is costing you more than you could afford to give then move on with your life.

However, if things outside yours and hers control are happening then that’s just life! You win some and you lose some. These testing times are meant to highlight the quality of your relationship.

Is she supportive during your hardship?

Can she bring you peace while the storms of life are passing?

🎶🎼🎵🎼🎶

I don't want a lot for Christmas
There is just one thing I need
I don't care about the presents underneath the Christmas tree
I just want you for my own
More than you could ever know
Make my wish come true
All I want for Christmas is you
Yeah
I don't want a lot for Christmas
There is just one thing I need (and I)
Don't care about the presents underneath the Christmas tree
I don't need to hang my stocking there upon the fireplace
Santa Claus won't make me happy with a toy on Christmas Day
I just want you for my own
More than you could ever know
Make my wish come true
All I want for Christmas is you
You, baby
Oh, I won't ask for much this Christmas
I won't even wish for snow (and I)
I'm just gonna keep on waiting underneath the mistletoe
I won't make a list and send it to the North Pole for Saint Nick
I won't even stay awake to hear those magic reindeer click
'Cause I just want you here tonight
Holding on to me so tight
What more can I do?
Oh, baby, all I want for Christmas is you
You, baby
Oh-oh, all the lights are shining so brightly everywhere (so brightly, baby)
And the sound of children's laughter fills the air (oh, oh, yeah)
And everyone is singing (oh, yeah)
I hear those sleigh bells ringing
Santa, won't you bring me the one I really need? (Yeah, oh)
Won't you please bring my baby to me?
Oh, I don't want a lot for Christmas
This is all I'm asking for
I just wanna see my baby standing right outside my door
Oh, I just want you for my own
More than you could ever know
Make my wish come true
Oh, baby, all I want for Christmas is you
You, baby
All I want for Christmas is you, baby
All I want for Christmas is you, baby
All I want for Christmas is you, baby
All I want for Christmas (all I really want) is you, baby
All I want (I want) for Christmas (all I really want) is you, baby
🎶🎼🎵🎼🎶🎶

Bwilliam:
You're showing signs of arrested development, like you're still not fully mentally matured, stuck at an age wherein abuse/trauma took place.
I hope you begin your healing journey, Sis.

You keep projecting what you are/were lacking in your life on me - Food: "Have you eaten this morning?"
It feels like growing up, having what to eat was a major struggle for you.

I'm currently at the top of Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Feel free to google it.

Man said Google Maslow 😂😂😂😂

Okay, you’re right. Can we move on now?