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RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 3:14pm On Feb 09, 2016
daxlasaint:
.... and i bet you those two friends would recommend her to a third friend... puff puff pass tinz grin.... #startuphoe
Darling, she is trying to achieve a goal not establish a careerundecided
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 3:13pm On Feb 09, 2016
Cheechy:
No This has nothing to do with religion for me. It is is the principle of self worth..... she is trading her body and dignity for what?.....

Most women are wired differently from men....they value/view their body/sex is very differently from men ohhh...........
What self-worth? I don't know how most of your view the society but as for me, I cannot be bothered. In fact I have no idea who the society is therefore the theory of self-worth is alien to me when I consider Premarital sex. I believe there are different sides to every individual and you react/behave differently when you interact with other people. Unless you are popular I can't see why self-worth or reputation would be importantsad. You do your thing and move on.


Society has wired women and men differently, which means you can wire yourself to be differentsmiley. However that does not negate the fact that there are women who have little in common with stereotypessmiley

Personally, I have a very dynamic personality which makes it hard for me to agree with certain norms.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Ladies Should Learn From Their Foreign Other. by doveda: 2:33pm On Feb 09, 2016
Greene66:
So i have observed Nigerian women for so many years and i see that indeed, their foreign other are much better. No i am talking about hollywood nope, i mean for real. See:

Comparisons Between A Foreign Lady & A Nigerian Lady:

1.) A Nigerian lady would friendzone you for backup. Whilst dating some other and still keep you friendzoned incase it doesn;t work with her current date then she falls back to you. In business, we call this, Redundancy.

- But a foreign lady, she would let you know, she has someone already, and set you free to move on with your life not friendzoning you cool

2) A Nigerian lady would tell you 'no sex' in your relationship, in the end, she is not a virgin. It means she is banging one dude for what? 2k recharge card

- A foreign lady will let you know, she aint virgin, but she doesnt just want to bang you! Its much better than that of the 9ja women cool

3) A nigerian lady will have sex with your best friend just to hurt you... Funny enough it doesnt hurt. It only means on thing.... shes a hoe.

- A foreign lady don't need to do that, If you cheat on her, and you are sincerely sorry and prove to change your ways, she would forgive you and you both continue, then if it happens again, she moves on. Not rocking your friend. undecided

4) You have no job, a Nigerian lady would friendzone you on the spot. OR, just reject/dump you once she realize you aint got a job.

- A Foreign lady, wont mind supporting you(if she has a job) whilst you are seeking one. She wont mind carrying copy of your CVs around for you to places she knows. Thats a wife material (A Supporter). Its only when you show signs of not willing to work, then she dumps you. Thats ok.

5) A Nigerian lady would reply kk, k, ok, kk, kkkkkkk after 5 hours to your messages, when you send a recharge card, she replies 'God Bless You. Is it MTN or Etisalat? ' immediately.

- A foreign lady, yeah, she might be busy, may not reply on time, and even if reply kk kkk, when you send her anything of monetary value, she blocks you instantly. That proves she aint after your money or recharge card. I have personally tried this with over 20 ladies in Australia.

6) A Nigerian lady is fake, yes, fake.. Fake hair.. Fake Face, Fake Skin(Bleach), Fake everything... Fake boobs(Pads) ... yuck

- A foreign lady, is original. Yeah! Her hair is real, she can go in water with it perfectly, her face is real, she doesn't need any cream, and yeah, foreign ladies have natural endowment. The one who doesn't have wont fake it. Because she knows there are dudes who like her that way. Thats what we call self-esteem cool

7) A Nigerian lady will slap you if she is in military for calling her beautiful even when she no fine oooo...

- A foreign military cadet would not only appreciate you, but, also, you stand a chance at dating her. 9ja different.. shioor huh

8-) Nigerian ladies are too religious... S.Us and the thing is, they are comiting all sorts of sins everyday. You will see, many will get pregnant this valentine.

- A foreign lady aint got no sh!t with religion, she just does her thing. cool

In wande coal's voice "... I think i should stop here"

My dear Nairalanders, all i can say in conclusion, is:

Keep Calm, and Love Foreign Girls.
Ode!!!
PoliticsRe: Gun Men Blow Up AGIP Pipe-line In Rivers by doveda: 12:09pm On Feb 09, 2016
terrymason:
and the foolish culprit should use arms abi?
grin
PoliticsRe: Gun Men Blow Up AGIP Pipe-line In Rivers by doveda: 12:09pm On Feb 09, 2016
Arrest them all

If you can't find them, grab every member of their familiessad
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 12:05pm On Feb 09, 2016
cosmicrayboi:
my friends are ever ready to receive a Bleep, and we always discuss about it, we dont forget to mount cameras and videos too.. since u wanna Bleep, other pipo will watch too wink
What is this one blabbing about?
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:31am On Feb 09, 2016
Misterdhee1:
Madam, but cwiosly all your comments so far have only been able to confirm how much dignified u are as a lady. Pray u av a daughter, with ur kinda mentality!
I pray I have a daughter that thinks like me

If my daughter turns out to be different, foster home it is tongue
RomanceRe: How Can I Do Valentine With My Babe With N5000? Help! by doveda: 8:25am On Feb 09, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
don't start. Talk joor
Tiritongue
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 8:24am On Feb 09, 2016
AustinBlinks:
Oh really? that's not cheap??
God! why do people lack dignity so much.
Yea he'll probably get hurt... den what ?both he and his friend and everyone that knew about it would consider her as a smart girl or a slut?? look around friend... people her losing potential hubby and wifey bcuz of smtin dey did in d past dt dey tot wud stay in the past but turns out someone knows somebody who knows someone that knows people..... all of a sudden the whole tin pops out.how u gon explain to anybody saying you slept with two friends just for revenge? So i thinkin of marrying her in the future would hear this story, my first thought is, what if i have a misunderstanding with my wife will she probably get even by sleeping with our neighbor??
I don't believe that hubby shitundecided. She must be stupid to let that happen.

Some women have done worse yet nothing happened (speaking from personal experience), it is going to affect her life is she is stupid to let it.

Why are you so worried about her? Leave her be! Na her headache!
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 8:20am On Feb 09, 2016
Mindfulness:
And you want to see the face for what reason exactly?
Satisfactionsad
RomanceRe: How Can I Do Valentine With My Babe With N5000? Help! by doveda: 1:18am On Feb 09, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
smiley wink smiley thanks


But wait, how many accounts only you one get? shocked
lipsrsealed
RomanceRe: How Can I Do Valentine With My Babe With N5000? Help! by doveda: 12:56am On Feb 09, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
Doveda
Great repliessmiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:39pm On Feb 08, 2016
ronald4lif:
I may have but non that I know of. Most people have been cheated on but it's only the ones who were caught that are slammed cheats.

Married women infidelity what? Make them try am nau, we go know who paid bride price. undecided
How you go take know?tongue
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:30pm On Feb 08, 2016
doyinisaac:
he has feelings her for her and he still went ahead to sleep with her friend and you say such a guy have "feelings"?? feelings come with love and respect...
That is your own definition. That is what should be but it isn't true for all relationships
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:28pm On Feb 08, 2016
ronald4lif:
Take me serious at your own risk o lol.

The thing is, I'm being pragmatic and very real when it comes to sexual discourse, not that I indulge or crazy about it.

Fact is, a lot of men can't stick to one woman and won't hesitate in most cases to grab a stunning lady even when married or in a committed relationship but hate to admit it. But disaffirmation and denial isn't reality.

My consistent garrulity in coitús topics shouldn't be mistaken for sexual immoderation.
Hmmmmm

Ermmmmm...... Have you ever been cheated on?smiley

When you get married, we shall discuss married women's fidelitysmiley.
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:20pm On Feb 08, 2016
doyinisaac:
if she is not a booty call then why will the guy mess with her in the first place??the guy has treated her like shit already...
Oh please, I am not stupid

He might have slept with her friend however that does not mean that he does not have feelings for her.
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:18pm On Feb 08, 2016
Cheechy:
for precisely how long ?...4 mins? 5 ?


She doesn't need emotional attachment!!!


My point is it's a waste of her body ........ she has no investment in the act beyond proving a "pointless"point....... which has minimal returns.

Her revenge is to move ON and GET a BETTER PERSON (at least one who will treat her witha modicum of respect)... Revenge is to LIVE BETTER & HAPPIER!!
He is going to be hurt deeply!!!

If we were using religion, I would concur with you but we are not. Therefore it is not a waste of her body so far she is able to hurt himsmiley. What exactly is worthy about sex or vagina or her body?undecided

I agree that the best course of action is to move on however if it is what she wants and she is ready to face the consequencessmiley, good for hersmiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:13pm On Feb 08, 2016
doyinisaac:
the question is after sleeping with his friend ,what's next??trust me it depends on how the guy sees the lady,hope you know that some guys will make a lady to feel he loves her but deep down he is looking at her as a prostitute..such guy will not get hurt if she sleeps with his friend because it was all a GAME to him...
She moves on.

Feelings or no feelings he is going to get hurt except if she is just a booty call ( but then you never can tell)
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:08pm On Feb 08, 2016
doyinisaac:
you are talking about 50% theory and 50% practical,am talking about real life experiences....no be we guys dey put our dick inside the p*ussy?? we are the ones that can do the right measurement of whatever biology says...grin...come here make I teach you biology...grin
I am talking about theory and practical!

She needs abstinence from sex for about a week or so (depends on her body)
Kegal exercise
And/Or vagina weights

smiley smiley

Welcome to the 21st century
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:03pm On Feb 08, 2016
Cheechy:
SHE IS BLOODY STUPID!!!...........




her own is to dash free market ( no investment , no commitment) to prove what ? to who?

If he gave a shit would he have left you? So why should he feel bad huh

...amazing!
He is going to feel badundecided

She doesn't need emotional attachment!!!
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 11:00pm On Feb 08, 2016
doyinisaac:
Joke of the year...go and ask ex oloshos whether it became tight as a virgin...grin
What did you have in biology? F9?

Google is your friendsmiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:59pm On Feb 08, 2016
ronald4lif:
They don't have to be as good as her for me to lust and shag them if it becomes available. undecided
Yeah right

Seems like you were baptised with lipsrsealed

What is so crazy about it?
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:58pm On Feb 08, 2016
Femco2016:
she just did herself.... A rod remains a rod,unlike a plastic passage that can expand with time....hope u understand my pointhuh
Actually your point is quite lipsrsealed!!!

Unless she has given birth before (which is not a problem if she is active), her vagina can still be tighter than a virgin'ssmiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:56pm On Feb 08, 2016
doyinisaac:
And what happens to the lady self esteem??what happens when the two friends start telling everyone how they both f*ucked her and how she is cheap??at the end of the day,the question is who loses more at the end of the day??who get the p*ussy wey dem turn to borehole??what happens to her after discovering that the friend of her bf is taking advantage of the situation and calling her a slut??
Who is going to call her a slut?undecided It is not like they will say it to her face even if they did she would be stupid to burn herself for it!!


Have you forgotten that vagina is made up of muscles. It would become as tight as a virgin within the twinkle of an eyesmiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:45pm On Feb 08, 2016
Cutehector:
i really pity for u i swear.
smiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:43pm On Feb 08, 2016
emmijes3:
even if it does, he won't make a big ish out of it. Guy's think differently from gals mehn...
Mehn I know men very well

Mehn, they think differently and he might not make a big deal but he is going to be hurt deep!
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:32pm On Feb 08, 2016
Cutehector:
if he had feelings for her, he would not hav broken her heart!


It's like u ladies dnt still get it... do u think most boyfrnds hav feelings for their girlfrnds? cool

Gosh..
Why do you love to.lie to yourselves and your 1-year old girls?

He is going to hurt, feelings or not!
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:09pm On Feb 08, 2016
AustinBlinks:
I doubt any guy would hurt over a slut. if a gurl can cheaply give her body out that way, it only makes a guy sure he was actually right for leaving a b*tch in the first place. you seem so much in support of the idea, looks like you'll probably try it out yourself.
What is cheap about it?undecided

God! Why do some people think like undecided

He is going to get hurt. Stop trying hard to sound smart
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:05pm On Feb 08, 2016
abbey621:
There will always be exceptions but majority of women care more about their dignity than getting back at a guy. Most women love attention but not the bad type cheesy
Definitely not me if I were into itsmiley
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:04pm On Feb 08, 2016
Mindfulness:
Revenge is the result of hurt feelings. May she find a way to heal.
You think?

As for me it depends, most times I just want to see that face and that reaction when you realise that person cannot take what he has given... pure bliss kiss.
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:02pm On Feb 08, 2016
Hadassahisbae:
it's only gon hurt d boy if he gat feelings 4 her.
Nope

It is going to hurt him all the same
RomanceRe: A Girl's View Of Payback. What Do You Think?! by doveda: 10:01pm On Feb 08, 2016
captainmuyi:
Well Bleep em all I don't care
A hoe will always be a hoe just like mother

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