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Come on, I am not the one who got knocked up to have esteem issues. *rollseyes*

Contest might have ended months ago but what you did to her would always stay with her.


Yes right, I shouldn't have brought this up again. I have been asked to let you go. I hope you have learnt your lessons. You are forgiven.

Mimzyy:
For as long as i can recollect, you have been an attention-seeking psycho. A contest that ended months ago is still giving you nightmares? I weep for you. Pray, tell, how did i sell my integrity? Even when the final result was obviously manipulated, i accepted it. You blow hot and cold at the same time, are you suffering from personality disorder? It is not my fault that your life is boring and pathetic. You go about offline saying crap even when you know nothing about me.

So much for your "Busy as a bee" life. If you have got nothing better to do with your time, i suggest you go and work on your self-esteem and stop allowing your inferiority complex to get the better of you. I'll keep praying for you.

PS; Rave and rant all you want, i'll not grace you with a response again.

I have seen, read and heard enough human atrocities to know that humanity is a joke.

Mimzyy, I may be willing to let go if you apologised to Lanicky.

someone asked me to let go. And I am primarily because I will be busy as a bee. But you have to apologise to that babe. You are no miss goody two shoes. For N50, 000, you sold your integrity and acted like a hypocrite. You better apologize ma

Hi Mimzyy, please don't think you can come back and act like nothing happened.


I will always hold what you did over you.

You can tell this one is POOR and have extremely LOW SELF ESTEEM

mikolo80:
we don't think they are inferior or our slaves but if you chop moni there is a price to play.
If you don't like then don't chop, simple
How will you like it if an impotent guy deceiver you into marriage

Like your mama?

How high will you jump joor?

oyetpel:
kitten

How high will you jump if Donal Trump says ‘Hey baboon, jump!"

oyetpel:
Exactly my thoughts, vote Trump and stay out of other countries welfare. Australia is a good examples, the paradise country. Make America great again.

So it is okay to turn your wife into housegirl inside her own house

bennyrazz:
that you wash your wife's cloths or do house chores with her, is your prerogative. Everyman manages his house the way he deems it fit. I just hope you are able to continue what you started. Do not get to the middle and start looking back. And for those on here criticizing him, he has every right to do whatever he chose to do but my own is do not try to mislead people about how they manage their wives. Some women, you give them one yard, they take a mile and turn you to houseboy inside your own house. Just saying sha. @op, last word of advice, after you finish washing your wife's clothes, request for her undies also to complete the job done.

Abi o

eyinjuege:
Na so....
I wonder why a lot of people get bothered about doing house chores where they live, and also dropping money for utilities, rent etc to run their family, and even childcare.
Marriage should always be a joint effort for true happiness to prevail. Everyone should learn to be responsible for themselves.
Men should learn to take care of their basic needs, and women should learn to pay their bills.
If you did all these before marriage, it wouldn't be such a big deal after the marriage when you both combine resources and effort.
The main thing is achieving the common goal.

Hustling is hustling Mr man

Ranchhoddas:
Abeg make we hear word!! People from privileged backgrounds always like to delude themselves that there is something they are doing right that the people at the other end of the spectrum are not doing. Are you trying to tell us that your 'Rothschild' background had nothing to do with whatever it is you have achieved? You see those people that you and your ilk love to deride as lazy and slothful, subject them to the same conditions you were (financial, consanguine and otherwise) and see if they would not achieve the same thing you have and even more. Your comment is actually an insult to the real hustlers- you don carry 'kpon-kpon' before? Na so DJ Cuppy go come tell us say she self dey hustle hard. I'll advise you to read Ecclesiastes 9:11 and meditate upon it before you type yeye things like this.

Too bad you didn't see the last thread, if you had you would agree with everyone here. And I wouldn't want enumerate those things again . I mean the events that transpired after the first guy.


What she needs now is a mentor with lots of tough love to give (TV01, I want you to pluck your eyes at the bolded)

tearoses:
We cant argue
We can discuss

You haven't really given specific examples on her being pampered
The old thread is thrashed and to be honest I cant remember the majority of it
People have pointed to other threads where she wanted to exchange sexual favours for cash

Is that being pampered?
selling your body for money?
Do you know how dirty and dehumanised that must make her feel?

I just want to fully understand where this enjoys being pampered stems from
I would not want to swap lives with her, so I am trying to understand how she is having it easy
She was with a man up until 3 months ago
if the man hadnt fecked up and done a runner on her/abused her, she wouldn't be here.

I think we are punishing her for her misdemeanours 2 years ago
No doubt she made another wrong choice of man number 2

DId I read somewhere that man number one was a drug dealer and was jailed
or have I confused this story with another one?

TV01,

1) I have always stopped myself from giving you a befitting reply with every one of your illogical opinions. I eventually did and I was COURTEOUS but you decided not to respect yourself.
2)I never claimed to be anything and I will never be whatever you so badly wish that I am. Please stop deluding yourself sir, I believe you are still too young to be going s........ sir!
3)If you had tried to be snide with me, I would have replied in you kind! I don't do Agbayas.
4) You are so sanctimonious that you stink of it. You are so full of it, man. You can do us all a favour, shove it where the sun doesn't shine.
5) Until you have had to deal with this type of shit, please hold your peace.


You should have stopped the first time you replied me.....you are too petty for an adult sir and I am still young to indulge in pettiness!


You are welcome.

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Osmondinho:
For the zombies... if this video can't convince you that you elected analog computer in the era of digital computer, sorry I can't help you.

In fact, even Jesus can't do anything on you again, you need Jesus papa, only him can save you.


cattle~herder~in~chief (dullard of Duara)

You are either a very bad liar or an ignoramus!

The answer is not evil spirit joor. Na the price of corruption at work biko

You are still not getting what he is trying to say


Skirts

In Scotland, it is usual to see men wearing skirt even for formal events like graduation or ball. That particular skirt is specifically for their men because it is considered for men.


Braids

I have come across a picture in a history textbook about Africa where the men braid their hair. It was so much of a culture that they go to great length to care for the hair. In this community, braids is considered a male thing.

lexiconkabir:
No Ahlus sunnah shaykh will criticize you for keeping your hair, rather you will be criticized for styling it like a woman, which includes braiding.

if we are to use your culture argument, then braiding of the hair for men would be bad here in Nigeria because nobody will regard you as responsible individual for braiding your hair.

Islam did not come to eradicate culture rather it came to purify culture from corruption, so any culture that contradicts Islam is discarded

also it is clearly stated that there will come a time where shaytan makes the good look bad and the bad look good

You are a fvcking liar.


Human beings have always been ungrateful, man or woman. Deal with it.

ABJ4Real:
From time immemorial, women are known to have bitten the fingers that fed them, but the intensity at which they continue to bite those fingers today is worrisome. Why they are wired like this beats all imaginations.
Men should always realize that a woman's critical nature doesn't disappear on her wedding day. Rather, the potential of becoming a demon or monster increases. As male leadership in marriage today is seen as 'unmerited and unwarranted dominion' which must be resisted, marriage will continue to be slavery for men. Especially men in the U.S.A. Unfair as the situation may be, that is what the society has painted.
While condemning the brutal murders, women should be mindful of their excessive expectations and men should not allow emotion to destroy all they have laboured for. Also, some men need to stop thinking with their dicks. Please use brain.

Yes, if you are satisfied with this result but I suggest you write next year's JAMB simply because this one was ridiculed with a number of anomalies. Universities may be partial to it.

Holyfield1:
Someone should please explain this to me in simple term
As I wrote JAMB this year scored 247 and no admission, meaning I do not have to write JAMB next year abi?

How are they too soft?

He is not used to chilli, it is normal for him to react to it.

As for mosquito bites, it can actually kill. Give me a person that grew up in Makoko area, moved to a malaria free environment for some years, perhaps visit Nigeria once a year, then one year he gets bitten by malaria infecting mosquito and refuses to treat it as soon as possible, it should amaze you to know that the man may likely die within a week or temporary/permanently have to deal with neurological complications for the rest of his life.

rawpadgin:
all the expatriate for our work dey drink pepper soup like water

most oyinbos are too soft

same way Man United team came to naija some years ago

mosquito pikin bite rooney, the guy sick for almost a month

She has made mistakes like everyone but she needs to find a way to help herself before people can

checkengine:
WHAT?

Sorry to everyone I may have have come off as a jerk. I am done with her case and possibly this thread. She is on a mission to self-destruct and may blow up with whoever tags along at the time.

Damn! What a child? God please save us from prodigal kids.

They asked her to sell her tab not her phone.

checkengine:
I don't even know how people will suggest she sells her phone so as to feed. That's like asking someone to donate his/her head so as to get a kidney. How much is she gonna realise from selling the phone and when the money realised from selling it runs out, what's next? If she sells the phone, she has lost her major route to reach out to the world for support thereby deeming her brightest chance of getting the needed help. Selling her phone is just not an option biko.

Her mum sent her to SA for education but miss decided to go for the guys. She got pregnant and came back with a child. He mum didn't ask her to come back, she was willing to end her back. People advised her not to here on the forum

So she came back because a guy asked her to, she didn't think of what to do or how to appease to her mum. People advised to start going to her mama's shop. Guess what they said she said, she said she can't because people will be seeing her. She was asked to stay brain g hair, she said she doesn't understand Nigerian system.

She met a man with 4 ex wives. Se left her mum to him. How much is contraceptives sir that she can't buy from his money? He sent her to a beauty school, she didn't finish. Why? Because her colleagues were wicked. The man left her.

Now she is broke, she can't feed but our friend would rather hold on to a tab because it was a gift(she has a phone o) than sell it to feed herself and her child. Right now, she claims she can do basic beauty stuff, how hard is it to set up a business right in her bedroom.


Like I said unless you have someone like her, don't judge those who are calling her out.

@TV01, in the western world, they will often take kids from these type of women. If they don't, people like her live on child benefits and to keep it coming they give birth to more kids. In Nigeria, ladies like her keep kids coming for one man with N100 after another with N50000. The society will be the one to suffer the consequences of her poor choices. Given her antecedent, she cannot make any life changing decisions. She feels like she is one smart babe. I don't know if you noticed , she has changed the title of her thread from help me to have mercy on me I don't want to die. That is the type of person you think should make decisions. Well, I believe she has already given the society the right to decide for her.

checkengine:
When people don't understand hard time induced situations or pretend not to understand, I wonder the world they live in. Even if one hasn't been through hard times, we can all at least imagine the situation. A no hope situation. A drowning man grabs even a floating nylon hoping it could be the life saver he desperately needs.

This lady before the current pregnancy was going through though times. She couldn't cater for her little one cos her mum wouldn't help, feeding sef was a problem then came a man who took her and her child in, sent her to learn a trade, promised her marriage, it is only normal to warm her would be husband's bed. There is a seemingly new life with better promises so giving the man a child doesn't seem a crime if we all can relate with the ladies past to the point she was with the new man that knocked her off now.

It really isn't so difficult to understand that people make some irrational decisions out of desperation. Being desperate isn't really as negative as Nigerians tend to paint it, it's simply a human instinct that kicks-in in times of need.

You don't understand the situation sir. Read through Onegai's comments and ask about girls like her. As it is now, make her comfortable and watch give birth to another child for her neighbor in about two years.

checkengine:
When people don't understand hard time induced situations or pretend not to understand, I wonder the world they live in. Even if one hasn't been through hard times, we can all at least imagine the situation. A no hope situation. A drowning man grabs even a floating nylon hoping it could be the life saver he desperately needs.

This lady before the current pregnancy was going through though times. She couldn't cater for her little one cos her mum couldn't help, feeding sef was a problem then came a man who took her and her child in, sent her to learn a trade, promised her marriage, it is only normal to warm her would be husband's bed. There is a seemingly new life with better promises so giving the man a child doesn't seem a crime if we all can relate with the ladies past to the point she was with the new man that knocked her off now.

It really isn't so difficult to understand that people make some irrational decisions out of desperation. Being desperate isn't really as negative as Nigerians tend to paint it, it's simply a human instinct that kicks-in in times of need.

moji26

This babe changed the title from help me to have mercy on me before I die. You think that is going to sway people.


You are older than me but I am glad to tell you that there is at least someone like you in a family. No one is doing to have mercy on you until you can pick yourself up.

I don't know why these guys got crazy. Kini big deal? Nigeria is full of submissive women na, lots of obedient women that can be controlled.....because female adults should be controlled. If you can't tell a man what to do with hia money, what size of property to purchase, when or not to go out...it is marriage. Why do you think you can tell a woman all these jargons and not receive better disrespect?


They shouldn't have reacted, they should have endured joor!!! Bunch of beta men


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Jokes aside

Inasmuch I believe we have women who go crazy and I don't mean non-submisive(I don't believe that shi.t). I mean women who lose sight of the purposes of marriage and family. It is all about them. They don't care about their husbands nor about their children. They want to enjoy life like no tomorrow . Even single women don't act the way these id.iots do.

However there are some who actually act like that due to years of abuse in the hands of their husbands. Also, there are some who became defiant because their husband abscond their duty once their wives start earning but expect the woman to care for the house with her money and other financial benefits and yet must B submissive like she has always been.

Tough love is what she needs. If you give her money now, she will soon be back for more.

I don't even know how these ladies get pregnant sef.

Teespice:
she has really tried her best. tough love is what the op needs.

unfortunately, not everybody seems to agree.

I agree. She needs to see where she has erred. She will soon find herself another man and before you know it, she is pregnant again.

thorpido:
The Op needs tough love no doubt.She doesn't have a grip on herself.

I don't know why people are castigating Onegai. For me, I think, she has spoken well.