₦airaland Forum

virginboy1:
Lol. Babe now you are being realistic.
But I don't think society and culture should be blame.
Instead blame poverty and greed.

oloyede252:
okay.

oloyede252:
you should start identifying your self with them.(feminist)

lol@house husband.you sure.

As per you last statement.most of the female graduates i knw are working.not just staying at home doing nothing..

virginboy1:
Lolzzz, for real See subjective idea . "Marriage for you is pleasing God" yet all you seek for is to marry a very rich man? issorite.
Well I am not against marriage ooo. But the way most of these women carry relationship and marriage is as if its a job opportunity. Make una no dey frustrate men Biko.tanks

oloyede252:
a housewife is not productive to the sociey ecomically or politically.

Doveda be a good girl and make daddy proud.be the best you can be.dont limit yourself..be the next hilary clinton of nigeria.

oloyede252:
lols.seems you're a daddys girl.remember you mentioned back up as a justification for schooling from dad view.what back up will an unproductive housewife render to her father?.for me i believe if my girl child desire to be a ful house wife.there is no need sponsoring her advance studies.the basic and post are ok for a housewife because advance studies will be useles to her.dnt you think

oloyede252:
you mentiond empowerment.which is what i have being making emphasis on.this thread is abt empowering women.the feminist movement didnt canvass for women to be full house wives but to empower them politically,socially and economically SO AS TO BE SELF DEPENDENT .so what is your point

oloyede252:
what do you know about parenting skills.asking that question is quite germane becos why will i sponsor my girl child up to phd level only for her to become a full house wife of a rich man.does that makes sense to you..

HaneefahRN:
He is NL's minister for women affairs ni. Bloody hypocrite

oloyede252:
you still dont get it.lemma ask you.what the best way to justify you going to school/formal education..

oloyede252:
i understand your point of view.also the op is making much sense..let agree to disagree.

nasha1:
stalker u wish! anytime i see a loose chicken around before i even address them,i check their profiles so 2 not lose myself to their dumbness.you are even justifying ur schedule 2 me
i am a very busy young woman,i would have love 2 stay and entertain ur lousy self but money calls.go find a part time job or something,u are even a nuisance 2 urself.

nasha1:
hahahaha u are the dumb one and a liar.No wonder u are running around this thread like a headless chicken.u are jobless,people another ashawo on the loose!u are on NL 24/7 u went 2 bed by 1 am and by 7 am u were on NL and it's like this everyday,i had 2 have a quick look at ur profile.
shame on miscreants like u,lawyer my foot!

oloyede252:
lol @is my husband complaining.do you have a husband.are you married.

I know you have good intention to defend women but you are doing it wrong.imf president said if majority of women contribute productivly to the economy that the world Gdp wil double it number.and op is stressing that women shld be productive for the betterment of everybody.

I'm sure it your defence mechnism against the op that is make you illogical..also this goes with both gender but there is need to make emphasis on the girl child

nasha1:
Instead of u 2 come up with a sensible discussion u resulted to the average tout mentality:rudeness and aggressiveness.
and these bunch call demselves ladies

virginboy1:
Bro, bring it on. The truth is bitter.
This lackadaisical attitudes of these women is the main reason most Nigerian men are becoming Gamophobic.
More or reason I don't blame killjoy for creating d thread "seven reasons why guys should not marry"

ChikezieU:
You missed the line the op is not against educating girls, moreover he said "most of the girls"... Not all

oloyede252:
lol @is my husband complaining.do you have a husband.are you married.

I know you have good intention to defend women but you are doing it wrong.imf president said if majority of women contribute productivly to the economy that the world Gdp wil double it number.and op is stressing that women shld be productive for the betterment of everybody.

I'm sure it your defence mechnism against the op that is make you illogical..also this goes with both gender but there is need to make emphasis on the girl child

nasha1:
What a lie! the same SW i live? where are the jobs? go nd see how many married women crying for a capital 2 start something.I do get that it is not by choice dat most are jobless but also how many girls in Uni do jobs 2 support demselves? we need 2 start saying the truth!
I was in uni and while my parents could afford my needs,i didn't want 2 be jobless after service so i decided 2 learn hair making and nails.I was making girls hair in hostel ; i remember many of the girls telling me that they dont see why i am subjecting myself to such disgrace.My parents are capable of supporting me.Many of dem have fathers dat can't even afford a bicycle not 2 talk of a phone yet,they wont do anything to care for demselves,they busy flashing the latest phones and clothes.keeping numerous boyfriends to sponsor their habits.
Education is knowledge and everyone has the right to be educated.But the problem is not education here,the problem is women craving for bigger things in life without trying to work for them.many are giving examples of everyday women out there.The women who works in farm 2 feed their family,the woman who are hawking breads and bananas daily.There are 3 types of women in nigeria.
-the hard working one,who actually strive 2 be successful and stop at nothing 2 achieve it even without a white collar job.
-the hard working woman who have no choice dan to settle for menial jobs just 2 take care of their families
-the entitled ones who sit at home and expect manna 2 fall from heaven just because they are female and have a kitty.

GworoChewinMaga:
Nah the girl mess up pass


The guy bleeped your ass and snuck out only for you to rant on Facebook

ronald4lif:
Yea, I read it and it was another cobblers as usual, full of sh1t. Abeg I don taya for this guy matter.

BIAFRANFLAG:
As for married graduates who sits at home doing nothing. Go to South Eastern part of Nigerian where I came from, you will find them in numbers.


I don't have the right to stop you from making your choice, I'm only saying that reducing women to a mere kitchen attendants and sex products is bad.

BIAFRANFLAG:
Your education is useless untill you put it to good use.


And if you decides to glue your ass in your matrimonial home like you said. It means your education is a WASTE!

patrickdarlins:
... my dear... I dint look down on polytechnic or whatsoever....I was just trying to point out something...

And you said I shouldn't be talking? Just cos I said what happened to me?? You also said "yes you are like that"... . Smh....

Don't wanna get stained today with insult... am wearing white already....

Just go in peace.. Please..... Bless you

BIAFRANFLAG:
All my sisters are in different locations of this world, happily married with children and working.

One is RN ( Residence nurse) in US


one is here in South Africa working as a teacher.

So get your sorry ass to work and stop looking for rich guys who will come and take care of your financial poverty.

your mates are here in South African using expensive cars.

Shame on you.

oloyede252:
you are unintelligent.the op post has a deep meaning in which you fail to decode.


If you dont wanna work or use your brain for developmental activities to you as a woman.this now beg the question of why you went to school.if you actually attended.and am sure your FATHER will be in a better position to answer for you since you are ignorant.

The op is just encouraging lazy women like you to be productive with your education.so why you ranting like a dog in heat.lols

BIAFRANFLAG:
Loool.

You mean your little brain told you that any guy who do not support women staying home as house wives is broke.


Shame on this new generation of women.

women looking for ready-made nigger. Shame on you.

fellis:
No woman in their right senses would seek out poor/struggling dudes before the rich ones.
Sorry guys but that is the truth.
Educated or not educated, Nigerian women will always seek out men that can take care of their financial needs.
Why?
Because the misogyny in Nigeria will always keep women from being too ambitious or independent so unless it goes away then the habit of women looking for rich guys will endure.
Consider the following:
In Nigeria,
Women cannot have too much money if not people assume she sleeps around or is a prostitute.
Women cannot spend too long getting educational degrees before marriage because they will grow old and less attractive and not be able to find a husband and everyone knows that in Nigeria getting a husband is compulsory for any woman that wants to be socially accepted.
Women should not have more money than their husbands because then they will not be 'submissive' humble, simpering waifs so ladies in search of husbands look for men who are more wealthy to marry thereby making it like women are lazy or golddiggers who are always in search of men that can take care of them.

Guys accept it and move on kwo?
Because when well wishers come out to try and change the status quo and encourage ladies to have ambition instead of focusing on marriage alone, you people will start foaming at the mouths and calling them man hating feminists.

Carry your fvcking cross you misogynistic pieces of s$hit.

fellis:
No woman in their right senses would seek out poor/struggling dudes before the rich ones.
Sorry guys but that is the truth.
Educated or not educated, Nigerian women will always seek out men that can take care of their financial needs.
Why?
Because the misogyny in Nigeria will always keep women from being too ambitious or independent so unless it goes away then the habit of women looking for rich guys will endure.
Consider the following:
In Nigeria,
Women cannot have too much money if not people assume she sleeps around or is a prostitute.
Women cannot spend too long getting educational degrees before marriage because they will grow old and less attractive and not be able to find a husband and everyone knows that in Nigeria getting a husband is compulsory for any woman that wants to be socially accepted.
Women should not have more money than their husbands because then they will not be 'submissive' humble, simpering waifs so ladies in search of husbands look for men who are more wealthy to marry thereby making it like women are lazy or golddiggers who are always in search of men that can take care of them.

Guys accept it and move on kwo?
Because when well wishers come out to try and change the status quo and encourage ladies to have ambition instead of focusing on marriage alone, you people will start foaming at the mouths and calling them man hating feminists.

Carry your fvcking cross you misogynistic pieces of s$hit.

oloyede252:
doveda i wonder how you can pass exams with this your unintelligent line of reasoning.just because you view the op as a person against women you blockd your higher cognitive level.if you support woman empowerment you will see sense in this post.but your ignorance wont let you.you're just saying how man is supirior to women which is not to be so.but women like you are the problem of empowering women.

angels09:

Well it will be the lucid part of doveda or daretodiffer as the case may be....... But on a second thought.... Yuck!!





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