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I can't wait for this marriage to end

Breasts don't stand firm except they are really really small. They are always slightly droopy.

Now let's talk about why the position of her boo.bs is so important, do you mind telling us?

Oche211:
Are those two hero not fallen? Cos i don't see them standing at all.

She has suffered enough. Only God knows what she has had to go through in the hands of that man

How much should he have given him? 5? 50? Make the you or the brother tell us na, shebi na your money

Pest!

czaratwork:
and he only gave his brother N1m. telakpi

You wish

Lawyers the to good firms are always overworked.....yan other thing abeg

dahaz:
This NBA should just shout up. Toothless bulldog. All what they knows best is to enslave lawyers working under them. if you are a lawyer or happens to know someone who works in a law firm owned by this people you will understand what am saying

If Atlanta wasn't funny, Jaimaca won't be any different

This is news..why?

Why do you have to pretend that you are a female?

Lavendra:
like they say... there is something called individual difference... people differ.
as for me as a lady, when I go to visit my bf, I take it as my responsibility to do everything, I can't be around and my bf would be sweeping the house or cooking or even washing clothes, if as his gf I can't do those things for him then what good am I?
the last time I visited him, I did a lot of work, I cleaned the house thoroughly even though he did that before I arrived, I wanted everywhere sparkling so that there would be a difference between when his gf is around and when she isn't. I washed and folded all his clothes, I did the cooking, mopping of the house and even washing toilet. I didn't allow him lift a finger even when he volunteered to help... I just wanted to feel that I'm doing something for him... he didn't ask me to do anything, it's just common sense or instinct that led me to do them...

He could have asked her to stop coming

paschal47:
being the first daughter is no excuse at all, in fact first daughters do more house chores than the younger siblings.


don't usually know why some girls say this 'I'll not wash a man's clothes or sweep his house if he is not married to me', but you like visiting for the weekend and spend his money. for God's sake stay in your house and stop being a burden to the young man, no man likes a liability and won't settle with one.




OP this is what I have for you, tell your friend that his girlfriend is a pig and a dirty one at that.

Mtchewww

mikemikoo2

Try using anti perspirant-roll and perfume together
Wear all your clothes once not twice
Rinse your clothes very well when you wash them, spread only in hot sun, inside out.
Reduce the amount of spices (salt, pepper, garlic curry etc)
Shower at least twice a day or when you sweat
Switch to normal soap or a natural soap. Eliminate anti-bacteria soaps from your bath
Get jogging/exercising
Go to a federal hospital

Many ladies? I hope you included your mama


You are a broken record sir. You are in no fvcking position to tell others what marriage is like.

Toks2008:
Comments like this makes me roll on the floor laughing my ass out.

Please how on earth do some ladies reason..in fact many ladies need to be caned and you need serious caning for this ignorant post...OK biko make I ask you...

Is there a way of stopping any man from cheating?

Even if you leave a philandering guy can you stay without stay wtout s.x as long as you live?

So what is the assurance that the new guy sef no be serious God father of philanderers?

See all these ignorant comments from babies who think they understand what it takes to weather the reality of man woman affair cracks me up...

Make I advise you miss or Mrs Alice in wonder land When you get married and incase your hubby cheats on you please leave him fast and carefully look for a decent guy who won't cheat on you and just in case the new guy cheats on you just leave him again as fast as you can and this time really take your time to look for a real man that won't cheat and if at all the third guy does same just leave the idea of marriage and start sleeping with yourself.

Better receive the sense you need now and stop your childish fantasy....

My regards to your father for a life furking

shotin:
. specialise in toto.. Every lady living here on earth must be drill irrespective of who you are... Its just the truth bro.... Congrat to the husband once again for a life furking....

Your should know , didn't you come out from that Only-God-knows-the-value toto?

If you think because she is dead. I am going to stop referring to her toto, you are on a long thing o. No be say you should use her death to degrade other women.

nicerichard05:

Lame, u will join her in sprit so u can ask her that

What is the value of your mum's toto?

nicerichard05:
Not Bad.

like i said in my previous comment some days back

No matter how cute, fresh. expensive, clean and sexy a T0T0 is, it will always be banged by a nigga somewhere for free.

I actually do not place so much value on T0T0.

Bros na ur own wen Osalobua give u, nack am well well

Is it not even naturally foolish for a broken record to insult men who have managed to hold a woman beta males?

Just saying

Toks2008:
Is it not even naturally foolish for a man to claim alpha male when he can not provide for his family as he should?

I really don't understand why some men can't grasp this fact. A lady who plays the role of the husband or shares his role must be encouraged morally,physically and emotionally.

I would if I have a job and doesn't .

I don't believe in strict division of roles. I will be down for anything that makes the family comfortable.


quote author=uplawal post=49997815]How can you be feeding your family and paying school fees? are you a man?its a mans job pls,let your man do his role,nawa o.[/quote]

Need I say more

Of course we would


Beibg alone is not past o. I think it depends on the couples though. Inasmuch you can do other chores in the house, no wahala but personally , it shouldn't be a total no.

RoadsAndGreen:
being alone is past. besides, there are many chores a man can do but cooking and washing plates no no. assisting in cooking I can do that cos I love to taste stuffs while a girl cooks it's fun.
if you ladies have your way you'd put the baby in a man's stomach for 4.5months so he'll have his share of the pregnancy responsibility. hahaha

Creating may be normal and Naruto but when you keep doing it and you keep getting caught, it has become something else. He will not be forced to change. He doesn't give a damn

ItsQuinn:
Cheating is natural and normal, please learn to accept that fact and ignore his actions, when he realize that you don't give a fvck about what he does, or he sees that what he does doesn't hurt you anymore, he will be forced to change. Tell him to go for stds tests, when you guys want to make love, use condoms for your own protection until you know he's clean

No!

kazyhm:
I love this response. will you Marry me ?

I love you.

Talking about cooking, I asked someone why it is must for the wife to cook especially when there is money to get a chef or if she is the busy kind. I couldn't get a decent reply other than the usual ilogical culture BS. Sentiments aside, a good food is a good food irrespective of who made it. The purpose of food is to eat and enjoy. Besides most of the time when a woman cook, it doesn't add a thing to the family other than fulfill a cultural role. It is not a family bonding activity AT ALL when one person cooks however it is when other members of the family are involved

Personally, it is not a something I would factor while choosing a career. Like cutting grasses, charging lightbulb and teaching academics to the children, cooking is a rule than can be filled with money and without harm to the family.


PS: I am not saying you shouldn't cook for the family

charmosky:
I've been married for two and half years now, based in the US, as a couple, we are both in the same medical field, as a nurse and as as an IT engr, from my fresh experience...there's nothing to bargain or agree in this contest....the most important thing is understanding, respect and love....i'll use myself as example....it gives me joy to assist my wife in the kitchen, many at times, she will beg me to stay away from the kitchen and relax, while she make food, but being someone who love to cook...I'll rather trick her and end up giving her a helping hand in the kitchen....this have helped our bonding that when we plan to cook, the level of excitement that comes with that is always amazing....I've always enjoyed every moment I spend with my wife, either helping her or cooking....

I disagree. If you can do it when you live alone, you can definitely do it when you live with others however I don't mind splitting the chores but you need to realise that cutting grasses and charging lightbulb aren't everyday chores so they don't compare. Personally, the only argument I can understand is if you do not genuinely like a chore, even at that you need to learn to love it unless the other person is willing to understand.

RoadsAndGreen:
there are some chores you can ask a man to do as a married man and there are some exclusive to women. A man should have little or no business in the kitchen. a woman on the other has no business cutting grasses or changing light bulbs.
that's how I personally see it. if you think differently please don't try to bite me lol

You can't go far in life......simple

daryoor:
since thats how u want to play it
1. your father lacks common sense
2. that made u a slave
3. this will eventually leas to your children not goin far in life .

If I give you lift day in day out, I expect you to offer money for fuel on some days. If you live under my roof, with or without money, you must be willing to do house chores.

Common sense does not make you a slave but for those like you who lack it, you will never go far in life. Basically, you will always be a slave.

daryoor:
ok i get u.

doveda does not respect anybody with out money
if u live under dovedas roof u deserve no respect and u must slave
that should also mean if doveda gives u free lift u must wash the car, because its common sense and because when u depend on doveda you must lose respect.

one more thing you cant go far in life if you dont slave in return for favour from doveda.

Are you trying to say we don't have some stvpid cultures? If you were, that would be a very daf.t thing to say.



What will your mum do? If she were a good person, she would be the one to ask you to get your lazy bum off the bed and work like a slave. Brother in law doesn't mean shi.t. I can't figure out how your position changes the fact that you eat and sleep in someone else's house. Get your own damn house, if you don't want to be sent on such errands.

If you haven't heard, respect comes in two forms, respect for oneself and for others. Basically when you depend on others, you are bound to lose respect. And if you depend on others, it is simple logic you respect yourself and act coy.


And if you don't know that respect is helping out in a home where you enjoy free accommodation and free food, you will never go far in life. Because it is even beyond respect, it is common sense. If you don't learn it now, you are doomed for life. So if your in-law ever happen to ask you to wash the toilet with your tongue, you scream ‘yes ma' and get working

daryoor:
u said im mad . i know already tell me something i dont know. i never said i wont wash the plate i used to eat.

what i need you to understand is this. can she tell me to change her baby's daipers? or will she tell me to wash her baby's clothes? or will she be healthy and ask me to cook we will eat?

does she dare send her brother in law such errands when her mother in law is present?

if you dont understand yoruba culture, ask.
if you think its arrogance, its not
if you dont know how to demand respect where u deserve it, learn.

Obviously you are the mad one for insinuating that you can't see or wash plates. You are living with people and you think you can s you like. Won't you sweep your own too or wish your own plates. Is she a slave or a subhuman for washing plates?

Sweeping and washing plates are house chores that are some everyday and basically they are more demanding, that means you will do them.whether you like it or not. She doesn't need you to fix any stvpid tyre or light bulbs. If you are so interested in feeling manly, get six packs, meet some hoes and show them what you have got. If you can't do that, show that your masculinity and get your own flat.


If you cannot wash plates for her, you can as well forget about eating the food she cooks. Who you be? Abi your shit no dey smell?. Your gender is as useless as P in psychology. You will do as you are bloody well told if you lack the initiative to drag your lazy bum and help out without being told.

daryoor:
thats if by help out u mean changing car tyres and light bulbs not sweeping washing plates. my brothers wife should now say daryoor "come and wash plate " she dey mad.

The results from the latest survey appears to contradict a recent study carried out by researchers at Cambridge University earlier this year that found men were actually happier when sharing the housework.

The Cambridge study was based on previously collected data from 30,000 people in 34 countries. Researchers found that men had benefited the more they contributed to household chores, but researchers suggested that this could also be because they preferred a quiet life doing housework than having a disgruntled other half.

Did you even read the article sef?

What type of human being need some stvpid statistics to teach how to do certain things that require common sense? I hope you rely on research to teach you how to pee.

Bunch of mor.ons!

That is because it is not your thing

LuvU2:
Thnks for d right spelling there. Worn it once, it wasnt cool.

Amin!

LuvU2:
may no woman i knw ever consider a man like you

may u marry a strong headed, disobedient, irrational, illogical woman

may your home be a battle field, a ridicule, nd scorn of the whole world

Amen Amen!

So if I pay MY children school fees and feed MY family, I become the husband of the home....seriously toks, can we get dvmber than this
My husband is no less of a man or a father or a husband if he does the chunk of house chores. Unless of course, you are insinuating that house chores are for slaves and subhumans.





@Jarizgod, when men who earn higher than their wives disrespect their wives and treat them like trash, we don't attribute it to their earning power or gender. Neither do morons say it derogates femininity. However when it involves stvpid women treating their spouses like trash you conveniently blame it on her earning power and the how the feminine gender is prone to bad behaviour and the audacity to tell us how it makes a their spouses less of a man.



Your logic....you are indeed very smart..