Politics › Re: The Deteriorating Nature Of Mile 2 – Apapa Road by dozymars(m): 4:07pm On Oct 07, 2017 |
Anytime I go through this area, I can't but wonder if we have leaders.
It has been like this for many years. |
Politics › Re: 1st October 1960- Nigerian Independence [VIDEO] by dozymars(m): 1:25pm On Oct 01, 2017 |
Why were we dependent in the first place ? I don't celebrate Independence. |
Travel › Re: Nigeria Immigration Receives 50,000 Passport Booklets, Task Force Sent To Lagos by dozymars(m): 9:23pm On Sep 21, 2017 |
My Wife and Son's passport have been pending since March at Festac passport office. The officers keep telling me stories.
What a country. |
Politics › Re: Saraki: Banning Of IPOB By Military & South-East Governors Is Unconstitutional by dozymars(m): 12:58pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Please tell them. Did they carry guns ? Were they violent ? Did they declare war on Nigeria ?
May God bless us with good leaders in this country.
All we need is a good leader and Nigeria will be transformed.
And everyone will be proud to be called Nigerian. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Hurricane Irma Destroys Entire Barbuda, Caribbean Island (Photos) by dozymars(m): 10:50pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
aaronson: I'm still wondering to myself, how did Albert Einstein ever know gravitational wave was responsibly for gravity? That guy is greater than God for having such a bright mind, Even God the owner of the said universe can not put checks and balances to such disastrous disaster like hurricane. I believed if Einstein was still alive, he would have proffered solution to help Astrophysicist solve this hurricane disaster. Even Albert Einstein acknowledged the supreme being, God. You are far less insignificant and ignorant. |
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili: "Garba Shehu A Master Of Acute Incompetency" by dozymars(m): 9:09pm On Sep 15, 2017 |
MAI. Chai |
Politics › Re: Atiku Abubakar Replies Twitter User by dozymars(m): 7:51pm On Sep 09, 2017 |
Where are the youths of Nigeria? |
Celebrities › Re: Paul Okoye Wished He Woke Up Like This In Nigeria by dozymars(m): 8:24am On Sep 04, 2017 |
I don't lack power supply in my house, it runs for 24hrs non stop because I use Solar. Its lovely. Get yours at www.inverternigeria.com |
Romance › Re: Any Man Who Thinks All Women Want From Men Is Money, Has Low Self Esteem. by dozymars(m): 10:00pm On Aug 28, 2017 |
DouglasH92: I have read comments from a lot of Nigerian men on this forum and other platforms on social media that basically assert that all women want from a man is money. These men believe that the only concern the average Nigerian girl has when dating or looking for a man to hook up with, is the size of his pocket. But is this really true? Of course not.
In my opinion, anyone who thinks this way has so stripped himself of any modicum of self worth or self-value and has heaved all this worth and value unto money, something external from himself. Such a person believes himself and his qualities not adequate enough to interest, intrigue, gratify or satisfy a woman, so he finds a savior in money to answer to all these needs.
Like let's be realistic here. Women are humans just like men are, and as humans women have needs other than monetary needs. They have qualities that they find attractive in the opposite sex that can interest them and satisfy a need, and cause them to invest themselves in such person. Money isn't everything. And I am not saying money isn't a criterion women look out for, but money isn't the only criterion like most men think, and most times it isn't even among the most important criteria. To be honest some women don't even place money high on their priority list when evaluating a man. There are other qualities that matter more and these qualities are subjective. There are women who would invest themselves in men that are intelligent, or men that are confident and hardworking, or men that are good looking and well groomed, or men that are highly skilled in a field that interests them, or men that are funny, witty or good with words, or men that are adventurous and well exposed, or men that know how to please a woman sexually. There are lot of qualities.
A relationship is a journey of different courses and there are women that love to explore these variety of courses based on their interests and likes. But when a man nests a flawed notion of women as just wanting a man that has money, then his reality begins to manifest just as he believes, and invariably these are the kind of women that he'll meet.
In my opinion, any man that thinks this way is either extremely ignorant or has low self esteem because he doesn't perceive himself as having qualities that can attract and keep women besides money. I mean for fucksake there are men who are being taken care of by their girlfriends. There are men their girlfriends would be willing to do anything for, whether monetarily or otherwise. In such cases it is definitely not money that's keeping her, then what is? Obviously it's other qualities the man possesses that she values higher than money.
Rarity is what separates the most sort out for from those who aren't sort out for. When you possess something that is valuable to someone, and that thing is rare to find, you will become extremely valuable to such person. Many people have money. Finding a man who has money these days is the easiest thing to do. Having money doesn't separate you from the crowd. What separates you from the crowd is the qualities you possess and to the degree you possess them. Instead of coming online to whine about how women only care about money, why not try developing your best qualities and use them to attract women. No one can love you if you don't love yourself first. No one can value you if you don't value yourself. You are still a very young inexperienced lover man, what do u know? The reality will come to you as you grow older and get involved in relationships. There are too many hungry girls in this country, I wonder why? |
Politics › Re: Charly Boy To Protest For Diezani Alison-Madueke's Extradition by dozymars(m): 7:19pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
vedaxcool: Fool doesn't know where British High Commission is? You are the fool. Who is to apply for extradition, is it the british high commission or Nigeria |
Politics › Re: Buhari Supporters Shut Down Kano As They Hold Prayers And Rally For Him (photos) by dozymars(m): 5:10pm On Aug 24, 2017 |
What if the answer to their prayers is for him to resign. What if ? |
Politics › Re: El-rufai, Deputy Organize Crowd To Pray For Buhari In Kaduna [PHOTOS] by dozymars(m): 12:49pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
What if God's answer is for him to resign and rest, then will the people accept it.
God cannot be mocked as he has answered already, while the people are still waiting for a different answer.
Keep praying..o |
Travel › Re: The World-class Eko Atlantic Road Network by dozymars(m): 12:23pm On Aug 23, 2017 |
I have to own properties in Eko Atlantic, i cannot be left out. |
Romance › Re: Lines Playboys Use To Have Sex With Innocent Ladies by dozymars(m): 11:45am On Aug 22, 2017 |
askseunoladele: LINES PLAYBOYS USE TO HAVE SEX WITH INNOCENT LADIES
If you want to keep your virginity till marriage or stay off sex completely till you get married, beware of these lines or men will pass you from bed to bed like football. Innocent ladies including naive married women usually fall into sexual traps through these lines:
1. YOU ARE TOO FRIGID: They tell you to loosen up, learn to hug, learn to give a "godly" brother a peck on the cheek. You should socialize and be more friendly. It's a bait to make you loose your guard little by little and they keep asking for more till they eventually have sex with you and dump you neat!
Which useless hug does he want, for what reason? If he wanna hug, he should hug his mother, sisters, male friends or wife! Some men know virtually the breast size of all the females around them by hugging tightly and feeling what they should not feel! If you need to hug and peck, go hug and peck fellow females sisters! Not hugging guys doesn't mean you are frigid, don't let any guy deceive you! I wasn't into hugging guys as a single lady yet was very friendly and had male admirers! Of course, I ain't frigid in marriage! Sex in marriage is sweet to say the least! Be friendly sis, but know the limit to physical touch!
2. YOU ARE OLD SCHOOL: I love old school like kilode! If they tell you to go clubbing, expose cleavages to prove to everyone you went to school, they are seriously sick!
3.YOUR HUSBAND SHOULDN'T BE THE ONLY MAN YOU ARE FREE WITH: kindly explain what you mean sir. Do you mean, my husband is not the only man I should hug, peck and have sex with? I should treat you like I treat my husband, be careless around you and give what is holy to the dogs? Excuse me dear married woman, if you do not want stories that touch the heart with another man, don't ever do anything with him you won't proudly tell your husband at home. You can't be too free with another man aside your husband, shikennah! Hugging all men and giving them pecks shows you lack virtues and morals! Refuse to be deceived!
4. IT'S NOT A SIN TO PASS THE NIGHT IN MY HOUSE: Thief! You want to snatch her under her mama's roof to pass the night in your motel, where will she sleep? On the floor while you sleep on the bed? What happens when the devil asks NEPA to the light and one terrible heat wants to kill both of you, you ask her to off her clothe so that "breeze" will blow on her abi? If the useless devil wants to kill it completely and he sends one mighty rain making everywhere cold and chilly, you offer to keep her warm by wrapping yourself around her on the bed her abi?May God deliver some sisters from the spirit of foolishness and stupidity! You can't pass the night without thinking of sex or doing it! What you will not eat, don't bring it to your nose! You may escape first, second or even third time, the day he will pounce on you, no one will rescue you!
5. IF YOU LOVE ME, YOU WILL MAKE LOVE TO ME: This is common among those sokoto sagging, agbero boys! Masters degree holders in the art of seduction also use it a lot. Tell him, if he loves you, he should wait for you.why will anyone in his right senses equate pre-marital sex with love? You need deliverance!
6. YOU SHOULD BE EXPERIENCED BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED: So he wants to teach you how to have sex then disappears when the pregnancy comes, girl, use your head! No man wants "ajeku" sister, no one wants a "used and dumped" we all want a spouse, fresh and innocent. It is the grace and forgiveness of Christ that helps us do some things and still stand on our two feet. But trust me, you will still pay for those mistakes!
7: YOU ARE SO HOT! He says anytime he sees you, he can't control himself, he needs deliverance from the spirit of lust!
Your body is not the problem, the demon eating his reasoning faculty is his problem! You are not the hottest babe on earth. More beautiful ladies are everywhere. If he can't control himself with you, he won't control it himself around your sisters, friends and colleagues! Don't buy into that lie!
8. I LOVE YOU: Playboys are very good at using those words. Don't let any man sweet talk you into his bed! If he loves you, he should keep his fingers off your precious body. As a married woman, it is senseless to consistently listen to another man who regularly tells you he loves you and you are beginning to reciprocate with "I love you too!" You call it showing the agape love of Christ, I pity your marriage! Put your phone on speaker so your husband can hear everything he tells you, show him all the chats and conversations, if your "friend" tells you to clear chats and not be completely opened to your husband about your relationship with him, he is a devil per excellence! Your marriage is heading towards divorce!
9. YOU ARE NOT FLEXIBLE as in, compromise your principles by allowing him to romance but not have sex? Alright, okay! One day will be one day when he breaks into your gate and the relationship is over!
These and more are the lines play boys use on naive ladies to make them lose their guard, sleep with them, dump them and leave them damaged, broken and battered! May you not fall a victim in Jesus' name. FEEL FREE TO SHARE. God bless you, cheers! © Seun Oladele, 2017. www.askseunoladele..com Your type is the one that depends solely on guys for virtually everything. Give me this, give me that. Then common hug, you become stingy with it, but you want him to take you out, buy you gifts and show you, love. For your information, men are different from women. A guy that likes and find you attractive will want to hold you if he is the bold type. |
Phones › Re: My Review Of Mtn Data Plans! by dozymars(m): 9:12pm On Aug 21, 2017 |
They are all the same and it seems we have no choice. |
Car Talk › Re: Man And His Solar-Powered Keke Napep Spotted In Yaba, Lagos. Photos by dozymars(m): 5:40pm On Aug 20, 2017 |
This is imported and not built here. |
Phones › Re: 3 Things The New Nokia 8 Can Do That Your Infinix Or Tecno Phone Can't Do by dozymars(m): 9:38am On Aug 20, 2017 |
All that's required of Nokia to do is to build their phones on Andriod software and not windows then they are good to go.
The Name Nokia still lives in our memory, they should have cheaper ones as well. |
Travel › Re: Lagos Ranked As One Of The Worst Cities To Live In by dozymars(m): 4:45pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Apapa can testify to this, which other city in the world can be compared to Apapa ?
Lagos is a place where the number of cars and trailers tally in number., |
Education › Re: ASUU Declares Indefinite Strike, See The Memo by dozymars(m): 8:22am On Aug 14, 2017 |
When senators and house of rep members are getting approvals for new Peugeot cars while ASUU demands are still not met. |
Politics › Re: Middle Belt Youths Give Herdsmen Quit Notice To Vacate Region Before October 1 by dozymars(m): 10:19pm On Aug 13, 2017 |
I foresee blessings this October 1st. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Is It A Sin To Have Sex With Wife On Sunday? by dozymars(m): 10:29am On Aug 13, 2017 |
hopefulLandlord: its a sin for a Christian to have sex at all, Jesus who Christians emulate never had sex even though it was allowed at the time, he stayed pure and holy
Be a true Christian today by saying no to sex, its better to go to heaven with a frustrated and unused vagyna and dick than go to hell with a well used one, heaven is the goal my Christians, be Christlike Strange individual with a strange ideology. Beware of these kind of people. |
Health › Re: Itching After Bathing - I Need Help... by dozymars(m): 9:13pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
Mbkite: Doctors and all concerned nairalanders, I really need to know if there is any treatment for itching especially after morning bath. I have used up all means known to me including, bathing hot water, applying aboniki after bath, etc. I brought this to nairaland believing to get a lasting solution. Thank you my good people. The itching will stop after a while, just put your mind off it. Don't bother applying anything. |
Crime › Re: Aderonke Apata: Gay Rights Activist Granted Asylum In Britain After 13 Years by dozymars(m): 4:05pm On Aug 12, 2017 |
Stop all these hate and bitter words, you don't need it. Not good for your well being if u fill your heart with hate. besto50:

Aderonke Apata
Afonja are the worst being on earth. They prosper in things like gay, rape, rituals and all forms of immoral acts.
*spits* |
Business › Re: Kebbi To Export 2,000 Goats Daily To Saudi Arabia by dozymars(m): 12:37pm On Aug 08, 2017 |
Britain, US, russia, germany and china exporting technology while we are exporting goats, cows and humans. Oh Africa why. |
Politics › Re: New Minimum Wage: NASS Ready, Waiting For Executive – Saraki by dozymars(m): 6:13pm On Aug 04, 2017 |
I won't be suprise if they increase theirs as well. |
Car Talk › Re: Tesla Unveils The World’s Cheapest Fully Electric Car At N11 Million by dozymars(m): 9:45am On Aug 01, 2017 |
henryobinna:
 Nigerian...
The battery is not removable You don't need to remove the battery, there are ways to integrate a spare battery |
Car Talk › Re: Tesla Unveils The World’s Cheapest Fully Electric Car At N11 Million by dozymars(m): 7:59am On Aug 01, 2017 |
PDPGuy: The downside of the standard version, for some Nigerian buyers, is that it won't be able to drive from Lagos to Onitsha on a single charge You can keep a spare charged battery to use when the one in use is low. |
Car Talk › Re: Tesla Unveils The World’s Cheapest Fully Electric Car At N11 Million by dozymars(m): 7:48am On Aug 01, 2017 |
Its real, the era of oil is coming to an end. Are we prepared in Nigeria ?
You do not necessarily need phcn supply, just have a solar system installed on top of your garage |
Politics › Re: Customs Makes N486bn In Six Months, Breaks Revenue Record by dozymars(m): 8:52am On Jul 27, 2017 |
They should use 5% to fix Apapa roads. |
Education › Re: Chemical Engineering Vs Computer Science Which Has More Calculations??? by dozymars(m): 8:03am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Chemical Engineering for sure. |
Christianity Etc › Re: For Christians: How To Be Free From Masturbation, Other Addictions by dozymars(m): 10:51pm On Jul 23, 2017 |
Chatflick: Before i begin, i'ld like to let you all know i was once a victim of a very bad addiction, precisely masturbation. I masturbated for almost 5 years before finally, i got set free from that shackle of sin. Believe me when i say i thought i could never let go of that unholy habit as i would literally masturbate about 10 times daily. There was no porn site i didn't know of, porn dvd's i had as many not until i finally broke out of the habit.
How did i become free?
Many times i cried to God for help but at a later time i'll find myself back to my puke. I was depressed, angry and even suffered inferiority complex due to this habit but thank God for Grace. I gave my life to Christ early 2016 and have taken it back countlessly not until this year i decided to put all my focus on him and build a personal relationship with the HolySpirit as he is our (belivers) greatest advantage. You will agree with me that when you put all focus on something, you will find out other stuffs become irrelevant. I became steady in my prayer, church and spiritual life, always making positive confessions about myself everyday. I wake up and say to myself; Sin has no power over me i'm the righteousness of Christ Jesus and frankly speaking, i've taken God seriously and i discovered i've totally forgotten i was a chronic masturbator not to talk of how to masturbate only because i put all focus on God, the one who gives us rest. Those who indulge in such habit not just masturbation but many others like smoking, drug addiction, promiscuity and many more i'll urge you to make God your focus and the HolySpirit your best companion and if you do this with all sincerity, i can vow that you won't know when that bad habit will drop off. You must not go for any laying of hands to be made free. Why die when you can live? May the good Lord strengthen you all, Amen.
PS: Don't let the devil fill your heart with guilt after surrendering to God rather rebuke him for his greatest weapon is deception. Remember; Therefore now there is no more condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus. You were just suffering from guilt thats all. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Spends $5bn On Generators Annually by dozymars(m): 10:06pm On Jul 18, 2017 |
Majority of Nigerians suffering in silence. I don't use generator. You can have a solar system and do without the generator. Visit www.inverternigeria.com for more information. |