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 Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:02pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
¶ Ovulation A study researcher Kristina Durante of the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology in 2012 found that women who are ovulating perceive men who are handsome and rebellious as more appealing mates. She asserts that ovulating women also believe that these kinds of quintessential bad boy characteristics, including an adventurous attitude and an alpha male mindset, make these men far better candidates as fathers and providers for their potential children. However, viewing bad boys through this type of ovulation lens can often lead to heartache and heartbreak, as many women can end up choosing to procreate with a man whose rebellious tendencies make him highly appealing and attractive, but in reality, he's unwilling or unable to provide a lifelong commitment because of these misbehaving ways. It’s hormonal. ¶ His confidence As noted in a study in the International Journal of Cosmetic Science , people who feel good about themselves and have high self-esteem can appear more physically attractive to others. Specifically, a bad boy's highly confident demeanor helps him look even more handsome and appealing to the women around him. Plus, confidence is incredibly sexy , and self-assured bad boys often ooze a kind of sex appeal that keeps women intrigued. In other words, a bad boy's confident nature helps him attract and appeal to more women while also deterring other men from competing with him for the affection and attention of these women. ¶ She thinks she can change him In many instances, women often fall for the bad boy because they believe they can change his rebellious and renegade ways. Many women are under the false impression that they can fix a bad boy's tendencies and mold him into the caring, considerate, and committed person they want him to be. 11 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:58pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
As i mention each qualities that attract ladies to bad boy. Take note of those qualities as they are your gateway to attraction. ¶ They associate love with hurt This is perhaps the most common of them all. It could be a parent, sibling, friend, or even a past hurtful relationship that breeds this association. The one that loves them the most - or is supposed to love them the most - hurts them the most. The role of a lover becomes distorted. When a good girl gets hurt by a bad boy, she associates the hurt to the same hurt her parent/friend/ex lavished her with, and expects that because she is feeling the same hurt, she will also feel that same love. ¶ Women are scientifically attracted to rebels it's been shown that women are actually scientifically more attracted to men with deviant personality types. A study of nearly 1,000 men and women revealed that people with a particular personality characteristics , such as impulsivity, imprudence, and narcissism, had more sexual partners and an increased number of children when compared to those who didn't share these same personality traits. In other words, these seemingly negative characteristics can in reality be beneficial toward drawing more people toward these bad boys in a romantic way. And as a result, bad boys who live their lives as renegades who are up to no good are often perceived as more attractive and appealing . 12 Likes 6 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:52pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
It happens all the time, without fail. The sweetest girl goes for that terrible worthless bad boy. She has so much to offer, the perfect catch, yet she chooses a boy (we can’t even bear to call him a man). We cringe when we see our girlfriends, sisters, and daughters make the same mistake of picking up bad boys over, and over again. What could possibly cause a beautiful, well rounded, bright-futured female to stoop to the levels of an unaccomplished unqualified bad boy, that would treat her nothing even remotely close to what she is worth? Well, in reality there is an endless number of reasons that could cause a good girl to fall for a bad boy: 14 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:48pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
42.) BAD BOY THEORY One of the main tenet of the red pill is that ladies love bad boys Do ladies want a bad boy? Yes, women like those guys. It’s just something genetically predetermined. They want to have the healthiest guy to have a good offspring. I noticed that most women like books where a hero (aka the bad boy) meets a girl. The girl falls in loves and so on. In the end, the hero stays a bad boy but he’s committed to her. They leave happily ever after or they die. The sales of these books have increased over the last couple of years and should we be surprised by this fact? Guys have less testosterone than 100 years ago so girls are constantly looking for a hero. They don’t find one in real life so they go and look for them in the books.This alone should tell you why Women love 50 shades of grey. Girls do not like bad boys just because they’re bad. Girls love the qualities of most bad boys over qualities of nice guy . 22 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 2:39pm On Sep 17, 2020 |
olatayo8296:Of course not bro We ride till the end 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:52am On Sep 17, 2020 |
AndreSalvatore:Yea. Right on spot 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:30pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Before i go deeper on Bad boy theory. Lets first observe Alicia Keys Lyrics on the song "Fallin'" dedicated to her husband Swizz Bitz. Observe the emotional rollercoaster he makes her undergo. In the lyrics. I keep on fallin' In and out of love With you Sometimes I love ya Sometimes you make me blue Sometimes I feel good At times I feel used Lovin you darlin' Makes me so confused I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you Oh, oh, I never felt this way How do you give me so much pleasure And cause me so much pain Just when I think I've taken more than would a fool I start fallin' back in love with you I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you Oh baby I, I, I, I'm fallin' I, I, I, I'm fallin' Fall I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you I keep on Fallin' In and out of love with you I never loved someone The way that I love you 9 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:24pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Regex:I just hope it will not end up being a barrier. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: Simp Thread. Redpill Avoid Strictly by Dpsychologist: 8:19pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 8:01pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Conclusion The average woman reading the previous paragraphs will simply dismiss these observations and suggest that its a myth, that women actually go for good men rather than bad men. That women are competent at making moral romantic choices. Yet if thats true, we should have no qualms about testing who women go home with, mingle with, or give their numbers to on a night out right? However, making a formal research on this is way too controversial, especially in the early 21st century western world. Until then, society is free to live in its bluepill bubble where the nefarious aspects of human nature remain hidden among bluepill delusion. 17 Likes 6 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:57pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:34pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
41.) LOVE IN STRANGE PLACES : In movies and fairytales, a woman will fall in love with a sweet nice guy who is the man of her dreams (they are perfect for each other) and they leave happily ever after. But in reality women have strange love for badboys. Most women are mostly attracted to criminals, outlaws, fraudsters, druglords, badboys, thugs, troublemakers, etc This is exemplified in Hybristophilia, Scelerophilia, Stockholm syndrome and Dark Triad traits. Hybristophilia involves attraction to men who are inclined to committing crimesWomen appear to have a simultaneous preference for physical threat and romance in men, the former for protection and the latter for provision . Both are a consequence of a sex difference in parental investment. Hybristophilia appears to be an almost entirely a female phenomenon. Women are also obsessed with romance novels about dangerous and criminal men and also have a keen interest in crime reports. In fact, almost every high profile male notorious criminal in US has been bombarded with love notes from women and even marriage proposals. Examples include Josef Fritzl, Ted Bundy, Joran Van der Sloot, Chris Watts, James Holmes, John Wayne Gacy etc Scelerophilia is characterized by attraction to savage characters. It is similar to hybristophilia , except that the subject of attraction is not necessarily a criminal. He does however, possess several anti-social tendencies. In laymen's terms, scelerophilia is more commonly known by the phrase "going for the bad boy" " or "aiming for thugs". It is also one of the reasons why the idiom "nice guys finish last" gained currency. Stockholm syndrome is defined as the desperate need to love someone in spite of their abusive nature. She believes the one that likely loves her the most, hurts her the most. This may stem from being punished by love ones during childhood. The role of a lover becomes distorted. Thus wheb she gets hurt by a bad boy, she associates the hurt to the same hurt her parent/friend/ex exhibed on her. Dark Triad consist of 3 personality traits including narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy . A study by Nicholas Holtzman and Michael Strube of Washington University found that narcissists, are better at making themselves look physically appealing. Additionally, those within the dark triad were found to be, “more likeable and had more confident body language, and more attractive facial expressions,” than their counterparts. When we find someone super hot, we tend to assume they’re also smart, kind, and confident (even if it isn’t true) which is an advantage to dark triad men. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:00pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:59pm On Sep 16, 2020*. Modified: 9:50pm On Sep 16, 2020 |
Dpsychologist: A lot of people new to red pill philosophy generally, younger people, think specific decisions are “beta” or “alpha” these are things they confuse with “assertive” and “passive.” You use passiveness strategically and come out on top, that’s alpha because you’re winning at life despite the lack of chest showing and overt shows of manliness. When a general pulls his troops out of a warzone where the fight is being lost, the general isn’t “being a beta”, he’s still a smart, respected man. In fact it is by choosing to keep his troops in there, out of pride, that this move of aggression “is the beta move” as this results in higher losses and thus heightened failure. Failure is never “alpha” unless it’s tactically planned, in the case of a sacrifice or compromise it must be intended and must produce some kind of dividend, if the sacrifice or compromise was not beneficial or intended, you’re a casualty . It is only an Alpha that can act like a beta and still remain alpha. He is an undercover beta but a true alpha. Whether you use passive or dominant moves to achieve your goals has nothing to do with whether you are an alpha or a beta, you can use either to win, winning at life is what makes one alpha, losing at life (and/or with women specifically) is what makes one “a beta.” A beta is synonymous with failure and a lack of success socially (can’t make friends), sexually (can’t build attraction) and financially (can’t do much of anything!) 23 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:28pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Alpha Alphas don’t need to be the centre of attention all the time. Not giving a fvck is more “alpha” than the guy who’s always trying to assert himself. Don’t try too hard to be Alpha . You can be an alpha and not perform well in a particular social situation. Perhaps you don’t have particular things in common with those people or the circumstances are unfavourable, if that happens change your location or niche. Capitalise on your strength not weakness. This is Abundance mentality. Find a new group that you are comfortable with, one you resonate with. Never stay in a place you are tolerated but stay in places your are appreciated. You can be both a bad footballer and a good basketballer. The right decision is to forget about football and cling to basketball. If you win and obtain what you want, that’s “alpha.” If you do what you do because you want to do it, if you play the game of life on your own terms, then you’re an alpha male . If you decide/lead/command/take responsibility for others, then you’re alpha. This is why leaders are alpha. If you’re indecisive, follow, obey sheepishly and avoid responsibility then you’re beta because your will is not strong, your motives aren’t in play, you are a pawn rather than a player. 21 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 5:26pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
40.) ALPHA AND BETA I believe failure is synonymous to beta while sucess is synonymous to alpha. — Dpsychologist A beta is someone who doesn’t understand women and/or hasn’t got their shit together mentally and/or fails to understand the nature of the game of life, betas are simply delusional low value people who are lacking on one of societies main judgements of value, be it economically, sexually or socially. However, a definitive view of “beta” in and of itself is putting pvssy on a pedestal. Sending unnecessary long text messages without a respond, Telling her she’s special and don't deserve you, Begging her to date you or have sex with you. What does this kind of behaviour result in? Failure of course. She’ll see all that shit as neediness, not sexiness. I believe alpha/beta are mind-sets based on a confidence to success ratio. I see “alpha” as a concept to being successful, not solely dominance or aggression, sure dominance and aggression are masculine, but being masculine doesn’t make one necessarily alpha. You can be domineering, aggressive or arrogant and still be a loser by nature of incompetence. 23 Likes 5 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 3:39pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Good day my people 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: 10 Reasons Ladies Should Marry a Man Like Me [Picture] by Dpsychologist: 2:48pm On Sep 15, 2020 |
Lol are u advertising yourself. 1 Like |
| Romance › Re: At 22, Never Claim To Be Smart by Dpsychologist: 10:14pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
softguy1:How to win and influence people is a very good book on that. Also 48laws of power is necessary. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:55pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Kalatium:Till the end bro |
| Romance › Re: At 22, Never Claim To Be Smart by Dpsychologist: 9:17pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
softguy1:Is possible to some degree but whatever you do, its not possible for 100% of people to like you. 3 Likes |
| Romance › Re: At 22, Never Claim To Be Smart by Dpsychologist: 9:08pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
You are unknowingly obeying the laws of power. 4 Likes |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 9:06pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Pstarogood0100:Thanks men. Its an honour. 7 Likes |
| Romance › Re: What Are The Disadvantage And Advantage Of Being In A Relationship by Dpsychologist: 8:32pm On Sep 14, 2020*. Modified: 8:48pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Losing resources, time, sanity, and possibility of heartbreak is a Disadvantage to both genders. Losing resources is more on the male. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Having Sex In Dream Land by Dpsychologist: 8:08pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Its normal bro. Its called wet dream( medical termed, Nocturnal emission). 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Politics › Re: Angry Youths Burn N1000 Instead Of Donating To Buhari Praise Singer (video) by Dpsychologist: 8:08pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Is tearing money not against CBN act |
| Romance › Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist(op): 7:36pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
LikeAking:Yea bro. This is the essence of the Redpill. It is an encomium of truths. However, the truth is very bitter and difficult to swallow but it emancipates. 7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Romance › Re: Keys To Seduction And Self Improvement by Dpsychologist(op): 7:08pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
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| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 7:02pm On Sep 14, 2020*. Modified: 9:05pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
lightangel65i:They need to be cured with the red pill Vaccine. 5 Likes 1 Share |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:58pm On Sep 14, 2020*. Modified: 8:26pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
Men, Women and Commitment A single woman is one who cannot secure investment, a single man is one who will not provide it. This alone should explain the disparity in anxiety between the single man and the single woman. A single man is anxious only if he looking to prove his worth, for such a thing is the product of inexperience, the manifestation of the male ego eager to prove itself. It is a rite of passage for a young virgin man, a rite of passage that if unfulfilled, becomes the central focus that consumes him. Regardless of a woman’s level of experience, she will be deeply anxious if she finds herself single. Socially, having a boyfriend is important in woman’s world, for women who cannot get commitment are seen as lesser by their peers who can. Thus if she is incapable of achieving it, “she’s not a real woman.” This is the reason women who cannot secure commitment conceive children from one night stands, a woman can partly actualise her femininity by having a child. To be a mother lends a woman status, it makes her “more of a woman”, and so it is only through this lens of self-centred feminine egotism that any remote sense can be made of women consciously deciding to raise a child without its father. Examples are women like Genevive, Linda Ikeji, Rita Dominic This is but one example of the extremity a woman will go to in order to actualise an aspect of her femininity. 22 Likes 6 Shares |
| Romance › Re: The Red Truth by Dpsychologist(op): 6:55pm On Sep 14, 2020 |
A Woman’s Worth A man must as such be tactical in discerning a woman’s worth, for few are worth the compromise they all demand. Due to the debilitation of a woman’s pressing emotional wants, a relationship almost always serves her, while it is a riskier affair for man, for the likelihood he receives equal or greater benefit is improbable. A woman is often a burden posing as a partner, and many men are fooled, when in reality, she is almost always more dependant. The question that then naturally follows is “will she be enjoyable enough to be worth the burden she will impose?” sex can be and often is withdrawn without notice, and so a man cannot rely on either quality or quantity of sex as an indicator of womanly worth, and even were sex is certaint, such narrow scope in the evaluation of woman would lead to blunder in mate choice. Man must thus ask himself if the woman in question has a penchant for drama, and if she is interesting or merely fixated with relationships, social happenings and idle consumption. Generally speaking, the more substantive and less dramatic she is, the worthier and more enjoyable she is. A woman needs you more than you need her, never forget that—Dpsychologist 30 Likes 7 Shares |
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