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Ardar:
My argument not only hold water it also holds bricks and stones.

You can't compare the strength of that of a male to that of female. I used the adult-child example to show how people do see it.

It's a well known fact that men are more stronger than women, that's why most people won't find a woman abusing a man as life threatening except if she has a weapon and that's a fact.

Man and women are not equal when it comes to strength, same way a tiger and a man are not equal as well and there's nothing we can do about that.

Following your conclusion, then women should stop looking for gender equality, we are not thesame and nothing can be done about it.

So how will you have children?.

I just SMH when men say dump things

Ardar:
So that's the reason why life is unfair to men?

If a child is been assaulted or beaten up by an adult, people around will fight to defend the child.

But if a child was beating an adult, people around won't take it seriously

WHY?

Because the child can't do much damage because the adult is bigger and stronger.


You pride yourselves with being the stronger sex, then you'll have to take what comes with it.

There's nothing unfair about it.

If you observe closely you will see her commit a logical fallacy known as strawman fallacy.

Strawman fallacy is committed whenever one ignores the question/statement at hand and steers the argument to a different case and then makes effort to win the new argument. This is normally done to make the statement weaker than it actually is.

You are comparing a child-adult case with that of two grown adults. Your argument does not hold water.

JasperVII:
Dpsychologist

Bro, you just saw evidence what i having explaining on my thread.

Women are always favoured

Dpsychologist:

A woman can kill you and go scott free but if you just slap her, you will be suprised at the mob that will gather to defend her.

The question now is, why are females favoured than male?

The answer is because of male disposability and female privilege.

Good morning Redpillers lets continue shall we

Father of Pentecostalism in Nigeria?
Wow
Then he is a Legend

Ninejaywon:
You are doing well. � on.

Thanks bro

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ibkonekt:
the answer is way too evident, looks are extremely important to women. only a man in denial will think money supplements this

Very good.

I will leave you with this quote

Your outlook should be so good enough she will want to know about your inlook.

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Goodnight. Tomorrow we will continue with
AWALT
stay tuned...

Ninejaywon:
Hmm, the truths on this thread are too REAL and BLUNT. Like wadafork. I was shocked to even see thesis on SEXUAL ECONOMY. Women go soon smell their yansh.

Lol. I know there may be Doubting thomas so i had to show a scientific research.

4. Its about how you make her feel

There’s a lot of advice on attracting women out there. And what most of it misses is that attraction, seduction, intimacy, sex, whatever you want to call it — is an emotional process, not a physical or social one. You can say the “wrong” things and still attract a woman.

You can say all of the “right” things and repel her. What matters is the intention, the motivation, the authenticity. To improve your dating life, you must improve your emotional life — how you feel about yourself and others, how you express yourself to others, etc.

It’s not about learning lines or routines or dressing up a certain way such as peacocking. It’s about unmasking the unique and attractive man within yourself and joyfully expressing it to the women of the world.
That may sound vague, but it has very real repercussions on your interactions with women.

People choose who they’re going to be with based on how they feel around that person. For us men, it’s often quite simple. A beautiful woman makes us feel aroused, so we pursue sex with her. If we feel cared for, respected and admired by her, we pursue a relationship with her.

But women experience sexuality differently than we do, so it can be a bit more complicated and hard for us to decipher what makes them feel attracted to us. But the principle remains the same.

Women go with men who make them feel a certain way. There are a number of ways to elicit emotion in a woman, and the way in which you go about eliciting that emotion will determine the quality and quantity (or lack thereof) of the relationships you have with women.

What’s I’m saying is this: you’ll find a lot of varying advice out there on how to attract women — some will say to tease them, some will say to be selfish, be crude around them, some will say to buy them gifts, others will say to be cold and calculating — whichever of these avenues you choose to pursue with women, that is the corresponding relationship you’ll create.

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In many cases, many guys make the mistake of spending very little time addressing those 4 areas listed above. As a result, when they approach chicks, they’re really not bringing anything to the table.

They don’t look good. They don’t wear cool clothes, dressing like an uncle and your just 23years. As a result, they have a lack of perceived status. And they pretty much just spam approach chicks copying what they saw on YouTube. As a result, they give off a creepy vibe and girls perceive them as weird. So when it’s all said in done, they bring nothing to the table and are just another weird scrub. And this is proven by their lack of results with women.If you are this type of dude, then my advice to you would be to take a step back and truly asses where you are in those 4 key areas that I mentioned. If you are not satisfied with your dating life then I’m sure it’s because you simply are not maximizing your potential in one of those areas.

Example: If you are a 5’4” guy with little muscle mass who doesn’t dress well and goes out by himself spam approaching chicks doing the creepy stuff you saw some PUA doing on YouTube…. Girls will not respond well to this. Most girls will think you are weird and will want nothing to do with you because you bring nothing to the table. If you go out enough, there might be some extreme outlier that responds positively… but again, that’s an outlier.

You don’t want to base your game plan off of the hope of running into the outlier case. That’s another trap that pick-up students fall into. They see some guy or hear a story of some guy who’s got nothing going for him in life and is always tagging hot chicks. Yea that’s him… that’s not you. He found out what works for him. Instead of trying to skim and aspiring to be that one outlier case, you would be much better off just maximizing all of the stuff that attracts women… bring as much to the table as possible.


How to Improve Your Brand
If you look at getting girls as a business, then the way you improve you dating life is by improving your business and the brand that you offer. But that goes for life in general. That’s why self-improvement is so important. You should always be working on yourself for you. Improving every aspect of life for your own happiness. An extra incentive would be the fact that you are making yourself more attractive to women.

Improve your looks by going to the gym, eating right, and getting good sleep. Improve your personality by surrounding yourself with friends and family. Just always do your best to be in the company of other people and avoid isolation/confinement in your house.

Work on your career and get your money right. Status (or perceived status) comes naturally by working on those first 3 things. No girl really knows what your status is in society. But if you build yourself up to eventually being jacked, handsome, well-dressed, and someone who people like to be around… You will be perceived as someone who is strong and masculine, which is highly valued amongst women.

Law 3: Getting Girls is a BUSINESS

It’s that simple. Getting girls is a business. The question is what do you bring to the table? Seriously, what do you bring to the table that will make a hot chick give you the time of day? A beautiful girl has A LOT OF OPTIONS. Why should you be #1?
It’s important to be aware of this question because this will force you to be honest with yourself. Recognize your strengths. Highlight those. Recognize your weaknesses. Work on those.
You should always strive to be the best person you can be.
In all aspects of life, give 100% and do your best. That’s what will help you out a lot in your path to happiness. And that is what will help you reach your full potential in your dating life.
I won’t get too much into detail here but just hear me out. If you have the experience and/or pay attention to how people interact you will realize that women care about these things:

1. Looks

2. Personality

3. Financial Situation

4. Status (or perceived status)

These aren’t in any particular order. But those are the Big 4 in my experience.

You could do whatever you want with your dating life. Conversely, if you are severely lacking in all 4 of those areas then for the most part, you are going to have a very difficult time getting the girls you want (or any girls for that matter).

Your looks —your grooming, body posture, body shape how you dress— are an important factor on the mating market, and so is your access to financial resources or popularity.
They all greatly affect how much success with women you have. Or have you ever heard of a famous Hollywood actor such as brad pitt having problems with ladies. Infact after Angelina jolie broke up with brad pitt, he started getting laid with a lot of ladies.

However, even if you were the richest man in the world, you could still not get any woman you desired. It essentially remains a numbers’ game, even for womanizers such as Tiger Woods or Michael Jordan .



Quick Dose:
Once you improve your looks, you are half way home. A
Quick Dose

Your outlook should be so good enough she will want to know about your inlook.

How to Become Stronger/More Masculine
This is also a matter of placing self-imposed evolutionary pressure upon yourself. This is dictated by the activities you participate in and your habits. Here are some that come to mind from my own experience… a “Do” list and an “Avoid” list.

Do: Lift weights , take cold showers, listen to heavy metal/rock/rap, get manual labor experience, learn how to use tools, learn , take full responsibility for every aspect of your life, eat steak/eggs and other manly foods, dress like a man, have other cool friends that you can relate to, get out of the house, regard women as just another part of life, keep it simple, identify problems and solve them.

Avoid: Isolation from people, a sedentary lifestyle, Internet pornography, girlie techno/pop music, unnecessary video games, hours watching television, loser friends, eating kid foods such as cereal and macaroni, staying under mommy and daddy’s wing past the appropriate age, dressing feminine, wasting time on social media, making women your #1 priority, seeing problems and then trying to rely upon theory/extreme logic to solve them.

Law 2: A strong masculine man is (and always will be) the GOLDEN STANDARD

This is 100 % true and you need to realize this. By nature, women are programmed to be feminine and submissive. Men are programmed to be masculine and dominant. End of story.

The problem is that the quality of the average dude has gone down significantly over the past 50 years. The truly strong masculine man, in general, is a dying breed. Men are becoming more feminine.

Let me give you an example of an average 30 year old in the past versus the present.

30 Year-Old Dude Today : It is a very real possibility that he still relies on his parents for help. *** There are some legitimate exceptions where he might feel obligated to remain at home to take care of a family member.

There’s a very real chance he still lives at home. He tells himself that he’s just living at home to save money but he knows deep down that he prefers the comforts of home because there is a certain security in knowing that mommy and daddy are around. He’s got no backbone and even less work ethic. He has little to no knowledge on how to use tools. He can’t cook. He does not know to dress well .

He doesn’t take care of himself, has soft facial features, and has a soft, almost girly voice. He doesn’t have extensive knowledge on the basic stuff a real man should know. He browses Internet forums and thinks that he gains knowledge from this but in reality he is a master of nothing. What he knows is video games, Internet porn, television/movies, and Facebook. He is still very much a kid. He might work a job and be able to support himself but he’s not experiencing the world for himself. He is soft. He has yet to truly leave the nest and survive on his own. He is not strong. He is not masculine.

My point in that little comparison is that masculinity and strength are dying qualities in men today. This is problematic from a dating perspective because these are the 2 most important qualities for a man:

MASCULINITY & STRENGTH
These are the 2 most important features to keep in mind. Women are most attracted to strength and masculinity. What do women want? Well, from a materialistic standpoint, that’s easy… they want more of everything. But as far as traits in a man, they want a man who is strong and masculine.

You can study every PUA forum, theory on game, and pickup tactic out there… it won’t make a difference.
If STRENGTH AND MASCULINITY do not stand out in your vibe, then you are at a disadvantage.

My way of doing things is simple. The only way to do things is the right way. That means doing things 100 %. Strength and masculinity are the 2 most attractive qualities in a man. So, if you are trying to get better results with women, wouldn’t you want to maximize them? Plain old common sense.

You want to give yourself the best chance to win at this game? The way you do this is by constantly improving yourself and moving toward strength and masculinity. That’s what women respond to. For the average, non-celebrity guy, the stronger and more masculine you are, the more attractive you are to women. That’s the golden standard.

How to get good with people
Well, the one thing I can assure you is that it will be a process. You won’t become good with people over night or over the course of a weekend.

The ideal situation is what I experienced. I was raised and encouraged to always be around people and be friendly/outgoing toward them. That’s what you have to do. You have to learn to become friendly and outgoing toward people.

You have to put the evolutionary pressure on yourself and condition yourself to recognize the good in people and learn to truly love being in the company of other people. Do everything you can to get out of the house and spend as little time in front of a computer/on the Internet as you can.

Law 1: Master people before you master women

The typical guy who studies pick-up on Internet forums is not good with people. In many cases, a lot of them have severe anxiety issues. They are very much SOCIALLY UNCOORDINATED.

In addition, they also fall into the new-school mindset of instant gratification and the “I want it now” game plan. This problem never occurs to them or they just don’t want to acknowledge it.

They just want to get good with girls as fast as possible, without establishing that necessary foundation of being good with people in general. I’ll tell you this and hopefully it will save you a lot of time and get rid of any confusion you may have.

You cannot become good with women without first becoming good with people in general, that’s means having the ability to have normal conversations with both guys and girls. It also means having a cool personality that people want to be in the company of.

There is no such thing as skimming on this important foundation of being generally good with people… being a people person. If you don’t have a lot of money or aren’t famous, then you cannot ignore the importance of establishing this foundation. If you want to get good with women, you have to become a people person.

A people person is someone who can easily relate to people and establish a solid connection with ease. That word “connection” is very important… it’s what chicks talk about all the time. They go on a date, they either “feel a connection” or they don’t. Well, how do you get good at establishing a solid man to woman connection? You first have to become naturally good at establishing a solid person to person connection.

The general level of social coordination (people skills) amongst young men today is very watered down compared to young men in the 1970s and 1980s.

The Internet, television, social media, video games, online pornography… all of these have had an overall negative effect on guys’ ability to relate with other people.

Today, it has gotten to the point where you can never leave the house and still have all the entertainment you could ever need. Back in the day it wasn’t like that, you had to get out of the house and spend time with people if you wanted to have fun.

It’s very important especially for you newer guys to realize this. It is impossible to truly become good with women without having that foundation of being good with all people in general. It just does not work like that.

MrGrimm:
Amazing, this is the truth. She wants a relationship but not with you, because your not desirable to her. Lots of women do this and the funny thing is they don't train to do or say these things it's already inside them. This is good stuff, man.

As you keep going deeper into the Redpill you will come to the conclusion that women are not that mysterious as they claim.

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