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Hello guys...I was going through my facebook page, and I saw a photo by a secondary school girl...only to click on it and see the post of her father saying "looking good dear"...Now the question is, is it right to allow your child take his/her phone to school?

carefreewannabe: Even if I was a billionaire, I would want my kids to have the BEST education possible. They would only inherit on this condition. I want my kids to be intellectuals, there are too many retarded people everywhere.

Hmmmm...some mom!

Tallesty1: I think Getting education will make him do better.

True though...I'm waiting for the comments of our igbo brothers that love their biznaez so much I think their opinion would be different

cococandy: I would.
But I won't streamline or control them
Or try to manipulate them into doing what I want and not what they want.

Hmm okay...hope we all make the correct decisions if something of this sort comes up in the future

Efemenaxy1: On the contrary, it does answer your question.

To run such technologically advanced businesses, you do need to have some insight into how it really works (both business and technology), so it's obvious a sound education is non-negotiable.

Wow...big point there, thanks for the contribution

Efemenaxy1: Now which are you? The dad or the son?

Don't deny it!

Lol...Neither of the two, it's been on my mind

cococandy: What about what the child wants?
Or is freedom of choice alien to the father?

wouldn't you wanna leave something for your kids?

Efemenaxy1: Then this sort of answers your original question, doesn't it?

it doesn't...the question is would you allow your child go to school in order to handle your very successful business when you can train him to handle your business

cococandy: Who says getting an education will stop him from handling the business?
It makes it all better even

what if the father feels that going to school might make him have interest in something else contrary to what the father would want?

AdeniyiA: confirmed ritual killing biz

Nah...check my other post, some businesses bring millions in a day...

Efemenaxy1: What sort of "business" brings in millions daily?

A lot...the father could be the owner of a telecoms company, or a building materials company, or the owner of a oil and gas services company...these ones I know of

Assuming you have a very successful business that brings in millions everyday...would you want your child to have formal education or would you just teach him how to handle your business in the future seeing that the business can take care of the child and his future family? Your opinions please...

Hmmmm Me I cannor talk this one oh!

TrYcIa1: Wen u finish,just pass d cain to me

Looool...Funny you..

endy231: i tried the number 3 option in Ibadan, the woman almost slapped me, but i got what i wanted, a really good price

Lol...Happy you applied the techniques!

Meeeeeeeeeeehhn! Konji on a new level yeah

Lol...As a fine boy people used to say, "Don't worry when you gt into school, girls will even come to your room naked and ask you "Do you like what you see?""

i think say i go see one picture sef...not a single tin! Berem pls hand me that cain...op lie down!

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Emeca: U can do a better job with organizing the write-up. It doesnt look interesting as it is.

Thank you sir, I will take your observation into consideration and come up with something better

1k001: Yes. Often employers ask you what your salary expectation is. This way they don't offer you more than you are willing to work for.

Your response should be i'm open to any offers.

You of course need to have done your home work on the market rate for the skills your offering. The employer would have done his and will likely offer you below market rate. They want you to speak first to see if you have done your homework. I know in some cases employers that won't offer a job because the potential employee has priced their skill to low.

wow this is insightful!

kekakuz: nice practice
saw some of my tactice in there.

I don't ever tell a seller my buying price twice. so I ask them what is the last price.when they ask how much do I want to pay I still wount talk.when they finally break and tell me their last price,that's when I give my price.

lol sly guy..joking tho...but u go strict o

mumumugu: Never negotiate with armed robbers and doctors

lol whats ur reason?

Philipsdael: Nice job OP.

thanks mehn

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egift: According to the OP, if you do not know the price that is obtainable elsewhere, then you don't have any reason trying to tell the Seller what it is sold elsewhere.

ookay...cool i get u nw..btw im the op

egift: OP: Enter Super Market, price the items and tell us how far. If you know where to get the same items or services cheaper, why go through the trouble of going to where the sell it costly and be negotiating for reduction? At the end of the day, it will come off as if the did you a favour, for what you paid for with your hard earned money.

so what iif u dnt knw where to get it cheaper and besides the person might be scared of buying a fakee product

The idea of negotiating can be intimidating. As consumers, we have been
trained to pay the price marked on goods or services without question. If we
feel the price is too high, we abandon the sale and look for cheaper options.
It’s an option that seems to work for us. But it could work better. We don’t
always realize we have the option to negotiate a lower price. To get the
lowest
price out of a transaction, you need to follow some rules that aren’t always
easy.
Rules of Successful Negotiation
1. Do Your Homework
You need to know some important things about the service or product you
want to buy before you begin negotiations:
How Much Do Competitors Charge? If you can tell the seller you know the
item is available for a lower price, it puts a lot of pressure on them to lower
their offer. Furthermore, it lets you know that you don’t have to accept
the seller’s offer. You can walk away from negotiations and still get what
you want.
What Is the Cost to Your Seller? It’s useful to know the margin between the
seller’s costs and asking price, especially when buying a new car . Research
the invoice price that new car dealers pay the manufacturer – then you
know the absolute lowest that they can go and still turn a profit.
Is the Seller Facing a Deadline? If a seller has to get rid of a product
before a deadline, they are more motivated to sell at a lower price. Making
money on the deal may not be the most important goal when a deadline is
involved, as the consequences of waiting too long could be costly. Home sellers
often have a deadline, as they may need to sell their property by a deadline
so they can purchase another for which they are under contract.
Why Is Your Seller Selling? You don’t always buy from a business –
sometimes you negotiate with sellers who aren’t even most concerned about
making money. For example, someone who is moving may be willing to accept
a very low offer for a large piece of furniture, just to be rid of it. Knowing
why an item is for sale can give you an idea of how much money you need to
pay.
2. Make the Other Side Name a Price First
By allowing the other side to name its price first, you may get a chance to
counter with a number that is lower than what you would have offered
initially – even if you do relinquish the opportunity to set the “price anchor,”
which is the starting price point from which it can be hard to move. Of
course, the initial price named by the seller may anchor you at a higher
price,
and this is where doing your homework can help. By knowing the competing
prices, you may be able to significantly lower your anchor before
negotiations
start.
Michael Soon Lee, president of EthnoConnect and author of “Black Belt
Negotiating,” is adamant about this point. He says naming a price first
limits
how low you can go in negotiations – even if you’re trying to establish a low
anchor. After that, every counteroffer will be higher.
Lee states that you shouldn’t ever name a price. Once you do, the seller could
agree to it and end negotiations – and it’s possible that the seller would
have
been willing to go lower.
3. Don’t Be Reasonable
The classic model of negotiation is that two parties offer different prices,
eventually settling somewhere in the middle. Lee rejects that because the
middle is too high of a price.
If you are going to make the first offer or name a price in a counteroffer,
make it ridiculously low. Not only does it set the price anchor very low, but it
puts the seller on the defensive. If they have a negotiating plan, it’s unlikely
they will follow it after a ridiculous offer. They instead focus on getting a
price higher than what you offer, and not what they want. The end result is
a much lower price than what is considered reasonable.
This can be difficult advice to follow, as you may be afraid of being
considered a jerk. Many sellers know that ridiculous offers are part of the
negotiating process and are very unlikely to refuse to make the sale. Instead,
they’re going to counter.
Furthermore, studies show that when faced with a ridiculous offer or
counteroffer, a negotiator gains satisfaction from getting concessions from
the other party. Therefore, if you offer $1,000 for that high-mileage used
car in need of a brake job, the seller will feel like they won something by
convincing you to buy it for $1,200 – even if it was worth more money than
that.
It’s up to you to decide what is more important. Do you want to be liked, or
do
you want to save a lot of money? Remember, the two options aren’t
necessarily mutually exclusive. You may not be judged as harshly as you think,
and paying a reasonable price doesn’t really make you more likeable.
4. Know the Limit
You need to gauge what is important to the seller. If they need to make a
certain amount of money, they’re not going to budge. While you’re not
trying
to be reasonable, you need to let the seller walk away feeling they got
something out of the deal.
As mentioned before, knowing a car dealer’s invoice price is powerful
information. You know the truth when a dealer counters your offer with “I
can’t go any lower.” Of course, while offering an extremely low price may
work as an anchoring tactic, be prepared to settle for a price that allows
the
seller to make money.
5. Be Quiet
Silence between two people can be uncomfortable, and you can use that to
your advantage after someone names a price. Instead of responding, look
thoughtful without saying anything. This makes the seller fill the silence, and
often, he or she will try to justify the offer. Let them keep talking and feel
insecure. If you need to fill the silence, express hesitation about paying their
price.
6. Ask for Extras
This is an important tactic to employ when you feel like you’re not getting
anywhere. Maybe you can get accessories included with the purchase, or
perhaps the seller will be willing to include some other low-cost items to make
a sale on a large-margin item. For instance, cell phone providers make their
money on long-term contracts. To motivate you, they may be willing to supply
extras, such as phone cases or car chargers.
When the seller agrees to your target price, as it may be the lowest they can
go, it’s time for you to see what else you can get for that price.
7. Walk Away
This is perhaps the most powerful tactic you have. In this economy, very few
businesses can afford to lose a sale, and are afraid to let someone walk
away
without making a purchase. Above all, this gives you the upper hand in the
negotiations.
Sometimes, just heading for the door or verbally ending negotiations is
enough
to motivate a lower offer. Even if you walk out the door, the seller may
bring
you back in or call you if you leave contact information. It’s an extreme
tactic, but it can work.
However, the problem is that once you walk away, it is very difficult to go
back. If the seller has a unique product and you have no other options, you
can’t go to someone else. If you return after walking away, the power shifts
to the seller. They will know you’re motivated to buy from them, and they
don’t need to make any major concessions. Therefore, only utilize this tactic
if
you are willing to simply not make the purchase.
Final Word
Remember, it’s important to avoid trying to negotiate when you are faced
with a deadline, as deadlines can motivate you to make concessions on price.
So
don’t wait until the last minute to start searching for a new car, a house,
or
any other negotiable item you need in the foreseeable future. A tight
deadline can eliminate your opportunity to negotiate the lowest price, so give
yourself plenty of time to shop around and play hardball with the seller.
Are you comfortable making aggressive offers when negotiating? http://
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