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nike,

Is very interesting. I would say that depends on the age difference. if he is about 10 years older, compared to ur age (14), he is deemed to make the mistake of shunning ur relationship maybe in the next 4 yrs when the heat of adolescency has gotten riden over him. It takes the grace of God for the success of such relationship.

I am saying this on the basis of ur age (14). I know the guy might be 24 or anything close to that as the age difference might mean. Girls who have that age advantage
are pple who already have got close to 23 when such "love" struck on them....>>>
Ok, check out this match and understand: G23-35. How do u see it? Cool. The guy at that age has swimmed through the wave of adolescency and is planning to settle with someone.

I am not discouraging you but only suggesting that, in such relationship, don't commit urself so that when such thing starts happening, u don't feel like committing suicide.okay?

Hope to hear more from u

Fellow Nairaland Users,

Please, Can one marry a younger sister to a girl you have been befriending for years 'because she is younger and can suite the marrital conditions. Note: the girlfriend is as old as you are. Not only that, is obvious to her you people can not match if she is to marry at a young and better age.

On the other side, the younger sister loves you but is only restricted by the relationship already existing b/w the sister and you.

Now, is there the posibility of marrying the younger one, seeing the advantage you have as someone in your age match? Or is it a taboo for marriage of such.

NOTE: You people were only boyfriend and girlfriend, no promises for engagement.

Is it possible?

Well Seun, I will disagree ur first comment based on the fact that once you are tied to be one body, u can never disintegrate again unless "death puts u apart". It is evident since a body can not be split and still remain alive.

I think this must be the reason why singles are asked to pray for God to provide them better halfs(halves).

I will therefore attribute carelessness to such victims.

Once you are a victim, ask God for forgiveness and have faith that God who makes imposibilities posibilities will make the impotent potent. (TRUE).

Seun, I will need your admission to this.

Yea, I concur on these grounds.

There are much comodities in the market but only few can buy them. Then, u know there is virtually going to be competition among them inorder to be bought.
If you are a girl and doesn't know how to claim "AJIBO" despite your zoo name and the jungle u come from, my dear, u are meant to even expire in this type of market.

What of all these under 25 playing under teenage. Ask them there age, "I am 16" We don't blame actually 'cos they are really in a serious market.

My dear, they are all like lawyers who need lies to gatecrash name and wealth. So, I strongly support them since they are disposed to lying.

Lie ahead my babies.

solo2, u've really been a great help to me for raising this issue 'cos that's exactly what I'm experiencing presently.

Like u guys and babes said, I am living them in their way since they both have turned to love themselves. I have learnt never to fight in after the battle has been won. I mean, maybe, they are in love, u can never cut a bundle of sticks but can do it easily when single.

Is still a surprise that a fellow guy that has always helped to settle misunderstandings between my girlfriend and I, have turned to be a skeleton hidden in a cupboard.

I need more reply to this fellow guys and babes.

Please Nigerian guys and babes, I am a victim.

My babe who does as if she will die if I leave her, went into a relationship with another guy though still in secret. Not only that, she slept with him only in two days of meeting. How can she had been so cheap? I heard that from the most reliable source who saw that happening though we've not let her known what has happened.

What should I do to make her feel the pains just as I am feeling right now. Should I still continue with such relationship?

I will answer your question by asking about the morality of the area the child lives. In some parts of the world, kissing is not a sin, others, it is a crime. So, boy dating a girl in some areas is a part of life while in some areas is a crime.
For me, I don't take it for a sin because, I see it as part of socialization.