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Any of the three mentioned will do no good to this country.
Let's think of someone like Orji Uzor Kalu

Let him stop pushing his God to the wall. God wants hard-work so, he cannot sit at one place and start expecting God to put him on the presidential seat.

Besides, if he is so worldly to riding a N30million-worth hummer jeep when a Landcruiser jeep of 6million can serve thesame purpose, then, he can loot Nigerian Oil money into bulding Castles and businesses at home and abroad.

Open eyes.

If I see something in you, I back you up but, if you are coming to rule like IBB and Co, that'll be the begining of your failure.
Gudluck shaaa

The solution is prayers. Let God put a hinderance in the way of those that will create the violence.

@Allenpower, I don't care whether he is too young to be a president, but, what I am after is someone who can restore the image of this country, who can make Nigeria a better place, who knows how much the people of this country are suffering, therefore is coming to alleviate the plight in this country.
If Orji Uzor, can give us all we want, I'll be okay with him.
I know he is capable of working things out for this country, if considered from the impact he has created in Abia State. So let's ride in support for him.

In my own opinion, very many of men want sex as women also do. It doesn't mean all they want is sex.

Men are authorized as the Bible says.
If looked through biblical aspect, it was from a man's rib that a woman was made, so, woman can never be independent as they will keep depending on man to stand.
Trying to do otherwise, i.e. turning out becoming the head instead of man can lead to the consequences incurred by Lucifer on trying to overthrow God

From another aspect, We men know what we pass through to approach a woman for marriage apart from some other rites we perform. If you gals can start doing those things; asking our (man's) hand in marriage, paying bride price, then, we can consider your reasonings.

Pls, I don't really understand what u mean by "domineering"'cos u are confusing me with "heading". This is 'cos I see differences b/w domineering and heading in that context. Domineering if really what u mean, in my own view, is not good if men do that. U women have freedom to speeches, rights, worship as LAW clears, so nobody has right to ride on your fundermental human right in the name of husband or whatever. But, in a truelove-relationship, "right" shouldn't be a even the least factor in it. >>>>>>>Bible says; be subject to your husband (Eph. 6).

Plssssssss, do not attempt becoming heads as such might bring chaos, conflict in your family.

Really, the two have to be careful, but, that doesn't mean they should cut the relationship 'coz if they are meant to marry each other, things are going to work out for them.

I don't question the possibility of any thing 'coz one's destiny lies on two hands: him and God.

Pintos, u need to follow it lightly even when it seems you pple are having problems somewhere, maybe because of distance, as whatever is meant for someone will fall back on his track no matter how long it has tarried.>>>>>One's destiny can be delayed but can never be denied

That's all good. Ok, this is my own pick-up line:
Hey, your are cute, if you had been tomtom (sweet), I would have licked you up.

You people should leave the girl alone to justify herself. After all these prohibitions were made by men (culture); maybe, she might soon make it a culture marrying cousins and close relatives.

I beleive it'll soon come into existence if taken seriously.Afterall, I can remember bathing openly when I was 8yrs but, do it now. An 8yrs chick has boy/girl friend not to talk of knowing he/she is naked.

God help us.

Man, you are really in serious fix.

Anyway, I'll advice you to learn her very well, knowing what she likes and dislikes personally. If dancing madly can make her dislike it you, do it. If laughing stupidly, do it; etc. Note that all these actions should look involuntary.

Do not sleep with her for such smokes can never be hidden.

Problem with Super Eagles  if u can give an intensive look into it is unseriousness. An average coach with the super eagles can make the best with the quality of players we have. This takes us into knowing that a Nigerian feel he is doing every thing in life only to make money unlike other countries like America, Britain, Brazil where their major purpose in life is to be useful to the country.

Knowing what our purpose in life is (as it can be proved, making dough), how can u expect already established players  "SUPER EAGLES" that individually is as rich as a state in Nigeria to start working for a "should-be employee" to him? Nigeria can never give them enough incentive to make them play hard 'cos it might cause it (Nigeria)  another 3yrs loan from IMF to satisfy the "expensive" players.

We can give a second thought on why our "locally" players here in nigeria are doing best in the world; excerpt: Flying Eagles, Enyimba. This is nothing than they have not tasted that fruit (God warned against in Adam and Eve) pounds. So, they can be impressed at the mention of 100s of thousands of our naira(nairaland, bless u) and in trying to claim it, they play zealously. That's even why I feel sad when I see some of our blessed local players bought to play in foreign clubs. I wouldn't pray for it but I foresee Mikel Obi likely to start messing up after LIVERPOOLS starts feeding him it that evil fruit (money). I am not saying is not good to make money but if it'll deprive you of your wonderful talents for your country, is not helpful.

What am saying is that the work of TROUSSIER has to start from preaching to the players, telling them that the love of money is always the beginning of failure in  any ambition. He should also have what it takes to discipline a player 'cos Nigerian players lack discipline. This is not a matter of trying to please or compromise maybe inorder to be liked by the players, then, alas, u'll mess up withour country.

All these tactics-teaching i.e. formations can then come after all these players have been well disciplined. U cannot teach  somebody from far from u, it is when they are close to u that u can put into them  whatever talents u have. CHUKWU tried it and it landed him into football exile. I believe he (CHUKWU) had all it takes to make it but, due to the indisciplinary trait in our players, CHUKWU never sat with them and plan for them.

If our TROUSSIER has been appointed, I feel it will be helpful, maybe, our players might have the fear of whitemen

You've made it clear . Thanks be God

Hot Angel, it was a really a wonderful lecture.
I feel it is very natural for the existence of such relationship otherwise, what would have been infactuating among animals after we human beings know they have no sense in them yet, you'll see them courting, is beyond moral control. I believe God made it that way.

will the elder on hates the younger as if she can marry a man at her age?

what actually can be the source of that hatred.

then I suggest I give u my number so that u always place on the call

Is really painful men, everybody should start counting his/her miles while he/she runs 'cos this is no more time for counting miles after race.

On sat., my best friend that i saw the day prior (Friday), going for picnic that friday was drowned in the sea.

It has been hard on me since then. I can't overcome the pains 'cos he is too good, popular and would keep u on fun constantly in the next day. In fact, he won Mr. Popular in MOUAU Umudike. He is gone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Imagine men, the battle in the sea for survival, at his death.

Coming back to Nigeria is like making an Ostrich hide. No place dey safe ooooooooo. the world is turning out to something else oooooooooooooooooooo 'cos I can remember in those when death was to me like tales and legends, now, is happening.

My fellow ppl in London, make una confide in God. He is ur refuge.

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Re: Why is it so hard to let go?
« Reply #2 on: June 06, 2005, 06:01 PM »

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The logic is this: if you don't drop the smelly rat you're holding, how are you going to receive the rose held out to you?

We've all been there and done that... it looks like the sun will never shine again, the dumb guy knows it and as most guys will, capitalises on it. It's called the fear of the unknown.

Maybe if your girl realises that this has been happening since the days of the Apes and that the situation is not peculiar to her or there's no such thing as ‘you guys don't understand'', she'll drop him like hot embers. There's nothing so complex in a situation where some nitwit wants you out of his life for reasons best known to him and he has no morals to go about it the right way.

She's 10 times better off without him. Quote me to her!

If she badly needs someone to give her a verbal shaking, let me know and I'll be too happy to send her my number or e-mail address, whichever suits her better."






Pls Ra, how can someone leave her without creating any pain in her, I mean, leaving her in the most mannered way? I still believe the guy must have good reasons for such act, maybe catching her with another guy which had caused her bluffs on him.

Well,

I'm suggesting my own opinion based from the statistics got from this "Is everybody in love blind" forum.

My dear pple, love is blind unless u guys and babes are talking of lust.

I mean in lust issue, u'll get ur sight as soon as u've got the share (Is blind not meant to be terminal). Am i lying?

Anyway, If yours is not so, I doubt u.

Maybe, we need to get it straight , LOVE OR LUST (All are in umbrella of love).

Yea, I catch your yans, my pple.
I feel in the success of such plan, the relationship existing b/w u and the elder one has to be terminated to avoid late preparation. I mean, for hunt of the younger one in right time.
What do u say?