gracetie: I am 25 years old and my husband is 32. We have two kids together. our sex life was perfect until after our first baby. My husband doesnt touch me anymore. I always have to initiate sex each time im in dare need of it. He has the problem of weak erection and premature ejaculation too.on one occasion I mentioned to him that we really need to see a doctor he said "are you now saying im not a man again"
I said "'no babe you are a man but in the last 6months we've had sex only once and you didnt last up to a minute, there s no need to blame anyone lets just see a doctor. He cut out the idea and we have been staying like that. I give him good and healthy meals. I dress sexy in the house. I doubt if he s cheating cos i have access to his phone and we are always together. he doesnt keep late nights and doesnts answer starnge calls. I think its a health issue but his ego wont allow him sort out issues.
I have reminded him many times that i am only 25 and he married me a virgin. How can i proudly say that in 5 years of married we have had sex not more than 10 times and lucky two of the times resulted in pregnancies. Please advice on what I should do. I am soo tempted to cheat and satisfy myself. But I love my husband. I wish our sex life can go back to what it used to be.
bloody liar! I believe you cooked-up the whole story. No Nigerian/African woman will ever voice out on issues like this, Not even under anonymity.
Nigerian/African women don't have issues with sexxx, because a large percentage of them have been genitally mutilated at childhood to suppress sexual urges/satisfaction/enjoyment. so sex means nothing to them as majority of them are like log of woods on bed.
So what the heck are you talking about? I suspect you are even a male disguising as a Female on NL. Pls look for a realistic story to tell next time.
You can't imagine it because you have probably activated it.
Sexxx can be very addictive, just like doing drugs and other things that come with some form of extreme rewards. Once that part of your brain has been activated, a continuous loop is formed. And your brain will constantly remind you of the "reward"
It's very rare or impossible to find someone that has experienced any form of intimacy before to revert to celibacy or "Rev father/nun" if such happens then it will be extremely difficult for that person to cope.
Reader1988: You are right. It is d same screen shot on Nairaland, WhatsApp groups and even on 2go but I read on Vanguard where FG claimed to start paying it
Yes, people are also using the same screenshot on facebk
Hey this Lady, it seems you are the only one that has received the stipend on NL, you are all over the place! You also made FP, parading your screenshot. I read the news and i can remember this moniker. I'm beginning to suspect that the alert/screenshot was doctored, because nobody has corroborated your claims so far.
I watched the video, and all i can say is that it's extremely disgusting., and it's a show of shame by the so-called prophetess.
Anyway, we are in the end times and there so many fake prophets, Pastors.... Parading themselves as true men of God. Christians beware! The time is at hand!
dovelike: What in the world would make her thing that her life worths nothing? They way I value and lovvve my life eh
Don't say that, this world is an unfair, cruel and mean place. Let's just pray we don't experience the extremely bad side of life.
Alot of things can make one contemplate suicide during the course of his/her life, without proper counseling such as rejection, terminal illnesses, prolonged/repeated frustration or failure, poverty etc. that lady must have experienced one of the aforementioned.
So don't say she doesn't value her life, everyone values his/her life. The extreme pain/frustration attached to the transition between life and death is enough to scare anyone away from committing suicide. And that is what is still keeping alot of people alive.
chieveboy: Hm! Laboratory apparatus where invented to measure...they are only good to very limited extent...Consciousness resides neither in the brain nor even on the Mind, It's reside in Soul! When we talk of Soul, science and reality or fact have to part ways (but of course). In your body, three things are involved: Soul, Mind and Body.In the physical body, Soul expresses consciousness in this order: Soul>Mind (mental state)>Causal body>Emotional body>physical body.Note this: The body and the brain is actually a replica of the Emotional body (Aka Astral body) and it Principles.When one dies, he retains all his knowledge and abilities...it's the same thing that plays when you drop from a flight or a swing and you still get the feeling of swinging! That's almost how dead people feel, they retain theexperience and think they could touch a living person and tell them they are fine...nothing happens--no physical body!Infact they tend to get smarter than before cos ignorance is mostly brought about by the physical body--the limited 5 senses
These are all assumptions, and are not verifiable. It's just one of those fabricated hypothesis due to man's quest for immortality.
Your response to the second question regarding bodies was all mumbo-jumbo and based on "them-say"
What should come to your attention is that most things being thought are not factual especially the 'demon' myth.
Actually a 'demon' is for instance your brother, friend etc who died (translated) but feels they still have unfinished business on earth, this could be deep crave for sex, attachment to a wife or husband, money etc. The 'discarnate entity' hangs around places to find a body to use...and be used!
If you find your self 'out there' you will see that there is no such thing as 'Demon', just some folks who couldn't 'pass through' to the proper place, they hang around just above the physical world.
PS: since everything must have a name, it is justifiable to call these entities "demons". But it's important to know the intricacies of what made them what they are...as in, God didn't set out to create some beings known as demons.
Some questions on Those "discarnate entities" hanging around, looking for bodies to use.
1. It means those entities still posses some form of intelligence and consciousness. How is that possible? Biologically we know the brain is the center of consciousness and intelligence so how does those two persist after death?
[b]2.how do they get bodies?[/b]Every adult knows how bodies(individuals) emerge /introduced into this world and each body/individual has a unique identity. So how do they get bodies?
It makes perfect sense to go with what the Bible says in Ecc 9:5 "for the dead know not anything" this is also consistent with modern science
fairlyusedbra: My uncle girlfriend brother niece aunty friend was at the cross over night today, so when it was 12 midnight she jumped up and shouted happy new year, what we saw was shocking, immediately she jumped up, her bra fell down but when we tried to look further we discovered that she wore another bra, two bra's asin two bra's, so we did not see anything, even though we were disappointed, we did not give up sha, so we later did the final praise and worship and some hot prayers and thats all...
All your topics are similar, it seems you are still an adolescent. my friend this is a new year., You need Jesus
Don't be decieved, her Buttt is not as big as the way she parades it on her IG page. She is a bloody photoshop abuser. Those pictures you see have been photo-shopped. she use to upload some short video clips on her IG page before she became a chronic photoshop abuser. And she has Featured in some music videos (in her country:- ivory cost)
The real size is not as big as what you are seeing, it's just the average size you will find on any well endowed African woman. Even here in Nigeria i have seen a lady's own that is way more bigger than hers. Even in her videos, it looks hard/stiff suggesting that it might have been augmented (implants)
Bigii: I registered with two differents emails due to the epileptic wesite during the application and both were selected. i'm confused please is it possible to update both accounts with my bank details or i leave one
please, your advice is needed.
You can only make use of one account., if you update both, you will be automatically disqualified. Your BVN will screen you out.
Polyestar: Where are those feminists yelling "Perverts!" when the same punishment for fowl theft was meted to a girl? They won't speak out now? Hypocrites!
Don't mind those annoying feminists! As if it's only done to women. You won't see them on this thread
pashiano: Plz.am stil a virgin but whenever i romance a girl or get sexually excited.i usually feel this hooking pain below my stomach.i have asked a friend and he said that i need to release sperm.
plz guys,is that true?
Don't let anybody deceive you, medically there is nothing of such. I laugh when I read stuffs Like this or when i hear young men complain of excess and the need to release. The body knows how to regulate it's production. The rate of production is dependent on how often the man makes use of it. Excess/unused spermm is usually absorbed by the body and some released during wet dreams. So there is nothing like "hooking you below the abdomen." ......
What you are likely experiencing is a full bladder, but due to your excitement @the moment, and as a virgin, you can easily misinterpret the feeling. Don't let anybody deceive you into having premarital sex
rokiatu: Why broadcast it? This sh..I.t is getting annoying.
everything is not about hating. Da f..u is wrong with ya all?[/s]Everyone is not a hater. Yes he's doing good but as for me I do good for the sake of it and only between me and the Lord. I need no public approval or praises.
The most common/popular answer people (mostly men)give to this question is "so that she doesn't look cheap" but the real reason is deeper than that and it's not about not being cheap.
Women themselves don't know why they act that way, because the reason is deeply buried in their subconscious, now let's look at nature and delve a little into the female physcology.
As far as nature is concerned, the primary aim for physical attractions/relationships between the sexes is reproduction/continuity of the species. Now there must be a way to regulate mating, thus control population, and women/the female species have been selected/wired for this(N.B the idea of contraceptives and other methods are man made) This is evident practically and even biologically, we know women have low testosterone secretion, thus low libido when compared with men, although there are exceptions for nymphomaniacss but they are rare types of women.
In most, if not all cases, it's women that determines whether sexxx takes place or not. It's not only in humans but living things generally, it's the females that decide. Let's look at practical examples. We have all seen how the Cock chases the Hen in attempt to mate with her, also the He-goats, etc most times their chase is futile as the females won't agree easily and always seem not to be interested. The same applies to humans
So, regardless of whether a woman is attracted to a particular man or not, it doesn't stop her from proving difficult/playing hard because that's how nature has designed them, for reasons stated earlier. the only difference will be the yield time While it will take an indefinite length of time for a man she is not attracted to, the time will be limited for a man she is into.
The video is not playing at real life speed. It has been slightly increased, to make the impact appear more real.
Watch closely and you will notice it. It's the same technique that is applied in movies especially in scenes where stunts or fight takes place, to make the impacts real/increase the effect of the impact.