₦airaland Forum

sorry Yoruba girls are natural

na the YoruBE/Yurube gals that need alternative.


Either way Jesus loves us all

There's always silicon

toothless dogs bore me, AJ. That's all it is.

and if I dont shut up, what will happen? You'll call me an "ashewo" or bitch instead? or will you insult my mother? or maybe tell me my va-jay jay stinks?

Which is it?

Wild Rose
Maria Des Los Angeles
The Rich Also Cry
The Miser (they never finished this one)
Secrets Of the Sand
Palace
Matlock
Santa Barbara
Days of Our Lives


the Isho Pepper shows.
Bata Wahala

Abi o, debo.

Nutikole, you had better thank God that you dont have some immature monkey. Now stop looking for something to be wrong and accept the relationship as is.

nutinikole:
niraland o!!
i gave it to him just like u said. i said im not a virgin can u imagine he looked at me for a few seconds and laughed! he laughed because he diddnt believe! can you imagine that? d-reloaded now you can see he is living in his own world! lol

he asked me why i was lying!! after finally convincing him he just looked at me in the eye and said it doesnt matter. even if i am or im not it doesnt matter. but he still didnt try to jump into bed with me! everyday we do the same thing over and over again he doesnt try anything extra even now he knows im not. what the hell is wrong with him i have come to the conclusion that on a subconscious level he still thinks im "good"and he doesnt want to "spoil" me. what do yall think?

eniway ive done my part and im happy it doesnst matter to him im so happy!!!!

Well if he doesnt believe you, you cant say you didnt try

But what do you mean by 'what is wrong with him", you should be happy that despite it all he hasnt changed. Dont go around looking for stuff to worry about.

apparently all you need is a Lexus

Is Yorube the new language in town?

Well in my part of Nigeria it's Egusi

and Normal people dont eat that crap that looks like vomit. Only thing that should be eaten with amala is OKRA

the hell is egunsi sef?

I really hope people dont think Scoffield's tattoo is actually real

4 Play:
That is the ideal way to conduct things.I think many of us are simply impatient,probably more driven by sex than we will admit to ourselves.When the girl turns us down,we resort to our innate defense mechanism.


Don't think I ever used that expression in my life. I actually resent that Queen nonsense,"honesty is the best policy."

See this is why I usually prefer reading your comments on stuff like this. You usually saying it like it is even if it makes guys kind of look "bad"

Glad you agree that it's the ideal way to establish some sort of friendship first and good to know you are aware that most men are impatient, therefore they should just blame themselves in the end if the person they chased without barely knowing ends up being someone totally wrong for them. Relationships that usually last are the ones where the two were close friends from the beginning, not when they guy just lusts after he person 2 mins after seeing the girl.

Lol blame 2Face jare, na him start that madness with his bloody African Queen, now we'll never hear the end of "treat me like a Queen" bullshit. Makes me sick.
I personally prefer "treat me how you'd loved to be treat or how you'd treat someone dear to you". Simple.

4Play no be your kind that cae up with the stupid concept of calling women "queens" and they too go around screaming "treat my like a queen!", a phrase I loathe very much actually.

so if women go around thinking they are all that and bag of Doritos esp those that really are not, blame yourselves for telling them that stuff and stop complaining at the end of it.

Queens ko, Brooklyn ni.

So it's better to go off chasing someone that supposedly ends up "not being worth it" at the end of the day?

Better to be empty handed than mismatched and miserable.

4 Play:
That one is in our "manual" anyway.Its a core part of our emotional "shock absorber" after rejection.

Obviously,some people take it too far by broadcasting "she wasn't worth it anyway" to the world or developing animus for the lady.

The point still stands though,many "winners" will discover that the girl wasn't all she was cracked up to be after she accepts.Its the cliche,"familiarity breeds contempt."

At least you're willing to admit most men are guilty pof it unlike those in pitiful denial. It's pretty pathetic though don't you think?

As for your last comment, I see what you mean so don't you think that so such things wont happen more often, guys would have the common sense to try to understand the person they are "chasing", be friends first, get to know the person befpore THEN after they realize on their own said girl is "worthy of their hearts" they go on with the "chase", wouldnt that make more sense? Instead of wasting time on someone that just might not be your match in the end?

4Play, even when we pick the ones worthy of our time, the sore losers still go around claiming "yea well she wasnt worth it anyway" so make I hear word.

But like I said before, if the girl or whoever is still fronting AFTER accepting the dude as being someone she wanted then something is wrong

Rofl I have fought with so many people since I registered on NL, but not once have I stepped on the tail of a member of Lucifer's coven.

Morenike, see what your mouth has caused. Please tell your friend to leave. Im getting goose bumps

Lmfao. Ko lo we ori si odo

like a black cat?

vampire aka WinnerGal, what is a familiar?

Right.

what the hell is a "Familiar"?

since when is multiple identity an "insult" seeing a good majority in this thread is guilty of it?

Osisi, pray for these people. Please

It's a good thing homosexuality is on the rise in Nigeria then we wont have to hear about how horrible women are

opinion has one p, so does apologize/apology. you should keep that in mind

and if you've really left me alone you wouldnt still be replying with your passive aggressive remarks all over Nairaland. ara e lon ton je.

Fi
Mi
Si
Le.

Ese

No point in apologizing if you still cant even answer the question.

Have a good night.

Fi mi si le jare.

get over what? Jo be quiet

Last I checked I wasnt the one who ran someone off their thread all because they said they didnt want to take their husband's name when they get married and various examples. simple collin joke self made you go apeshit

If anyone shouldnt go overboard and get over things, it's you.

Cant stand when people esp boys become wolves when things dont go their way.

pahtahkee:
What did I do that surprised you? You know how I play with sarcasm at times on this forum, but you misconstrued it to something else, and I would never allow anyone trade insults one me for no reason. If you had clearly stated you were not clear on what my posts to you meant, I would have gladly transposed my sarcasm to another key for you. This is why I like almondjoy on this forum.

Anyways, sorry for disappointing you in any form.

Im just gonna chalk it up to jetlag. Did you see where I said "I DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR COUSIN DID WRONG", Is there any way I could have been CLEARER than that?

as for sacasm and what not, I dont have any problem with sarcasm, however my question didnt warrant it so how is one supposed to know that was what it was?

Lmao look who's talking about people going overboard.

nwando:
I've heard Nigerian men say girls in America are too "open eye"
don't respect them and all that crap.
That's just a mark of insecurity and low self esteem on the man's part.
Many of them run home because they can't tell those stupid lies to the ones here
and whatever they have will not impress her either.

If he has a car,she probably has one or 2
She may already have her own house
They spend the same dollars
so It takes out the thrill he gets from mesmerizing naive girls running after "men from overs

Rofl. Osisi, you don reveal their secret. hahaa