₦airaland Forum

First off 4Him, it'd be nice if you didnt refer to me anymore cos apparently you have issues

and as you can see my response was to what osisi pointed out. In regards to the OP, there are many reasons why they lose interest, it's just common knowledge that the guys that claim "oh we just realised that they werent worth it in the first place" are usually the dejected bitter ones that couldnt accept the hint in the first place.

ASL33, No one on the internet is gonna tell you that "My personality or my character sucks" so looking on NL is a waste of time. Better troop to your church or something.

Sly, I no get time for all these passive aggressive Ogun State people. The others Im not suprised by their juvenile bullshit, it has happened before but i am quite surprised by pataki but whatever, im not even gonna bother anymore.

Yes you replied me with two IDIOTIC lines that had NOTHING to do with the question I asked you.

and please spare me the ego trip. what will you do? insult me? call me names? You really think there's anything you can say that the other dolts of Nairaland havent said in the name of seeming "hard" and "cool". Not really. Point remains my question didnt deserve your ridiculous outburst but if you want to believe otherwise, have fun with that.

pahtahkee:
Keep getting confused shogbo. I have told you, you are an omo-ita, so I don't blame you if you find eating outside a necessity.


A good woman will learn to love her kitchen and adore it. Most of the women here are not an example of such. Such a shame

Pataki, I hope you were just trying to be funny. How about explaining what exactly it is you found wrong with your cousin;s invitation instead of going into attack mode like some lunatic. Are you ok?

What I readf is that she invited you and your friend to eat at a picnic with her church group. You've yet to explain what the problem is with that. I take it that this church group had this evemnt set since and she invited you two to go with her, so what the hell is the ridiculous tirade for?

and who is omo-ita? Ori e daru ni? What's with you people all of a sudden sef? where in that question did i implying that outside eating was a necessity? Last I checked I wasnt the one who could list 75 "good" bukas all because you can't make bloody food for yourselves. Instead you rather rely on some woman that washes her ass in the food and feeds it to you clueless drones.

Ma beere pelu mi o. One min we're cool, next min you';re acting like a jerk, what is your problem. is Ogun State experiencing a full moon?

pahtahkee:
The last time I saw one of them, she was offering that we go out and eat lunch at the picnic organized by her church in Euston.

Im confused. Is there a problem with this?

Osisi, you dey mind bitter people

"she wasnt all that anyway" - typical response of the immature and rejected. Never "maybe we werent meant to be together romantically", pathetic.

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Egnite:
I like scorcese because of his violence. But you guys should admit it, martin is all about violence he can't do anything soft

The Aviator?

windywendy:
The problem with most guys is that they're quick to dismiss the things that appeal to a lady's senses as flimsy, and are also quick to pull out the "it's not in our culture" card. And yet they expect the woman to do those things that are pleasing to a man. It don't work that way. Introspective or not, the bottom line is that he needs to communicate with her in a way that she understands and appreciates. Same applies to her. It's all about the other person in the relationship and how we can please them to the best of our ability. That's how successful marriages are made out. We can all be any personality-type we want, but the bottomline remains that in relating with someone else, you need to keep your audience in mind. In the case of the marriage relationship, one needs to keep the spouse's needs at the forefront of their thinking in delivering whatever message needs to be delivered -- in a way that the other person understands and appreciates. That's how it works -- at least from my own experience. As long as the other person cannot read your mind, some effort should at least be put into how you deliver what's on your mind. No point delivering in such a way as to elicit a negative reaction, especially not when all you had were positive intentions. The guy goofed on that proposal if you ask me. He could have got a much better and infinitely more pleasant reaction if he had at least paid some attention to the packaging. Needless to say, he would also have saved himself the aggravation that followed .

It's because most of them are retarded wendy, it's not that hard to understand. "not my language, not mu culture", dont know who they fooling with such lame excuses

Pennywise:
Thank God for the education, fashion, technology etc the west has brought. But we need to have the common sense to take what is good and leave or ignore aspects of their culture that is undesireable. [b]A situation where a lady who is not even 35yrs has been married and divorced 3 times all for frivolous reasons like he is a control freak, insensitive to my needs, caught him cheating etc. [/b]I had to use divorce to bring the point home but it can happen as it does in relationships and the girl goes through life not knowing what quite happened when she attains 40.

You are a scary person. How are those frivolous "reasons", who are you to say what is or isnt frivolous to a man or infact to anyone. Just because you dont think they are important doesnt mean you should go around yelling that such are to other people. Control freaks are usually absuive, same for an insensitive person and a cheater can pass on STDs and break up homes, how are any of those "frivolous" reasons? some marriedf men on here have made threads complaining about their wives not "attending to their needs", it's usually your kind that tell them to get a girl on the side. If it were a womn, you'd call it frivolous and tell her to bear with it obviously

Why do you even care? If a woman gets married at 45 or never gets married, how is that any of your business? I really dont understand guys like you that care so much about what other people esp women do with their lives. How is it affecting yours? If they dont want to get married, oit's none of your own, same if they decide to leave a marriage for whatever reason they have, still doesnt affect your life. Deal with your own life instead of sitting and throwing out numbers for when a woman should have done this and that. To think people think "gbegborun-ism" is just a woman thing.

I suggest you rewatch it

well i dont think people should be "fronting" once they accepted t9o being in a relationship with the other

It's the whole madness before that where such actions make sense. If while you are IN the relationship, accepted the guy or girl as yours balh blah and you're still playing games, then there's a problem somewhere

I know of 4 co-workers, 3 Jamaican, 1 Trini. All 4, deceased fathers, tell me why they suddenly found out that they had outside siblings during their father's funerals.

same people

lovergal, seun will soon ban you.

Carribeans esp Jamaicans are the bloody worst. Disgusting. 

I know we tend to say Nigerian men are such cheats but compared to Carribean men, no comparision. Those people are ridiculous.

nwando:
I try to be.
You have no idea what will set them off.

Hahha that is true.

That's why people like you Ferlie should stop talking in such a disgusting fashion. Olodo

Lmao. eh I dont care about such. He was just being obnoxious

in the city, a guy with a bike is usually a health fanatic which is fine, this one was just being a clown and i wasnt in the mood for his madness

seriously 97% of people in NYC escaped from the asylum of Bellview Hospital.

Cant be nice to them

you sef osisi, self control sha

I most likely would have yelled and pushed him. I did the same to some jackass on a bicycle last month who nearly hit me trying to get my attention. Year ago, I would have just ignored him but seriously going to the city more often where you are surrounded by all sorts of lunatics has made me quite mean and jaded

hello Rad  

No. at 12 you're already a gbegborun. If you were my sister, I'd slap you for touching my phone

Maybe your sister understood the message. It's not for you to find or try to find out. Go and get your own.

haha osisi

sometimes it IS try harder or im not exactly sure right now but I'm going to say No so you wont rush my decision, but like i said instead of trying to understand that, they become immature jackasses.

and that there is when you know that they such a person isnt worth your time.

exactly

stillwater, you sef get time

Like they will ever admit to ignoring hints or flat out Nos claimig to themselves that things will change then they later become juvenile and bitter claiming the girl lied or strung them along.

Abeg leave them to their delusionals.

what's with people and their "my sister this, my friend that"

How about minding your business?

iice:
[color=#9900ff]Let's see. . ._{ransacking brain}. . .Nope don't remember a serious film of his
Yeah kindda like Jim Carrey going serious I

Truman Show & Enternal Sunshine Of the Spotless Mind were both good. Wonder if Will Farrell can even pull off such.

wonder what mr osisi will have to say about this