Your life is like this, you still get mind Marry, Born TWO kids remove your wife and your kids and leave only your sister, you would probably have money to sponsor your goals and achieve your dreams before you even turn 30 years. But you choose Marriage and Procreation over giving YOURSELF first a better life before bringing your wife and children to come and enjoy. Now you're stuck in your folly and you're still pointing at external problems instead of pointing at yourself and calling yourself out for making silly decisions. You don't know you have automatically made life harder for yourself You're really funny. You're not seeing reality at all. You're not rich and you're making TWO babies And you expect government to carry your burden

greatopec:
Good day Nairalanders
I will be 40 on Oct 19 this year and I am scared the kind of life I have always desired may not be
achievable. Let me list these things that worries me so that you can probably advise me or assist me in achieving any of them.
1) By 40 I had wished I will be living in my house with cars in my garage
Current situation- I am a salary earner who eagerly waits for the salary to drop before my family can eat conveniently every month.
2)I love cars and driving. Was thinking of getting a good car for Uber business.
Current situation- I have not been able to gather enough money to buy a car for Uber or personal use.
3)Seeking greener pasture abroad.
Current situation- I have not been able to have enough disposable income to even get a passport to start with in the first place.
4)Self development. I had interest in programming so I decided to learn coding and all that. I started with free code camp and also this thread by iyenimofe on nairaland has been so helpful https://www.nairaland.com/1383359/learn-web-design-live-nairaland/6#17571611
The issue I have progressing is that of enough data subscription to watch more tutorials.
5)Acquisition of at least Masters.
I have a passion for learning and self development but I struggled to have my HND with distinction. Gathering enough funds to start my masters program has been an uphill task.

Little about my background
I am an HND graduate
I have a sister who am responsible for also.
I have a wife and two kids.
I work 8-5weekdays

These 4 months old puppies are for sale I have videos and pictures call me on 08168168504

please serious buyers only should contact, I need these pups to leave soon.

are they still sending invites?
some received on the 15th.

WalkerMichael:
Dear NL brothers and sisters, i lost my mother on Monday such a hard knock on me . I just hope God comforts myself and 3 sisters. I promise to make her proud for life. please help me with your words, I'm really down.

Bro. Take heart God is aware of everything always believe that God is working in the spirit realm for you and do your best in this realm he will surely see you through. If it's any consolation, I have been homeless 2 months ago, no family, no nothing... No help in sight, but God came through for me with a new beginning. Always trust God. Understand that many things from now might go wrong BUT never go wrong yourself and never go wrong with your believe in God at this point he's the only person you can trust to make your decisions and effort yield result and work out. Take heart sorry for loss, I believe you will make your mother proud, you will, not only for her, but mainly for Yourself and your unborn children. Be strong. God be with you.

peterjero:
Bank job anyday anytime ,makes you smarter and richer . The information and wealth of experience you get in the banking sector is second to none , when you work in the civil service the advantage you have is corruption, absenteeism and docility. You become wicked as a civil servant because you always want to be bribed for everything. I rest my case

It's all a choice.

stanley000:
are you really asking this? federal jobs anyday anytime. private job is nonsense, no job security, they make you work your ass off like you are a machine. immagine after compleating my probation at one useless coy like that the imbesile looking boss handed me the employement letter, u need to see the clause they wanted me to sign

- that i can be fired anytime anyday with or without cause without any pay whatsover
-that i can be suspended whenever the company deemed with or without cause
- no single benefits, not even transport.

i tore the letter and threw it to his face, i'm a benin boy him know say i go beat am on credit join.

blacks are wicked i swear

That's a wicked clause.

saphiere:
It will never be well with Davido if he does not do the needful.

This is for every girl out there to learn a lesson

Is it your relationship?

WowSweetGuy:
without his fans can he be there?! Ur type na use and dump

So what's your point he should go door to door, to visit his fans.... he doesn't appreciate his fans From not needing anybody, now your pain is without his fans he won't be where he is, did his fans complain to you see what jealousy has reduced you to? The thing is people like you always have JEALOUSY when you can't achieve anything with your life. When you see highly successful people you always find fault... That's all you do. Because you want to reduce them. But reach their level, no, you will never reach it, even if they give you chance, give you everything you still CAN'T be like them, but you will only want to teach successful people how to be humble, idiot, ENVY kill you there stupid Bleep. I can relate with him that's why I know your type. I have faced your type before, you can only be jealous and die in misery watch out more awards are coming... Buy bucket wey you go use cry, he doesn't need you, doesn't need Davido doesn't need your punk ass or anybody to be Wizkid. He's Machala! Live with that.

OmoAkin85:
so is the album that got him grammy
technically he didn't win beyonce did ..album topping chart because he is wizkid.he can get all that with his connection.no upcoming gotta sing like dat and get known..i told u to compare his pass project with mil.u couldn't .looking at his past projects .obviously he is depreciating ..peace out bro

Mumu he wrote brown skin girl you asshole. Wizkid wrote it.

WowSweetGuy:
wizkid is now annoying

He too dey form super big boy who no need u with his quiet style and his mumu fans keep praising him

Before Nko you wan make e need you? all the beggars wey dey street wey need you wetin you don do for them Envious mothafuka!!!

DaddyRochie1642:
I Refuse to be Deceived

Mumu

saphiere:
Truth be told. If it wasn't for Wizkid present babymama, he wouldn't have achieved this feat. The lady really exposed him to the international world.

In every successful man is a woman.

he met her while making music with Drake you silly.

What if your wife uses your money to do things to you so that it looks like your mother is doing something to you whenever you give her the money to give to your mother, so that you will hate your mother for no reason, moreover, did your mother ever do anything bad to you as a parent shouldn't? BECAUSE I don't even understand how some of you think.

We4all:


So, with all the STD'S flying around, people still suck HIV infected dick like yours these days?For someone who knows so much about dick sucking, your grandmom, mom and sisters must have trained you well cos I learnt they're professionals in dick sucking.

Doesn't make any difference... Your this your that your blah blah blah.

We4all:
Most of these women are living in bondage. Their husbands hide under the biblical 'virtuous' woman to exert a master-servant relationship on them.

Are you the one who is free? sucking multiple men's d*ck for survival, what bondage is worse than that No family, No nothing, mumu, that woman decided to be a woman and let her husband be the man. Mumu. Thèse people are fulfilling their role in nature. This is exactly what you should be searching for, if you don't find it find something close to it.

Zzor:
Yes,its your responsibility to provide for her or do you want another guy to help you do your work?

Monkey.

Stop wasting time take the JOB do the job, four months will come and go and the contract will end. Then he would at least that way your job is sure.... Put in the work necessary for them to not want to lose you, make contacts while there. Just to permanently secure it so he doesn't play a fast one you, ask about the last person who worked that position and how long he stayed there if he lasted just four months or 6months then it means he changes people there to work for him. But I believe it's best to get the JOB there are lots of opportunities awaiting you, after all he is only entitled to monthly salary other chances might be there to make money.

littleguy444:
all what you said is irrelevant ronaldo might possess all what you mentioned i even acknowlwdged him as the greatest but its obvious you hate messi so much and thats bad even.

I don't like him NOT because he is not a good footballer but what I hate about him is his pretentious behavior he pretends a lot and tries to act like he doesn't interfer in other people's affair but he does and plays football politics very well, he uses higher connections to sway favour to his side, I like the fact he is gentle and reserved but there is a little bit of a slimy person in him, like when he and Ronaldo was having a serious competition in Spain he pretends like there was no competition, whereas Ronaldo was direct when the competition was obvious, he says it as it is that it's obvious. But Messi tries to play the humble acts like nothing happens but he hires players to join him against Ronaldo secretly... In order to make Ronaldo look like some proud guy he acts like less interested, but when he got the sixth ballondor he says something about Ronaldo

HBB1:


Why can't he do it at Juve?

Mumu, Ronaldo is OLD!!!! He is fucking old. Enjoy whatever you see now.... He is just playing for the money now. And trying whatever best he has left. He is not even who he use to be anymore but one thing he tries to maintain as an experienced player is penalty and finishing, so I don't really expect much from him... Now you have missed to appreciate the magic he used to bring. Now you're wishing he could be spectacular as he use to be, remember one day he will also grow old and die. So appreciate him while he's still alive.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

HBB1:




How has he been powering them in the Champions League?

Without Ronaldo they won League, with him they won League...

Alaye nothing has changed at Juve, no dey deceive yourself.

Separating Ronaldo's success at Madrid, and the Team they had is folly.

Let him Power Juve to 4 back-to-back Champions League titles na!

Oshi!

Ronaldo is old now stop pretending like you don't know he can do it 7 times if he was with them back then when he was magical.

littleguy444:
i like ur argument but this they hate ronaldo should really stop they even wet as far as saying messi and barcelona lied that ronaldo has corona because they dont want him playing against messi in champions league if th

Bro.....watch this video, they hate Ronaldo, people hate him, they have never seen anything like him before, someone who is good looking, has high football skills, has money, has fine girlfriends, is very tall, has the highest social media following in the world, scores all kinds of goals, has speed, breaks records, and is consistent in every club. if na you won't you feel a little envy... Or at least wish you were him?

Unlike Ronaldinho who was extremely good, tall but didn't have the good looks, unlike Messi who is a dwarf, I even read he suffers one sickness like that so people pity him and always amplify his contribution because it's coming from a dwarf... People don't tackle him with acceptable degree of pressure, they just let him run along he dribbles people that are standing... No real dribble just people avoiding to really tackle him, go and see how they tackle Ronaldo in football sometimes he would almost hit his head on goal bar just to get goals, Unlike Ronaldinho who dribbles people and you see them lying down or really misplaced. Messi knows it's true. Just watch this video I already downloaded this video and saved it in my hard disk incase anything happens to this one on YouTube....



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

OJEEMAH:
You're obviously a kid. Your senseless mother nai be MUMU. Do you have to be insultive? And what if I hate him??

You're just a tissue paper, na to take you wipe ass dump you, idiot! You go dey wonder who be the shit well na your mama be the shit I go use you wipe. Animal!!! If you hate him for nothing then you're a devil! And he will continue to be better than your miserable life.

OJEEMAH:
Remove his goals?? If he wasn't there someone would have done the job. So nothing special or new.

You see with this your statement it's clear you hate Ronaldo. You're not supposed to be a sports person because you judge by sentiments, if Ronaldo was not there, have anyone scored 31 goals before? Oya argue that one too mumu, You're just senseless. At Messi age which is 3 years younger did he score up to 31?

HBB1:


Alaye, show me the transcription of the interview...

Do you speak Spanish?

No dey shalaye abeg!

A fan boy makes a version of an interview and you gobble it up without verifying...

Shey you dey whine me ni?

Ronaldo was so important, that he was sold like okrika.

So as your messenger na my work to show you book still come read am for you abi no be brain you get Go and search for transcript, how were you able to understand it if it was not translated? Some of you just like to argue nonsense, something that is very clear everybody can see, everybody knows it's true, you will still deny. Why now...? Common... Be honest, see I like Messi infact I have Barca Jersey but never worn Madrid. But I know Ronaldo is football. There was a time every week people I know don't bet games over 1.5 or 2.5 again, they bet on Ronaldo to score this guy was excellent upon he is 3 years older than Messi, everybody knows that ballondor they gave modric belonged to Ronaldo they just want to make sure Messi got it before Ronaldo, I even said it when it happened the inner circle in football are enemies of the guy... Barcelona settle people to work against Ronaldo, it is glaring, he doesn't even need to say it, we know. And they hate his GUTS!!!! And that's one thing I like about CR7 he has GUTS!!! He bet on himself, not that midget that pretends to be gentle and meek whereas he's a schemer, runs around like a dwarf and once you tackle him he fall they give free kick or penalty, to avoid penalty players will tackle him less and he will dribble past them and then the world will hail him and shout MAGIC!!! He hasn't faced real defenders like Terry and co, that's why he has hard time with Sergio Ramos because the guy never gives him chance when he gets to him, nobody wants to be responsible for a penalty, it's better for everyone to hail Messi and claim he plays well, than for a player to carry blame for penalty. That aside, Messi still plays ball club class, he has good contribution, but he is not a complete player, not world class or football class. Ronaldo is aging now and I would really miss the adrenaline rush I get watching him on my TV. Did you see that one two he played in this video... from midfield see speed Choi Rona baba aah football is aging now.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

HBB1:


Oh dear!

You are so smart, aren't you.

Can you show a transcription of the said interview?

At least it should be in a magazine or newspaper somewhere?
Word-for-word.

A simple search even on YouTube will refute whatever lie that Video was propagating.

The length you guys will go to for this madness.
Crap!

Did you actually watch that video, is anything in that video false? Is everything not true Didn't Messi say it right there, that he wouldn't know how his career would have turned out if not for Barcelona, which is true even if you think it's doctored which it's not Guy go and sit down everybody knows all they have for Ronaldo is jealousy!!! You can't deny it!!! The guy has it all!!! that's why people hate him, he deals with their hatred differently. Just tell yourself the truth and shame the devil. If that guy had Barça the way Messi had Barça, From his young age, playing with the likes of Ronaldinho and co...his records now would be 7 or 8 ballondor, forget! When Messi's performance is low, Barca never threaten him infact they cover for him and pet him, he's like the king of the club but whenever Ronaldo is not delivering as much, his own low time is even manageable, yet Real Madrid boss will complain, they will blame him, everything was him. See watch that video that's exactly why Ronaldo fans love him that video tells you all you need to know why people love Ronaldo and choose Him ahead of Messi. Messi is a Barcelona product, Ronaldo is football product.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

HBB1:




You realize that video was a fake-- doctored transaction and all?

Crap!

Not only doctored but Nursed, it's a nursed video

preselect:


Messi has Argentina.
Wetin he win? , even with Aguero, Di Maria, Dybala et al by his side.
What is Portugal, compared to Argentina?

Help me ask him!!!! People keep looking at the Messi with his small stature I wish the guy was tall, so people can remove sentiments. That his small size makes people amplify any small thing he does, whereas Ronaldo has to do twice as tall to be celebrated.

Ayilara1:


This is just as fruitless as written.

Messi we used to know in the past five year isn't the one we know now- he has degraded

Leaving barca is never going to be the test of him being good or not and it will not justify your claim that he can only shine in barca.

Outside barca(international), he has being better than ronaldo on an individual level.

Why are you lying like this na everybody knows the guy has never made Argentina proud, even the statue that was erected of him, they chopped off the legs. Maradona has never really been happy with or proud of the guy until his death. The guy can't perform outside Barça even him admits it here.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

DesChyko:


Get sense get sense. Una dey think say nah ordinary slogan.

Go look the picture of Messi wey dey this post, then read the comment wey I quote reply.

No dey argue with mumu, just share this video anytime they talk too much.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

paulolee:

lolz....my guy, let me ask u a question... forget being a fan n keep sentiments aside, .if u dnt know any of them before or if both are new players to you, forget about thier achievements, trophies won n the number of goals scored..
if you are to watch clips or highlights of cr7 n messi on their good n bad days since they both started football, who would u say is more talented and looks more magical??
just talk truth for once abeeeeg

Me i no dey like argue, go and watch this video on YouTube, and hear what Messi has to say, he said this at the peak of their career, when he couldn't hide the truth and admiration for Ronaldo, this was when he was performing highly at Barça and Ronaldo was also performing at Real Madrid, and I respect him for his honesty. If after watching this you don't see a magical Ronaldo then you know absolutely nothing, you just hate the guy for nothing, Ronaldo scores impossible goals, Messi only taps ball and curves balls hardly use his head, overkick goals = zero, do you know what is magical? Why would you be abusing the word magical!!! Ronaldo scored a goal with Juventus one time like that, a ball was lobed to him from midfield the distance is from their own half ooo to opponents box 18 and he was running towards box 18, while RUNNING oooo he took it once at box 18, without trapping it or taking balance, just shot the ball straight into net, do you know how much stamina, sharp eyes, accuracy, it takes to go ahead of ball, and get that right Like have you seen anything like that!!! Let's not talk about what Ronaldo does with his head if there is Goal drought due to tight defenders marking his foot, if you can mark Messi's foot very well, forget it, he won't score anything, he would only have two options left, One is free kick and the second is penalty, if you avoid these two very well, he won't score anything, but he will get it because players don't mark him aggressively like they do to Ronaldo and once he falls they say you fall Messi, you must not apply pressure on Messi because of his small stature.

But Ronaldo hmmm , but Ronaldo , both free kick ooo corner ooo crossing ooo penalty ooo hmm bicycle kick ooo anything could create an opportunity for goal! One time like that he even used his stud of his boot to score goals like karate, My brother you can't hold Ronaldo at his peak, he was mad.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iAP64Eo-AlY

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