₦airaland Forum

D-sense:
Op,
I THINK U ACTED TOO JEALOUS A LIL BIT ,U SHOULD HAVE ATLEAST TRIED WAITING FOR OUTSIDE DA PREMISES NOT TO DRIVE OFF THAT WAY U DID.

luap:
DR Finn, ---- Finally I have seen a post of invalidation during social interaction!!!

You did good. The lady had her problems, and you put up you bondaries and sent a clear message.

MOBO444:
I feel so sorry for my Black sister over there in Nigeria, my Nairaland brother 190 just gave me a call to say he has arrived safely in central England for further studies, I now know a white woman’s gain will be a Black sister loss over there in Nigeria, Nigeria women have to change or they will remain single all them miserable life.

Our Black sisters will cry and there will be lots of anguish over there in Nigeria, no one wants a Black Nigeria woman anymore, all them Black brother are now going for them white British chick and good life in England, were hereby welcome PAPA 190 to England and wish him all the best and more blessing.

We wonder when this mess shall stop, we ask our Black sister to change for the best so them Black brother will run away no more to other countries and seek them white women, am glad 190 has left Nigeria and will now get to sample white ladies and maybe even mrry one by the end of the year.

Odunnu:
Are u alone?

MRbrownJAY:
@poster
pls clarify a few things:
- when you say" we started seeing each other", does that mean you were dating (a couple/bf-gf) or just hanging out together?.we are just hanging out,dats a beta phrase,besides i will be changing location dis month.
- when she said she was "patching up" with some other guy, does that mean FUKCING some other guy, DATING some other guy or SEEING some other guy as she "sees you" (whatever that means)?!she said,d guy helps her financially at times,n dey are goin out,although she has bin tellin d guy she wants 2 opt out,but d guy kips beggin her.- you said you "sensed betrayal all over the guy's face", but did YOU felt betrayed as well? --not at all,cos she has told me about d guy be4,just meetin him physically d 1st time.- you said you felt sorry for this guy loving someone that didnt love him BUT she cared for him more than she cared for you. . . . . . . . so much that she ignored you as soon as she saw him and spent all her time "arguing"with him.
dont you see how he would equally feel sorry for you?!
she dint,actually she used my fone 2 mak a call,it was wen she was making d call outside,she saw him,i was inside,so she had 2 call me out.she wanted 2 leave wit me immediately showedup,but i told dem 2 resolve wat they were 'argueing' on.- when she called you later and try begging, you told her that you "understand", care to share with us what you understood exactly?!
i said dat cos,she has told me about the guy,and i remember advicing her on making choices-never 2 settle 4 less!!- you then said you "overreacted", do you call "leaving a gal that ignored you in the club for some other fella" OVERREACTING?!  i guess you think you should have waited patiently until that guy sent you off because she was gonna go home with him?!not at all,i gave her d permission 2 finish up,after she called me from out from d club.besides she wanted 2 leave with me 2 my crib, - finally,when you're going to meet her on sunday, what do you hope to "talk about" or resolve? didnt she make it clear to you that night that you were second class in her life behind "rebound guy"?!well,i saw her on saturday cos was gonna be involved on sunday,basically there wasnt anytin new i expected,other dan apology.

Inked_Nerd:
Nope, it was understandable. You gave yourself some space from her which is a good thing. Other guys might have gotten upset about the whole thing and instead you kept your cool. When you see her just be honest about how you felt about the situation and your feelings towards her. Good luck