₦airaland Forum

sweetkev:
Hell no. Men and women are different. Not good for a woman to cheat. It's a sin and a disgusting act.

sweetkev:
Women should not cheat.

franchasofficia:
This thing has nothing to do with gender equality; if a man can do it, woman should do same....yes I am married, and if my wife feels she finds fulfillment and joy in keeping an extramarital affairs, who am I to judge her? Its left to her and her values....nobody can hold down a spouse that decides to play away match....not when you don't carry her on your back everyday, all the time....so I am not bothered about that.....God created man and woman differently with various weaknesses and deficiencies more peculiar to different genders and if you dig deeper, they are for a reason, but as humans, we want to make sure we forcefully balance every human affair/activities in order to maintain a false sense of gender equality and balance which can never be achieved till the world ends.


Do have a wonderful day and thanks for your attention to this matter

Dogalmighty17:
Men do not cheat. You don't cheat on what you spend money on. If I have a car and I want to test run another, will it be said I cheated on my car?

bigiyaro:
Most women that leaves because of a cheating man, nearly always ends up being a cheating tool to other men, especially married men. They either become side seggs relive objects to married men or play things for small boys or both.

franchasofficia:
I said it on the other thread.

A worthy man or a great husband is not determined by his sexual conduct alone. Any lady that rates a man based on his sexual weakness alone will definitely end up with horrible men.






The only perceived wrongdoing I know many good and wonderful married men commit against their wives is "having extramarital affairs" or keeping mistresses outside their marriage, and why I don't usually see this as a big deal is because that is how every sexually active man was created from birth; to want to explore or mate with other women he finds attractive, it's a natural deficiency in all sexually active men.


The few sexually active men (if any exist) that stay sexually faithful to one partner till death are those that did it out of extreme commitment to religious doctrines and those that lacked the privilege, the opportunities and financial capacity to explore.



So long as a man respects his wife, treats her well, takes very good care of her and the kids, takes full responsibility of the family and dependents, respects himself by being absolutely discreet with his affairs, I see no big deal in him having extramarital affairs responsibly, only his maker and God can judge him on the last day, thank you all for your attention to this matter

GanagiBitrus:
Nobody expects you to be the best dad.
Just be a good & responsible dad.

QuinQ:
Because that's how your genes survive. Adoption doesn't accomplish that.
Besides, who'd be father figure to the kids?
Who'd give her a sense of security just from his bigger, stronger presence?
Also, a pet cannot watch and discuss old movies/books with her on cold nights while cuddling under covers!

QuinQ:
Ok, how will you get pregnant and who will be father figure to your kids

Juliearth:
God bless you, sir. Let's not even factor in the possibility of carbon monoxide poisoning from the use of the charcoal stove and the possibility of fire hazards( the coals don't die off that easily).

Diamond098454:
Can't you do the cooking? Go out there and look for a cheap wife that will cook with firewood for you.

Biggerpicture

Charcoal is the bigger picture you got for your own wife

chicfarmer:
But all these things na rubbish. Morocco have a talented team and one of the best in the world. Why would they resort to all these shenanigans when they can win fair and square. They just isolated a lot of people with these childish antics.

nervorum:
By now every healthcare worker, especially doctors, who seem to be the tipping point of the spear to transform Nigeria healthcare, should know Nigeria and her people are not worth it.

If you withdraw services to draw the attention of the govt to fix the system, you’re demonized by same people you’re fighting for. If you go above and beyond in impossible circumstances, nobody acknowledges you. But If you make mistakes in an attempt to help in this broken system ( and you’re guaranteed to cos of the failed system), you’re thrown under the bus, by same people you break your back for.

Dear Nigerian doctors, make una nor do pass una self. The people are not worth it.

ultraviolet27:
so they even earn up to 800k in a month and you still refer that to as peanut? even their teachers who made them in secondary schools never even earned up to that in a year Omo Teachers just come this world come suffer! funny enough even if they jakpa I don't think they will end up earning 800k after all the tax deductions any doctor who wants to jakpa is free though, they were never in it for the passion and humanity before only for the money the last set of Doctors who are passionate in their job died in the late 70's

How much did they even spend in the institutions to acquire their medical certificates?

Jeje247:
You don't much about what you are talking about.
Residents are not undergraduates. They are actually workers without whom the teaching hospitals would stop working. They are already doctors that have multiple certifications but seeking to become a fellow in a specialty.

By passing the part 1 exams, they become senior residents and perform roles that consultants would perform. They only have to do research, right papers and lecture undergraduate students in some cases till they get fellowship. Asking for a certificate after part 1 isn't totally out of place.
The specialist allowance most likely is supposed to cover research work and others since government wages are barely enough to cover living expenses.

Mind you, when government officials start using bogus figures, they are trying to buy public sympathy. If you split those billions among the thousands of residents in the country, you will see how meagre it is.
This is in a country where politicians steal trillions of naira and get away with it.

Eddodoh:
This lady must be sick to think that I will marry her. We were good B4 I traveled out of the city. Good vibes, nice time and all that.
She showed me love and everything but deep down, I know that I won't marry her.

There was a time I felt like taking the relationship serious but the fact that she have two kids and a single mother, discourages me. Also, I know the father of her kids. They lived together B4 she ended things with him. Another reason is that my friends won't support the relationship cos I even hide the affair with her from them.

While I was out of town, I got to know that she got entangled with one of my friends. When I bursted her by letting her know that I am aware of her affair with my friend. She denied initially but bcuz my friend's real babe that told me about them was giving me every detail about them. So, she later admitted that they were dating.


Recently, she has being calling and apologizing that she was confused and that my absence at that time made her fell into the affair. She left the town last year to Delta state where she worked and have moved to Lagos (currently work at the Island) where I also reside at the moment with the hope of meeting me.

She has being calling and arranging for a meet up. She even has the guts to ask me about my plans towards marrying her.
I just told her that until we see. I am thinking of telling her to move on with her life but I feel I should not tell her instead, keep her to use to cure konji.

What do u guys think about it? Your opinion is welcome.

Host78:
As usual, these girls all think there's a special billionaire CEO waiting for them somewhere.

A billionaire who will see them, fall in love hopelessly and marry them with huge fanfare wedding.

Their wedding will be the talk of the nation and then they will jet out to some luxurious place for honeymoon.

And all this while, they have less than N50k in their personal account.

And on top of that, they can't cook or clean because in their fantasies, they just wanna "relax and be taken care of".

In their imagination, they just wanna enter Uber and say "take me home" and the Uber driver will just take them home and they will leave without paying anything.

Because, they are "queens" with standards

My question is, "where you Wan see billionaire from?"

All your life, you've not seen a billionaire before and suddenly when it's time for marriage you think one will magically appear abi?

Omo, make una dey calm down. Stop creating impossible situations in your head and reacting to it.

Even Chioma of Davido got there by cooking and cleaning.

And you wey no get urgent twokay dey talk nonsense online with your plastic wig.

Like Gehgeh always say, "most of una go marry broke guys because na wetin be una level be that"

Guys with money no just dey. The sooner you realize this and start preparing for it the better.

Peace

jmoore:
How much is life jacket?

How much is casket+ burial expenses?

Samantha125:
Look after your babies yourselves and stop whining.

PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *13th December 2025*

Topic: What Type Of Sexual History Do You Want?

Scripture:
"Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life." - Galatians 6:7-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Every choice you make about sexuality is a seed you're planting that will eventually produce a harvest. Understanding this principle helps you think long-term about decisions that feel insignificant in the moment.

Sowing to the flesh—making choices based on immediate pleasure without considering consequences—always produces destructive harvests eventually. The timing varies, but the principle never fails. You cannot plant seeds of sexual immorality and reap a harvest of blessing.

Sowing to the Spirit—making choices based on God's standards even when they require sacrifice—produces harvests of life, peace, and blessing. These harvests may not appear immediately, but they're certain and substantial.

This principle applies to both actions and thoughts. Lustful thoughts are seeds that produce harvests of distorted desires and compromised purity. Pure thoughts are seeds that produce harvests of healthy sexuality and godly character.

Some seeds produce immediate small harvests, but all seeds eventually produce harvests that exceed the original seed. A single choice to view pornography doesn't just affect that moment—it plants seeds that can produce harvests of addiction, distorted sexuality, and damaged relationships.

Think about the harvest you want to reap in five, ten, or twenty years. What kind of sexual history do you want? What kind of marriage do you want? What kind of character do you want? Then plant seeds today that will produce those harvests.

*Confession:*

I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

dashpressmedia:
Ruger declares he’ll drop playboy lifestyle if one ‘mystery woman’ forgives him - Dash Press Media ⬇️

https://x.com/dashpressmedia/status/1999799548412400084?s=46[/quote]I hope the mystery woman ignores him.

Using public opinion and social media to strong-arm mystery woman to forgive him is emotional manipulation and blackmail.

If he likes let him continue his playboy behavior. Doctors and hospitals will cash out on his body a decade or two later when one of his organs begin to fail be it his heart, Liver or kidney.

Besides I hope mystery woman doesn't like community dick.

HacheNoire:
Team “Talk yo the child” will be here soon to tell you how she needs to discuss with her child!

If that child had been flogged when necessary and felt severe pain, No way he will have ever have the instinct of going that extreme.

Now they have to talk to him again and ask him why he did such and why he should never do such again.

eazzzy1:
In today’s generation, almost every man is looking for a woman who makes her own money. It’s women who continue to insist on being provided for.

Men are big pushers of equality. Feminists are pushers of female superiority.

SpencerForbes:
Premium gaslighting

— Women initiate way more divorce than men. 70 percent of divorce is initiated by women.

— western women are entitled to over 50% of the man’s money in case of divorce.

— The woman has a chance to claim the children in case of divorce. Except there’s proof of her being mentally unstable.

— Children take care of their mothers in old age compared to their fathers. We have more than one Mother’s Day in a year while that of the father goes unnoticed.

— Patriarch work more to provide for the wife and children and shouldn’t be down played.

Being a tradwife has it own disadvantages but the points listed up there is just a lady victim and trying to gain sympathy or guilt trip the male gender.

tanigororo:
Pelvic Weaknesses, Vágina not tight are both the same effect.
If it's not wrapped round your dîck, it's not tight.

LordIsaac:
The effect of oloshoic tendencies on it is also real.

Kobojunkie:
There will still be bashing of the other gender here, though. Read well! The narrative puts the blame on the other gender for not having strong pelvic muscles. 🥱🥱🥱