₦airaland Forum

DCmonster:
I thought they passed a law against this deposit before attending to emergencies?
Na who pass bill build the hospital?
If you can't afford medical deposit, you go to Government hospital or you kpai. It's simple.

Clemss88:
atleast they should know life is more important than the money. Do they derive joy when they lose a patient . If anything had happened to my wife , they for get am hot

pocohantas:
They have 2kids already and you need to see their living condition.

What did they need a third for? 😩

JuanDeDios:
Well, that's all some people have. Actually, he probably wasn't told to expect complications and then he started hoping for a miracle. He probably thought things would go well like it has always been for every woman in his family. Until he got unlucky.

I've not seen that thread but it's not realistic - some people can't find that money. But I know people on SM don't live in the real world.

Would you, ma, support a law that anyone that can't find 2.5 mil should be barred from having kids?

Clemss88:
Same thing happened to me. private hospital are wicked. Hospital I had my first child , after the delivery I bought minerals for all the staffs even the owner of the clinic. I even brought food for the staffs during our naming. Fast forward to having my second child , we had already done deposit during antenatal, so when my wife wanted to deliver the doctor suggested she do cs . Could you imagine this nonsense woman was telling me to make transfer first before they start anything. I was mad. At that point I was trying to sell some funds from my PayPal which delayed but I ended up selling and transferring to the useless doctor. Before they started attending to my wife. My wife was just crying in her condition. That day I hated that doctor . A woman for that matter

JuanDeDios:
500k is a lot to some people – they just don't have it. Most pregnancies pass without an event and he probably hoped for that. I agree it's not the hospital's fault. It's unfortunate.

iLoveYouToo:
Same people will live in Europe and Americas and seek naturalization. We’re the dark continent for a reason.

Sometimes I wonder what this our foolishness really helped us to achieve

dawnomike:
I own one which I use in the gym... #Buttercolour

Keeps my water chilled with the ice blocks intact althrough the day!!!

chyzoo4u:
Didn't have up to 30k when my wife was in labour. After delivery, a friend paid all hospital bills without me asking.

From that delivery day, money keep flowing into my account and we've never lacked for a single day till date and the baby is close to 2 years.

Don't allow social media people put pressure on you.

Felabrity:
The 5M part no make sense but I don't understand why person go dey think of children when e no get shishi

iwaeda:
If you have water running from your tap in Lagos provided by the State Government. Kindly make a video filling a glass cup with that water, I want to see the water you people are drinking.
@tokunbo_wahab I am sure you would love this thread! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

https://x.com/akintollgate/status/1904238044422787440?t[/quote]lekki people, let's show them the smelling milo they call portable water and send our way.

Tizu:
Please 🙏 is it much easier to japa as a nurse than a doctor?
Educate me please I need to know.
I appreciate in anticipation

Xannadu:
Another reason why guys should be wise when she says "he's just a friend."
All I see here is a lady who dated 2 guys at the same time and went for the one who proposed first.

warlei:
How are you guys doing ?
I’m a doctor choosing to stay in Naija currently due to personal reasons.
Currently starting my residency training next month, I would really like to meet Nigerian Surgical trainees within Nigeria and abroad .
Cheers .

eazzzy1:
It’s rare to see a man leave his marriage because of a side chick. It’s possible she caught him cheating and left him. If he left because of the side chick, he would have married her.

Life goes on. You are a hot mom of two, he’s a hot dad of two. Nobody will regret anything, relationships end everyday. Life is not a Nollywood movie and God is not from your village.

calabaman:


If you saw such a post, what stopped you from having a sit down with your hubby to be and have a discussion about it.

I'm never a fan of spying on a spouse| spouse to be.

No one is perfect including you - but you aunty could have bridged the gap with him.

Well your life - your headache mbok.

Goodmarlian:
These genz girls too like rough guys aswear, a friend invited Me to a show in unilag hosted by gt bank,as a guy wey get orientation I shaparly took my hoody which has a fela picture on it,I took my studs even though I don't really fancy earrings but I had to put them on to be appealing to these genz ladies in Unilag.

As i got to the venue the place was filled up already, I sharpaly maneuver to the front so I can see 9ice and Ayo maff the most popular guest artiste when they perform. Omo naso I jam 2 fresh hottie hottie with bumshorts for front ,I sharparly pull my hoody over my head and I near them.... ,all guys there were hot and Hot but couldn't approach the ladies ,but as an old and experience man wey I be, I knew when to strike and when to retreat,I knew ladies where there for male attention just like the males are there for female attention too so let the best gamer win.

I made sure the ladies saw me on my hoody and studs and 3 ladies were starring already,the DJ started songs and I knew that was the best time to strike..

The 2 ladies started making Snapchat videos of themselves, I shaparly joined their videos and they liked my steeze .. I use the opportunity grab her BBW nyansh with my two hands as the DJ was playing "adunni adunni" she didn't say anything so we danced and rocked that was when I knew I was gonna fvck tonight,her friends looked at me with jealousy like I picked the one with the biggest nyansh amongst them but I no care I held her right.

I move my hand from her nyansh to her waist chai this girl just can't resist my swag even with my hard cultist face..... ,she cooperated with me like she has seen a boyfriend.

The show ended 8pm ayo maff has performed last ,and I told the girl I lodged in a hotel close by if she don't mind spending the night so we rest after so much dancing, that I would give her a queen treatment,her face first changed then she later agreed after much persuasion, I didn't want to make her feel cheap so I try to get to know her first I didn't ask her for hookup I just respected her.
I took her to the hotel my friend and i booked near yaba, made her comfortable and we talked a bit drank some Smirnoff,then we did the do...

She took a shower and put on a towel,I knew if o rushed to sex she might resist so I first opened her leg and suck her pussy very well for 30 minutes she nearly went insane, then I chuked my priik and banged her hard and hard because I knew that was what she wanted I banged for 35 minute then she couldn't take it any more before,I was tired the we slept off.
This morning after another round we were done she bath and dressed up ready to go, I gave her 5k to manage to my surprise she rejected it,that she is not a hookup girl she started giving me attitude, I tried to touch her she refused like never knew me before,I asked her for her contacts she gave me and told me we never met that she has a serious boyfriend.. wetin concern me I saw her off to the gate paid for her keke maruwa and came back to the hotel,I hope we will link up later...

Guestmale:
Criminal advocate

dibunotion:
So dumb. So they should inform criminals that they are coming to raid bah?

SouthAmericalif:
i feel so depressed i have been suffering an injustice for too long and have not face anything been single living with my mum she gave me one million last year to add to what i have to japa and i converted it to usd and gave it to keep for me he misplaced it and we later find it
it’s 12:47 pm he saw me packing and told him why i am angry he has long fallen asleep when he knows am in tears

Silentgroper:
Could you not smile with your teeth out .. I think you'd look a lot prettier that way ...

DarkJeddi:
All these epistle just because a woman is being called out for accountability?
Her body.
Her right.
Ogbeni,if she no want the baby make she terminate am.
Simple!

HenryWilliams:
All this epistle is pointless..
If the man doesn't want you,
Abort the pregnancy..
Don't keep it and start nagging about irresponsible men.

sparko1:
It feels unimaginable, but a lady that smokes and drinks is only good for one thing.

It's actually very simple, there's a difference between snacks and meal, you can eat snacks anywhere, sometimes without washing your hands even, but a meal requires a dinning table, wash both hands, include wine, invite family and friends, even pray before eating.

Tzar:
No it is not by force- also be mindful of paternity fraud! But you should take care of the child (within your means) after you conduct a DNA test. Watch out for the woman too. She will try to manipulate, exploit and hurt you using the child if you don't marry her... especially when DNA proves the child is truly yours.

Nnamdipapa:
Ideally, both are supposed to bear equal responsibilities but in reality, the lady bears more responsibilities for the pregnancy. Men don't get or carry pregnancies.

Nnamdipapa:
harder, harder! And yet, the dic.k is without condom while she is ovulating, what was she thinking about? Is she surprised at the pregnancy?

I will not attempt to argue but will point out that we are talking about two consenting adults. When two lovers have sex, the last thing on their mind is marriage. Now, both are supposed to be adults and consenting so it is assumed that a woman will not allow sex without protection like a condom on the dude. This is to protect from pregnancies and STI's. Also, the lady is able to use after sex pills to prevent pregnancies if no protection, she also is to know her own ovulation cycle.

You see where I am going? The ultimate loser in an unwanted pregnancy is the lady therefore she needs to put in extra protection in my opinion.

Also, I would suggest guys have a protection before sex. The lady is receiving the di.ck and the onus on her to ensure it is protected.

I have seen a situation where a marriage is forced after a pregnancy and it crushed the lady. Abortion or being a single mama may be way better that a forced marriage.

Nnamdipapa:
Never let anyone blackmail you into a marriage unprepared, belle or not. She has the option to terminate the pregnancy if she does not want the title of a baby mama. When she had her legs raised in the air screaming, HARDER! HARDER! GIVE IT TO ME!, What was she thinking about? The sex was consensual and that was the end of business.

I REPEAT, never let the lady , her family, your family or ANYONE blackmail you into a marriage you are not prepared for. Having sex and marrying are two different kettle of fish. You may not even like her enough for marriage.

Wtf men!

idahme:
Women with zero accountability with victim mentality, what stops the girl from nit having sex if the man isn't with condoms? Always portraying women as victims pathetic

AfroKnight:
Emmmm no.

Belle no be proposal.

If you believe your girlfriend is terrible and she would turn out to be a bad wife, my brother, avoid marrying her. Avoid a situation where she has legal rights to your abode, your food, your property and finances.

Highest! She go swear for you.

No be today. You too, swear for her back.

If her parents use oloopa to carry you, say you no wan marry their pikin, ehn no wahala, when you come out you too, use oloopa to carry her papa.

Give them craze for craze to the extent that her parents will be the ones advising her to avoid “useless husband”. Don’t be so shy or timid that you’d enter serious problem.

A bad wife is not an easy affliction to endure.

However, if your babe is your dream girl with compatible character and values, don’t miss the opportunity to marry her.

Regardless of your decision, be financially responsible for her during pregnancy.

Caveat: Do this last one ☝️ if you know the baby is yours.