Family › Re: My Rich Brother Does Not Care About Us.... by drightguy(m): 2:41pm On Oct 27, 2019 |
johnmba: All I explained happened some years back.
We don't depend on him for money. We are all hustling our own but he is our brother. I don't call him to ask for money but I should be able to call my own blood brother and talk with him. I'm in same shoe, my brother don't care but it's not bad because it gave me strength to fight for myself and have that respect. I know at first it was as if the world was crashing but am here struggling; there is respect when you are making it by yourself. If helps come it absolutely okay but if it don't move on. As for the brotherly love "family is not by blood; it's about who is there to stand with you when you needs it" |
Romance › Re: My Boyfriend Loves To Urinate On Me by drightguy(m): 3:36pm On Sep 28, 2019 |
Renderhelp: @Renderhelp,
I don't want him to leave me, how can I enjoy his urine? F......k! who does that? |
Fashion › Re: My Business Is Sinking. Please Help! by drightguy(m): 10:09pm On Sep 12, 2019 |
Towerty: Good day NL fam. I need your help to get my fashion business back.
I started this business about 4 years ago sewing for clients and running a fashion school which had been good. I had a fairly large number of clients which takes care of the business expenses and meeting up with some other minor demands.
We needed space and organisation which prompted me to move into a 2 bedroom apartment of which the difference in rent is small. Most of our clients , over 95% came from online ads and referrals.
As such we had no fear that it will be business as usual since we do not operate with passers by patronising Us. Since we moved into our new place in same location., since January, business has been dead speaking on a soft term.
We run adverts even better than before , every month is a more sad story. No patronage at all. The school is practically on hold right now as no one is enrolling for our programs.
We have been keeping hope alive but it seems not worthwhile. In 3 months to come , we hope to renew our rent. And as we speak , not even a tenth is available as savings.
Please help me with suggestions on how to revive this business. Thank you.
P.s: Expenses did not increase at all. We didn't employ new staff.
Mods, pls push this to front page to get the much needed responses. Thanks Move out of that house! The owner nor pure. Don't quote me |
Romance › Re: I Don't Understand My Life Any Longer by drightguy(m): 5:15pm On Sep 10, 2019 |
Francisayo: My life has always been going well until I lost my dad when I was in year one in university, it shocked me so hard but I still manage to graduate...
I graduated and served d nation.
I have always been an extrovert and I like places that are lively...
I have a lovely gf who is so understandable even though I'm not taking care of her as expected cos of my lack of job
I served and returned home, I have spent 9 months at home since after my service, I looked for job everywhere but no job in sight, my uncle looked for job for me but d job is too tough with little salary ( they call it sales representative but d description is of sales boy), going to work from Monday 8 am to 6 pm Saturday with 18k salary which 6k will go for transport fare in a month.
I know I won't be able to cope with it so I rejected it, but it now seems I'm becoming a burden to my family as they look at me as if I don't want to work.
A woman told me to come and be teaching in her school, jss1 and jss2 only typically a new school, the school location is typically a village, but d pressure from home is much for me and doubt left me with no choice than to accept d offer, d pay is 25k per month... Though out of it I'll be d one to pay for rent and furnish it, house rent is #1500/month....
I traveled to d place today and I can't believe what i met, d place is a very local place and everywhere is just so quiet and boring, i have 5 students in my class.
My gf is already serving and we've not seen each other for months which is already having a bad effect on our relationship...i got home this afternoon and having deep thinking with tears in my eyes if this is how i will continue to live my life...Im 27yrs of age and seems no direction in where my life is going...
Pls, i need mature advice from mature people pls...
It's looking as if i can't survive here at all and my gf is complaining cos better things are not looking to be forthcoming soon.
I'm typing this with tears in my eyes, pls pardon d errors The period between 20 and 30 is the most worrisome part of adult life. You worry about so much. Your dreams. A life partner. Finances. The future. Your parents getting old. You have your age mates doing better than you,you keep wondering why things ain't working out for you.that's why it's very easy for most folks to fall into depression or develop anxiety disorders. To everyone going through this rough phase,I hope we all stay strong and keep pushing,one day we gonna be alright��� |
Celebrities › Re: Angela Okorie Wears Cleavage-Baring Crop Top, Blasts Trolls by drightguy(m): 7:18pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Merkules: Looking like retired Pornstàr Ms Cleo..With 100k I can bleep her for one week,Cheap Thot This comment got me I swear down. Lol |
Celebrities › Re: Angela Okorie Wears Cleavage-Baring Crop Top, Blasts Trolls by drightguy(m): 7:13pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
itspzpics: See More Sexy Photos of Angela Okorie ans Watch Her sexy Video that has got people talking => HERE Just because she appeared recently on news, now the focus will shift to her even if she takes her night bathe it will be posted? |
Politics › Re: ‘Forgive Buhari On Certificate': Lai Mohammed Blames PDP, Says Video "Doctored" by drightguy(m): 7:09pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
eTECTIV: Who doctored dis man's sense abeg? Abba Kyari (COS) D ogidigan one of Nigeria presidency. |
Celebrities › Re: Lynxxx And Genevieve Nnaji Spotted In London (Photos) by drightguy(m): 7:03pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
hemartins: How is this News. People are dying in South Africa mhen. Let's match to South Africa mhen. If you and I are here on Nairaland, even opened the news then it's news mhen. |
Politics › Re: Fayemi: I Eat Booli And Agbado More Than Fayose But Not On The Street by drightguy(m): 6:53pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
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Family › Re: Sa'adat Olajumoke Bakare: Missing Person Alert!!! (PHOTOS) by drightguy(m): 6:48pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
Jayslicky:

She is at her boyfriend's house, as we speak right now she is on a second round of sex, she will return home when she has had enough orgasm. Hah, are you are personal monitoring agent. Okay, what is the direction to her whereabout? |
Science/Technology › Re: Silas Adekunle Shuts Down Reach Robotics In UK by drightguy(m): 6:45pm On Sep 08, 2019 |
FuckThaMod: Yorubas don't know how to sustain business.. He should have handed it over to igbo  I wanted to comment but looking at ur name "FuckThaMod" makes me know you like trouble.  |
Career › Re: A Personal Laundry Business Or Entry Level Job At A Bank by drightguy(op): 4:40pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
GrabHisBalls: Most people will tell you to stick to your business, but if I were you, I would do differently.
Firstly, you're a contract staff, not so fare, but contract staffs do become permanent employees. Having said that, the job will give you a network. New banker friends, open doors to meeting new people you never can tell what impact they'd add to your life. At times, you build capacity by staying on a job that doesn't pay so well.
I have a friend that's into this laundry business. From her book-keeping record, there are days she makes above 15k, while there are days she makes nothing. Using your salary as a benchmark, she makes over that a month since the business is still new. Running expenses not inclusive.
What I would do differently if I were you. 1. Take up the job to build capacity. 2. Start up the business in my new location. 3. Get someone to run it while I supervise when I can and get my co-bankers to patronize me. Your point is very good also. |
Career › Re: A Personal Laundry Business Or Entry Level Job At A Bank by drightguy(op): 3:59pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
Pearl05: Please build your business. Bank job doesn't have guarantee talk more when it's contract staff. Thanks so much |
Career › A Personal Laundry Business Or Entry Level Job At A Bank by drightguy(op): 3:47pm On Aug 15, 2019 |
Hello guys, Recently after resigning from a micro finance bank I started plans to open a laundry business here in my area. The idea came when I found out that in the full area there is no laundry man here. Paid for 1year store rent and about to start up the shop when I got a teller job in a bank and it will require me to relocate. Please guys should take the job or continue with my personal business? Note the salary is around 55k monthly and it's a contract job |
Family › Re: Please Help My Husband Does This Weird Stuff by drightguy(m): 1:06am On Aug 14, 2019 |
Sweettwenty8: Finaly i decided to create an account
What's up Nairaland, Please Pardon my English.
So me and my man been married for a year now but here's the thing he does that pisses me OFF!!! TOTALLY!!!! ehn, every time I cook rice and stew (fried stew/fish/meat) he'd ask me to go outside the estate to go and buy Ewa(beans) (I'm using Ewa because that's how he pronounces it. So I noticed this earlier and I started Cooking beans anytime I cook rice. He'll still request for 'Ewa' the Mama put beans made and sold by the roadside
While we dated he'd even ask me to cook for himself and his friends and if my cooking was bad, I'd have gotten feedback somehow.. how can I serve food and he'll ask me to go get 'Ewa' at Shangisha Outside Magodo Gra to mix his rice even when we have visitors he will send me a whatsapp message to still go get Ewa most times he'll even book uber if i tell him I'm too tired to drive I'm tired of going to buy Ewa!!
How do i get to know what the problem is, because it's definitely not my cooking, 2 of my office buddies they don't buy lunch because i bring enough food for 3 of us everyday and they'd have stopped eating it if it was bad Actually post like this makes it difficult to give the right advise because we don't know the truth concerning your food "tasting good" but I will have to take your words "I can cook very well" I will want to say that first, your husband is not charmed in any way; he is probably been addicted to it There is every possiblity that your husband was at a time a regular customer to the said woman thereby making him addicted to the woman's "Sweet food". Going to the extent of booking Uber for you to get the beans shows how much he enjoys it secondly, you can be a good cook yet can't cook same way the said woman does. My Lagos guys can relate well to the fact that all beans aren't beans, that you can cook rice and stew and other food doesn't mean you can cook beans very well. My advise to you is to try and learn the way that woman does her cooking (recipe) and at the right time makes your husband to understand that he should be encouraging you by eating your own beans and limit his visit to the woman's shop. Bia the act of feeding your colleagues at the office does not makes you to know you are a good cook. You better limit it before your husband gets to know. |
Crime › Re: Soldier Assaults A Girl Wearing “Camo” In Ogun (Photos) by drightguy(m): 8:25pm On Aug 09, 2019 |
Abeg Nigeria bloggers I hardly believe them. |
Crime › Re: Kidnappers Kill Funke Olakunrin, Daughter Of Reuben Fasoranti, Afenifere Leader by drightguy(m): 10:53pm On Jul 12, 2019 |
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Politics › Re: As Saraki Goes Into Political Purgatory by drightguy(m): 8:09am On Jun 09, 2019 |
All I see in the write up is hate. Politics works very differently. Give him sometime and he will be back. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigeria Customs Recruitment 2019. How To Apply. 3,200 Officers To Be Recruited by drightguy(m): 12:26am On May 14, 2019 |
Pls add me to the whatsapp group 081.531.914.64 |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool vs Barcelona: UCL Semi-Finals (4 - 0) On 7th May 2019 by drightguy(m): 9:38pm On May 07, 2019 |
Calm down guys, am seeing barca surprising Liverpool. This is just to prove that nearly can't kill a bird.  |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Urgent Positions To Fill At A Reputable Company In Abuja...see Inside by drightguy(m): 8:56am On May 07, 2019 |
Pls can I apply from Delta State? |
Christianity Etc › Re: Adeboye To Single Ladies: Don’t Marry Jobless Men by drightguy(m): 8:01pm On May 05, 2019 |
Jobless man can have a job in the future. No condition is permanent! |
Celebrities › Re: Genevieve Nnaji Celebrates Her 40th Birthday by drightguy(m): 6:11am On May 03, 2019 |
Happy big 40th birthday  |
Nairaland General › Re: Four Killed, Two Critically Injured As Ebonyi, Benue Communities Clash Over Land by drightguy(m): 10:35pm On May 02, 2019 |
To get the killers, arrest those chiefs. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Airtel Nigeria Early Career Recruitment Programme 2019 by drightguy(m): 9:52pm On May 02, 2019 |
Airtel  |
Politics › Re: Int’l Body Lauds Ugwuanyi On Peace, Security, Good Governance by drightguy(m): 9:14pm On May 02, 2019*. Modified: 9:47pm On May 02, 2019 |
Ugwuanyi is trying no doubt.
Don't quote me.
FTC |
Crime › Re: Man Parked His Car In Bank Premises In Edo, When He Came Out, He Saw This by drightguy(m): 3:11am On May 02, 2019 |
Be security conscious and always try to remove anything that can attract criminals to your car. Some people are so careless that they leave things like phone, bags or other valuable in the seat. |
Education › Re: Folashade Salako Wins Pharmacist Award For Best Pharmacy Brain by drightguy(m): 3:02am On May 02, 2019 |
Thumbs up girl. |
Celebrities › Re: Tony Elumelu Climbs Chair While Celebrating UBA At 70 (photo) by drightguy(m): 2:57am On May 02, 2019*. Modified: 6:38am On May 02, 2019 |
Joyous  . FTC |
Celebrities › Re: Mike Godson Reacts To Tonto Dikeh's Saga, Etinosa Questions Him by drightguy(m): 2:54am On May 02, 2019 |
After Regina Daniel and Ned now it's Tonto time to keep the internet busy again.  |
Health › Re: I Think I'm HIV Resistant by drightguy(m): 9:38pm On Apr 29, 2019 |
Even if you are among people with some form of resistance to HIV which is under 1% better be careful. |
Politics › Re: Amaechi And Akpabio's Reconciliation...nsima Was Our Problem by drightguy(m): 9:31pm On Apr 29, 2019 |
Two pussi ass niggas. |