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Mrperfecto:
I will just be brief without writing too much.

We are based we have 4 children, my first child is 13 from my previous relationship, she has become very terrible, she doesn't listen to me or my wife. She tells her that she is not her biological mother and she cannot control her. She had threatened to call the police on my wife telling her if she touch her she will fight her back and call the police. She goes to school and closes at 3.45 her school is 10 mins walk from home, but she is always late for home.

She comes home around 6 sometimes 7pm , as I am writing now every friday she closes at 12.30 but she is still hasn't come back home yet.

I am on my way to work. I start at 6.30pm till 2.30am so I rarely get to see her and she only misbehaving when I am not around. So far we have seized her phone because we had found so many inappropriate messages exchanges between her and boys. We had also removed the TV from her room and her behaviour has gotten worse. She is behaving like she's possessed.

My wife and I are fed up. Even her siblings are tired of her. We want to send her back to Nigeria maybe in a boarding school until she is 18 in order to protect her younger ones. If we keep her and she continues with her terrible behaviour I may beat her badly and we may end up loosing all 4 children to the authorities.

Please what advice will you give to me concerning this issue?

I have been in your shoes for slightly different reasons. Bringing her home is the best option. How you will do it with her complying with the travel plans is the major obstacle. When she gets here, keep her passport under lock and key. And you are good to go.

Ebinpiawazuu:
https://dailypost.ng/2024/02/23/biafra-war-your-comment-disgraceful-shows-lack-of-wisdom-sam-amadi-knocks-gowon/

This amadi or whats his name is talking arant nonsense. Is it Gowon that he should blame or Ojukwu? Who started the war? Who declared the war? Nonsense!!!

senatordave1:
Guys,it's like sen okpebholo is leading oh.they are streaming it live on tvc....cc indispensable85, Edogovernor, donphilopus,validated,aswani


Cc mynd44
Seun
Nplfmod
Garfield10
Casualobserver
Drlateef
Svoboda
Edogovernor
Jorussia

Best candidate should win.

Biodun556:
May Tinubu succeed

Ameen

seunmsg:
That’s a bold and courageous leader who knows what to do. Correcting the mistakes of the past is not an easy process. The reforms, though painful, is the only sensible option considering our current situation. We must all endure and allow the process to achieve desired outcome.

I agree with you. The only dissenters are Obi supporters who continue to wail for their loss, and ignorant ones who know next to nothing on what the reforms are all about. Another small group consists of saboteurs and their family members disturbing social media with their rantings.

Racoon:
Not when your commander in chief is a character with all shades of unimaginable criminality.

Obi walers are crying again. 😂😂😂

AuwalYusuf812:

Any problem with that?

yom2:
still not an average man's deal

But most average men buy generators of 400k to be powered by 1 millar petrol throughout the year, with all the dangers involved etc.

AuwalYusuf812:
Kills electronic quickly

Use stabilisers.

matify83:
I may not be an expert in the field of renewable energy and will not suddenly claim one.

I think you assertion of basing my utilizable energy on my input set-up is flawed. You didn't consider my stored energy pool in arriving at your hypothesis.

I pass my neighbour generator can never power a Phillips 1000w pressing iron but my array can conveniently carry it even when every other home appliance is running.

Experts in the field should help out in this matter.

I just answered him up there.

GerogeI:
This your claim get as I be.
Most times a 300 watt rated panel will give you 50 to 100w effective power. So your 10 panels will give you 500W to 1Kw instant power. That's 1 pass my neighbour generator at best. More often your effective power is about 700W. AC is at least 1 hp, solar chest freezer is 100w, inverter fridge is 200w. Plus lighting ,TV, fan etc. There is no way 10 solar panels can power everything in your house. You are either supplementing from grid or running your home appliances one at a time.

Do not give peeps false expectation. Your effective power will be 10 to 20% of your installed capacity.

What if he is generating from the power in stored batteries? The batteries have 10kw of stored energy. The power of his inverter is my own concern. A 3.5kva is about 3kw. How can that power all the appliances at once?

Yorubafonja:
Most original inverter manufacturers don't produce 3.5kva on 12v because is not efficient,
You can never see sukam or genius 3.5kva in 12 volts, maximum you can see on 12v is around 1kca 1.2kva etc,
Original 3.5 kva comes in 48 volts or thereabouts

You can find 3Kw 12V on Jumia. They are very cheap. Not sure of durability.

Yorubafonja:
4 *220 ah battery . Parallel is not a good idea sha,
24 volts or 36 volts is more efficient

A 12V inverter is far cheaper. I am seeing 3KW 12v inverter at less than 60,000 on Jumia.

DamnnNiggarr:
Peter Obi

Obi must be mad for saying this rubbish. Busibesses are hoarding and inflating prices, and he is saying this poo. May God punish this man. Obi must stop this madness or government will close down his business too. Nonsense!!!

madfind:
u no go ever learn

Obi can only be president in the land of flat….s😂

Good2go1:
I think you should be the one to shut up and hide in shame. Who removed subsidy without thinking of the consequences and who floated Naira? Which tribe helped Buhari to win after being rejected by other tribes many times?you need to bury your face in shame.

Shut up I repeat! Removing subsidy is necessary and correcting the evils Emefiele created is also necessary. The pains are unavoidable. So keep quiet wherever you are.

Good2go1:
At least even if she dies she should take consolation that her tribe person is the president. We are learning in the hard way

I need you to shut up now!!! Is that hard? Her tribe person did not destroy Nigeria. This country was moribund before he was elected.

nlfpmod:
Atedo Peterside

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/8002490/fg-seals-off-sahad-store#128482783

Hoarding is a criminal act. Any investor that wants to commit crime is not welcome in Nigeria.

Floky215:
I would continue to echo it, what Nigeria need now is a reset back to default mode and its the military that can do such except they want the masses to hit the street which of course would be bloody with lots of destructions would follow...!!

No matter how bad a military government is in Nigeria, this current administration is 100 times worst...!!

I don’t agree. It is the same military under Aguiyi Itonsi that turned Nigeria into a unitary country. Military concentrate power at centre. They will never balkanise Nigeria.

EreluRoz:
I actually feel so sad when I see people blaming asiwaju, it's the reason I have agreed to revolution after his tenure.

No!!! He should just divide this country into pieces and leave. Let us continue with our development and let’s see if they will come to southwest to sabotage us.

EreluRoz:
That emefiele killed Nigeria and it's sad asiwaju is carrying all the blamed on his head 😭😭😭😭. You guys have no idea what Buhari regime did to Nigeria

Excellent position. Only people from the sadeast will oppose this statement.

Entprys:
YEs. That 8 years is ours. The economy is only toughening us. We shall get acustomed to it soon.
8 years, Then power back to north

Agreed. And the Igbo business people trying to hoard dollars as they promised after losing elections, they will see pepper.

God1000:
Apart from Napoli, Brentford and other clubs supported Nigeria right from the beginning to the end, we appreciate their support.

Nigeria should start preparing for the next AFCON and world cup tournaments, we need new players, local players should be given the chance to showcase their talents.

On a lighter note, Have we created enemies for ourselves in Africa, because I don't understand why Ghanians and south Africans are seriously mocking us online, they've taken the banter to another level.

Why are you wondering? They get the stick from us all the time. Don’t you want them to cry after being bitten.

Maks27:
I’m not a child but you can call me inexperienced. Relationship and this kind of thing is pretty new to me cause I’ve always been the no girl type
I just recently started dating

Majority of the time they have a jinn husband who will be jealous and attack you, if you are not spiritually strong. Yes, they bring good luck and money. But you must be spiritually strong to live with them.

Omoawoke:
Lol, one MOD has been banning me back to back for no reason, I’d start with him. I go ban MOD.

I know you have a mission 😂😂😂

IrawoKross:
Please, let the yansh and breast be clean before you open it.... I will be watching keenly.


Shey una wan teach Peter Obi lesson.

We would have turned to Somalia by now if Peter Obi was in charge. Completely empty lying skull😂😂

Omoawoke:
I love NL, and I value it’s contribution and importance in creating value and meaning to every Nigerian both home and abroad. It is a gigantic library of information, a place of fun. A place where even the frustrated comes to spit out their pains and anger.
It’s a place you can relate to the feelings of the ordinary everyday Nigerians

And that’s why I need to become an MOD. I know I’ve been a tribal warlord, but I’ve dropped my weapons and embraced amnesty.

Additionally, Seun, you need to have MODs in different time zones, some crazy people often come here in the middle of night when MoDs are probably sleeping to create nasty threads. That’s where I come in, I’ll ban their sorry nasty assss for life before you wake up, because that’s when I’m still awake

Have you been sent by IPOB on a mission to ban people like us for life?😂