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yes! it needs a little tuning and maybe some gas, no big deal.

Here is a Nigerian Used 1993 BMW 318i (e36) for sale. Engine is in good condition for BMW lovers and those who know the level of performance and handling you can get from a BMW, this is for you at a very reasonable giveaway price.

Just pay and drive away.

400k

reach me on  meoler@gmail for further enquiries.

Thanks.

how about 700k?

@Mr Niceguy,

I need a 2004 or 2005 Honda accord(EOD)full options from cotonou. I want to know how much it will cost me including custom duty. my budget is less than 2m. thanks.

call me shallow but from experience. I will go for the Attractive one, anyday anytime.

Why?
Because If you have a "Fat Ugly Mama" at home that scores a mere B+ in bed then you're gonna be cheating on her(eventually).Who wants to be seen with a woman who looks like his mom in public(maybe even tying wrapper everywhere).

Whereas an attractive wife that makes your heart skip a beat everytime you see her and score all A's in bed will keep your love life sparkling.
Nannies and House-helps can do all the chores o jare (do you want my pretty wife to break the nails I just paid for?)

Im very interested, I hope it is negotiable. oops I have to see some pics first. send to meoler@gmail.com

I just started saving for this very model, not quite there yet. Would be a real shame to pass this up, im sure it will be sold before i save up to 1.5m.
viperman, just promise me you'll help me get one just like this when my money is complete. do you know about any financing options available to people like me.

Did I forget to mention that the class of girls that mostlydemand an allowance are model-type chics. Like trophy-girlfriends, very flashy and fly.
Just like a model and a beauty queen I used to hang out with.

They are so beautiful and light skinned, they get men a dime a dozen in excess. So if you're not paying, someone else takes your spot.

waleski:
who else wuld he spend the money on if not his gf?

his family nko?
mother, brother, sisters and younger ones, damn! they're not even married.
family comes first for me till we are man and wife, she could even leave you a couple of months down the line even with your "allowance" but family will always be family.

whitelexi:
You really should be doing thanksgiving in church for delivering u from the evil of womanhood

I should and I am. Been playing it solo for a while after that. Besides I never slept with her throughout the relationship because she said she was still a "virgin" and was saving the cherry for marriage(basically forming good girl), so naturally I was surprised by this so called virgin making such a statement. She probably played herself trying to act innocent.

One mistake is all she needed.

TheSeeker:


But, girls can go ahead and tell her friends and they'd tell her "oh he's a nice guy" at their back of their mind they will say "oh please he's a fool". What evolves later on is one of her friends ending up seducing her boyfriend and taking him from her. Then the quarrel of boyfriend snatcher comes into play. Why do you think she took him? Not because she thinks he's a good guy but because he's a potential mugu who thinks he's Mother Theresa.

You've just explained a "remarkable phenomenon" about boyfriend snatching. Them girls are looking for a baller or a spender to snatch. For instance M.K.O. Abiola was far from handsome but his wealth got him like 20 some wives( if i'm correct). The wives were all on an allowance(even till this day). Fela is another good example.
Most girls talk about class but at the end of the day it boils down to how much cash the guy has. Why then will an educated lady decide to settle for second wife to an affulent man, knowing fully well that he has a wife at home? They don't mind sharing him when it comes to that considering the security involved.

I've seen christian sisters get pregnant to trap a yahoo-guy because of his wealth and flashy lifestyle. Broke up with a girlfriend (the one that demanded allowance), In her tears she told me that if only she had trapped me like that sister did to the yahoo boy then I would'nt have had the chance to walk away so easily.

It's crazy

spikedcylinder:
[color=#000099]You knew what?

Thought u said u was a man/she male.

spikedcylinder:
Awww. . . .thanks hun. Would things change if I tell you I am a man though?

Aha! I knew it!!
No wonder,

I feel that some men are partly to blame for this because some men want to impress girls by trying to appear to be what they are not. They spend beyond their means to keep the girl, even if she doesn't ask.

The same girls may in subsequent relationship expect the same treatment from a new guy and may not understand why the guy will not "drop".

A young security guard at my office got busted for stealing/soliciting money from staff, His reason?

His flashy girlfriend just got back from school and he had to impress her as well as send her back with enough money to keep up with her lifestyle back in campus.

Na wah O.

[quote author=d-ROC link=topic=298349.msg4212856#msg4212856 date=1247994723]I have asked a few girls out in my time and I've gotten responses like:


How much do you earn?
Can you afford me?
How much you wan give me sef, Abeg your money no reach?
I need a monthly allowance of XXXX before I can say yes.
I have needs.
I'm the first daughter so I need a man that can give me enough to support my family.
My ex-boyfriend was this and that so I cant settle for less sorry.
Excuse me, I don't see any diamonds with you so I'm sorry.[/quote]I've seen a lot of bullshit in my time while trying to be the nice guy and I'm not trying to be a player or a bad guy. I've kinda lost my faith in all women, maybe only the right one can restore my faith, hope I find her soon.

Thanks for clearing the air on that, your's seems to be a different case then.

A woman that sticks with a man through the rough times deserves everything and more when the going is good.

unitee:
@ rilla lol lol lol why oh why

you made me laugh

that statement i made here are for those before this dude

my dear this dude I have tried to remove my devouted xtian self

lol lol ohh why

In essence you backslided just to please this guy.
lol lol ohh why

sugabelle:
lol> calling me a gold digger like it's a dirty word , who cares? Sticks and stones, dude. You on the other hand, show the tell-tale signs of being an aka-gum(stingy tight-fist) There's a four out of five chance your babe has a second or third bf.

Maybe because I have a generous and caring boo, and I see what my pals go through with their stingy bfs. But they want her to open her legs when ever and however they like. Shior. But of course you don't have to be loaded to be entitled to a girlfriend, so to the OP, I'm sure if the guy is broke, and the girl knows he's sincerely not able to provide, then she'll have to understand. But when the chap is obviously okay financially and decides, out of that old-fashioned "gold-digger mentality" that he will not "pay" to date her, then that makes me sick. I never have to "beg" or demand my man for anything, he knows the drill. And in turn he gets my full and deepest devotion.

You made finally made some sense with what you said about the dude being financially ok and not giving you your "cut". Now, that statement about him expecting the girl to throw her legs wide open when he ain't dropping the allowance just sounds straight up like "LovePeddler-talk".

Would you be with your current boo, if he wasn't a "baller"? It's time you know where you really stand.

I have asked a few girls out in my time and I've gotten responses like:


How much do you earn?
Can you afford me?
How much you wan give me sef, Abeg your money no reach?
I need a monthly allowance of XXXX  before I can say yes.
I have needs.
I'm the first daughter so I need a man that can give me enough to support my family.
My ex-boyfriend was this and that so I cant settle for less sorry.
Excuse me, I don't see any diamonds with you so I'm sorry.

I mean, I love now something that we have to bargin for like a piece of fish in the marketplace. Is love now a commodity to be bought?

This does not mean I am stingy in anyway but it is a real turn-off when you admire someone and all they can think about is how much money they will make out of a relationship. Now, what makes them different from the prostitutes who expect to get paid for their services as well(only they don't deny what they are)

It only means that as a man I can get any other woman out there if the price is right.
And this could be the primary reason why some men cheat on their wives because they feel she married them for their money so they'll punish her by tying her down and getting other girls with the same money she loves so much.

sugabelle:
stay there dey ask. You are open to three situations:

date a girl who's not so rich, and fail to give her a regular allowance, then prepare to be cheated on as she sleeps around with those who will give her what she needs. she might keep u as her bf but will certainly have a richer and more generous lover to meet her demands

or, date a rich girl who won't need your dough but will still expect you to "shake bodi" just so she won't feel it's you dating her for her money. In short, rich girls demand just as much bc it feels better telling her friends "my bf bought this/dat for me

OR date a poor girl who's not demanding but would love to have the good things of life(which she's afraid to ask you for money to buy), and notice she might be secretly unhappy and this will put a strain on the r/ship. Who won't like to have good phone, enuf credit, nice clothes and hair, and if the bf can afford it, why not?

If you want her enough to ask her out, you should be ready to take care of her needs. If you can't afford a definite weekly/monthly allowance, at least make some funds available from time to time.

In conclusion and sorry to say, but real men in love don't ask this question you're asking.

This kind of post could only have come from a woman's point of view. You were right in your classification of the various classes of girls but what you failed to realise is that the topic is only trying to answer a question of whether love between two people can continue to exist if the boyfirend cannot afford "the allowance".

For instance, I just lost my job and it totally caught me unawares financially and I made no plans prior to the incident. Now, will a girlfriend who has been used to "a sizeable allowance" continue to show me the same kind of love in the light of my current circumstances. Knowing fully well that I have no more income, I should expect to be left in the dust for some richer dude right?

And one more thing, because a man is temporarily indisposed financially does not mean he is not a "real man". The weather can always change.

dude, don't get mad at her. She's indirectly telling you to step up to the plate and make a commitment.

[quote author=na2day? link=topic=298333.msg4210583#msg4210583 date=1247943049]tell them brother, tell them. all that needy stuff, thats what the teddy bears are for  


oh i will gladly tell u

these are a few things u need to check

1) when do u call? during a game? when he is trying to sleep? etc

2) how long is ur call time? u will be surprised how much we feel like telling u shut up on the phone  

3) what kind of topics do u bring to the table? i once had a girl that wanted to not just talk to me about flowers but make me go see a flower show, i felt like committing suicide, no lie  

4) what kind of tone do u use to get his attention on the first "hello"? i had a female friend that once called me and my friends while we were playing street fighter, she said "hello" in the most sexy way that it ended our game, we had to tell her to do it again. after she dropped, that was the discussion of the day.

5) do u sound needy? the last thing a man needs is to pile more worries on the ones in front of him. a lady that sounds too needy is a no no for most guys period, take it or leave it.

6) are u always complaining? stop, we all hate nagging  

7) how much compliment do u give to him? or is he the one that always gives u a compliment first? start my telling him how his deep voice turns u on, wow, u will get a conversation like no other and trust me it can lead to serious non sexual talk since u got his attention, u just have to be smart abt the transition

8 ) self less discussions: how often do u call just to talk ONLY [/b]about the welfare of his family and how he can contribute positively to [b]HIS family advancement in whatever

9) creativity: how creative are u? when last did u decide to write him a poem, not necessary a love poem but something that he can relate to, u can only do this if u truly have studied him. write something creative with ur pic by the side (not nude pics) and send it to him by regular mail or email, some thing that will make him think deeply about things that affect him, u dont have to always call him, after reading ur deep thoughts, he might be the one calling u to ask for advise or share a fear or an ambition or something

10) how often do you pray? i mean more than 5mins sincere prayer. i know men like to feel like the almighty protector of the relationship and house but there is nothing more secured in most man's heart for him to know he has a wife that prays an honest prayer bcuz when the chips are down and the man is confused about what next to do, he wants to know that u can tell him, honey, its ok, we should pray together. i remember back in the dayz if i fall ill and they want to give me all kinds of drugs, i always tell them "may i call my mother?" that woman prays like there is no tomorrow and that gives me confidence that things will turn out right.



FYI: for any more advise, i need to see the color of ur $$$$$$   [/quote]@Na2day, every woman needs to see this. If you were a girl I would hug you for this wonderful piece. This is all any girl needs to win a mans heart.All! Finish!

You are a genius.(I wish we could add friends just like on facebook)

They say money can't buy love but it seems there's still no love without some money. Girls now size up a guy to find out if he can "afford" them. I have had a couple of girlfriends that demanded to know exactly how much I earn. Some even went as far as telling me that a percentage of my salary now belonged to them. Isn't it like paying her to be your girlfriend. What happens if you don't pay?

Some girls will say"as your girlfriend you don't expect me to be wearing old clothes and not have my hair fixed etc". Hence the "allowance". Seems relationships like everything else is "pay as you go".

The question is:


Girls :Does your  guy have to pay you an allowance(monthly, weekly or daily) for the relationship to continue?

Guys: Will you pay your girlfriend a monthly allowance if she demands it or are you already paying her?


I'm looking forward to learning a lot about relationships from this thread.

I cant believe what I'm reading. So most nairalanders are ex-Gala hawkers?? Child abuse in Nigeria is quite alarming!

Thank God o. Till this day I haven't had to lift a finger.