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sweet ride, been looking forward to buyin this car, whats ur last coins on this one?, am really interested, pls post more pics

[size=15pt]Pls guys, im depending on your updates, dont leave out any juicy details.[/size]

pls give us more updates. I dont have access to the show right now.

@Childchris

Nkenna bashing only makes her popular and unforgettable(unlike Geraldine), Nkenna is already a celebrity. Her strategy is to be controversial and it seems to be working perfectly for her. Even bad publicity is good publicity.

I'm not an Nkenna fan at all, in fact i was appalled by her laying on the kitchen bare floor and stripping herself naked while begging Mzamo and Geraldine. "Do you want me to go naked in front of Africa?" she said and naked she did go(I think she was still a bit tipsy, that night).
For the first time Big Brother had to attempt to cover Nigeria's shame by turning off the lights to conceal her unclothedness.

I've been involved in serious Nkenna bashing on other threads because of her shameful behaviour which she never exhibited while she was in the palace with the girls and even a few weeks with the boys, you would probably had thought she was a cool naija chic, Wrong!

Nkenna's metamorphosis started as soon as Paloma left. A day before that it was rumored that one of the hairdressers told her that she needed to be more visible. At that point she totally switched to her Ibo accent and village girl antics.

Love her or hate sha, I have to say as far as reality shows go. The show wouldn't have been the same without her. She is actually a strong character and someone you watch out for everyday if you want to hear or see anything bizzarre. As much as she constantly shames her family, herself and her country, Shes a strong and controversial character that cannot be Ignored on BBA4.

As far as her celebrity goes; quote me she will be a Nollywood star actress.

jiniux:
Are u sure she actually said that, saying such abt her dad and mum's grave.

cos of 200,000 dollars

yes she said that word for word to Emma when she confronted her about Elizabeths disclosure that she actually planned to get Emma & Jeremy up together. I feel its not necessary for a well brought up girl to use her father's life to deny an allegation of which she was obviously guilty. She should leave her mum to rest in peace too.

Thanks a lot guys, I appreciate all your advice.

atilla:
D-roc howfar seems u like this girl.

I think you should take it easy with her and the more time you spend getting to know her the better. Dont rush into anything like having sex with her (unprotected sex aaaaah) or going to meet her parents and family as her boyfriend.

I think you should spend more time getting to know her. Take her out to night club, drink with her, she how she behaves there, see how she behaves when she is sad, drunk, happy, has money, broke etc cause this will really let you know wether she has changed her ways or IS WILLING/TRYING to change because she has seen you.

just be careful and dont wear your heart on your sleeve so u get hurt. Also treat her nice cause she has made mistakes and everyone deserves second change but ALSO be prepared to be harsh to her so she know u are not a mugu or wont try being aggressive to have her way (e.g sending messages to u until u reply her, calling u non stop)

Goodluck

Your advice is well recieved. I'm impressed by your maturity and constructive insight in answering my question. Hope there are more nairalanders like this.

cantell:
When a lady compares you with her ex in that kind of way, she's not over him. She's takin you for a ride and if you don't get out in time, you're heading for a big bang!

GBAM!
if her ex ever wants her back, o boy u will be d loser o

You dont wanna be with this girl cos she's ugly?

What If d baby is wowo(ugly), U go pick race abi u go deny am on d spot?

pc guru:
Guy stop whining it's easy give her a chance and if she blows it you scram.That's even the part of being a man taking risks.Also don't judge someone from thier past.I've dated some runs girl and trust me some of em don't know why they got into it, and i believe in individuality that pple are and can be different if they choose to be.Cuz i don't expect pple to judge me from my past cuz the pc guru from the past and me from the future are quite different.

I see your point.

I maybe I'll give her a chance after all.
Shes sent me like 20 SMS messages since yesterday, I haven't replied yet but I'm about to send her an SMS just to let her know I ain't given up yet.

Now she's calling my phone, Oops.

victorazy:
Then she must go back to him, thats all.

Put her ass out! That oughta wake her up. U must be a softy, I can't go for that.

brein:
I went on a few day voyage to visit a family friend only for me to get entangled to a gurl (not even beautiful an inch), as nature wuld have its way, one thing led to another etc, etc. After about a year the news flew to me that she was pregnant and so on but the most astonishing thing is she began calling me as regular as she could, sometime i even overheard baby cries from the call background etal. . . all indicating with conspicuous iota of her having a baby.
But soon as i notice her communication grieviances, i suspect she's trying to put the baby on my neck to father while i am NOT ready to father a child at all for now.

Good people of Nl, would it be right for me to resist communication with this (not beautiful/pretty) girl? cos i can as well just change my sim card line and let go since am back in my domain and she doesnt an inch of my whereabouts. .
I need candid advices so i dont be a victim of a come-back future negativities as result of my then act.
Thanks.

What u have done is nothing short of callous. Now you know she's ugly. Buck up and be a man not a runaway baby daddy.

ALAKANNI:
O-Y-O. On Your Own. No matter what we advice you here you have your life to live. Just follow your heart or your mind. Good luck bros.

Thats my point exactly, I don't want to make the wrong decision that I could regret.

Thanks for your responses guys, I really appreciate them.

Ebonyeyes:
Negro please. How many guys have ran through 30 girls and consider themselves decent guys? What of you? you probably ran through alot of girls and want to settle down now and you want a "good girl" Double standards or what?

Contrary to what you think, I'm not your average guy who runs through lots of girls. Like I said earlier I don't encourage such a lifestyle for personal reasons. Maybe she should be with someone who shares similar values with her.

I know no one is perfect but every week I uncover something bizzare about her, which I eventually overlook the next week. For instance she was formerly a lesbian(and still checks out women from time to time), She has been into runs for cash, smoked and drank, picked up guys at clubs, she dated only cultists when on campus,she told me she's had many mugus and she's been raped by one or two guys who she initially thought were mugus. Maybe because she's from a poor background she did things to send money home. I managed to deal with the fact that my dream girl may not be perfect and have all my desired qualities but nevertheless I overlooked all this.

Now after yesterday's conversation, she said she could only recall 10 guys minus "some small small flings here and there"(her words), all in the past 1 and half years. She also told the whole bunch of em she loved them.

She claims she's changed since last month that we started, thats why she had earlier tried to hide her lifestyle from me .

Can she change her ways overnight?

Our relationship is almost a month old. I was really hoping she would be the one but this evening after bit of probing, I discovered that she's lost count of the number of guys she's slept with in one and a half years since she was disvirgined. She says she can remember only 10 clearly for now and I asked how it came about and she said she was just having fun and flings. She claims she loves me and that she sees something different in me and I'm the first guy she's truly loved, then I asked her how many of the 10 she told "I love you" and she couldn't speak.

I had my suspicions about her being a former runs girl before now but she claimed all her friends were into the lifestyle and not her, only for me to discover today that she has been around the block too. I personally do not subscribe to casual sex as it goes against my personal beliefs.

Is more than 10 sex partners over a one and half-year period normal for a decent girl or am I overeacting?

Can I trust her completely or is she likely to be using me as shes been through so many guys in such a short period of time?

The relationship is less than a month old and I'm still getting to know her. My intentions for this girl are genuine but I'm confused whether to go on with the relationship or to be cautious as i dont want to get myself hurt or played. Pls I need constructive advice.

Old topic, but I just gotta chip in.

Looking at the time between when she had the rendevous with the posters brother and when she started dating this guy, it could be give or take 4months difference. Few things could have changed or maybe not, be that as it may, the girl engaged in prostitution(engaging in a pre-arranged sex-for-cash transaction). On campus we called it "Runs".

All can be overlooked but it depends on the guy in question as well as the girl's willingness to turn a new leaf and desist from such behaviour in future. My girlfriend has a simlar history(if not worse) but I chose to overlook it all as she is with me now and "old things are passed away".

The secret to my overlooking her past was simply her "honesty" about it, finish! at least she was mature enough to let me know her past even though she stood the risk of losing me, which made me even more attracted to her. I guess what people are saying here is not so much a matter of what the girl in question did in her past but whether she can be honest enough to tell the man who loves her the truth and not continue decieving him(trust me, I've met prostitutes who claimed to be virgins because they saw a husband material around the corner).

If she refuses to be honest with her guy(who will likely forgive her cos he loves her), and he later finds out about it 2 or 3 years down the line, then she has dug her own grave. I know a neighbour who found out that his wife was a former prostitute 5 years into marriage when they just kept running into her former-clients. Today they are seperated.

The girl in question should be encouraged to be honest with her guy as it will pay her in the long run. Personally, I always mind my own business, even in a brother's case I never interfered(I dont know if it was cowardice sha).

Honesty is the best policy.

[quote author=inspired_m link=topic=349917.msg4912366#msg4912366 date=1258051105]Thats a Very Low Mileage, and the Car Looks Sharp too, Loaded with all The options Available to an EX.

This is a Highly Recommended Purchase, Independent Inspection is a sure way against buying cars with potential problems

Keep it up DizzyBizzy. [/quote]Its not common for the Baale of Nairaland autos to endorse a vehicle.

but Accidented(Salvage)+Naija Used.

These two factors should drop the price considerably.

One chance.

I just finished serving in lagos this october and the best advice I can give you is to be in Lagos for the first day of registration to get your things together. The next step is to meet your platoon inspector(talk to he/she as the case may be) and get them to issue you an exert(a pass) for as many days as you want. It could be on medical ground(don't be afraid na normal thing , why else do officials lobbyto be posted to lagos?).

I stayed in camp the whole 2 weeks of orientation and was so naive till I did gate duty and had to screen every individual coming in and leaving the camp. I discovered that at least 30% of corpers had a signed piece of paper from their platoon inspector that allowed them to miss the entire orientation programme at camp. On discovering this, the police officers i was stationed with at the gate(who also collect cash if you want to leave) were laughing at me, saying I was not "sharp".

@RADIANT,

This oyibo is better than your father!!

Except he's white too.

Am sure this is the first white man you have ever dated in your life. village girl.

Make we hear word o jare.
Rubbish!!!!!!

ayodeji1:
@d-roc,
then maybe it was a mis-interpretation of your observations then,so lets not argue further on that.as to the price i gave,if you have studied my advert threads on this forum,you will have observed that if i want to give a price that is fixed,i quote 'non-negotiable' after the price(which u and i still know people will negotiate upon).and if i quote 'asking' means there is room for negotiation. Furthermore,owner wanted to actually sell the car for 1.95million initially.and this seems to be the only car left in stock from the set i posted that period. and you know car business,can be really funny attimes.
but has come down to a reasonable price finally though.or dont u think so?
still available.

point taken.
price reasonable.

ayodeji1:
@d-Roc,
chief u should have followed the thread well before u started giving your comments.And then secondly sir,if i go to the market place to buy something,if the price is above my budget,i price it.if i still cant afford that price,i look further for the one within my budget, rather than condemn the sellers goods which i know is bad. so chief,price has been reduced to 1.8million.u probably ommitted that part.thanks for checking.
NOW REDUCED TO 1.750MILLION.

chief please read my statement again and tell me where I condemned you as a good seller. [quote author=d-ROC link=topic=306034.msg4617324#msg4617324 date=1253999335]since when does eod 2003/2004 with a "SALVAGE TITLE "go for I.95m? Bought the same thing from nairaland weeks back for far far less

Anyway, Happy Sales.[/quote]Please point out the sentence that was a condemnation to your person as a seller and I will gladly pay you damages. As a buyer and seller of cars on nairaland, I am just an informed individual as you are sir. I simply made an observation that even you know to be true. "A salvage 2004 eod LX will not go for 1.95m". Even you chief will not buy at that price. If your conscience disturbs you pls don't disturb me abeg.

ayodeji1:
if i go to the market place to buy something,if the price is above my budget,i price it.if i still cant afford that price,i look further for the one within my budget, rather than condemn the sellers goods which i know is bad.

Chief, As I said earlier said; I have no desire to buy your eod neither do i need to look elsewhere because I already bought a super clean eod from a modest and honest nairalander weeks back for even less than your 1.75 m

Happy Sales.

since when does eod 2003/2004 with a "SALVAGE TITLE "go for I.95m? Bought the same thing from nairaland weeks back for far far less

Anyway, Happy Sales.

iz2much:
I ave been with dis girl 4 more than 10years.recently she fell ill and tested positive 2 HIV.i did a test and,fortunatly it was negative.we have had protected sex since then because she had her treatment at a teaching hospital in lagos.
Now she says her treatment is vitamin based because her case is not serious & want unprotected sex wit me saying HIV cant be transmitted through MouthAction.
Clud 4rm SP.

Answer your own question, duh!

now available

For those of you who had shown interest previously. I could not attend to calls and mails before now because I've not been available for the sale though I got some good offers. Now the car is ready to drive out with it's new owner. First to "inspect and pay" takes it all.
NB:The reduction in price is because the owner just bought a new car(and neighbours are complaining about parking space)

Thanks brother.

I removed the negative terminal and then the light went off instantly.

According to my research and an inscription on the fuel cap of the car, it says that if the fuel cap is not properly covered with 3 clicks, then the check engine light will come on. I covered the fuel cap properly yesternight but then the light didn't go off until I removed the battery terminal.

@Fraba, thanks for the tips.

Now I can drive with peace of mind.

@miksonic

I have an 03 accord i just acquired that the check engine light came up today after i sent my mechanic to buy fuel and have it washed. He claims he didn't tamper with my engine(i'm now looking for another mechanic, before this one destroys my car). Do you diagnose and repair for 5k? what are your charges like? and how are expensive are the sensors?

Is true that the most common cause of check engine light in nigeria is the low octane fuel we have in d the country?
I stay in ikeja and i would like to come in on thursday for the check.

Abeg, my guy you are forgiven.

Do you know how many millions of single girls sleep with married men everyday(they don't lose sleep over it). But If anyone touches a married woman, all of a sudden he's going to and through hell.

Just go and sin no more.

I have one for sale (evdo-serria wireless aircard) available. it will cost you 13k only, if you're game mail me meoler@gmail.com.

I'm very interested in this ride. but I have 1.4m for it. and ready to pick up as soon as monday.

please post the VIN

mail me
meoler@gmail.com