According to ST. AUGUSTINE, man is not capable of goodness and cannot do anything that can redeem him. To him human nature is dominated by;

* The love of possession.
* The lust for power and domination.
* The sexual lust.

Redemption is purely by grace and not out of good works,this is because everyone is corrupt beyound redemption.

The earlier we christains realise that these MOG also possessed human nature in the above St. Augustine quote,the better.

Billyonaire: Which village are you ? Cos here, the hookers are the most beautiful things since Gomorrah

Don't mind the bush guy.

prologue:
Was heading to cross river. I don't reside there.

That's nice! But I heard cross Rivers girls too bad gann, how true is that?

prologue:
No decency. Even in the presence of kids n aged. Worse than otukpo (called TEXAS)

The place is dangerous for a decent guy like you to live. Please if you have an option,leave because you may be tempted to do it and eventually contacted HIV which is rampant among them.

@op, are they doing it in a decent way?

Johnsilver19: Plz pals, sm1 4rm senegal in a refugee/orphanage home wants me to stand 4 her 4 ha lates fada's moni to b transfer to my account here in nigera she is d next of kin...as an orphan she is limited to do dis as in to transfa d money on ha own...d amount is $2m in a bank in scotland....plz do u guys thnk dat dis moni can b transfa to me witout stress,or do u think is possible 4 d money to be transfered?

I think you have two problems, is either you're greedy or just dull. I pity your sorry ass, better be careful man.

Meanwhile, it's only the owner or his/her personal representative can withdraw the money.

1. He/she may convert it into dollar and send it down through western union or money gram.

2. Through bank transfer if you've domiciliary account.

God have mercy, when did 2:2 become useless? And the majority of students are coming out every year with 2:2, 3rd class and even pass.

@op, most of the reasons you gave are as dumb as a lamb.

Never take a girl on the first date to your house,hotel,family house,religion event,studio etc. Girls are not robot,they can only follow you to these places if they wish.

Lookmanade:
You might be right, but I try masturbate like once or twice a week but it seems the thing has not really satisfy, mastrubating twice or more per day will make the whole body to week and beside each time I masturbate, I always psychologically down knowing that I have offended God and myself. I don't always feel alright about it each time I do that. High sexual drive that is a real confirmento. Thank sha

Man, I don't think you've any spiritual problem as many posters here trying to frame it. This's purely a psychological imbalance,probably you fantasize too much about sex. What you really need to do to get rid of this problem is a real sex. The moment you get it,you will know that it doesn't worth giving you a kind of problem you're facing.

@op,lack of sex is the cause of your problem. To overcome this problem, you need to experience it, have a real sex.

penzino: Thanx Easy, I guess I wud just make my intention known to her dis evening, I just pray she picks up wen I call her.... Thanx boss

She's already know your intention, that's what happen when a guy keeps calling a girl unnessarily with the hope that he would get her attention. Please respect yourslf by giving her a space at least for now.

@op, what make these women the world's most beautiful women? They are simply the 30 most beautiful American celebrities and not world's most beautiful women.

Wish them happy marry life!boys are not smile again o,he really mean the business. Their wedding picture alone dey make person laff.

Duke_Nija: They are in UAE to seek greener pastures?
What kind of trade or business will underaged uneducated girls be doing in a foreign country?
Mama, your daughter is now an international interracial escort (to put it mildly)

Not every undergradute student is underage.

uboma:

Her virginity is hers and I will still encourage her to keep it till she gets married. Oya over to you, let's hear ur alternatives

I encourage her too by giving her a simple tactic (alternative way) in order to keep the guy.

efun209990:



....good question *sigh*....but being intimate just because i dont want to loose him is not a good reason to go against what i believe in...what will be will be..

Check my previous post very well,did I in anywhere advise you to intimate with him? The question I asked after was as a result of your misunderstanding of a simple tactic I thought you. Let be realistic, do you think it's that easy to convince a full grow man who has already make up his mind and probably have seen a lot of sex actions or receive a series of advises from friends with a mere word?

Now my advise,prepare your mind for better and worse from this guy. I forsee this guy will start pretending too and at the same time having it with another lady. Just be careful,so that you won't be a victim of a fail relationship at the age of 30. May God be with you!

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Now that he cannot wait anymore,and you too not ready to lose your virginity, what do think you can do to keep him?

@Uboma,REALITY and co, why are you guys talking like this? Why blaming the guy,do you think it's easy to be in a relatioship (especially with beautiful and sexy girl) without sex?

What gave you guys assurance that if her boyfriend leave her as a result of this,another guy she's going to date would not demand for sex? Besides, she's 27yr, and therefore need a stable relationship. Don't just telling people to decline something without giving them first a way out or alternatives.

efun209990: i am 27....

I thing you're old enough to get marry, or is he the one that's not ready or what?

Just let him know your stand. The following method may sounds funny but will surely work for you;

Whenever he ask for it,just goes down on your kneel,look into his eye,say a few words(reasonable words) and shed tears. If he truely love you,he will make a vow never to touch you until you get married.

Let me reveal the secrete/weakness of we men to you ladies,if we genuinely love you, we can't stand seen you crying. No matter how we may be offended or angry, the possibility of forgiving you at that moment is 99%.

N.Delta:
@ D Sage what about rap.e?

Talking about 'rape', it should be a punishable offence but not a capital punishment. I suggest 10years imprisonment of the offenders.

Although raping is an animalistic behaviour,but at time, it goes beyond the offenders innate ability to resist the temptation facing at the time the crime is commited. Besides,not all the raping are the fault of those invoives.

The crimes like Genocide and murder.

@op, at times,we regret some of the silly things we've done in the past,perhaps when you mature enough to be a man you will realise that what you're doing here is meaningless.

If at all you must do this,why not wait for the 'mister Nairaland competition' to commence and let people compare your pictures with others.

akposdude: natural love to parents & children, brodas & sisters are dif4rent from husband & wife, pls note

What is love?

If you can answer this, then I will tell you the difference between sex and love?

Ayrichy: Is love all about Sex, and if Yes explain if No explain too thanks guys[b][/b]

If love is all about sex,then, why do you love your parent,sibling and some of your friends? Love occur in different ways,it could be between friends of the same sex, love of animal,love of children,love of plants and other living creatures.

@op, nursing is a good profession even in Nigeria here. Nurses in the federal teaching hospitals are well paid.

As for the promiscous aspect,do you think female in the banks,ministries,immigration,lawyers,private comapanies are any better?

Even in our office, so don't let anybody fool you ok.

@op, nursing is a good profession even in Nigeria here. Nurses in the federal teaching hospitals are well paid.

As for the promiscous aspect,do you think female in the banks,ministries,immigration,lawyers,private comapanies are any better?

Even in our office, so don't let anybody fool you ok.

Great people of NL, we need educate ourselves on this issue. There's no doubt that religion gives hope and promote peace among children of God. But if one look at the level of immorality,corruption and many other social vices among the so called children of God, it's enough to conclude that religions is good but cannot eradicate immorality and promote endless happiness.

In my own view, the economic condition determines morality and,in fact, dictates the thought system of society.

onila: yea

That's nice! Please give me a link to view your pictures.

@op, I saw many of your threads most especially in the sexuality section. Are you a model?

@op, sorry dear, the Lord is your strength, he will surely take charge of your problem.

From your story,I can see that your fiance is not mentally and financially ready for the marriage. Sound as if you and your family trying to force him while he's not ready for such a thing. Since he has done what's right(introduction), you can keep the pregnant and hope he come back to his sense one day.

Lastly,don't forget to find out whether he has another wife in the village.