obiorathesubtle:
Money can buy all those things except common sense and character.

Even the character and common sense would be ignore by people if you get plenty of raw cash.

Sometimes people overlook those things your highlighted up there if you get real money.

Besides,with money, you can virtually buy everything in the list.

The only thing money cannot buy is 'immotality'.

@op, you should have asked 'who is a good Nigerian' instead of 'who is a true Nigeria'.

A true Nigerian is someone who by birth or naturalisation possessed Nigeria passport or identification card.

A good citizen or Nigerian is someone who comply and follow the lay down rules/laws or moral standard formulated by the government or his/her ethnic group.

Idrismusty97:
LOL. This case is complex. But logically considering the price of a goat, the goat can't possibly eat all the money in the Buyer's hand unless it is N5000 note. And even if is 5k note the buyer will notice immediately before the goat chew it no matter how distracted(Nna this is money we are talking about). So this scenario is purely fictional and unrealistic, It doesn't deserves any opinion.

What is so complex able the question? considering the fact that the money has not yet been paid, and the seller did not directed or volunterity allow the goat to eat his money.

It's very simple, the seller owns the goat.

@op, the problem started the moment you became a sadist,depressed and unhappy. There are few things you can do to control your anger;

* You go out more(meeting new and interesting people)

* Visit different places(especially countries outside Nigeria).

* Understand the basic needs of every living soul, it works like a magic for me, and this will make you take life simple.

* Learn to respect opinions of others, and when you get to a certain level of logic, you will realize that people virtually think the same way on the same issue.

* Read books(i mean the books that will instill more knowledges and calmness in you).

@op,why are you afraid of the past and a mere dream you had?

I know you are actually afraid of something you dont want to disclose here. since you're already aware of it, your time will come, you will face the same evil and defeat them.

Thanks @ 'dinachi and Akuneshiobike'. you guys are not far from the truth.

We planned to visit a doctor together during the week but to my utmost surprise, my girl didnt pick my calls. i kept dailing the number until i almost run out of battery. i went straight to her house only to discovered that she has left. i was so confused as i dont know what to do or where to find her. Later in the evening,a strange number called me, though i dont pick the strange numbers but hurryingly picked it. The voice i heard from my caller was not that of my girl, the person claimed to be her sister in Abuja(though i aware she had a sister there). She said she commanded her sister to come over in order to take good care of her and her health. She apologized on her behave for not honouring or appreciating all my effort . She later called and started begging for forgiveness. I pretended as if everything was ok but deep inside me, i'm done with her both physically and emotionally.

My advise to Ladies, please apply caution to what you're doing today so that you wont have anything horrible to hide from your future husbands or serious boyfriends.

@ cocolav, do people cheat for no reason? besides, she's not yet my house wife, so pack one side with your epitome abeg.

KingTom:
Are the pains before, during or after sex?

She started the drama during and she was immediately became unconscious. I still not believe it's an health issue until i confirm by taking her to the hospital myself.

estheremma:
Where exactly is d pain?i think she shud see a doc ASAP.It cud be a PID.she may hav had a trauma too.if u love her help her

Thank @all. i pray non of you experience what i experienced yesterday. i was profusely sweating, thinking about being jail,newspapers and the social websites when she was completely unconscious.

What kind of health issue was that for God sake. Well, i will take her to the hospital myself.

i posted this here in order to get a reasonable suggestions from the experienced adults.

i met this lady few months back during one of my business trips. It was like love at first sight expecially from me, and she love me too. Though she visited me the same weekend but refused to have sex with me when i attempted to. I love her to the extent that i'm now thinking of replacing my fiancee(who have been giving me a serious headache lately) and put her.

She has been giving this silly excuse i thought it was a joke or mere mind game played by the women in order not to be see as cheap ladies. she said she always has a serious stomach pain whenever she had sex,and that was the reason she abstained from sex since she started experiencing it. Since me too has changed my mind from "chop and clean mouth" and make her my princess, i decided to be patient with her till she has no option but to give in.

Just yeaterday, she lost control when we were romancing, and that was how everything started. It was a terrible experience i wont forget for the rest of my life. Thank God i was able to brings her back to life after she almost gave up the gost due to the stomach pain.

My question is, is this normal or spiritual? i'm afraid of her now, infact she has been crying since yesterday even on phone because i'd demanded she tell me the truth or i put an end to our relationship.

Though i believe in super-natural being(God), but i think religion was a mere foreign policy used by the then colonialists.

temitemi1:
They do exist my sister n you need to deal with it spiritually...

How do you know they exist?

MzMessiTohBadt:
I really need enlightment n your opinion abt this,
Cuz wen sum1 mentioned it in church,i ws lyk do dis thing really exist??
Share ur experience n thoughts if you have one..
Tanx

The question is, how do we know we have a spiritual wife/husband?

It all starts from our sub-conscious minds and nothing else.

hedonistic:
A liberal Northern Muslim presidential candidate like Atiku or even Tambuwal would have been ideal for the APC. The election would have been more issues-based and not overly based on radical ethno-religious considerations as is the case with a proven Jihadist like Buhari.

What makes him a Jihadist? The people you mentioned are also Muslims and of course Northerners.

What a mind game by GEJ!

Weak!

cramjones:
Ever since I announced my pay from the APC, everyone has refused to comment on my insightful posts. Moderators no longer take my orders. No one ever pushes me to the frontpage. Why are Nigerians wicked? I have to work from the field to continue this campaign. Everyone on nairaland has deserted CramJones, for the simple sin of being paid to campaign for a party he is a leader in!



CramJones

Were you not the same guy personalized yourself as FFK on Nairaland?

If actually you did announced your pay from the APC on a public forum like Nairaland,then I don't think you deserve to be hired by any politically organization. Or may be you are just one of people looking for attention.

Politically, Maku is immature and lack vision/wisdom.

Only the weak will support/vote for that talkative irrational GEJ boy.

Civil war is inevitable especially if GEJ win the general election.

meforyou1:
This girl is just a disgrace. "letf" instead of "left", "you all hater" instead of "all you haters" and so much more. Tweets that are just a maximum of 150 characters, and so many errors. What if she writes an essay on the terrorism sponsoring, certificateless Buhari?

Can't you see she did that intentionally?

@op and others, following Christian doctrine and teaching, no man whose blood is running through his vein is capable of making it to heaven.

The christians has failed to realize that a FREE WILL human is not capable of being perfect.

ej77:
U don't ve any certificate, stop lieing.

This your post lacks credibility and devoid of rationality.

starlingleanets:
To start with sir,whats ur believe about perfection,Holiness and righteousness?

You're a funniest person I ever met on Nairaland. Well,let me ignore the fact that you were unable to answer my previous questions.

* Perfection, Holiness, Righteousness,faith,believes, love,hate etc, are immaterial and relative. And since these things are immaterial and relative, your perception/view about them must be quite based on what you're expose to. That's, what you think is right,holy,believe etc might be wrong, un-holy, disbelieve to others. That is why we have many religions in the world.

starlingleanets:
You will wonder why Jesus don't bother telling pilate He is the Son of God? Its because it doesn't make a difference,pilate ain't going to believe anyway if He told him he is the Son of God He is. If i explain this Truth every Christain know to u which u refuse to accept because of ur human nature,what difference will it make?

Logic is limited to available information,experience and perception. The said TRUTH can make many difference and enlighten me more. Kindly attend to the questions in my previous post.

starlingleanets:
Sir i rely on the Word of God and from it will i speak now hear me Christains are not born of blood(which u hold onto,which prompts one to Sin) not of flesh(which accept prompt to sin) neither by the will of man(which make u believe nothing is possible) but of the Will of God. If u know the will of the Father u will not have open ur mouth and utter things u have no understanding about. Hear me all yee Christain and all that feel sorry for their falling into Sin,Thus say the Lord "You can do all things in Christ that strengthens you" If only you believe u shall see the Glory of God. If Elizabeth,Zechariah can be blameless under the Law what much more can be accomplish under the Grace of the Lord Jesus Christ. Establish your heart brethen it is the Father's will to help us in our weakness.You can,u r expected to,and you will be perfect without single.

Sir, not a fight, I'm just trying to point out some obvious facts about mankind.

Though some explanations are quite esoteric by nature, but I will just ask you some simple questions in a 'Lay Man' perspective.

If the christians are not born of the blood and flesh, how do the christians know they exist?

What do you mean by the christians born by 'Will of God', did you mean Grace? Please explain?

If a man is born of the 'Will of God' as you claimed, how come some were not automatically born of the said will?

How does a man realized/acknowledged the good/bad, God/ungodly, Faith,Believes,Love etc without his conscious will?

Note: I'm not trying to question your belief/faith, what I'm saying is that 'man is not capable of being perfect in the eyes of God'. And if you read your Bible very well, you will realize that Redemption is purely by GRACE. And that's why he is a merciful God, he's always forgiven us despite our imperfection.

starlingleanets:
Humans cannot but Christains can.

Christians are Robots?

See man, though I'm a believer but i can categorically tell you that no human whose blood is running through his/her vein is capable of living a sinless life. So, if the 'Hell' is real and the God is using his commandments in the Bible to judge,no one will make heaven. Not even a cave man because we are not perfect by default.

starlingleanets:
That u may not go to Hell.

Humans are not capable of living a sin less lives,so it's absolute impossible for every believer to avoid that unrealistic world called 'HELL'.

Life is too short to be depriving/worry about what is meant to be enjoy. You should see sex before marriage as 'immorality' but not as a Sin.

Are these people afraid that Jonathan might win the next few months time election or what?Why can't they allow Nigerians to do the needful come Feb 2015?

@op, he deserved to be impeached long time ago and not now that election is less than three months.

ayukdaboss:
All "common men" are not found in the Beer Parlor. Senseless propaganda.

Where can they be found?

Please don't blame Fayose, blame it on Poverty and illiteracy.

Ekiti people are extremely hungry, hence the need for stomach infrastructure.

But seriously, what is the essence of defending or fighting over political parties on the internet?

Except you're paid for it, I don't see any reason you guys should be fighting over here.

Is it not clear enough to you that the system is faulty, and the politicians(including the commoners)are taking advantage of the situation?