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These politicians including Fayose don't know that Nigeria of today is quite different from that of 1999-2007. The fact is that,the following politicians will never taste power in Nigeria again;

Ayo Fayose
Dimeji Bankola
Patricia Olubunmi Etteh
Farouq Lawal
Iyabo Obasanjo
Alao Akala
Gbenga Daniel
Fani Kayode etc

Nigeria is no more in a 'state of nature',let them continue trying their luck,I doubt they rule us again.

@op,Does this look like a true life story to you?

If you're real,you won't be here justifying your action by mentioning Barrister,Sodom and Gomora etc. KID!

That is nice!

@op, keep your option open o. Dont be like my friend who her boyfriend impregnated another lady after about 8yrs of ...................

Honestly this administration has already brought enough shame to our national integrity. Please people, Vote GEJ out in 2015, this man is not capable of leading a state let alone a country.

Wow! Now I can see why the artistes are more than the fans on the streets of Lagos.

@op, according to No. 4 in your initial post, 'a good Christian husband must be able to provide for the needs of his wife and children'. What if he possess all the qualities you've mentioned but lack no.4? Will you still consider him?

Sorry dear if this's your true life story. Thank God you've already know what many of you ladies don't know, marry someone who really love you and not the one you'll be trying so hard to gain his attention.

It should be by seniority.

joseph1832: NYSC has a comprehensive list of all those who passed out!

Besides I believe if the pay graduates N20,000 naira monthly, most of them will become lazy and satisfied with the stipend they get.

Data of unemployed graduates, not that of NYSC. Some people get job after service,hope you get the difference?

Federalism can never and will never take us to anywhere as a country. Confederalsim or total disintegration is the only solution.

Is paying the unemployed graduates a solution to lack of enough jobs for them?

How long would government continue to pay them assuming the bill is pass into law?

Do 20,000 naira enough to sustain them a month?

Do we have a reliable data of unemployed graduates?

Government need to create more jobs rather than paying a stipend of 20k to unemployed graduates.

Flye: thanks, i never sleep with any of them. The only girl i had relationship with is that i originaly shared the apartment with. That is what is giving problem cos i don't want to offend her.

Tell me what's really wrong with you? So, you'd notting like that with her and you're here asking people what to do? Well,I don't think you really dated her,may be you were just being nice to her during this period.

seunfly: From what i read from Op, i don't think he has had sex with that friend's friend, he had relationship with the his original neighbour who is now married.
But Op can come and clear the air on that issue.

I meant his married friend(his flat mate).

@op, go for your married frirnd's friend. Since you're already had sex with your married friend,I doubt she allow you to date her sister. If you must date any of them, go for her friend. She wont allow you to date her sister,that's the fact.

@Dailynews, yeah I'm satisfied with your reply. To be sincere with you,I really like and admirer your way of life and ability to resist the temptation. Please do not desist from your way of life.

And one more thing,shine your eye before you choose a partner o,this's because you deserve a good lady(virgin) as a wife.

May God help us all.

D sage: Actually the op made some good and important points except the part that says women in their 30's are not good for marriage and that the best age for men to settle down is between 30-40.

I disagree with those parts, I've seen countless men including my dad who got married in their 20's and are still happy and prosper.

Women on the other hand,there're many factors that may hinder women from getting marry in their prime time,

1. Fail relationship.
2. Education and carrier
3. Her environment
4. Wrong BF or fiance
5. Family
6. Spiritual problems etc.

@op,Contrary to your assumption,some women are decent but remain single till 30's due to the above problems.

@Angelbaby22, the above are some of the reasons why some women remain single till their 30's. I've seen many instance of these. Just thank God for your life and stop blaming them.

@Dailynews, honestly time will come that you won't be able to endure it anymore.

Besides,are you a virgin? Be honest.

Dyt: All I want to hear is jst d word of God
In his room
Me I don't understnd ur cummmmmin o

Dem neva carry d tin enter op's room b4,datz why he remain 'bleeplesness' for 8yrs. You can be of help anyway,common you're a good girl. Go and listen to sermon abeg

DailyNews: of course D sage u are right that environment plays a role, but remember wot I said- it cannot change ur decision if u have strong self-control and with Godly backing

Of course I meet even more...daily...everywhere I go...but believe me, it no longer moves me...it only irritates me to see a beautiful girl dress half-naked, I only smile at pretty n well-dressed ones, so D, its now common- unclothedness amongst women of today, which I knw its contributing to d high rate of immorality, infidelity and divorce in relationships n marriages of today, but if u decide to abstain, u will, and it pays a lot. It does. May God strengthen us all and also give d females the wisdom to dress properly n live nicely in order to assist more guys abstain.

I concur.

But let be realistic 'Dailynews', except you're a guy with full of experience(sexually active),sadist or may be like pastor Adeboye and some other great men of God, if you see the way some ladies expose their God's giving smooth sexy body, you will think about sex at least for a few seconds.

@Dailynews,take it or leave it, environment has a great impact on one's life. It's only through the grace of God that can make a person abstain for a year in my area. I meet them all the time(beautiful and sexy girls) half naked.

DailyNews: ...and still on the economical aspect, if most guys who are in a committed relationship calculate accurately the amount of money they have spent in calling their so-called girlfriends, u would marvel and rather chose to abstain and re-abstain again. Believe me, the amount most guys spend in calling their gfs are enough to make them millionaires, sadly though.

Haaba Dailynews! But how much is too much to call someone you really love?besides, there're cheap ways of communication,eg pinging or FAF if you're using MTN.

Wow 8years! With all sexy chics wey dey come my way every day,hmmmmm, no way! The environment you live definitetly help you to abstain that long.

Warning @op,do not desist from your way/believe,keep it up, you're a good guy.

byvan: Directed at Op,with the intention that your attention will be called to it.I want to know your opinion on that too.

Alright!

According to your post, you said "no one know it all,being a man does not mean you can't be wrong" and at the same in your second paragraph, you also said "if she loves and respects you, she will enjoy all things about you, she will not demand or nag you into changing".

Don't you think your second paragraph has answered the first one.

Can you please bring out what/the points you really dislike about the article so that we reason with it together?

@Dailynews, nice reply! Those are the points I thought should be corrected when I read the whole article. The rest of the points are perfectly said.

byvan: You are on point bro but this is crap" A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love".No one knows it all,being a man doesn't mean you can't be wrong,listening to your wife's opinion and weighing your options makes you a smart man not a robot.

Another crap!"When she loves and respects you she will enjoy all things about you. She will not demand and nag you into changing. If you smoke a big fat cigar and your clothes smell like an ashtray she will enjoy the smell. She should want to sleep in one of your shirts because it has your smell. That’s the power you should have over your wife for her to be happy and content".Op should better marry a mannequin,your poo should as well smell like moi moi in your wife's nostrils.

Is the above post directed to me or op? If to me, sorry I don't see any correlation between my post and your reply.

byvan: Are women disvirginig themselves??why will a man in 40s grab a 20yrold for marriage??well all this ones no concern me.I have married my man in his twenties,yes,women like it young and fresh too.Does that make him deficient in maturity?hell no.

Guys I bet if you follow this rules,you guys will probably wind up single for life.Enter marriage with a businessmAn's mind and it ll be the most disappointing venture you ever invested in.

You can As well marry a woman that ll refer to you as Oga at the top.

Actually the op made some good and important points except the part that says women in their 30's are not good for marriage and that the best age for men to settle down is between 30-40.

I disagree with those parts, I've seen countless men including my dad who got married in their 20's and are still happy and prosper.

Women on the other hand,there're many factors that may hinder women from getting marry in their prime time,

1. Fail relationship.
2. Education and carrier
3. Her environment
4. Wrong BF or fiance
5. Family
6. Spiritual problems etc.

@op,Contrary to your assumption,some women are decent but remain single till 30's due to the above problems.

Dyt: E work for u?

@op, you made some good and important points especially about the type of Family, body type and good girl. But seriosly you wicked o,so women in their 30's should just remain single for the rest of their lives?

Jastombutex11: What business can i ventured into with 100k that will bring in for 10-15k in a week Please mature comments i don't need trash please

10-15k weekly? Well it's possible If can you engage in the following rough businesses;

Bringing of raw foods and fruits directly from the farmers to the city.

Get a small kios and be selling phone accessories and disc.

Get a small kios also at nice location and be selling electrical instruments.

NOTE: the above suggestions are based on the amount of money in your possession.

jasper7: ON BEHALF OF THE INTERNATIONAL ASSOCIATION OF FRAUDSTERS
This is by every means the handwork of a learner . we deny connection to the fraudster or intending fraudster who tried to pull this one on you. he is not smart enough and inexperienced, and thereby doesn't deserve membership in our esteemed association. This scam attempt is an embarrassment to every Fraudster around the world

SIGNED
Chief Otedola
Chairman

MTN BIS
secretary

Guy you funny no be small!

DaLover: These question are built around your desire to buy fuel at a subsidized rate...let me ask, first of all, are you paralized? why do you want someone else to perpetually pay for a comodity for you?

I knew you won't be able to provide answers to those questions.