₦airaland Forum

Druss:
So siblings from one family who married siblings from another family is taboo? I see nothing wrong.

Infact I don't even know which to follow...

Some are in support while some are against

Bukden16:
Just be frank, do you still have some sort of feeling's for her?

Not at all...

Have moved on....

NevetsIbot:
Bro...Please in Gods name... since she’s not the promiscuous type, she has done nothing wrong... don’t connect with her... maintain your distance a lot and act like a familiar stranger to her before and after the wedding

If you try to touch her she might be forced to oblige because she might not want you to tell her husband to be .... Just please keep your distance from her

Hmmmmm...

God Bless Lasgidi.....

God Bless DotNation....


God Bless Nigeria...

Rydermaverick:
Which one be wetin go make her sad?
I say make you free that gal haba..if you say you no go free am me personally go take the matter up myself I bet you..

Nawaooo.....

Shey no be say you sabi her like dis?

Ftheophilous:
I haven't. No for that long.

Back to the case, if you guys dated codedly such that no mutual friend or friends of you and your brother knows about the affair, then the both of you can codedly drop it. Otherwise, you can discuss with her about it - since you said she's a reasonable person - and then come up with a mutual agreement whether to tell him or not. Na flex una flex, una no kill person na.

You got my point. ...

Na to see her discuss before then be the koko....

Except i collect her digit from my bro but e get as e be....

Kobojunkie:
Wondering about such things is how you land yourself quickly in mental hospitals. A person's past is his/her past.

So long as it is not in the present, let it go. That is why we are urged to learn how to forgive and forget from an early age, even though most remain too wrapped up in thinking everyone else's world revolves around them to get a clue.

Wahala

kazyhm:
Just send picture of you and her to him



That will open the discussion



Do that please, don't postpone the evil day as those F Monikas are suggesting

I don't have any of her pictures and she doesn't have mine too...

Even my bro doesn't have any of my pictures because i rarely take pics...

Ftheophilous:
E be things ...so after dating for 4 years plus she doesn't know your real name...wow.

DSC7 does she know this one?

Haven't you seen something like dat before?...

No be everybody dey give their real names out...

Kobojunkie:
They say, " As you lay your bed so you lie in it".

My every day existence is lived in such a way as to avoid these sort of things happening to me. These sort of choices are so far away from me as a result.

It's a small world as u earlier said....

You never can tell who ur present spouse is related to "until one day"

Rydermaverick:
Guy if you still wan follow that gal then you ain't worthy to be called a man..act like nothing happened and let by gone be bygone..you no be pikin wey go dey ask this Kain question..
I use you take beg you let her be pls don't make that gal sad cos she never knew it was gonna happen..I beg you man don't blackmail her pls..let her enjoy her marriage abeg..

Me and her no get any issue bro....

I just dey ask dis question make i no go do wetin go make her sad.....

Na her welfare i care about nothing more....

I weak.....

Amotolongbo:
Why not.

I don’t live in the past.
Old things have passed away.

The man also has his past

Well if she doesn't open up no one will know... Except me and her.....

If only she can cope without feeling guilty...

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

She won't be aware until we see one on one...

No pictures, and she doesn't know my name and family name when we were together....

Many things changed

Myzubby:
just shock them

Me sef never recover from my own shock....

So how i go take shock dem?

Amotolongbo:
If you want to tell him, tell him before they got wedded so that she can decide on going with the wedding or call it quit.

If you didn’t tell him till they get wedded, please keep mute eternally on the matter

Lets say i let em be,,,but as a lady would you feel comfortable in this kinda situation?...

AsomArchitectNG:
You can't hide it from him. He deserves to know now so he'll take whatever decision that suits him. Moreover you haven't done any wrong here, its just coincidence that ur brother is dating her

Wahala ..

And dem go do introduction by January..

Kobojunkie:
Well, it's a small world afterall!

Would you be comfortable in this scenario?

NevetsIbot:


But just be quiet about it. It’s been a long time since y’all had anything to do with eachother. She didn’t to anything bad by choosing to have sxx with you.. I mean, you both agreed to have mutual sxx.and that period is over.

Unless she has an history of hoeing that you know of. Leave them be.

Your turn don pass... no spoil another person garri with your sand

She is not the promiscuous type....

Do you suggest i find means of connecting with her so as to let her know who she is about getting married to?

Bro i just dey confused...

Starz825:
Guy...she is getting married...
Stay away from her...
Your journey with her don end...
Who go marry her before? ..no be human being? And is your bro not one ?...abeg...leave them...

And if you like go dey Bleep her for back after her wedding with your bro ...na you Sabi ..cos women no dey get sense esp if you Sabi do...she will always be tempted to come for you or the other way around...na the only wahala wey I see their for this huna family matter be this...apart from this ...let her wed your bro while you dead all your past with her...

Normally we are done...

I just dey imagine the shock from both party if i show for the wedding...

AsomArchitectNG:
Hmm. Quite complicated I'll say it depends on ur brother level of maturity and how he'll be able handle it. But i feel you should let him know as there are some things you don't have keep quiet about . Imagine if he get to find out after been married to her, he'll feel betrayed by you. So u gats man up and tell him. What will be will be.

I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....


Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Ladies and Gentlemen... .

Who go come solve this kind matter

Bubu is in sifiaa pain .....

BadRadio:
guy show us the way na

You dey beg person wey still dey chop "mama thank you" to show you road


I pity ur end......

Righteousness2....

Dat guy can preach for Africa ....


Wiseandtrue and pocohantas ...

Power....

Queen of south....

American pie.....

xpressionx:
Taking what does not belong to you is stealing.


Take it to the nearest police station

And get arrested for robbery? ...

Hmmm ...

Happy married life to them...

4yrs ...

Started penetrating personally at 7....

May God save my soul....

Our God works in Mysterious ways....

Shame on all Zombies that sold their Conscience and human rights for 30k...

Bubu dey jonze big time


Am sorry for Nigerians who still believe in this evil govt....

inoki247:
lol all of them are Thief including the said Buhari abi no b him talk say Abacha no be Thief so I'm sure Buhari mus b using the same pattern Abacha use to steal money...

Dats to show you that Zombies have nothing upstairs.... Especially that Vulturegriller