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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by shaqur231(m): 8:02am On Nov 14, 2021

This is deep bro. You have to let both of them know about it.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by AmazingELixir: 8:04am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Op tell her she is about to get married to your immediate brother so she can in her own words come clean with him.. if she decides not tell him before the marriage, waste no time in telling your brother so you don't incur your brother's distrust.

Men are generally egocentric....I don't know how I can be looking at my wife knowing fully well that my brother most likely a junior brother for that matter would have spread her legs like evening newspaper severally.

The truth is that your brother will be ever uneasy whenever two of you are in his presence or the thought of two of you being together by yourself.

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by deavicky(m): 8:05am On Nov 14, 2021

You have to tell ur brother.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by eneazi(f): 8:05am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:

I have been thinking of connecting with her but i remembered that she deactivated all her previous social media handles due to her job...

She is the understanding type but I can't say same with dat my bro.....

I fit tell am now make he just flare up...

Its better you tell him before the wedding Nd he flares up than keeping it away from him and somehow he gets to find out, trust me he will, and if he does he'll l never trust you again.

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Odidigboigbo(m): 8:05am On Nov 14, 2021

If actually you dated her, at least she should have known a little bit about your background this would have helped in avoiding a scenario like this. Because she would have told your brother about a guy he met in "place that came from so, so place". You can't tell me you date a girl without her knowing where you came from.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Bola146(f): 8:05am On Nov 14, 2021

samsard:
I'm not promiscuous and I don't have sexual relations with multiple people. I am even extra cautious not to get involved with a lady my friend has dated or had sex with. I don't know why I would fancy sleeping with siblings and definitely would not like to get married to or have my brother or even close relation marry a lady I've had sexual relations with. Of course the ball is ultimately in their court, but I would make sure the parties involved are well aware of what they're getting into.

Likewise this man doesn't know that he has already slept with what his sibling slept with!!!! How would you know when you don't know. Get the fact. What of some cases that she is pregnant?! Haba!

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by DSC7: 8:06am On Nov 14, 2021

Bukden16:
Just be frank, do you still have some sort of feeling's for her?

Not at all...

Have moved on....

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Joe4real1988(m): 8:06am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

U have to let your brother know about it now, coz if u dont tell him and he get to know about it later on after marriage, he might assume that u hid it from him so u can continue digging her at his back.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by don4real18(m): 8:07am On Nov 14, 2021

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

His blood brother? Which kind talk be this na?

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by MondayOsunbor(m): 8:08am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

idiot past is past ! forgave that you know her before delete it off your mind oooooo!

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ikenna44: 8:08am On Nov 14, 2021

In this case he is aware... It would be very irresponsible of him to just lock up!

Bola146:

One man's food is another man's poison . It's none of my business! What if I don't know? How many siblings have you slept with that you don't know?

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Joshcoli(m): 8:09am On Nov 14, 2021

Give her time to tell your brother herself or else tell him

No need beating around the bush

Two weeks is enough time for her

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by AlphaStorm: 8:10am On Nov 14, 2021

In the end, SEX complicates things

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by JoffreyBeroth(m): 8:12am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Bleep brother wife loading… grin

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by sammirano: 8:13am On Nov 14, 2021

Tell your brother now

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by henrygold100: 8:14am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

see ehh, letting your brother know about your past with her doesn’t mean u don’t want him to marry her, but just for knowledge purposes. He supposed be be aware that u have dated her before to avoid any drama in the future, even the girl supposed to know too. This world na truly small place ooo

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by PeachtreeReside(f): 8:14am On Nov 14, 2021

If he was your friend, it might not be necessary to inform him.

Since he is your brother, then you need to inform him right away.

Why didn't she put 2 and 2 in making the connection with the surname?

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by makavelli47(m): 8:14am On Nov 14, 2021

Don't say sh1t.
Your brother shouldn't find out, moreover she won't spill to Your bro,and don't get too close to her when they get married to avoid stories that touch.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by dapolaw(m): 8:14am On Nov 14, 2021

No, he should tell his brother.... Atleast nothing is still going on between them. The fiancee might not tell and it will a big heartbreak for the guy finds out on his own.

Bola146:
it's better you keep quiet, let her tell him herself.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by JoseRaji(m): 8:14am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Mtchewww... I even thought it's a recent thing. Please don't allow the devil to use you to spoil something good... Grow up and move on. Let the past stay in the past.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Yankeeboy02: 8:15am On Nov 14, 2021

You have to tell him....Family is number one priority, what if she paint you black in front of your brother in future, how will you defend yourself, Just tell your brother,you had relationship with her in the past and let your brother decide whether to go on with the wedding or not....don’t put your brother in d DARK!

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Gainman: 8:16am On Nov 14, 2021

AsomArchitectNG:
Hmm. Quite complicated I'll say it depends on ur brother level of maturity and how he'll be able handle it. But i feel you should let him know as there are some things you don't have keep quiet about . Imagine if he get to find out after been married to her, he'll feel betrayed by you. So u gats man up and tell him. What will be will be.

oga forget d level of maturity. There is no how something will not happen between d guy and his ex in d future. D secret will later leaked and after d brother married d lady and know her past. The husband will keep suspecting his wife and his brother. U think marriage is like boyfriend and girlfriend.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Savedday: 8:17am On Nov 14, 2021

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Me and her no get any issue bro....

I just dey ask dis question make i no go do wetin go make her sad.....

Na her welfare i care about nothing more....

I weak.....

I weak for this kind guy. U don't care about ur brother's welfare but a girl's welfare that u don't know how many guys with benefits she will continue to keep even after marriage with ur brother.

9ja girls are out to add more burden to your life instead of softening it.

In mosdii voice: They are all useless..... All of them!

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by ekenzify(m): 8:17am On Nov 14, 2021

Kai this matter dey somehow o...

Just imagine your brother finding out that you banged his wife several years ago.

Even though the relationship then was how you described it , e go still dey somehow.

e better make you come clean now and make your mind rest.

Trust me na the best thing for the three of una be that.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by GodisFirst: 8:18am On Nov 14, 2021

Tell you elder brother now, tell him the whole truth and also let him know that t has been a thing of the past and that you have nothing to do with her any longer.
If he finds her a good girl, he will still continue with her and it saves you some troubles in the future.
If it is a taboo in your family for him to marry someone you dated, as is the case in some, then the earlier you start the process of redeeming any wrong as a result of that the better instead if falling into something you could have avoided or prevented.

No one will kill you for saying the truth about and because of this if they have a good understanding.
Yes, the girl will only feel your brother disappointed her now but it is better and can be managed better now than after the wedding.

I wish you the courage to do the right thing now.

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by promiseland245(m): 8:19am On Nov 14, 2021

If you don't want to loss the relationship you have with your brother forever after the wedding,
Seat your Brother down and Tell him.

If this kept a secret from your brother by you and the babe, after a while you would realise the relationship between you and your blood has gone sour and you would finally regret.

Remember blood is thicker than water.

DSC7:
I met this beautiful damsel around 2012,we got admission into same institution same year....

We dated from 2012-2016,,,,

During service we parted ways and met again 2018 but ended up becoming friends with benefits....

By 2019 distance(different states) kept us apart due to life plans.....

And we don't have each others contacts again

So i was chatting with my elder brother this morning and he told me about his fiancee, i asked for her picture... Lo and behold she was my ex and friend with benefits.....

Now there is no way she will know that we are related except on their wedding day coming up next year if i attend.....

I don't know whether to tell him or just let them be

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Odidigboigbo(m): 8:19am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:

She won't be aware until we see one on one...

No pictures, and she doesn't know my name and family name when we were together....

Many things changed

You dated someone for years and she doesn't know your real name, your family name and where you came from? Wow, that is a not a date then, you guys are just fucking each other. Nothing real is between you guys, With this statement, is either you are not sincere with this post or the girl is a slot. Because there is no reasonable date that will last for one month without the girl knowing the guy's little background and the guy knowing hers, not to talk of a date close to four years. I can sense some loopholes in your post.

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Nobody: 8:20am On Nov 14, 2021

Myzubby:
Let them marry
After the marriage it will be an interesting story for both of you .

Make sure you are the type of person your brother can trust with his wife otherwise if your brother becomes aware your past relationship with her he may feel insecure .

And hope your relationship with her was not romantic
Thank you

Oga friends with benefits means that they were having sex!!! Isn't that romantic enough

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Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by gentlesmithugo(m): 8:21am On Nov 14, 2021

Truely,what goes around comes around.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Idoko619(m): 8:22am On Nov 14, 2021

Myzubby:
Let them marry
After the marriage it will be an interesting story for both of you .

Make sure you are the type of person your brother can trust with his wife otherwise if your brother becomes aware your past relationship with her he may feel insecure .

And hope your relationship with her was not romantic

Was not romantic?
Thank you

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by Idoko619(m): 8:26am On Nov 14, 2021

DSC7:

She is not the promiscuous type....

Do you suggest i find means of connecting with her so as to let her know who she is about getting married to?

Bro i just dey confused...

To me this is the best.
Let her know what Is about coming, the decision on what to do shld be between both of you, either to speak up or forever remain silence.

Re: My Brother Is About To Marry My Friend With Benefits!!! by stawarts(m): 8:27am On Nov 14, 2021

AntiWailer:
No be person brother go Marry her before ?

Very deep my brother....

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