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sisisioge:


I swearit, that Ned no fine kobo though him get money. Na Regina mama supposed marry him not the poor girl. Anyways, her average age is 20yrs going by the several numbers making the round. 20yrs is good enough jare

So only "fine" men get married,shallow brain

realestniggah:
One day this whole shit will burst and scatter and Ned or his family will collect everything he own

And there is no possibility of dem having children and a happy ending?? What is d cause of all this bitterness?? Whatever you wish this family will eventually happen to you and your family.

midnighter:
Somebody sold their daughter and is using the bbc to salve their conscience...bbc is also using her to shine

U are daft, who sells a 19years old(if she wasnt even older)?? The girl is old enough to make life decisions.That aside,is it ur sell?? ,is she your daughter?? Is ur surname Daniels

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uuzba:
Then she must be a harlot AIDs woman.
Is that how a woman will be giving different young-young guys free sex and you think nothing will happen?

Giving dem free sex as if she won't enjoy it too?? You sound unintelligent

cbrass:
and they tell you that it is everything that interests the publishers at Guiness records? is the company not owned by humans? so anything you don't see on guiness is a lie abi? Mr bayo broke the record of the longest time spent to read a book here in lagos but Guiness said they won't accept it until he comes to do it at their office in london. so there is no big deal about them. we can be our on guiness too we don't need validation from any body

True,but tou should no we africans exaggerate a lot,ww are bad at record keeping and we don't leave enough evidences.It is very hard to believe things like this,and that 344years old is out of range,d oldest confirmed yet is 189 and dat margin is just too much to believe.That was how a northerner also claimed to be 287years old some years back when the oldest confirmed person lived for 119years

NotFarFrom:
I don't know what to say to you. It is apparent that you're using free basics, hence you cannot research before opening your mouth. Let me help you with an example;

Adwaita is a tortoise that lived for 255 years.

Not verified sir,i can just carry one tortoise and claim it is 500years old,u don't expect everyone to believe dat,but guiness will look for evidences to ascertain d claim and verify it

NotFarFrom:
It is very possible. Tortoise can live for up to 500years.

Shut up there,the Oldest living tortoise lived for 189years

Man102:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/tribuneonlineng.com/breaking-344-year-old-tortoise-in-soun-of-ogbomosos-palace-is-dead/amp/

According to guiness world records,the world's oldest tortoise lived for 189years

Quality20:
really strange, well even here in nija ds rubbish is fast spreading. remembered a guy who claimed he saw a lonely girl in a park and decided to approach her only to be accosted by another girl telling him that "she is my girlfriend,," and d guy was left bewildered.
I really don't know why a lady would decide to b lesb? Dont they want children, real sex enjoyment, manly strength, financial inducement fom d man, respect and all that?

Yes,they dont

samba03:
After nigga will be broke and start blaming witches like adebayor... No investment, Rinaldo and messi upon all the endorsement deal them get investment... But I prefer this car tyre to buhari

Do you know him personally before concluding he has no investment?? Why are you so bitter

Tosinex:
If you can talk them into it, good. If not, get a woman your parent want, love is everywhere.

So the main purpose of getting married to someone to soend the rest of your life with you is to please parents??

MicheyJ1:
A marriage without the blessings of your parents would never bode well.

And are you saying there aren't marriages with parent's blessings that end up crashing or all d failed marriages are bkos of d absence of parental blessings?? How old are you??

MicheyJ1:
A marriage without the blessings of your parents would never bode well.

Parents or God?? You better deal with all this your fish mentality,what Gof has joined together and declared blissful,who dares put asunder?? And what if his parents arent alive,he won't marry?? Or where is it mandated in the Bible or any. Other holy books that parents determine the blissfulness of marriage?

thesicilian:
Some will say marriage is between you and your partner and your parents have no right to interfere. That may be true, but what an elderly person sees sitting down, a child may not see while standing up

You are really 4ked up.

luminouz:
Same as rapists and murderers and kidnappers and incest...they exist but do we ask them to come out so we can understand them better?
No!!! Our laws and traditions forbid such,so whoever is caught should face the music.
By the way you are talking,soon you will ask not to discriminate against incest,right?

This is silly mentioning homosexuality in the same manner as kidnapping and rape,homosexuality involves consent,sir.And not discriminating is not necessarily my point.

dannyrhymes600:
with this ur option ehn
if u stay where I dey for 2weeks, gay go rape you

They won't try it,lol

luminouz:
If you don't have any,I do...and its been keeping me swell. What I know is homosexuality is not part of us,whether SA agreed to it or not,that's their business. As a nation,if not for these so-called values you scorn,why,it will be a complete bedlam. Imagine sisters and brother cohabiting,fathers marrying daughters or cousins fuqin cousins and everybody still says 'its a free world?' Or 'live and let live?' Traditions are what make us distinctive from base animals like a he-goat who grows up to impregnate its own mother.
On the second part of your question,can't u see that since traditional,familial values degraded,attendant consequences involved crime and other vices? People have lost touch of their roots, so now anything goes.

I am not a gay activist but can u eradicate it totally?? NO! They are even in extreme islamic countries where the penalty is death.So u are just deceiving yourself saying it is not part of us,if you discriminate against it,they will do it secretly. The best option is not to discriminate and allow them to open up,then maybe you can get to understand them better and offer help whether spiritual or psychological.

lilbest4:
E pain am. Come and suck dicck here and see if you won't be lynched to death.
People can never be allowed to do whatever they like and be accepted because they are not hurting people, there must be law and order. Because a man and his daughter are fuccking each other and like it does not mean we should accept incest. A mother will never be allowed to fucck her son in our society, a human will never be allowed to fucck a goat in our society, a boy must never be allowed to fucck a fellow boy. If you don't like this our traditions, you either commit suicide or move on to a lawless society.

And you as the police officer will always be there to stop them when they want to,right??

luminouz:
Your political correctness bullshit will get you killed one day. We are Africans,with tradition and values. If you wanna kiss your fellow man or fuq him,then wait till you get out of the country or face the consequences.
I won't accept such rubbish near me,if you doubt it,then come and try to such my diick then.

But where have your traditions and values led you,how has it made nigeria developed as a nation??

virgoquin:
This is what I hate about some Nigerian men thinking mentality.

They believe that marriage is the ultimate reward for being good, you will see a girl displaying some bad habits and the replies will be like

no man will marry her as if everything revolve around them and their pènis. Allow people to live the way they deem okay and stop policing them around with the useless threat of no man will marry them

As in daft people who believes the sole aim of every lady is to get married and marriage in a yardstick for success. "No one will marry her" as if it is a good thing if she gets married to people like them

Sorry to say but i can see a lot of dumb people on this thread,since when did drawing tattoos become the standard of immortality?? Nigerians and misplaced priorities,no wonder the country is upside down,you will tell me if you see tattoo on the body of the serial killer who was caught last week or you have seen a boko haram member with tattoos,we all own our bodies and and we should do anything that makes us happy with it,Grow up!!! Nigerians are just so dumb generally

Darkseid:
The fact that your phone shows the accurate data usage means that MTN has nothing to do with your data problem. These days, people are always watching whatsapp statuses and that alone is enough to finish your data.

Wrong,mtn once wiped my data accidentally, went to check data usage and the usage was accurate,i was shocked,mtn usually wipes data at an alarming rate but the one of that day was baffling to say the least,they later apologized and restored my data,they are in control of your of data usage stats.

Jloveme:
The question is does she no herself know she has inner battle. Stop coming out here preaching insane minds, rather go to tacha's handle and advice her to get rid of bad manner because that alone can destroy any man.

Do you know her personally?? Have you met her before in. Your life?? But you choose to judge her personality based on an entertainment show in which participants have to find any means to stay relevant and remain in the house?

oluwaseyi000:
Once you reject condom I control and up to something I move on how is that not a good thing

Anything that rocks your boat but that orientation is very bad

oluwaseyi000:
What makes you think so

Self Control is what makes us human and distinguishes us from animals

oluwaseyi000:
No I haven't and I don't think I will, I am a male and single, before any lady tempt me she should be ready I don't know how to say no, I gladly accept it when a lady tell me no but for a lady to tell me yes and I will say no that's impossible no matter how ugly the lady is


I may only say no if I'm suspecting you are up to something or you reject condom

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You are disgrace to existence,condolences to the millions of sperm cells who lost to you in the race for fertilization.

sweetrace:
May you be accused of something horrible and may everyone believe it to be true without verification. May others see it as precedence and make further accusations without evidence.

I say a big "AMEN" to it

saggitarius01:
Good evening dear Nairalanders. I'm sorry I had to create a new account to post this. I am getting really worried about how my life may turn out. I'd be straight and brief as possible so please read and give me any advice you can. Thanks.

A brief rundown about myself.

I am going to be 25 in no time, growing up I felt there is only two paths a young lady should tow...either to forget being a fashonista and all trying to be neck deep in her outlook or calm down, first things first, work hard and make money (if possible be a millionaire before 25). I choose the later and as God will have it, my dream turned a reality.

Now, while I was in this journey of not turning out to be a lady who will never be able to foot her own bills, I forgot everything about being girlie. I never what it means to have female friends or hang out with any, I don't care so much about knowing the latest party and posh places or even taking all the posh pictures like the ladies in my age bracket would. I was focused to a fault. I saved to a fault.

I might not have everything I desire but I am indeed comfortable for a young lady who made it out of the ghetto life of Igbogbo.

Now my pain..

I do most of my jobs from home and therefore I am mostly within the confines of my apartment.
No boyfriend, no fiance talk more of a husband.
I don't have any friend and I don't know to make any friend for as a result of I trying to find my feet in life, I have had, experienced, seen and heard nasty behaviours of human. I keep people at arms length. I am afraid of an average human for I believe anybody can do anything even things you don't expect of them.

I already observed that slaying and all the girlie ish is obviously not a part of me as i prefer to brainstorm and think of how to expand my business which I know an average lady my age, that is the least of her worries.

I know I need a man in my life. I don't know if it's a stereotype but I think ages 24-26 is the right age (as i have made to believe) a woman should at be at least settled Maritally. How do I go about getting a man to date and marry? Where are the places I should go to? Remember I said I have NO friends so no wedding invitations.

Am I stressing myself? But I am almost 25 and no man and truly in my hearts of hearts I know I want to be a wife someday and have a good family so need to lie about anything. Where do ladies meet their boyfriends? Not the playboys or those with pulled down shorts.

Please what do I do? What are the places to go? I tried hanging out to places for drink but you know how it feels and looks for a young lady to sit out on her own.

P.S. Yes I am not desperate but I am concerned.

Did i make a mistake by holding my life first instead of being all what the social media ladies are?

I just opened an Instagram account yesterday and still don't know how to use the app or what to do there. You can imagine the kind of lady I have become. Yes I can dress neat and combine my wears. Forget ugly, I ain't. I could do a nice make up on my face when ever I have 2 hours to spare. Never a boring fella. I just don't know how to find someone I could share all the happiness, joy and street wise advise with.
Please help me. I am so lonely. I only come on nairaland whenever I am bored. Enough said.

I am open to questions. Any at all.

You don't need anyone to make you happy,your happiness depends on you and you alone,don't force it.

Myhusband:
pained that you're a mere pvssy nigga? we know your type

abeg take your childishness comot from my side

I can bet your parents are still flogging you at your age

Myhusband:
shut up and reason with your brain for once, is not in that your blockhead for fashion


continue licking ladies anuus I really don't give a damn about what you think you're

Local man is so pained

Abalado:
If u think say ur woman love u, my brother pretend to be poor, then u will know her true personality

Shallow thinking,do you even love yourself if you are poor