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Family / Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by dubem3(m): 6:01pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
[quote author=womanscorned post=86865653] Truth is, nothing is wrong with your marriage. I say this in the sense of the ever present friction in every human relationship and the fact that most men (including your holy brothers) usually enjoy the excitement of the hunt and tend to loose interest at the end of it. Trust me, if he didn't think you were worth it, he wouldn't have married you. So listen... 1. True! You have to guide you marriage jealously but you mustn't imprison the man. He is the same man he was before you married him. Don't expect that marriage will bestow an automatic change on him. I personally don't think there is anything wrong with a married man checking out a woman as long as it doesn't go beyond that. If you imprison a man, another hunt begins. Now take a retrospective look at all your defences he broke down to get to you. I'm not sure you want to know what the result of this will be. 2. Divorce is a very serious thing, you must know that. Plan A doesn't work very well most times cos people dedicate time thinking of plan B. Where you are at right now, you must not ever mention 'divorce' again. 3. Nobody here can advice you on how to get back your man. Most opinions you'll get here are from kids who may not even be in any relationship. Every relationship is different and so is the technique to bring it back on track when it details. Find your own technique to do the following; *Better than love, seek understanding *Communicate communicate communicate (do not nag be logical and make your points) *Make excuses for the other (benefit of doubt) *Be patient *Be peaceful *Recharge your marriage (you too can take him out - research his interests and be ready to make valuable conversation) At the end, You'll set a standard so high that he'll dread disappointing you. Disclaimer: it's not easy oh and it takes time and dedication. Have fantastic life. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Car Talk / Re: VW Auto Mechanic by dubem3(m): 3:04pm On Aug 02, 2016 |
@mayor2013 it's a 2000 golf 4 and its auto trans. |
Car Talk / Re: VW Auto Mechanic by dubem3(m): 11:38am On Aug 01, 2016 |
Lest I forget, I need a Lagos based mechanic. |
Car Talk / VW Auto Mechanic by dubem3(m): 11:27am On Aug 01, 2016 |
Hello guys, I have some issues with my Volkswagen Golf IV. In as clear terms as possible, this is what I experience. When you rev, engine power drops instead of increase. Through careful observation, I've noticed that when I get my legs off the accelerator, the rpm goes up just a split second before it begins to fall. So I try to rev, release and rev again just in line with my discovery. Sometimes it picks and at other times it doesn't. Most times it requires a super slow acceleration for it to pick up. This super slow acceleration is very dangerous for driving on highways. At other times, it just goes off. I'd love to hear from your thoughts on what my issues might be but best of all, I'd love to get a good VW mechanic who will take a good look and possibly fix it. Thanks guys. |
Events / Re: Ayobase Weds (Photos) by dubem3(m): 5:45pm On May 27, 2016 |
AYO!!!! |
Jobs/Vacancies / Marketers & Housekeeper Wanted by dubem3(m): 8:43pm On May 23, 2016 |
1. A bakery located around Gbagada axis requires a marketer. No age limit, no educational qualification. All that is needed is your ability to deliver on sales. Remuneration is based solely on commission on sales. 2. An interior decor company requires a marketer for her bedspreads and curtains line. No age limit, no educational qualification. All that is needed is your ability to deliver on sales. Remuneration is based solely on commission on sales. 3. A facilities management company in Illupeju requires a housekeeper. Requirements * Must be male * Educational qualification must be at least SSCE (must be able to read, write and speak proper English). * Must have basic computer literacy. *should have basic culinary skills and be ready to learn. Working hours are quite flexible but punctuality is very important. Remuneration is negotiable. Please send indication of interest to dubem@dubsworth.com |
Family / Re: Thanks TeHN by dubem3(m): 5:57am On Sep 21, 2015 |
Hey dont8, I just sent you a mail. Reply as soon as you can. |
Business / Re: Your Dormant Bank Account Could Put You In Trouble by dubem3(m): 11:10am On Aug 05, 2015 |
Truflame: Are you sure about this? cos i remember opening an account in 2011 with GT, ran it for some time then it went dormant. in 2014 when i went to reactivate it, apart from the hassels of reactivating it, it had automatically been changed to an e-account, hence i couldn't conduct any transactions in the banking hall. that would have been no issue if i didn't love flexibility so much. Fast forward to 2015, i needed to change this account to a savings account and they said i couldn't. i had to open an additional account despite not needing it. After two weeks of hearing nothing from them i went back and you know what? the account wasn't opened and they had misplaced all the documents. Presently i can't even transfer money from the account. They keep telling me i've exceeded my limit. this is the second week now, CS people in the bank don't know what to do. everybody is just clueless. So much for the best 4 Likes |
Phones / Re: My Experience With Paykobo.com by dubem3(m): 5:55am On Mar 31, 2015 |
zenith4biz: I use only UC browser |
Phones / Re: My Experience With Paykobo.com by dubem3(m): 5:22pm On Mar 30, 2015 |
Why am I being forced to log in through face book by this pop up that cant close? I need to make payment and use the data right now. Plus there seems to have been instructions to your CS people not to take calls. Canvthis be fixed now pls? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Hurray!!! Nairaland Is 10 Years Today!!! by dubem3(m): 7:16am On Mar 10, 2015 |
Seun you've worked really hard. Congratulations. It's just a milestone though, work goes on. |
Romance / Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by dubem3(m): 6:56am On Feb 26, 2015 |
searching4love: Goiing by what you said above, I'll be surprised if you did. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Should I Confront Him Or Walk Away Quietly? by dubem3(m): 6:52am On Feb 26, 2015 |
searching4love: Explains why you're searching for love and why you'll be at it much much longer. 9 Likes |
Culture / Re: Igbo Name For Fruits by dubem3(m): 9:47pm On Feb 17, 2015 |
Ihuomadinihu: Onye nkuzi anyi, ndewo maka olu oma gi. 2 Likes |
Celebrities / Re: Eddie Izycs - Port Harcourt Finest Music Video Producer by dubem3(m): 1:37pm On Jan 21, 2015 |
I just saw celebration and each time I watch it (I keep replaying it) it gives me goose pimples. I played it for a couple of friends and they won't stop screaming. You're really talented. Keep working on it. More power to your hands. |
Politics / Re: 10 Things That Sound Too Crazy To Be True by dubem3(m): 10:36am On Dec 21, 2014 |
As usual, you don't fire blanks. How about you do a review of ur last year prophecies and come with new ones. It's been a hard knock year. Hopefully the next will be better. Well done. |
Religion / Re: Songs Sang In Hypocrisy During Church Service. by dubem3(m): 8:59am On Dec 14, 2014 |
daveP: |
Phones / Re: Lumia 730 Captures Selfie With 1,151 People (Picture) by dubem3(m): 9:06pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
I thought a selfie was supposed to show all the faces clearly. What's a selfie sef? |
Celebrities / Re: Stephanie Okereke Supports Lady Raped By Her Brother by dubem3(m): 8:42pm On Nov 24, 2014 |
I thought sex was meant to be enjoyed 2 Likes |
Religion / Re: Who Is Your Favorite Bible Character And Why? by dubem3(m): 3:56pm On Oct 26, 2014 |
Oh my! Don't I like David? Oh yeah! I love that guy (no homo) |
Politics / Did Obhaigbon (igodomigodo) Refuse To Give A Speech At The Rivers State Rally? by dubem3(m): 12:39pm On Oct 25, 2014 |
I happened to have jumped in on the Amaechi 7th year anniversary rally or whatever it was called and just as I was about to walk away, I heard the mc invite the Edo state chief of staff to give a speech after the vote of thanks. So I slowed down and waited to get a little bit of grammertical clowntertainment. To my disappointment, we waited unending and he didn't show up. Till the programme was cut off a quick scan through the stations came up empty. What could have happened? Did he refuse or what? |
Nairaland / General / Re: 25 Of The Most Creative Sculptures And Statues From Around The World by dubem3(m): 2:54pm On Jul 16, 2014 |
WOW!!! |
Politics / Re: Gunmen Abduct German In Adamawa by dubem3(m): 2:43pm On Jul 16, 2014 |
with the rate at which my brothers are moving down east and south, i was led to believe that no other person is left in the north, Now, to think that a German was caught dead in the troubled region, i can only ask "wetin he de find for there?" |
Family / Re: Options Available For Same A.s Genotype Couple by dubem3(m): 9:33am On Jul 13, 2014 |
Mynd44: I always have a problem with people equating 'faith' to some magic performing attribute of Christianity or people tempting God by trying to use his words against him. If they were to have faith, what would they be believing God for? That their children will turn out AA? I think I see reason with the advice 'if bearing your own children is a priority, otherwise you can go ahead with the relationship and adopt children or any of the many contemporary ways of 'getting children'. |
Politics / Has The National Conference Been Compromised? by dubem3(m): 1:15pm On Jul 04, 2014 |
If all that I hear about the confab is true, then it's truly been compromised. I apologise but I haven't had the time to give a close marking to the national conference but it's hard to live your life without excerpts from the proceedings filtering in. Change of the country's name Creation of numerous states etc What does the confab mean to you? Do you think it is duly achieving the aim for its set up? What is your opinion? |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs France World Cup (0 - 2) On 30th June 2014 by dubem3(m): 5:43pm On Jun 30, 2014 |
That light I saw just dimmed. |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs France World Cup (0 - 2) On 30th June 2014 by dubem3(m): 5:41pm On Jun 30, 2014 |
Something is definitely wrong.#getmikeloff |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs France World Cup (0 - 2) On 30th June 2014 by dubem3(m): 5:35pm On Jun 30, 2014 |
What did mickel give Keshi? |
Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs France World Cup (0 - 2) On 30th June 2014 by dubem3(m): 5:32pm On Jun 30, 2014 |
I think I see more the possibility of our winning this game. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Reaction Of Nairalanders During The Offline Period! by dubem3(m): 11:32am On Jun 27, 2014 |
Congrats Seun, I can imagine how hard you battled and how trying the period was. I hope you've learnt the accompanying lessons. Glad to have the site back. 7 Likes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Lionel Messi Sidelined For Two Months With Hamstring Injury by dubem3(m): 8:46am On Nov 12, 2013 |
Is this how he intends to captain Earth against the aliens? #winnertakesearth |
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