₦airaland Forum

Is it the will of God say konji go dey worry man?

Is it the will of God say person must get hungry?

If the answers to the questions are yes, why are we allowed to eat freely but not allowed to satisfy sexual hunger freely?

Reason that relationship without the influence of konji(what they call love), and check how many years you can cope in that state of mind.

He killed with his hands.
He's heartless.
What does he deserve?

For me, if those hands remain intact no one around him is safe.

Trying to waste time when we already know the reply we'd get.

odenkirk:
its only one thing that pained me about this saga bro, i know they told the boy what he is going to do in the uk why did he agreed and changed his mind after going there?

That he changed his mind, is that a crime?
Even God himself can change His own mind and decide not to do do what he wanted to do if there are good reasons.

Haven't you changed your mind before?
It's a normal thing for someone to change his/her mind so why should that pain you?

Anyone that knows the value of kidney will not want to give it out, that's why the UK sees it as crime if you don't explain everything to a kidney donor before reaching an agreement.

veektor01:
Thank you. I was wondering where all the sensible people went to.
None of them here saying thrash will donate their kidney for that amount.

Truly, most sensible people don't normally come on here to exchange words with ignoramuses.

I only commented because I got angry at a point.

The entire ekweremadus with all their friends and relations including fans and admirers couldn't donate one kidney and we're here blaming one uneducated young man who is obviously a victim of the state of this country because of the types of ekweremadu at the helm of affairs in this country.

With all the money they embezzle in this country if we can't provide a single world class healthcare center then let all those politicians go to jail for all I care.

No be the same oil wey UAE get we get?

Gboom:
Based on this quote
The so-called Dr Obinna greediness put the Ekerenmadus and himself in jail. He thought the boy does not know the value of money hence giving him a paltry sum. The boy from the street must have told his fellows what transpired, and they must have advised to play ignorance role in the UK to attract sympatry to himself

I can boldly say it, that Nigeria cannot become better with this kind of brain and thinking pattern I'm seeing here on nairaland.

What do you mean by this rubbish opinion?

What is "value of money"?

The entire ekweremadu family are educated and they know the value of one kidney.

Dr. Obeta knows the value but you can see the wickedness he played.

They can only deceive people like you who don't know the value of that kidney.

The guy who sold his kidney for the price of iphone 12 that year should be in a better position to teach you the "value of money" today.

Very brainless people everywhere.

odenkirk:
oga that boy is criminal he agreed to donate his organ for a token they dnt wanna do it in nigeria cuz the hospitals bad the boy changed his mind after getting to uk nd saw opportunies agains the senator now he ruined the entire family i hate that stupid boy

Sorry to tell you this, but you're seriously stupid.
I'm being very honest with you.

I can see you're very interested in this matter and what the guy did pained you so much but I'm sure you won't donate your own kidney because you would have done it all this while.

You said he destroyed a whole family, an entire family that couldn't donate just one kidney to their family member.
That one na family?

Let me also advise you in case you want to donate your own kidney out of stupidity, just know that a healthy person loses one percent kidney cells every year.

So, if you donate one kidney be prepared to die untimely.

Och77:
SOME LITTLE DETAILS YOU DID NOT KNOW ABOUT IN THE EKWEREMADU CASE.

David Ukpo Nwamini is the 21-year-old Lagos street hawker who was to give his kidney to Ekweremadu’s daughter IN London. When he was interviewed at the hospital in London, they asked him if he knew he was to donate his kidney to Sonia Ekweremadu.

He first told them that he had no money to donate. They explained to him that it was his kidney that he was to donate. He asked them what was kidney.

Initially, the doctors thought it was a question of language, since David’s English was not good enough. However, they eventually understood that David did not know which human organ was called kidney.

In other words, he did not know what organ he was to give Sonia. That led the doctors to conclude that the procedure was not well-explained to David and that is the number one requirement by law.

According to the law, you must explain to the organ donor the procedure and all the health risks associated with the procedure. It is only then that the donor is taken to have informedly consented.
When the doctors found that David did not understand what he was about to get involved in, they declared him a mismatch.

The term “mismatch” is a technical generic language to indicate that the proposed organ harvesting has not met all the requirements.

Many in Nigeria have misunderstood the term “mismatch” in this case to meant that David’s kidney was not suitable for Sonia.

No! There was nothing wrong with David’s Kidney.

To donate an organ, the facts must match both the law and the science governing the procedure. While the kidney matched the scientific requirement, the facts did not match the legal requirement.

So, it was declared a mismatch. To help you understand it better, the term “mismatch” means there is a discrepancy.

The doctors who interviewed David did not and could not have determined that a crime was committed. The doctors did not have sufficient information to reach such conclusion then.

They felt uncomfortable with the discrepancies in the information they had about the donor and his decisions and whether he had made up his mind.

For instance, the doctors did not get involved in how David was brought to them or whether he was paid. It was not their duty to deal with that. It was actually when Ekweremadu and Dr. Obinna attempted to return David to Nigeria that the problem started.

David expected that he would be given a job in London as he was told before he left Nigeria. They did not give him job and they did not send him to school. Instead of all he was promised, he was asked to prepare to return to Nigeria and David ran away from the house where he was kept.

As hunger wired him, he reported himself to the police. To win the immediate protection of the police, he lied about his age by telling them he was 15.

It was when he was interviewed by the police that the information came out which established that a crime was committed. For instance, it was at the police station that they asked him if he was paid money and he said yes he was paid N270,000. When the police checked the WhatsApp chats between Ekweremadu and Dr. Obeta they realized that Ekweremadu actually paid 4.5 million for Obeta to pay to David. But Obeta only paid David N270,000 and pocketed the rest.

In fact, Ekweremadu tried to keep himself away from certain details of the deal. That was why Ekweremadu never discussed money with David. In fact, he did not deal directly with David. That was what made it possible for Obeta to cheat him. Ekweremadu believed that the 4.5 million went to David. But since he was not dealing with David directly, he never knew that Obeta pocketed most of the money.

However, the law viewed Ekweremadu’s decision not to deal directly with David as a typical behavior of a big man who knew that he is getting involved in a crime. He would usually try to create some distance between him and the crime, yet he will be funding the crime from afar.

Otherwise, how come you never wanted to meet the boy that is giving his kidney to your daughter and whom you called cousin to your daughter (which actually makes him your nephew)? Rather than see the non-direct dealing as evidence of his innocence, it was seen as deliberate or willful ignorance aimed at evading legal responsibility.

One of the key factors that worked against Ekweremadu was that he lied. On three official documents he signed, he stated that David was Sonia’s cousin. But in all the WhatsApp chats he had with the doctor and his own brother over the matter, he referred to David as “that guy”. Hence the question: “You knew he was not Sonia’s cousin. While you signed that he was her cousin, when you wanted to say the truth, you referred to him as “that guy”, meaning you didn’t know him or even remember his name”. Ekweremadu admitted in court that he lied and apologized.

NOTE: I decided to provide these details because I have read somewhere it was being said that David misled Ekweremadu and took advantage of him. No, David is a real victim. He did not manipulate them. He was manipulated by Dr. Obinna Obeta, who was working for the Ekweremadu.

*Copied*.

Okay, making sense.

ivolt:
He agreed to be a donor only to claim victim after getting to the UK.
Before you reply with exploitation and oppression bla bla, remember that their
are people who donates their organs right here in Nigeria based on agreed upon condition.
Nobody forced them.

You must think you're sensible.

Why would he accept to donate his kidney for free in Nigeria?

Do you think they explained the terms and conditions and he agreed?

Do you know how the discussion went before you come on here to spew trash?

Would you yourself donate your kidney free of charge?

Why is it that the entire ekweremadu family, friends and relations couldn't come up with just one person to donate the kidney? Or have they not been the ones enjoying the benefits that came from the senator all these years?

Nigerians are shocking to say the least.

The comments so far justifies the boy's fears.

Is that a convenient excuse to be a stingy miser?

Your president will leave for Niger republic if it becomes too hot for him in Nigeria.

How wonderful does that sound?

N3TRAL:
I pity women whose priority on their "Mr Right's personality wishlist" is a "religious man". You're in for a lifetime of subjugation and manipulation.

I also extend my commiseration to those who heed the advice of their religious leaders without reflection- it's about time you took charge of your life!

The day a man hits you should be the last and a bitter first. The appropriate place for such man to spend the weekend is in a police cell.

No, he doesn't love you. No, he isn't jealous. No, he isn't domineering. No, he will not change.

Yes, he is a wild animal. Yes, he hates you. Yes, he will kill you. So, don't only walk away, ensure he is arrested and a restraining order is issued by the court to prevent him from getting close to you.

How do you hit a woman and still caress her body , suck her , kiss her , lick her from head to toe, thrust her deeply and impregnate her?

It's sickening to hit a random girl! How much more the woman you claim you love who's putting her life on the line to bear offspring that will take your name not hers?

My father hit my mother a couple of times (mum herself is a fighter from her youth) and they're still married for almost 40yrs now.

I've seen a man slap the hell out of his wife to reset her brain and he loves her to bits till date and are still married.

Hitting your woman to correct her erroneous mentality is same as correcting a child by spanking, and seeing how mentaly immature some Nigerian women can be at times, that brain resetting hit can be utterly necessary and can even save a marriage, it only depends on the circumstances.

Marriage is not a straight journey as I've come to understand it. At times the man has to take charge of situations and do the needful at times, and if that involves the occasional hit then so be it.

Only Europeans should handle corporate entities.

My mother worked for Lever brothers (current Unilever), I still remember the party that was organised for her after ten years of service. The certificate of recognition is still with her to date.

I still remember the monthly benefits she received while working with them( staff always got a share of every product o the company).

I still remember her severance package when she resigned.

Now blacks are at the helms of affairs, the story has changed unsurprisingly.

Marabout ~ Alfa
Alfa ~ related to Muslim/Islam
Islam ~ related to destruction (as in bokoharam et all)

John 10 vs 10 says that the devil cometh but to steal, kill, and destroy...

This marks the beginning of the end for pogba, trust me. His team mates in whatever team he plays in can never trust him anymore.

Henceforth, any injury sustained in the team he's part of or any misfortune will always cast a shadow on him in some ways.

I do really pity him and I feel for him as I I had followed his career since he was fifteen years and linked with man united.

Barrylord4040:
Anyone in right sense will not vote a 3rd class Philosophy Graduate

BAT 2023

Are you not ashamed that a third class philosophy graduate is better than you who have seven first class degrees?

Mykelslim:
If we get it wrong next year, I will know Nigerians deserve every bit of hardship.

We have always deserved the leaders we had and we'll always deserve the future leaders.

Only if we have a sensible majority will we have a sensible leader.

Ok

In my opinion, there should be IQ tests conducted and passed for every citizen in order to be eligible to hold a PVC.

If one doesn't pass the test he/she shouldn't be qualified to be issued the PVC.

This is the only way to ensure that the voting population are capable of making sensible voting decisions.

Ebubu:
I am a student and I fully support FG not paying their 6 months salary for abdicating from work.

Who will pay back students for their house rents that have wasted ? Nobody. Is it their fault ? No.

FG should never ever pay them. Let them strike till next year.

I pray that after graduating you will always find jobs that will treat you the way fg is treating the lecturers.
Amen.

Product of the mental conditioning of the society she found herself in.

Government deceiving Nigerians since 2015.

Very crooked government.

How many of their campaign promises did they fulfil, for over seven years?

Did they honor the last egreement they had with ASUU?