Romance › Re: Is It Right by duchess4: 9:29am On Sep 21, 2011 |
My dear, there is nothing desperate or cheap about you going to meet a guy for the first time as long as you stay true to yourself, regardless of what his intentions are for that first date. If he just wants to meet you and get to know the physical you with no other "SILLY" intentions in mind, then go for it but if the reverse is the case  , then i advise you make sure you have a plan B incase you need to make a quick getaway in the middle of the night  |
Romance › Re: Re: Are All The Good Men Taken? by duchess4: 9:19am On Sep 21, 2011 |
lefulefu: GOOD guys boku for naija .Any naija woman wey dey complain say she no get husband must get problem  La! Are you trying to tell me that all my fellow single naija babes that have no husbands have issues?  . In what way, pray, tell  |
Romance › Re: Are Ugly Guys(super Ugly)also Playboys? by duchess4: 9:15am On Sep 21, 2011 |
pro01: That is a fallacy that some of ya'll keep repeating. How would a woman determine that a man is 'good in bed' without sleeping with him in the first place? And whatever it is that makes a woman get Unclad in front of a man she recently met and sleep with him in the first place without necessarily being sure of how 'good' or 'bad' he is in bed IS in fact what makes a playboy successful. So whether he is a one minute man or not, his job as a playboy is done if he is able to get the woman undressed and sprawled out on his bed - even if it would only happen once.
Having said that, you can be sure that ONLY money, status or power of some sort can make a 'super ugly' guy a playboy - these things are visible and highly attractive to women. Show me an ugly, broke backside playboy and I'll become born-again. Okay sir! I stand to be corrected  |
Romance › Re: Are Ugly Guys(super Ugly)also Playboys? by duchess4: 8:51am On Sep 21, 2011 |
Depends on how good he is in  . Maybe that will be the major attraction for babes.  |
Romance › Re: Re: Are All The Good Men Taken? by duchess4: 8:46am On Sep 21, 2011 |
lefulefu: OP i see u still sitting there hoping a guy with a big house and a big car will come your way.Dey there make express pass u  Haba! she did not say she wanted a guy with a big house and big car to come here way na! she just wants a good guy.  Abi you wan apply?  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: A Matured Man Looking For Serious Minded & Matured Girl /lady. by duchess4: 12:20pm On Sep 19, 2011 |
Need more info about the kind of lady you want.  |
Romance › Re: Dilemma by duchess4: 4:18pm On Sep 14, 2011 |
me thinks she should not have given the other guy the time of day, not to talk of allowing him to pay for malt & gala while her "man" was there.
Just goes to show how much regard she has for him. Who knows, she might have even told the buyer of malt ati gala the poor fella was brother! |
Romance › Re: Dilemma by duchess4: 4:12pm On Sep 14, 2011 |
lol at comments 
you guys are something else on this forum! |
Romance › Re: I Made This Mistake But Still Need Advice To Move On by duchess4: 10:57am On Jul 27, 2011 |
190: ^then firmly tell her you aint moving out cos of Financial issues -
if she cant understand, forgive and forget and forge on with the marriage [color=#770077]Well said! If she feels so strongly about your moving out, then she should be ready to atmost, contribute to the house rent if need be. i understand the the fact that she might not feel comfortable knowing the other lady lives around but if she really loves you, she should try to put that behind her and forge ahead. You on the other hand my guy, have to prove to her that you really love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. You`ve got your job cut out for you looking for ways to earn her trust!!! Goodluck man! |
Food › Re: Firearm's Kitchen by duchess4: 4:10pm On May 18, 2011 |
still waiting for my order  |
Food › Re: Firearm's Kitchen by duchess4: 4:57pm On May 17, 2011 |
Can i have oje abacha with obo egwa?
To wash it down with very cold water?
Thank you. |
Family › Re: I Am Getting Married by duchess4: 11:21am On Apr 20, 2011 |
jennykadry: how silly can you be?  [/qu
i tire o! all the poor fellow wanted was a simple advice.
@ aloy
was that too much to ask for? |
Romance › Re: Insecure Ladies by duchess4: 10:55am On Feb 02, 2011 |
enuff already!!! pls sheath your swords  |
Romance › Re: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by duchess4: 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
Learnt to stop doing that. Had a partner who made sure he sees the "made in china" of whatever money i earn before he rests. realised the
moment he knows my salary comes in or i get any cash at all, that is when this and that must be bought without delay. couldnt save anything at
the end of the month. Dint tell him when i got a pay increase and dnt tell when i get any allowances or even cash gifts. it was a case of " monkey
de work, baboon de chop". Learnt my lessons the hard way! |
TV/Movies › Re: Is Anyone Watching Nigerian Idols? by duchess4: 12:06pm On Nov 30, 2010 |
annawhite: it was crazy,i thot he was pretending but when i look further he was rolling on the floor crying and shouting u don miss the guy wey lie ,outside he come tell him friend say the judges like am,that they don even ask am make him train the more but cameramen come flash as judges say make him go i no fit laff my dear, see how the bros just de lie for national tv Imagine the fellow o!
2 yes`s and a no ko. that hin coat and face cap no just get part two ;DAnd he
kept on smiling away. I couldnt believe my ears when i heard him say he even
got a single yes, untill the camera showed the judges comments. Well, the
fellow had to console himself somehow na  |
TV/Movies › Re: Is Anyone Watching Nigerian Idols? by duchess4: 10:04am On Nov 29, 2010 |
i don laff die . Yesterdays show was just sumtin else.
One guy danced and bragged outside, only for him to get inside and become
subdued of course he flopped and trust him, he came out, landed on the
floor and started weeping his eyes out. Another fellow claimed he got his
heart broken by his girlfriend. Oya bros, sing your heart out and what came
out of his mouth had me rolling on the floor myself lafta wan kill me. |
Romance › Re: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by duchess4: 9:25am On Nov 25, 2010 |
Any previous trust issues? |
Romance › Re: Why Is She Alwz Sarcastic To Me?does It Mean She Likes Me? by duchess4: 10:57am On Nov 24, 2010 |
Mr~Cork: Brother, she is Sacarastick to u simply coz she aint feeeling you. As a friend, I recomend u double check dis check list:
1, your Body odour
2, Mouth odour,
3, pimples on your face,
4, are u broke?
5, do u have a car?
6, are u skinny?
7, are u presentable
8, change your name, maybe your name sounds local/bush etc. 
HOPE THIS HELPS, cheeers!  You no go kill person for this land! |
Romance › Re: Why Is She Alwz Sarcastic To Me?does It Mean She Likes Me? by duchess4: 10:39am On Nov 24, 2010 |
Depends on if you have actually asked her out If you havent, then she probably likes you and has also probably showed it in some ways which
you are ignorant of, and is kinda pissed that you havent noticed or reciprocated her feelings for you( probably why she gets jealous when she sees
you with another girl). 
OR
She just cant stand the sight of you!  |
Romance › Re: Plz Beware Of Girls With Bids On Their Waist,they Are Evil.its Confirmed by duchess4: 8:49am On Nov 02, 2010 |
biola44: but it's so seductive  Correct guy  |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 12:38pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
omo~fat: "Eat, Pray, Love".
"Love, Live, Laugh".
She will continue to live her life in the best way possible - whatever that means to her. Very sound advice! |
Romance › Re: Are Ulgy Babes Really A Bad Luck While Pretty Ones Goodluck? by duchess4: 12:36pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
But i am dark skinned  |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 12:22pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
omo~fat: Then God will punish the man for such a wicked and callous attitude.
But if the woman was as described by Harakiri, then she deserves all she got and more But while waiting for God`s punishment on such a fellow, what is the woman supposed to be doing? |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 12:13pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
Plutarch: @duchess, Ideally a wife must b faithful n supportive. I am never an advocate of a man dropping his wife as a result of newly found fame or wealth. However, i fink a man should get it right from day one,his future plan/ambition should b taken care of when choosing a wife Personally, i will never marry a woman who is not a univ graduate,good looking n wiv a respectable personality. Good to know you already know what you want in a woman. Some men go into marriage blinded by love, lust or infatuation and begin to complain
when these emotions have kinda faded off when reality and real life expectations set in. That is when all those attitudes they used to loff so much
become a problem!  |
Romance › Re: Are Ulgy Babes Really A Bad Luck While Pretty Ones Goodluck? by duchess4: 12:03pm On Nov 01, 2010 |
Mr!Cork: ~duchess~ NO? madam are u ugly?  Yep!!! Even shrek looks like prince charming when standing next to me (Non taken) |
Romance › Re: Are Ulgy Babes Really A Bad Luck While Pretty Ones Goodluck? by duchess4: 11:48am On Nov 01, 2010 |
And who propounded that theory? The answer is NO! |
Romance › Re: Plz Beware Of Girls With Bids On Their Waist,they Are Evil.its Confirmed by duchess4: 11:39am On Nov 01, 2010 |
baby.me: You mean beads? I used to wear it back then and it was not to prevent disease or pregnancy,it's a fashion. BTW there is nothing evil about it. i tire for the poster o! He probably fell into the arms of one and has therefore decided to generalize. Lots of ladies wear beads or chains for different
reasons best known to them. That doesnt necessarily mean its for an evil purpose. I love anklets and cannot do witout wearing them at all times.
That does not make me a witch or someone out to commit evil. My man met me wearing it, loves me wearing it and even helps me to select
whenever we go shopping together! So there!!! |
Family › Re: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 11:30am On Nov 01, 2010 |
And what if the wife had been the faithful and supporting type? |
Events › Re: Sweet November by duchess4: 9:03am On Nov 01, 2010 |
Those panties look kinda sexy though Dnt tell me you dnt like them  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: I Am Falling In Love With A Nairalander. by duchess4: 9:27am On Oct 28, 2010 |
yeah right! |
Romance › Re: A Girl Asking A Guy 2 Be Her Lover by duchess4: 11:53am On Oct 27, 2010 |
No i havnt. Cnt wait to try it out though! Still searching for the guy to be  |
Family › Re: Do You Eat Together As A Family? by duchess4: 12:55pm On Oct 20, 2010 |
@ Gamine
What can a sister do? I`ve tried giving him the "look" a couple of times but i think he has grown immune to even that 
When i can no longer stand the chewing, i simply carry my plate of food and move to the bedroom! |