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RomanceRe: Is It Right by duchess4: 9:29am On Sep 21, 2011
My dear, there is nothing desperate or cheap about you going to meet a guy for the first time as long as you stay true to yourself, regardless of

what his intentions are for that first date. If he just wants to meet you and get to know the physical you with no other "SILLY" intentions in mind,

then go for it but if the reverse is the case lipsrsealed, then i advise you make sure

you have a plan B incase you need to make a quick getaway in the middle of

the night grin
RomanceRe: Re: Are All The Good Men Taken? by duchess4: 9:19am On Sep 21, 2011
lefulefu:
GOOD guys boku for naija .Any naija woman wey dey complain say she no get husband must get problem grin
La! Are you trying to tell me that all my fellow single naija babes that have no

husbands have issues? shocked. In what way, pray, tell grin
RomanceRe: Are Ugly Guys(super Ugly)also Playboys? by duchess4: 9:15am On Sep 21, 2011
pro01:
That is a fallacy that some of ya'll keep repeating. How would a woman determine that a man is 'good in bed' without sleeping with him in the first place? And whatever it is that makes a woman get Unclad in front of a man she recently met and sleep with him in the first place without necessarily being sure of how 'good' or 'bad' he is in bed IS in fact what makes a playboy successful. So whether he is a one minute man or not, his job as a playboy is done if he is able to get the woman undressed and sprawled out on his bed - even if it would only happen once.

Having said that, you can be sure that ONLY money, status or power of some sort can make a 'super ugly' guy a playboy - these things are visible and highly attractive to women. Show me an ugly, broke backside playboy and I'll become born-again.
Okay sir! I stand to be corrected embarassed
RomanceRe: Are Ugly Guys(super Ugly)also Playboys? by duchess4: 8:51am On Sep 21, 2011
Depends on how good he is in lipsrsealed . Maybe that will be the major attraction

for babes. grin
RomanceRe: Re: Are All The Good Men Taken? by duchess4: 8:46am On Sep 21, 2011
lefulefu:
OP i see u still sitting there hoping a guy with a big house and a big car will come your way.Dey there make express pass u grin
Haba! she did not say she wanted a guy with a big house and big car to come here way na! she just wants a good guy. cool

Abi you wan apply? grin
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: A Matured Man Looking For Serious Minded & Matured Girl /lady. by duchess4: 12:20pm On Sep 19, 2011
Need more info about the kind of lady you want. huh
RomanceRe: Dilemma by duchess4: 4:18pm On Sep 14, 2011
me thinks she should not have given the other guy the time of day, not to talk of allowing him to pay for malt & gala while her "man" was there.

Just goes to show how much regard she has for him. Who knows, she might have even told the buyer of malt ati gala the poor fella was brother!
RomanceRe: Dilemma by duchess4: 4:12pm On Sep 14, 2011
lol at comments grin

you guys are something else on this forum!
RomanceRe: I Made This Mistake But Still Need Advice To Move On by duchess4: 10:57am On Jul 27, 2011
190:
^then firmly tell her you aint moving out cos of Financial issues -

if she cant understand, forgive and forget and forge on with the marriage
[color=#770077]Well said! If she feels so strongly about your moving out, then she should be

ready to atmost, contribute to the house rent if need be. i understand the

the fact that she might not feel comfortable knowing the other lady
lives around

but if she really loves you, she should try to put that behind her and forge

ahead. You on the other hand my guy, have to prove to her that you really

love her and want to spend the rest of your life with her. You`ve got your

job cut out for you looking for ways to earn her trust!!! Goodluck man!
FoodRe: Firearm's Kitchen by duchess4: 4:10pm On May 18, 2011
still waiting for my order undecided
FoodRe: Firearm's Kitchen by duchess4: 4:57pm On May 17, 2011
Can i have oje abacha with obo egwa?

To wash it down with very cold water?

Thank you.
FamilyRe: I Am Getting Married by duchess4: 11:21am On Apr 20, 2011
jennykadry:
how silly can you be? undecided
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i tire o! all the poor fellow wanted was a simple advice.

@ aloy

was that too much to ask for?
RomanceRe: Insecure Ladies by duchess4: 10:55am On Feb 02, 2011
enuff already!!! angry pls sheath your swords grin grin
RomanceRe: Can U Tell Your Partner Your 'real' Income? by duchess4: 12:29pm On Nov 30, 2010
Learnt to stop doing that. Had a partner who made sure he sees the "made in china" of whatever money i earn before he rests. realised the

moment he knows my salary comes in or i get any cash at all, that is when this and that must be bought without delay. couldnt save anything at

the end of the month. Dint tell him when i got a pay increase and dnt tell when i get any allowances or even cash gifts. it was a case of " monkey

de work, baboon de chop". Learnt my lessons the hard way!
TV/MoviesRe: Is Anyone Watching Nigerian Idols? by duchess4: 12:06pm On Nov 30, 2010
annawhite:
it was crazy,i thot he was pretending but when i look further he was rolling on the floor crying and shouting
u don miss the guy wey lie ,outside he come tell him friend say the judges like am,that they don even ask am make him train the more but cameramen come flash as judges say make him go
i no fit laff
my dear, see how the bros just de lie for national tv shocked Imagine the fellow o!

2 yes`s and a no ko. that hin coat and face cap no just get part two ;DAnd he

kept on smiling away. I couldnt believe my ears when i heard him say he even

got a single yes, untill the camera showed the judges comments. Well, the

fellow had to console himself somehow na cheesy
TV/MoviesRe: Is Anyone Watching Nigerian Idols? by duchess4: 10:04am On Nov 29, 2010
i don laff die grin. Yesterdays show was just sumtin else.

One guy danced and bragged outside, only for him to get inside and become

subdued undecided of course he flopped and trust him, he came out, landed on the

floor and started weeping his eyes out. Another fellow claimed he got his

heart broken by his girlfriend. Oya bros, sing your heart out and what came

out of his mouth had me rolling on the floor myself grin lafta wan kill me.
RomanceRe: People Please Did I Do Wrong? by duchess4: 9:25am On Nov 25, 2010
Any previous trust issues?
RomanceRe: Why Is She Alwz Sarcastic To Me?does It Mean She Likes Me? by duchess4: 10:57am On Nov 24, 2010
Mr~Cork:
Brother, she is Sacarastick to u simply coz she aint feeeling you. As a friend, I recomend u double check dis check list:

1, your Body odour

2, Mouth odour,

3, pimples on your face,

4, are u broke?

5, do u have a car?

6, are u skinny?

7, are u presentable

8, change your name, maybe your name sounds local/bush etc. undecided

HOPE THIS HELPS, cheeers! wink
You no go kill person for this land!
RomanceRe: Why Is She Alwz Sarcastic To Me?does It Mean She Likes Me? by duchess4: 10:39am On Nov 24, 2010
Depends on if you have actually asked her out undecided If you havent, then she probably likes you and has also probably showed it in some ways which

you are ignorant of, and is kinda pissed that you havent noticed or reciprocated her feelings for you( probably why she gets jealous when she sees

you with another girl). angry

OR

She just cant stand the sight of you! grin
RomanceRe: Plz Beware Of Girls With Bids On Their Waist,they Are Evil.its Confirmed by duchess4: 8:49am On Nov 02, 2010
biola44:
but it's so seductive grin
Correct guy grin
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 12:38pm On Nov 01, 2010
omo~fat:
"Eat, Pray, Love".

"Love, Live, Laugh".

She will continue to live her life in the best way possible - whatever that means to her.
Very sound advice!
RomanceRe: Are Ulgy Babes Really A Bad Luck While Pretty Ones Goodluck? by duchess4: 12:36pm On Nov 01, 2010
But i am dark skinned cry
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 12:22pm On Nov 01, 2010
omo~fat:
Then God will punish the man for such a wicked and callous attitude.

But if the woman was as described by Harakiri, then she deserves all she got and more
But while waiting for God`s punishment on such a fellow, what is the woman supposed to be doing?
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 12:13pm On Nov 01, 2010
Plutarch:
@duchess,
Ideally a wife must b faithful n supportive. I am never an advocate of a man dropping his wife as a result of newly found fame or wealth. However, i fink a man should get it right from day one,his future plan/ambition should b taken care of when choosing a wife
Personally, i will never marry a woman who is not a univ graduate,good looking n wiv a respectable personality.
Good to know you already know what you want in a woman. Some men go into marriage blinded by love, lust or infatuation and begin to complain

when these emotions have kinda faded off when reality and real life expectations set in. That is when all those attitudes they used to loff so much

become a problem! grin
RomanceRe: Are Ulgy Babes Really A Bad Luck While Pretty Ones Goodluck? by duchess4: 12:03pm On Nov 01, 2010
Mr!Cork:
~duchess~ NO? madam are u ugly? undecided
Yep!!! Even shrek looks like prince charming when standing next to me embarassed grin (Non taken)
RomanceRe: Are Ulgy Babes Really A Bad Luck While Pretty Ones Goodluck? by duchess4: 11:48am On Nov 01, 2010
And who propounded that theory? grin

The answer is NO!
RomanceRe: Plz Beware Of Girls With Bids On Their Waist,they Are Evil.its Confirmed by duchess4: 11:39am On Nov 01, 2010
baby.me:
You mean beads? I used to wear it back then and it was not to prevent disease or pregnancy,it's a fashion. BTW there is nothing evil about it.
i tire for the poster o! He probably fell into the arms of one and has therefore decided to generalize. Lots of ladies wear beads or chains for different

reasons best known to them. That doesnt necessarily mean its for an evil purpose. I love anklets and cannot do witout wearing them at all times.

That does not make me a witch or someone out to commit evil. My man met me wearing it, loves me wearing it and even helps me to select

whenever we go shopping together! So there!!!
FamilyRe: Why Do Men Divorce Their Wives After Becoming Rich? by duchess4: 11:30am On Nov 01, 2010
And what if the wife had been the faithful and supporting type?
EventsRe: Sweet November by duchess4: 9:03am On Nov 01, 2010
Those panties look kinda sexy though grin Dnt tell me you dnt like them lipsrsealed
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: I Am Falling In Love With A Nairalander. by duchess4: 9:27am On Oct 28, 2010
yeah right!
RomanceRe: A Girl Asking A Guy 2 Be Her Lover by duchess4: 11:53am On Oct 27, 2010
No i havnt. Cnt wait to try it out though! Still searching for the guy to be wink
FamilyRe: Do You Eat Together As A Family? by duchess4: 12:55pm On Oct 20, 2010
@ Gamine

What can a sister do? I`ve tried giving him the "look" a couple of times but i think he has grown immune to even that cry

When i can no longer stand the chewing, i simply carry my plate of food and move to the bedroom!

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