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Metalgoong: But why should you undergo all those process just to cut off from a supposedly cordial friend . I mean, you can still move on with your life, find a new boy friend, without going through all those changes just to avoid a friend. . lol.

I think those actions were borne out of anger and bearing of grudes. And if you are one of those sisters that claim to be a strong christian woman , please take another look on the Bible chapters below .

slimyem: if you are NOT guilty,you wouldnt ask for forgiveness!
If your[b] deserve[/b] to be and remain a friend,you needn't ask it before your ex puts you in that place!
Most guys ask for forgiveness because they need to rid themselves of GUILT!!!

DaShyGuy: Not all relationships end up leaving a sour taste in the mouth. I still am in good terms with all of my ex,so really don't have to

go asking for forgiveness. It's only when a relationship is malnourished that it becomes nothing more than a wasted pregnancy.

And that's when you go asking for forgiveness.

Idowuogbo: Yes boss! Dats y I dey encourage hin talent na!

Metalgoong: Well, I think your Exs must have asked for forgiveness based on your attitude towards them. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't have asked for forgiveness if you were in a cordial relationship with them after the break up . .lol

Metalgoong: You just put your question as if it only boys that ask for forgiveness. Girls also do the same! And I don't see any biggie in asking for forgiveness . . Thats part of the break up strategy, just to make the dumpee feel good . lol.

In my case, when i broke up with my Ex, I have to ask her for forgiveness 4 months later through writing, also in the same letter, I have to tell her the reasons (her flaws) that made me to bail. i did that not because I want her back (hell no!), but because I feel pity for her. She loved me soooo much, but some of her flaws made it difficult for me to love her as much, talk more of marrying her. For me, asking her for forgiveness is more like trying to soothe a crying baby.

Secondly, I believe that failed relationships shouldn't bring animosity between Exes. All relationships cant lead to marriage;hence, if we were friends before we started dating, we can still remain friends if the relationship didn't work out. So therefore, if it means asking for forgiveness so that we can remain friends, i will keep on asking for forgiveness. And that doesn't mean that I wont keep on dumping them girls in future.

You girls should learn not to be sore losers!!

Idowuogbo: U sabi rap o! Join Mavin records na!

pendo89:
But that's good news. He shouldn't even be crying cz it's a good litmus test.
She would still have left if he lost it after the wedding so? Why do people cry over blessings.

Omolola1:
U want her to starve abi?
Why him sef go lost his job four months, 4 months to wedding!
Onpe

D_BestDoc:
Thank You! Well Said

bin gbagbo:
I just tested negative.i am terrific

lolllllll @ bolded

tellwisdom:
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[color=#000099]Bros, see the question for up

Oya answer the qweshuns na

lefulefu:
of course they have issues.The last census conducted under the OBJ regime showed that the population of men in nigeria is more than that of the women so there are more than enough serious minded naija men ready to get married.Its just that these women spend all their time hoping tht a very wealthy bachelor would come their way and if such is not fortcoming they start blaming nigerian men whereas there is a serious minded individual by the lady's side ready to marry but as expected she would be ignoring such a guy because he has no money.

why are sounding like the highlighted sentence has happend to you before

lefulefu:
because those are the type of girls u see in naija