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Fashion / Re: Extreme Hair Growth At Last (with Pics) by duchess4: 8:40am On Jul 11, 2016
It would also be nice if you can post pictures of what you are selling and not just the pictures of those who have used it. That will give people an idea of exactly what they are ordering for. Abi?

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Romance / Re: PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! by duchess4: 1:12pm On Mar 20, 2016
Might be prelude to ovulation. I always get those cramp like feelings when I am ovulating.
Romance / Re: I Just Met A Very Handsome And Intelligent Nairalander by duchess4: 11:56am On Mar 20, 2016
@ emaprince

Guy chillax! Cut the lady some slack Na. cool
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 2:12pm On May 24, 2012
Metalgoong:

But why should you undergo all those process just to cut off from a supposedly cordial friend . I mean, you can still move on with your life, find a new boy friend, without going through all those changes just to avoid a friend. . lol.

I think those actions were borne out of anger and bearing of grudes. And if you are one of those sisters that claim to be a strong christian woman smiley , please take another look on the Bible chapters below smiley .



you dnt seem to be getting my point at all. I stopped picking calls cos at that moment i was in love and hurt by their actions and realised that no matter how much i loved the person at that MOMENT, i could never consider going back cos, how was i sure i would not get hurt again?, hence the need to cut off all contact to avoid temptation!i dint trust myself not to say yes, i forgive you at that MOMENT. I moved to a new city cos of youth service and subsequently, work and hence, the new numbers as well. Does that mean i was running away from them? By moving on with my life without keeping intouch with them, does that mean i`m keeping malice or bearing grudges against them? Must i remain friends with my ex just because we once dated? My point is, of all the things to ask like how is work, the family, life generally etc...why must he bring up the issue of forgiveness for something he had done eons ago? what if he had not found me? would he carry the burden of that guilt for the rest of his life? I know we are all entitled to our opinions but to me, its really quite silly!Life has moved on the past should be left where it belongs .IN THE PAST!!!

Sorry, i am not one of those sisters that claim to be 'strong christian women'.
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 12:37pm On May 24, 2012
slimyem: if you are NOT guilty,you wouldnt ask for forgiveness!
If your[b] deserve[/b] to be and remain a friend,you needn't ask it before your ex puts you in that place!
Most guys ask for forgiveness because they need to rid themselves of GUILT!!!

Abi o! Must i remain friends with an ex just because we were friends before we started dating.
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 12:34pm On May 24, 2012
DaShyGuy: Not all relationships end up leaving a sour taste in the mouth. I still am in good terms with all of my ex,so really don't have to

go asking for forgiveness. It's only when a relationship is malnourished that it becomes nothing more than a wasted pregnancy.

And that's when you go asking for forgiveness.

But my point is, why must one ask for forgiveness? Cant he /she just move on, guilty conscience or no? Its not like one is interested in going back to the relationship or that the person wants you back and thats why he/she is asking for forgiveness in the first place na?
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 12:10pm On May 24, 2012
Idowuogbo:
Yes boss! Dats y I dey encourage hin talent na! grin


heheheheheh...........could end up charting the list someday o! Just think of the millions you stand to make from just encouraging his talent!

i only hope he will remember us when that comes o! as per me the OP and you the encourager..lol

But come o idowuogbo, you nefa answer the kwesion na?
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 12:02pm On May 24, 2012
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Metalgoong:

Well, I think your Exs must have asked for forgiveness based on your attitude towards them. I'm pretty sure they wouldn't have asked for forgiveness if you were in a cordial relationship with them after the break up . .lol


If you will call my cutting myself off COMPLETELY from them ( not picking of calls, not replying text messages, moving to a new city, getting myself new phone numbers, putting the past behind me and generally moving on with my life ), a negative attitude which made them uncomfortable enuff to want to ask for forgiveness, then na wao! what else was i supposed to do na? Hang on and continue to beg and suffer for love?
I have also hurt some of my exes but i just dnt see myself looking for them to say sorry! I mean, life has moved on for both parties concerned so why should asking for forgiveness be like one of the first statements to come out of his/her mouth?
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 11:33am On May 24, 2012
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Metalgoong: You just put your question as if it only boys that ask for forgiveness. Girls also do the same! And I don't see any biggie in asking for forgiveness . . Thats part of the break up strategy, just to make the dumpee feel good . lol.

In my case, when i broke up with my Ex, I have to ask her for forgiveness 4 months later through writing, also in the same letter, I have to tell her the reasons (her flaws) that made me to bail. i did that not because I want her back (hell no!), but because I feel pity for her. She loved me soooo much, but some of her flaws made it difficult for me to love her as much, talk more of marrying her. For me, asking her for forgiveness is more like trying to soothe a crying baby.

Secondly, I believe that failed relationships shouldn't bring animosity between Exes. All relationships cant lead to marriage;hence, if we were friends before we started dating, we can still remain friends if the relationship didn't work out. So therefore, if it means asking for forgiveness so that we can remain friends, i will keep on asking for forgiveness. And that doesn't mean that I wont keep on dumping them girls in future. grin grin grin

You girls should learn not to be sore losers!!

Lol at the bolded. I am not being a sore loser o! I just find it silly afterall, i have long moved on and forgotten about them.

I would rather i see my ex and we behave cordially like two matured people without referring to the past than for apologies to start flying around!
Romance / Re: Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 11:20am On May 24, 2012
Idowuogbo:

U sabi rap o! Join Mavin records na! grin


LOL.....abi na. Man must start from somewhere o!
Romance / Have You Forgiven Me? Why Do Exes Ask This Question. by duchess4: 10:12am On May 24, 2012
In the last one month, two of my exes have suddenly, out of the blues practically tracked me down to my place of work simply to ask me for forgiveness. These are guys i dated in 2004 and 2008 respectively. Of course they hurt me which led to the end of the relationship but i have long moved on and even forgotten they exist!

I just find it funny, if not a bit silly why they will now be asking for forgiveness for hurting me in the past. I mean,what if they did not see me or set eyes on me ever again? Would they still be asking for forgiveness and from whom?

For the guys, would you ask an ex for forgiveness if you hurt her lonnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnng after you guys broke up?
For the ladies, what would your reaction be if your ex tracks you down to beg for forgivness?
Romance / Re: Shocking News! by duchess4: 11:39am On Dec 19, 2011
Poster, WHERE ARE YOU?

Pls come back grin grin grin
Family / Re: I Would Soon Become A Father, Experience Advice Please. by duchess4: 9:16am On Nov 25, 2011
Dnt worry, you will adapt as time goes on. Like cc said, try as much as possible to bond with the baby and that is by helping to hold, bath and

change diapers grin. Babies are wonderful to be around with cos each day with them bring wonderful new experiences. May God grant madam a safe

delivery and May God bless your home with Blessed and healthy baby. Dnt forget to holler when the baby comes o!
Romance / Re: Woman Dumps Husband 4 Months To Thier Wedding by duchess4: 4:06pm On Nov 22, 2011
pendo89:

But that's good news. He shouldn't even be crying cz it's a good litmus test.
She would still have left if he lost it after the wedding so? Why do people cry over blessings.

Tru that!
Romance / Re: Woman Dumps Husband 4 Months To Thier Wedding by duchess4: 3:48pm On Nov 22, 2011
But come oh saggy, abi na you e happen to?
Romance / Re: Woman Dumps Husband 4 Months To Thier Wedding by duchess4: 3:47pm On Nov 22, 2011
Omolola1:

U want her to starve abi?
Why him sef go lost his job four months, 4 months to wedding!
Onpe

Lol, How the guy for take foresee say him go lose him job na?
Romance / Re: Pls Need The Best Advice On How To Approach This Issue, I really do like him by duchess4: 4:11pm On Nov 04, 2011
Why dnt you try and get his email address or something undecided
Romance / Re: Loving Someone Who Your Not In A Relationship With? by duchess4: 12:29pm On Oct 31, 2011
Still cant make head or tail of what you are saying undecided

And you said you are a writer?
Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: My Guy Needs A Wife ! by duchess4: 10:23am On Oct 21, 2011
Can you give us a little more details of the kind of lady you friend will like? *assuming its not you*
Romance / Re: The Best Girl I Ever Knew Just Walked Out Of My Life. by duchess4: 3:26pm On Sep 22, 2011
D_BestDoc:

Thank You! Well Said


Abi o! Thank you.
Romance / Re: The Best Girl I Ever Knew Just Walked Out Of My Life. by duchess4: 10:48am On Sep 22, 2011
Like some feople will always say, zere are many fishes in za river.

Truth is, no two people can ever be alike character wise. You might meet someone who will make the lady in question seem like an angel

in comparison and you might also meet someone who will make her look like the devil. Nowhere is it stated that you must end up with the best

person you ever knew cos there just might be a better person waiting round the corner. I guess you both know deep down in your hearts that

you cannot have a future together and thats why flimsy excuses are cropping up o! The grass is not always greener on the other side but yeah,

you could find someone else you will grow to fall in love with more.
Romance / Re: I Am Dead! by duchess4: 9:46am On Sep 22, 2011
bin gbagbo:

I just tested negative.i am terrific


lolllllll @ bolded grin
Romance / Re: She's At It Again-bb Gurls by duchess4: 11:06am On Sep 21, 2011
tellwisdom:



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[color=#000099]Bros, see the question for up undecided undecided


Oya answer the qweshuns na tongue grin
Romance / Re: Re: Are All The Good Men Taken? by duchess4: 9:57am On Sep 21, 2011
lefulefu:

of course they have issues.The last census conducted under the OBJ regime showed that the population of men in nigeria is more than that of the women so there are more than enough serious minded naija men ready to get married.Its just that these women spend all their time hoping tht a very wealthy bachelor would come their way and if such is not fortcoming they start blaming nigerian men whereas there is a serious minded individual by the lady's side ready to marry but as expected she would be ignoring such a guy because he has no money. grin

why are sounding like the highlighted sentence has happend to you before grin
Events / Re: Happy Birthday R231, Drop Your Wishes For Him. by duchess4: 9:40am On Sep 21, 2011
Happy birthday! hope you have funtastic day.
Romance / Re: She's At It Again-bb Gurls by duchess4: 9:37am On Sep 21, 2011
lefulefu:

because those are the type of girls u see in naija grin

oh! so na all naija girls de use BB now?
Romance / Re: Telling Everything by duchess4: 9:35am On Sep 21, 2011
Somethings are better left unsaid wink

@r231

Still waiting for your reply grin

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