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i wont do pass myself...thanks

Omuneizzy6:
Op no go dey do pass yourself

Ohhh...I Pray to God to direct your husband to locate you in the shortest possible time. Thanks so much.

farano:
Chai.. My hubby should pls locate me sharp sharp now . @op your wife is pretty, God bless your union..

thanks so much....

iamtardey:
congrats

you guessed right

iamtardey:
you both love nature i guess

Anointing unleashed....

DarkMagic:
Uwc
And I tap from ur anointing...

Those who dont have beards have a name.....They are called "women"....just kidding tho....beards makes me look more handsome according to people around me.
Thanks so much.

DarkMagic:
Happy Married Life
I can see u r part of the beard gang

lol...thanks so much

Brooke60:
Congratulations to you both, may you scale through whatever will come your way. It is not gonna be easy, just continue to be then guy she married to.

That guy below me, the mother did not offer anything to his papa except his useless self and he is displaying that here.
Ignore his senseless self and wait til he die like 'omo ijoba' on the street.

Amen...thanks so much

decatalyst:
I like you guys' smile.



Please don't make her cry. May the good Lord make available, what you need for a good home. Amen

noted

naksjude:
cool but my broad e for beta if u wear Cap Althrough

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All Nairaland Families, I am leaving bachelorhood for good.....

I love the answers...however, it should be noted that there are three different types of dreams...and the Quran explains how dreams guide some prophets of Allah (Yusuf ASW and Muhammad PBUH). We have different nature and that’s why some have dreams while some don’t. For those who are gifted with dreams after doing istikhara, I want them to know it is a guide and if in doubt, should seek more knowledge through istikhara again...salawats should be made to the Prophet (SAW) after the normal istikhara to give clearer visions that the devil can not manipulate. May Allah guide us and protect us. Amin

when a lady confidently tells you...you divorce me or you die.....then you married one them. Yes...One of them.


Who are they?....They are ladies that looks very beautiful outside and thats the weapon they use to catch their prey.

Internally....they are 1. Never satisfied 2. Promiscuous 3. Get angry every moment 4. Always after money 5. wants you to accept whatever condition they bring (she might even want you to meet her concubine).

Repercussions .....Yes...it is devastating.. They can make you poor, inflict you with sickness, or sometimes make you mad

solutions.....Brother...accept your fate. dont be fooled by a pastor out there, God will not interfere in such cases. The only solution in sight is to go attain spiritual heights yourself and that will take up your time.

Thanks

Lets start with the levels of being.

The first path to spirituality is knowing who we really are physically and spiritually. In a Hadith Qudsii, Allah says, Know ME, search for knowledge about ME before you worship Me. How can he who does not know Me worship ME?

This means that we really need to know who we are, the purpose of our creation, Who Allah is, why do we need to worship Allah.

Allah says in Quran 61 vs 8 that "They desire to extinguish the light of Allah with (the breath of) their mouths. But Allah will perfect His light even though the disbelievers consider it hard.
Also in Quran 49 vs 6, Allah says " O you who believe! If a wicked person brings you any important news, examine it carefully, lest you should harm some people in ignorance and afterwards you my have to repent for what you did.

In sufis science, here are the seven levels of beings.

1- Nafsi Ammara

In this first level of the development of man, the rational self and human conscience have been defeated by lust and carnal desires. At this stage, our self does not recognize any rational or moral barriers to get what it wants. It expresses itself in selfishness, arrogance, ambition, stinginess, envy, anger, cynicism, laziness and stupidity. Originally, nafs, ones self, identity, ones own personality and reality, is one of the Creator’s gifts to man. But because we allow it to lean towards material values, to take pleasure only in worldly life, and because we succumb to fleshly lusts, it has turned ugly and become almost animal-like, while its shape remains that of a human being. It is a fauve camouflaged in the appearance of man, a mad wild animal which bites and claws itself as well as others. This ego is our private devil, our worst enemy, who is living inside us, dominating and tyrannizing us and keeping our human soul imprisoned and forgotten in the depths of our subconscious. If we are fortunate enough to be led by a guide to seek a better state, then the devil whispers in our ear: “What business do you have to be on this path? Don’t you see that everyone who was on this Path sooner or later died? All that remains of them is a few words. I know that you want the Truth, but where are the wise ones who would be able to teach you anything? Show me a single saintly man who receives revelations, who can show miracles! They belonged to another time. Now is the time of facts, of science, of prosperity, and the good life. If you want to be religious – all right! Go to the mosque, pray, fast, and pray that the spirits of these holy men of the past help you, for there is no teacher alive worth your while!”

Thus the devil hides the truth. Kufr, infidelity, means covering, hiding in Arabic ( coffer in english). Kafir, the infidel, means the one who hides something. The devil conceals the fact that at all times there are perfect men in the world and worthy teachers who can lead one to salvation.

Our Master, The Messenger of Allah (saws), has two aspects. One is his prophethood, hubuwwa; the other is his sainthood, his friendship, closeness to Allah, or walaya. He is Hatemul Enbiya: the last, the Seal of Prophethood, but his other aspect of sainthood has always been and will always be inherited by perfect men, who love and imitate him, and they will exist at all times, until the end of time.

But if the seeker pays any attention to the insinuations of the devil, he suffers doubt about his teacher, he is called away from the Path, his efforts are slowed down, and he will lend his ear to the whispers of the accursed devil again. This time he will say, “Allah is forgiving, count on His Mercy; He does not dislike people who do things which He permits. Be kind to yourself and don’t tyrannize yourself. If you are kind towards your ego and give it things it wants, then it will obey you!” If the seeker is fooled by these temptations, he will start having doubts; he will then be unclear as to whether things are lawful or unlawful, whether they are right or wrong. When that happens, he is more likely to opt for the unlawful, since it is usually more pleasing to the senses. And the more his senses are satisfied, the more his heart will be blinded and hardened, and the more he will be led towards evil.

On the level of the evil commanding ego, all these influences are very heavy. To get out from under them, someone strong has to hold you by your hand and extricate you. It is very difficult if not impossible to do it by yourself.

But through Allah’s help, you may hear the voice of reason which says, “To do what Allah permits one to do out of His Mercy, instead of doing that which He orders us to do, is the profession of creatures who are lazy.” For the true servants of Allah, it is an obligation to live according to the rules of Shariat and the ideals of the Tariqat.

And if we either follow this rational decision, which is an undeserved gift of Allah Most High, or we are rescued from our misery by a strong teacher, then we may rise to the second level of Nafsi Lawwama. Thus the soul is pulled out from the dark dungeon of the ego to the light of conscience, and we will see our arrogance being transformed into humility, vengefulness and hate into love, anger into kindness, lust into chastity. . . If Allah so wills.

I will continue with the second level of being.

May Allah (SWT) lead us to the right path till we reach the goal.

Amin

emekaRaj:
Good idea..... Exactly Wat I think too... Why don't we continue it on this thread I think this is a good topic to start d discussion

I am done talking to you

dultmax:
Ibn Abbas (R.A) narrated the Messenger ﷺ of Allah saying as:

“While the Messenger ﷺ of Allah was sitting with Jibril he heard a creaking sound above him. Jibril looked up and said, “This is [the sound of] a gate that has been opened in heaven today and has never been previously opened.” Then an Angel descended through it and came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, ‘Rejoice in the good news of two lights (sufism is understanding the light of the prophet)(saw) that have been given to you such as no Prophet before you has been given. [They are] Surah Al-Fatihah and the concluding [two] verses of Surah Al-Baqarah. You will never recite a word from them without being given the blessings they contain.’ “

Ibn Abbas (R.A) narrated the Messenger ﷺ of Allah saying as:

“While the Messenger ﷺ of Allah was sitting with Jibril he heard a creaking sound above him. Jibril looked up and said, “This is [the sound of] a gate that has been opened in heaven today and has never been previously opened.” Then an Angel descended through it and came to the Prophet ﷺ and said, ‘Rejoice in the good news of two lights (sufism is understanding the light of the prophet)(saw) that have been given to you such as no Prophet before you has been given. [They are] Surah Al-Fatihah and the concluding [two] verses of Surah Al-Baqarah. You will never recite a word from them without being given the blessings they contain.’ “

Shafiiimran99:
I mean the kind of suffism spirituality that you are talk about. Who said you recite should Fathiah a lots and their source?

Al Fatiha....it means THE OPENING.

It is the opening chapter of the Holy Quran, consisting of "seven oft-recited verses". Check Quran 15 vs 87 "And infact, we have given you the seven oft-recited (verses of suratul fatiha) and the Grand Quran". . suratu fatiha is called umm-al-kitab (mother of the Quran) and it is a fine summary of the objectives of the Holy Quran. It is a chapter that consist of a verse which prays for us to lead us to the right path. Quran 1 vs 6. Reciting suratul fatiha is required at least minimum of 5 days in our salats and it is a pillar without which our salat wil not complete. Each nafil also consist of Fatiha and voulountry reading of it actually means you are praying for the right path.
The right path his spirituality.

Thank you

Shafiiimran99:
How did he know that for one to get spirituality he or she should recite Suratul Fathiah a lots?

that what? and what is your point exactly?

Shafiiimran99:
Who told him or did he know that?

Ahmed ibn Ariyo

Shafiiimran99:
The person's name please

Says someone who have thread and still threading the spiritual path and wants someone who have gone through same path and is still on it or willing to go through spiritual path to share and gain experience together.

Thanks

Shafiiimran99:
says who?

mensos544:
Naija Christians are fools n idiot

As a muslim, loving other religion and accepting that Allah created them like that is part of religion. Why would you insult a christian or any human being who is not a muslim? better still, love them, be their friend...remember, Allah can changes whoever he wishes.

Thanks

I love this post.

When the sufis try to explain spirituality, fellow muslim brothers will come here and shout bidia....they will shout shirk...they will look for all ways to paint it bad.

As if the Quran and Hadith didnt talk about it.

For all those who are interested in the spiritual path and knowledge, I would like us to create a thread where we give fundamentals of spiritualism, the science of sacred law which originated within the Ummah, the state and levels of human reasoning will be the topics to be treated and also, the steps to get direct vision of divine light of Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) will also be the main aim of the topic.

in conclusion, we can start our spiritual journey together and get wilaya together.

If you support this, pls let me know

N.B...if your level of reasoning is still that spiritual science it shirk, you need to re-discover your self and read lots of suratul Fatiha.

Allah will help us all.

In fact.....they almost ruined my account with the maintenance charge oooo.....I keep seeing it everyday....I am tired oooo

i reported same case to the police last week, only for the police officer in charge to complain of same....he advised i go to the ministry of environment

chinjo:
If it is consumption of Alcohol now HISBAH will be forming Commando. Why can't they try this woman according to Sharia law. Or has the law been repealed?

The judgement of Sharia Law if found guilty of intentional murder is also death...the only exemption in Sharia Law is if it was an accident...then the judgement will be different

Dindondin:
And you guys ll be asking Christians to bring out Biblical verses to back up points. Drakeli didn't mention Jesus as a Christian in his post that you quoted. And if an argument of Jesus as a Christian should occur, yes he is. Cos the patriarch of modern Christianity (Peter, other Disciples & Paul) followed in his steps. They acted like him, this made people of Antioch to call them Christians in the book of Acts. Stop seiving arguments from the top. Know the roots. Don't be as dumb as Yazach!

So God himself didnt call them christians....the people of antioch did. And even the patriarch (peter, paul and other disciples) were even the ones the people of antioch referred to as christians...well you refer to the book of acts.....pls show me the verse.

But from your points, check the validity of those sentences and see for yourself if it is correct.

JESUS NEVER CALLS HIMSELF A CHRISTIAN....dont call him what he doesnt call himself

drakeli:
What about Happy New Year! I hope you know celebrating new year 2018 is celebrating two thousand and eighteen years after the birth of Jesus? Technically, it’s not a Muslim celebration and new year. But you can shout it on roof top that you are in 2017 or 2018. Don’t you see any problem with that as a Muslim acknowledging Christian calendar. So, you need to start writing your own date henceforth using Islamic calendar. Failure to do that is participating in recognizing Christian new year and acknowledgment of its celebration. Hypocrisy of the highest order.

Smiles....who tells you Jesus (AS) is christian? If you think Jesus is a Christian, then buttress it with just a verse in the Bible or a place in the Bible where the word Christian appears.

Fatherofdragons:
Matthew ch 19vs5, 1timothy ch 3 vs 2 & 1 Corinthians ch 7 vs 2.

Matthew 19:5New International Version (NIV)

5 and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’[a]?

1 Timothy 3:2New International Version (NIV)

2 Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach,

1 Corinthians 7:2New International Version (NIV)

2 But since sexual immorality is occurring, each man should have sexual relations with his own wife, and each woman with her own husband.

How does this answer my question?

adioolayi:
When the word of God (Bible) says : One Man, One Wife....it is to prevent man, among other things, from gruesome murder such as this.

Please...i need the verse in the bible....where Jesus says one man one wife...ive been checking all over the internet but couldnt find the verse

The spiritual world is different from the physical world. Your Mum might be a witch..yes..but, but that shouldn't bother you. In the spiritual world, the medium of transaction is souls while in the physical world, it is money. If you research very well, you will know that your mum was either trying to protect you or trying to make you someone special in life. That is always the reasons some mothers accept witchcraft most times without knowing the implications and repercussions.

Do not complicate issues by facing her or challenging her. She already knew she was wrong because now she needs to trade the soul of that child she wanted to protect. The fact is, you can sleep in the hills or even sleep in the church...your mum will still have power over you. Mind you, it is not because God didn't hear your prayers, it is because she has the lock to your soul. When witches have concluded what to do with the souls with them, it is only miracle that can save them.

How do you get you soul back?...hmmm ...i really dont know the details of what you are going tru.....but iif to get your soul back is what you want....then..you need activate the senses of the soul. This means that you need to be able to see when your eyes are closed, hear when you are sleeping and move while your body is actually in one place. For you to do this, you will need to find the selected people to take you through the journey.

who are the selected people that can take you through this journey?...I guess you are thinking pastors or alfa or prophets....thats a joke. The selected people are normal human being who live around you, commit sins like normal people...but they are different. The reason God didn't allow people to be able to identify them is because they will be surrounded by too many people and some may even take them as their God. God loves them, so you could hardly identify them.

If you read this and you need more information...i will answer you..in the meantime, respect that mother...do whatever it takes to make her happy.

Thanks

Pdp's are really funny...do they expect KOWA or APGA who never reached the top to be used as scapegoats? After your party ruled for 16 yrs, they should av an experience of what it means to loose power....I prefer other Political parties to form a better opposition...Not PDP..NEVER

Mobolajizx:
Hello nairalanders,

I need your help and I have to be brief . I created this Monica to hide my identity. I married my wife 3 years ago. Just last year, I noticed my wife now bedwets . I have tried all available options but it keeps getting worse. I love my wife and family and please help me get through this mess. God bless you all.

Please you guys should help me.

Go and beg your wife mum....she knows what happened to her daughter