Tell her softly you don't have something to spare for now.. Watch her reactions thereafter. I tell you, she'll make more character blunders for you to see more red flags of her type.

LaSenior:
Mod please I want this piece to be pushed to front-page this is happening to me though I have prepared my Mind to do what is in my mind but I want this honourable house to look into this

I was supposed to go and do marital introduction but because of my dad's health which was going bad everyday I couldn't. I thought maybe when we stabilise him a little then I can quickly arrange for introduction but sadly my beloved Dad passed away 4days later

I have been crying endlessly and been so weak and saddened just this morning this girl I was planning on spending the rest of my life with chatted me up saying that she has looking at me since that I don't want to say anything concerning her Christmas things that she needs 50k to buy Christmas things. I was shocked to the bone haaaa why are you this heartless towards me? Does it mean you are not concerned about what I have been passing through, infact I don't want to speak more because God already saved me from a heartless lazy woman.

To the women in this forum is it right to ask your fiancee Christmas Money in the midst of seeing him mourning of his late Dad just few days his dad died this attitude of this girl is it right?

See no one behind your challenges. Take responsibility for your life. Everyone has issues to resolve, either married or single. You might need to increase your level of knowledge to move forward, take online courses, use the challenge as stepping stone to make your life better, God will make a way for you. Any attempt to start seeing your wife as a source of your problem, is a strategy of your enemy to finish you....for we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principally, against power, against spiritual wickedness in high places.. Stop going from prophet to prophets, face your God, pray to Him, He answers prayers, be born again and you yourself Co.e out of spiritual darkness,.. I see God making ways for you. Peace unto you..

Oga, take responsibility for your life and stop looking for who to blame for your challenge. Challenges is part of life, whether you're married or single...take a deep self examination, and think of what you can do to while waiting for a better job to come...Take online courses on IT,meet people that can be of help to you, pray to God with sincerity, and humble yourself under His arm, take the current happenings part of challenges you must overcome for you to motor next level, please, stop looking for who's responsible or who to blame, remember your kids, it's time for you to arise from all excuses and shine above them all. Nothing/Nobody can stop a determined mind,even the devil...Looking at your wife as your enemy, is a strategy of the enemy of your soul to finish you, I tell you. Think, pray and work together with her, that's your partner, you'll surely have testimonies.. Shalom..

pikomamamusicwo:
Good pm niranlanders, how una dey?

I married very early, that Is five years ago, immediately i started working. Immediately we gave Birth to our first child, I was sacked from my place of work in a mysterious way. All our house equipment was sold, we left a comfortable apartment to a single room.

At a time, I was doing menial jobs just for us to feed. One day, in the process of seeking for solution to get my job back, I got to a church, and the pastor asked me to come with my wife, which I did, to my surprise, the pastor asked my wife, why are you afraid for your husband to have money? You are thinking if he makes money he will marry other women, he said pls pray for your husband to succeed, he is bigger than this.

And he asked my wife to come back for deliverance, but she refused.

Secondily, I went to another place, a spirituallist, and a female, she said I married wrongly, that the girl I was supposed to marry I missed it. She said I should come with my wife, and I did, she said my wife has another spirit, that she feels the marriage will not last...but till today, nothing I put hand dey work, most times we live together but never discuss together, we just live like strangers at home, and most time I regret getting married. I don't really know what to do now, I can't support my parents like before, they are not happy with me...

pls I need advice, prayers and support.

You're rude, senseless and hopeless..

OsunOriginal:


Is the shameless old man suffering in Lagos (Lekki) where he lives? He should have relocated to our one and only prosperous state (Anambra) - oponu igba iya...

It's not about turn sir, it's about the implications of their decisions on upcoming generations... Let the leaders of tomorrow- The Youths decide for themselves today.

Need some teaching aids for mathematics.. Please send your contact or send mail to iscoreng@gmail.com..if you can do a supply. Thanks..

How's the teacher wicked? Guess she said the fact in unprofessional way..
It's better you take a proper look at your child..

quote author=maureensylvia post=115065021]I saw this on WhatsApp group.
If I were to head such a school, I will not approve such a comment.

Please what's your take on this kind of remark?

As a teacher/ head teacher, what would you have done differently?

As a parent, how will you react
[/quote]

Jesuschristus:
If OBi is nt a Christian bigot he would have married a Muslim like Tinubu and Atiku did,and even have Muslim children.

We the northern Muslims will therefore vote for Peter obi only if he can divorce his Christian wife and marry hijab wearing ,Head slamming, muslim.

Out of points and common sense..

For a school of over 800 students in population, with a monthly payment of 110k?.....Na waooo

Jubal01:
Thank you all. I'm very humbled honestly.
for those asking about the pay, it's not much o! Just #110k.
about the experience, i have been teaching since 2011. It was just last year that i resigned to take care of my ailing parents. I remember asking for help here but many people ridiculed me and called me a fake arse. Thank God both of them are hale and hearty now and they both blessed me 4 all my sacrifices towards them.
My advice, if u have the opportunity to offer help to someone on nairaland, pls do it. Not all pple here are faking it. I will do my own giveaway when i get my first full salary to the first 5 people that will quote this my comment. IT'S A PROMISE.

My car is acting weird lately. I’ll be driving normally and the RPM will be fluctuating badly, making the car to jerck unnecessary. Why does my RPM go up and down while driving, or as soon as engine is on
But if I unplugged the tothle position socket, it drives/ moves normally
Please I want the final solution to this problem from auto experts in the house . Thanks

StrongandMighty:
If this is true then southwest delegates must be made up of bunch of dafts and clowns!

How can you reject a sound man like Osibanjo who's eloquent and well learned for an old man?
something is definitely wrong somewhere! This is not ordinary..

It's so simple. Once they are done with their permutations against the all expected man- Oshinbanjo, the next best option is Peter Obi...

vastolord4:
This can't be true.. but if so, It really means naija has been sold

Na today?....

A company want to deliberately present a colleague as a criminal. He took loan from them, and he's defaulting just for a month. He couldn't pay due business downturn. He begged them to give him two to three weeks, to run around and make payment for last month interest. They insisted they'll go and present his cheque in the bank despite the fact that they are aware the account is not funded... What chance does he have to defend himself? Please your contribution is needed. Thanks.

Hello Auto Geniuses in the house,
We just installed a new gear in 2006 Honda City. When the car is packed and it's raised, it raises well up to 5 as normal.
But when driving it gear doesn't go beyond 2. At about entering 3, it begins to Jack. So one can't speed beyond 2. Anybody with helpful experience and suggestions in the house, where do you think something us wrong? Please help out. Thanks, thanks thanks.

AntiMen:
I'm married with two beautiful children..
I love my husband no doubt....
But I noticed that I'm beginning to like my reverend, I don't know how to explain this...
He is married with children too but we are kinda fond of each other...
How do I stop this unusual feeling , I can't stop going to church cos my husband would be mad at me.

What you have in your heart is lust not love. Same is happening to him too. Lust is a demonic strategy to lure away the heart of men from the living God. You'll discover now that your love for God has gone down low. Satan only want to use both of you to bring strange fire to the church and to help destroy one another. The struggle you have in your heart to is the work of the holy spirit in you who's trying to draw you but seems the voice of your flesh is getting louder than than of the spirit.
Way Out: Recognise immediately this is satanic strategy to take away something very precious from, recall, he is a thief to steal, to kill and destroy.
Cry to Jesus in repentance and restoration of your soul because you're falling.
Asking God to cleanse you from fleshy last and fithiness of sprit.
Deliberately disconnect every everything or every place physically linking you with the so call man, possibly remove all the conversation between two of you from your phone.
I trust the spirit of the living God will give you more tips on how to overcome this trial.
Yield not to temptation, for yielding is sin! God bless you, keep you and all yours until we see Christ face to face soon. Amen

Hi great Nairalanders, please I will want someone to share some effective methods/way of prompting a website for a global patronage..
Thanks.

Yes, a lots...

Thanks everyone for those helpful tips.. Wishing you grace and blessings..

[quote author=majorbravo post=109240103]
What year are you comparing?

Anyway I've got this 2002 Civic Sports, if you are interested. WhatsApp in my signature.
Send your contact
Or call this: 08026819283

Hello Auto Expert in the house.

Please which of these Honda brand is more reliable? Honda City or Civic... We'll appreciate if you can support your points with reasons...
Thanks..

Hello Auto Expert in the house.
Please which of these Honda brand is more reliable? Honda City or Civic... We'll appreciate if you can support your points with reasons...
Thanks..

Thanks everyone ....she's delivered...
God bless you and keep you..
Amen.. �

thorpido:
Yes, pregnancies can be up to 40 weeks and there are ways of inducing labour.
Take your wife to the hospital if her pregnancy is more than 9 months.

41 weeks already..
Seriously, I'm scared now...

Hello House,
Please is it possible for pregnancy to be more than 9months to 10 months?
Any side effects?
Are there ways of inducing labour?
other useful suggestion please...
Thanks. �

We have changed the raising sensor, egr, the four coils, yet the car will go off once you put it in drive.. so tired.. Still in Oyingbo since morning... Please help.. �

autologic:

Thanks for the recommendation sir

Autologic, please send your contact or call mine: 0802 681 9283

Dozieson:


It has to be done with a scanner. There are few mechanics that uses it. Where is your location?

so sorry for late reply sir, I'm at Ketu region..

Dozieson:


Any check engine light?

Abs light:

Either the sensor(s) on the legs are bad or disconnected

Your abs module is bad

Could mean other things

I'm just wondering how the street mechanic will help fix the check engine and the ABS light.
I will appreciate an auto centre that can decode and fix these lights...

Yes, there's check engine light,

The Abs light is on too

Dozieson:


I have never heard of this before
Hope your AC is still working sha

Yes, working well..

Besides, how does one rectify ABS light showing on a dashboard?

Dozieson:


You need to go find out the cost from any nearby parts market around you or you contact iykecollins here on nairaland

My mechanic say, I shouldn't use Ac for like three days because I just bought new engine so as to make the oil circulate....
How true is this oo??

Please, what's the cost like, to buy a very good Tokunbo engine for Honda City 06? Anyone with a good specialist in ringing the emfo