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fucktoto:
you're a woman, you have aura of punishing your man without getting physical. except you never truly loved him.

i think snubbing and denying him sex is better.

when konji comes he'd kneel and beg and make funny promises.

Hehehe hehehe
Some men are animals when konji hold them
They won't beg rather have their way


I don't just walk away without trying

fucktoto:
after it has dawned on you that you overreacted?

i like that.

Shrugs

fucktoto:
dropping wedding ring every time you quarrel with your partner is a silly way to react.

you vowed for better or worse. marriage is not for the weak.

Well
We all have different ways to unleash our anger

fucktoto:
i'm not sure you do.

people like you usually drops their engagement ring and walk away.

But I walk back too

fucktoto:
they could have quarreled over a pot of soup or an unflushed toilet...but does it really matter?

he told you he doesn't use harsh words on her and he loves her very much. i expected you to put in a few good words for him after that.

but it seems you weren't satisfied with the way he answered you.

He said not really?
Which could mean he uses some harsh words on her

Yh
We love our partners and say terrible stuffs
But the moment that partner reacts
We begin to react like chemicals



So he's doing what she doesn't like
She's doing wha he wouldn't like too

Doesn't that make it even

fucktoto:
me too.

i take my babe to a club every friday night for beer and asun.

we fight some times and settle our differences too.

We all fight and settle too

fucktoto:
but you sabi find faults inside marriage.

Where have I found any?
On the other thread
He came with his own version
I asked for what could possible cause it

I didn't advice him to do anything
It was just me trying to find out what could be the cause of it every time

fucktoto:
and there are couples who are ready to face the storm together and overcome it for the sake of the love they have for each other. don't discourage them.

Yes
And thousands die
Same way thousands survives

In all
Its our choices

I no dey advice married people

fucktoto:
your post nearly made sense until i spotted the hypocrisy, which i highlighted.

to be a good judge, you must be neutral and weigh the issue at hand equally from both angles before drawing a conclusion. but, unfortunately, your post here is ridiculed with gender bias.

i've seen and encountered women who act rashly without any tangible reason, likewise men. you just can't understand what pisses them off but they just get angry and go yabbing and nagging for a long time. there are also women (likewise men) who go haywire with the slightest provocation - i don't have the right words to explain this but let' just say it's their own nature.

the op here is complaining about his wife's habit of removing her wedding ring every time they have an altercation. take note of "every time" as it has become a regular thing. and he's worried about it very much. what he needs is good advice from experienced people to keep his marriage going, not judgment.

even if we must get to the judging part, i don't know if you skipped the part where someone asked if he loves her and he replied in the affirmative. yet you kept pestering him with questions, hoping he would give in so you could put ALL THE BLAMES on him and generalize his action to "all men" and probably invite your fellow 'feminists' and have another field day as usual. but when you couldn't find any, you felt defeated and disappeared without offering any advice, which is why he made this thread.

biko, stop this bias. you can't be using your own experience to judge others all the time.

You have been the judge all along
No one wakes up to start acting crazy without anything

Maybe someone like you wakes up one morning and decides to start punching your bed

The man and almost all of you on this thread made it look like she's just one hell of a terrible woman
I only asked what could make the woman act that way

Its not so important anyway
Not like we can both agree

Have a great Friday

I love Fridays

fucktoto:
why haven't you left your own husband?

Marriage is not a do or die thing

fucktoto:
i saw this coming. awon feminist crew...nairaland version. to you, everything in life is always men vs women.

but be sincere with yourself, if the op was a woman would you have asked all those unnecessary questions?

Yes
Cos there's no smoke without fire

A woman doesn't just wake up to act like a mad woman

So cos he's a man
Everything he does is right?
Have you taken your time to ask what he did?

Very little things sometimes turns a woman off after several endurance

He only said his side and there you all are asking him to leave her

I am impulsive too
So I can relate to what could have been the problem

They say you never know what it feels like to be hurt until you have been hurt

You see why some women just walk away?

Fucktoto

Will she be wrong for taking off her ring or walking away?

So when you make the money
You start looking for excuses how she doesn't fit to be your girl

My guy
Work for yourself
Whatever woman that will love you with your wealth will

Stop looking for a woman to suffer with you and at the top of your career you dump her

fucktoto:
let's say he hasn't done anything to warrant her removing her rings, so what advice do you have to offer?

none, right? because he's a man and women can never be wrong.

So cos he's a man
He's always right?

The way you men carry your ego and pride is unbeatable

fucktoto:
see mumu questions.

you just want to pin the fault on the man and justify the woman removing her wedding ring at will.

na wa!

And you just want to believe the man hasn't done nothing to warrant that

Na wa

emmachukwu99:
What's this one saying? Finding excuse to justify her actions?

Same way you're justifying his actions

Typical

Ishilove:
You this geh. You're a clown

Anas09:
hahahahahahahaha. Na wa for you.

Dude is lying
Making it seem like the lady is the one with faults
As he's faultless

obidevine:
No I don't

You are a liar


I am impulsive too and I don't just act the way I do
We are not mad

Check yourself
Stop doing the things that makes the pretty woman angry

obidevine:
Verbally? Not really

Oh yh
But you use the words like thunder will fire you
You are mad
Etc
Abi?

obidevine:
I don't abuse her physically, never have and never will

But you do verbally?

Sorry for laughing

We are like that and there's no way to unleash our anger than do that

We don't mean it but how else can we get angry?

Why does she do this?
Do you abuse her in anyway?
Verbal
Emotionally
Mentally
Physically?

I can't say we are alike but I tend to walk away too
Yes
Very bad but there are things I can't just deal with

Bevine:

Yimu

Yimu

Ghen ghen
Beating the drum

Men!!!!!!!


Smh

Orodje:
Hushpuppy keeps giving them night mare Datz my man if u nor get money hide your face


Meanwhile I need all Yankee CC for funding, I'm taking just 30% while you have 70% for yourself, pm me

Yahoo yahoo boy

Filter

ahnie:
Congratulations ishilove,the gods finally picked you.

Wedding planners you guys are needed here.

Yes
I am here

Now Mr Fanny can ask to close the thread

Case solved

sisisioge:


Pls continue to mingle with him alone! I wish your expected children happy children's day

ahnie:
Beautiful Dyt....please stop harassing my client.ma'am ishilove you wee not make heaven,how can you be giving somebody Tiri minnows eyes this early morning,do you want him to hav half past eyes.

Just gerroutta hia already

Ishilove:
You dey ask why e dey vex??



It's because ...

No talk like that jor
Dude is actually serious
We should search for him or wish him well

No mockery
****straight face****