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1miccza:
We saw her marks on his shoulder

It wasn't him

aminho:
She saw the marks on my shoulder

timilehin007:
So her marks on ma shoulder..***** screaming louder she said I did it was over...
E don tey nah...I know I'm missing the lyrics

We heard the words he told her
Just that we didn't hear the scream
This is the result when it became over

CriticMaestro:
He even had her in the shower

We even caught him on the camera

boogie2:
Wow. U too much. I pray u never loose the golden heart within u cos of guys like that.

I pray u find urself in the midst of people who appreciate u.

I pray u pockets gets restored a million fold. U are two much.

Giggles
Amen and you too

tbanj07:
.I really just wish you'd understand! I really do!

I do understand everything you saying

You are right for scolding madam cos she knows how things are and its not the first time you told her about it.

Without you even having to tell her
She should know

You haven't done anything wrong
That's my own opinion

boogie2:
Hello Dyt, I you can forgive him, please do. For the sake of the wife and kid.

I have a long time

aflame100:
I perfectly understand you. I have been in similar situation b4.

Lol
Its one of those things you know

1Sharon:
Anybody messaged his Facebook friends?

I don't think dude wanted to return in the first instance
Shrugs

Onisokuso1:

Which kain name be this ehn

migbe:
Dyt, come over here, you can't just look and move. , where is Idowuogbo? It's being a while o.

Badosky is always watching

ahnie:
Amadioha knows I ain't gonna click that link.
Cc me when u decide to post the full gist here!

But the problem started when I met a new guy at the gym. We started talking as just members of the same gym but it became a friendship over a few weeks. He would call me to find out why I was late to the gym or even absent. Sometimes,he would volunteer to be my gym partner. I guess I was just thrilled to have a man interested in me. He really encouraged me to follow through my keeping fit journey.

Something crazy happened one day. As we exercised,he was actually helping me to do my tummy exercises. And the next thing I know is,I had an orgasm!…It was so obvious that he noticed and I was embarrassed. He laughed and told me not to worry about it. That however opened up the opportunity for us to have conversations around sxual topics.It was flirty and we used to tease each other. Before I knew it,I was meeting him in a hotel and I slept with him. It happened once and I felt so horrible after. I was so sad afterwards. But the devil wasn’t through with me. Somehow,this guy convinced me that I was in love and he could make me happier. I never really had an orgasm with my husband. Most especially since his affair. This guy opened my eyes to a whole new sxual experience that I was not used to. I slept with him a second time before God arrested me. I stopped seeing this guy. I blocked his line and stopped going to the gym.

That was two years ago. Am afraid I didn’t tell my husband.For a long time I blamed him for this. Yes,if he hadn’t cheated,our marriage would still have been perfect.I would never have registered in a gym and I would never had met a guy to cheat with. I have prayed to God to forgive me but every time I pray,I feel convicted to confess to my hubby. The problem with that though,is I feel like,he would not forgive me. I feel like our marriage would not survive another infidelity. You know,its easy for women to forgive infidelity,men ,not so much. So ever since,I buried this secret with me but I get consumed every day by the guilt.

Please tell me what to do. I have been praying about this. Since reading stories from your blog,I have been getting a bit hopeful but I am also scared. I love my husband. I cry every time I make love to my husband cos the picture of this guy keeps flashing in my mind. I even think about it sometimes and it makes me feel worse.

We are trying to repair our marriage. Will telling my husband help or should I or just keep quiet and suffer this guilt in silence?

Sis Hannah,

Lagos

Heebah:
Is ur wife deaf and dumb dat u cant ask her why she uses it?? Why do u want peeople online dat u r not familiar with to explain n tell u y she uses alum? Na so una go dey look for trouble wey e no dey. Mshewww.......carry ur wahala comot for here abeg. Oniranu

ritalori2:
Oga it is called alum.

Oyindidi:
You too use am wash your own private part. Case closed

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. That'll be a great idea.
Let me quickly reply his PM.
I can't wait.

Go girl

UyaiIncomparabl:
Lol. He is a confused dude, bae.
There are so many willing surrogates out there but he wishes to drag his delinquent self on here to swindle Nairaland's beautiful babes.

You must be beautiful too. You should apply as well. .. This is an opportunity, BAE.

He can have us both
Don't you think?
We can both give one

You are too beautiful to be ignored

anoda:
this wan you a laffin like this :8>

Wetin make I do

Morwendy:
Oh and no, I'm not a whale.

Oh my
They called you a WHALE?

My people cannot change

OK
Ebuka has gone to steal the shine again

Wehdone ooo

.Newcastle will be without on-loan midfielder Kenedy as the Brazilian is ineligible to face his parent club.

Forward Islam Slimani is suspended, while Ciaran Clark and Christian Atsu remain sidelined.

Chelsea goalkeeper Thibaut Courtois is available after recovering from a minor back injury.

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https://www.bbc.com/sport/football/44020154

Manchester United midfielder Michael Carrick will start as captain in his final league game for the club.

Manager Jose Mourinho has confirmed that Anthony Martial, Marcus Rashford and Sergio Romero will also start.

Romelu Lukaku remains sidelined with an ankle injury, while Marouane Fellaini is doubtful due to a muscle problem.

Midfielder Nathaniel Chalobah could make his first Watford appearance since September after recovering from a fractured kneecap.

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Oh my

My tummy

oyb:
i actually wanted to mention your name as you are our resident Ghanaian expat

the dolls are right up your alley na - you guys are rich in melanin, they would be right at home with you guys

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I have tears in my eyes

shaybebaby:
It is the year of assurance.

Yesoo
We must partake

shaybebaby:
, (I have another craving for a private jet)

Oyb
Over to you