₦airaland Forum

JoshVI:
you can never have my woman. Even the car you bought for her to lure her is rotting away in my house in Nigeria. When we get back to that Nigeria we will hunt you and disgrace you. Don’t joke with me

genq:
Oh yes Dr. I am talking to you. Seems you wanna push me to get nasty but I refuse to reveal your identity on this site. You are loved by many but your wife is merely tolerated because of your strange obsession with her.
Wish you all the best and hope you get good advice on this site. I'm out!

apolonius:
Just saying the ‘lady’ pleading for financial assistance got the money I sent,but is refusing to acknowledge it. Possibly because ‘she’ feels others will not help if they know I did. Very dubious,I must say.

kepstone:
ur type will end in d wrong hands.. greedy and low mental being like u. wanting to reap were u no sow. u are definitely a wife material. may God take his responsible hardworking young men from a liability and a leech like u.
God help me find my wife and deliver me from this kind of lady as a mistake

adetoroamos:
I don't owe any girl an interview, I will just walk away before she strt questioning her papa talkless of slapping me aaaaaaaaaaaaaaah! she wan die, epp me ask her?

Ishilove:
If you don't show a screenshot of that mail, I will invoke elephantiasis of the scrotum to afflict you. If you think I'm joking then watch what will happen to you this night.

That will be a warning and it will keep getting worse until you confess publicly that you are a dirty, stinky, sex crazed liar.

Oponu. Oloriburuku omo ale jatijati

ogadogood:
lol.. Like seriously? ,funny people they this forum

ogadogood:
Lolz... Why this na, was it because i didn't reply ur mail?

Ewuro4:
What could they possibly do to an infant’s photo, jerk off on it?

Ganjafama:
All I see here is a man who probably has HIV and is looking for an innocent girl to share it with him. Ladies beware.

obidevine:
I love you too my klassy queen !!!

DeeMain:
It's a teaching point, not an attack. We all (humans) have our weaknesses but should strive to work on them and overcome them. It's in our power to do so. That's my point

fucktoto:
brilliant!

trust me, if i was a white man i'd blush red and purple over this post.

dyt, don't you think she's awesome.

please try to be like her!

fucktoto:
i like your honesty.

but do you think you'd be together now if he drops the ring every time you have an altercation?

fucktoto:
let's try not to be biased...why must it always be the man? or don't you offend him too?

DeeMain:
I am impulsive too.

Can't you see a problem with this?

Impulsive : Acting on impulse without thinking.

Allowing only your instinct drive your judgement, decisions and actions without applying conscious thought and sane analysis of consequences is not something humans should be proud of.

It is the nature of animals.

Unlearn it. Learn to think, to breathe and analyze before acting. Before you get yourself or loved ones into a mess.

UjuJoan2:
Dey there dey laugh nah . . . me I don talk my own finish!

UjuJoan2:
I'll rather trash it out face to face. God knows that if my husband insults me I'll probably give it to him back twice over . . . And then I'll go pick up my ring and adorn my fingers . . . I no send anybody!

As for the cheating, I can only say that you need to let him know in clear terms that it is completely unacceptable. I've said it several times on this forum that my husband knows the repercussion for cheating on me is me cheating back. I know it's petty, but that's the only way I can deal with such betrayal. My husband knows that if he cheats on me now he's giving me the go ahead to cheat, so it's completely up to him.


It is well!

fucktoto:
how are you?

are you still gonna drop the ring?

Klassym:
lol... Yes oh. It's unbelievable right? Well am glad u questioned n wanted to be clear. #virtuouswoman

Klassym:
. @dyt I do not bring my personal issues to social media but I think I need to say something, am not here to justify myself, I do not need to answer to anyone I am d wife in question... I have been nothing but a patient n honest wife, Ave done n will keep doing my duty as a wife... My husband betrayed our union by bringing infidelity into our marriage something dispeakable. It is d order of d day but I won't allow it in my marriage. Yes I do take off my ring, everytime we have an argument he is verbally abusive, speaks to me in a condisending and aggressive manner (nobody deserves it?)n I begin to wonder if he loves me n what d marriage means to him... I watch n hear him say terrible words to me severally n I ignore him not dat I cant give him back, cos am not one who knows how to do that, after all said n done he apologizes n we are good. A lot of people on here have judged me n said a lot of things, you are entitled to ur opinion but let's make one thing clear I love my husband, I have always loved him n still will. Basically, he let me down he let Wat we have / share down, I have forgiven him for what n how he's made me feel,everyone deserves to be happy. Up until now I haven't forgiven him but I guess I have to let it go my marriage is too early for a break up, we didn't get married to break up.. He has been my best friend, my amebo partner � but he broke d trust I had for him... My husband is a good man but very hot tempered too just as I am but when he starts I just watch him n give him space den he comes apologizing. I feel said taking off my ring cos I feel his got no respect for me as his wife n our marriage by bringing infidelity to our home, (I won't be d first person it's happened too, but in my home I won't have it) Pls don't kill me for it, no wife will take it. I Ave been very sad about he whole issue but I forgive him, dunno how to trust him again, dunno if am gonna be free with him again, only time will tell. Him doing dis to us won't make me traffing anyone cos I know my worth, never will I even thing of it, it is abominable in d eyes of man n God so it's a big NO NO for me. I am a married woman who loves her husband dearly, marriages has got der ups n downs, we learn everyday no-one is perfect, we only pray dat d will of God be done in marriages. Lol... Yes he calls me mad n expects me to take it, am not mad am only his wife dat loves him so much dunno if it's a crime to love my husband? A lot have said divorce her, lol do u think he can? No-one knows what goes on behind closed doors. My husband brought this issue here but I beg u all not to crucify him, he's learning everyone does. I really want us here on dis platform to die d matter. Am begging God to help me love n trust him more again after all these, it's not gonna be easy but I will try. I know my husband will read this, n see the level hes hurt me n adjust. (not dat I haven't discussed with him o, we have sat down n we have talked but am not convinced) well as for d ring issue, not wearing one doesn't make me single, divorce is! He's hurt me bad n I forgive him.. Just need time to adjust n everything will be good. @obidevine u are my husband, I love u n respect you no matter what has happened I still care about u, very much in love with u but very hurt. Nairalanders oooo make we die d matter oooo thank u.

ahnie:
Bringam I go chow laidat

ahnie:
ID...blissful Sunday to you.what did you cook?

ahnie:
My baldheaded husband came back from hustle,I found out that he has cut his hair,I complemented him,he shone his infinix phone
touchlight on my hair and he said my new hair style made me look like a frog paddling a canoe.mtcheeew.

Wetin consign me and my little son
Has not let me rest,he has been trying to pull
the hawk from my hair.

Happy Sunday peeps.

Cc:kure

freshvine:
men has been taking financial responsibilities of home without grudge so why is it difficult for a woman to step up without demanding for some sort of accolade?

shaybebaby:
No but you can be called a jerk!

Oyindidi:
This post I quoted

Oyindidi:
it is well dear

badwife:
Oh my...I've tried it all
Back then I would chase him down the street like a mad woman for money, I've quarrelled, I've fought, I've prayed, I've cried, I've called parents, I've called pastors.

I've done it all, my salary is not just enough.
I've sacrificed my looks for the family, I've given my all.
I don't know what else to do, I'm just tired.