₦airaland Forum

Glamrock:
It's not a "wrong move" Thanks but I have everything under control. Not seeking advice here

Hmmm really? You have leaved most of your years in us. Please we are
in a better position to tell you where the sun sets.
But then, to each his own and am sure you are intelligent and matured enough to know what you are doing.you really are not looking for advise.
Warm regards

DickDastardly:
Every society gets the kind of leadership they deserve. People shouldnt pity Abia State. Till they decide to reject and fight evil in themselves, thats when a they can have a truely deserved good leader. For now, its a merry go round of evil men leading evil people

Hence the rape and death of an innocent life? Her only crime is going to work with the 666 so as to raise the financial capability of her family

Listen, forget politics rape is out of hand now, no one not even a man is safe from it. Every state is having this issue. Save your venom for actions against this!!!!!!!

BeeBeeOoh:
I won't be surprised this case been tossed into the wind at the end of the day..

Exactly my thoughts! These so called "elites" get away with a lot of crimes but if a poor man steals a cup of garii he is thrown into a cell with out trial for over 2 years!!!
Bastards

tola9ja:
Too much of tragedy in Jonathan tenure

When a man is blessed, any where he goes to prospers.
Observe that when some men marry they suddenly become successful hence the belief that some women are "right legged"

What am I trying to state, that right from when jona past all the way to bayelsa, his moves are trailed with deaths, pains,hunger etc..... For goodness sake just look at the economic situation,security and politcal situations in nigeria

Glamrock:
Yes I have made up my mind, thank you

Honey, who advised u to this? Darling ,wrong move!! If u wish to ask questions go ahead, nairaland is best forum to get info. You can ask best markets, good restaurants, shopping malls, boutiques, actual prices of stuffs so as not to be cheated etc but not advertise for friends!
You don't advertise for friends, risky. When u get here you will make them very easily. Nigerians are naturally friendly and outgoing.
That's not to mean there isn't lots of issues like any other country. I mean c,mon you should know this.

By the way, I will advise you move into a gated community( estate) .there are more than enough so do take your time in choosing the one u feel best meets your criteria.

holluwai:
Is she from Benin?

Kai!!! Are u from otuoke?you are exhibiting characteristics

82sarahluv:
My wife has cheated on me during a tough time for us. We got back together 2 months ago, but I found out she is still in touch with him. Should I leave her, or have an affair of my own? We have a 5 year old son - this is why I'm not able to consider leaving her easily.
Thanks to all of you who have not jumped on the 'having my own affair' part. I only added this as an option because, her having an affair completely shattered my confidence as a man and is affecting my personal and professional life. I have considered an affair as a way to prove to myself that I can still have a partner if we separate. But now I realize how silly that is. I'm going to try talking it out with her again and resolve this like a man, and hope that will restore confidence in myself.

Best decisions mosrt times cause us great pains.leave that woman,before then ,set her up and get evidence of her affairs. Fight for custody of the child and prove she is an unfit mother.
If you stay with that woman.believe me the pain and xonfusion you are goung through now, will be a joke to what will befall u.its most likely that woman will walk out on you in future.

If you ignore this advise,please don't forget to hail me when my warning comes to pass

OLADD:
The same measure shall be given to you and your family now and in the future. At the pick of your career, men and women, old and young shall ridicule you to unparralled ignominy. You shall reap what you sow at the appointed time.

Dabullit will see nothing but the protection and blessing of God,the almighty who comes in all his awe and majesty.
Please post a topic and beg the mods to make it fp in that post curse us all because millions of nigerians curse joesatan daily, his forefathers who brought him into this world

People pray for his death it is an open secret that his administration is the worst ever!!!!!!! Do u understand?
Am sure you are aware of western countries reports on him as well as opinions on his government

What then are you writting? If u wish to campaign go ahead, constitution allows it but don't deceive your self or insult us for stating what is obvious to even a blind deaf and dumb man

OREMUSSANCTUS:
Islam

Please I don't understand.I recommend u do 2 tests being iq and psychological

frankmishael1:
all the plan is set......
gate of hell would be open
only if Gej wins there will be peace in Nigeria
no Gej no Nigeria

The worst thing a man can do is to lie to himself.
Gate of hell is opened already,so I believe you are reffering to another of its gates ,right?
That will only happen if the man in aso rock returns come march 28th

Uteghe:
The psychotic voice of a murderer and unrepentant Voodooist.

I can't stand jona and pat but you ma sef,you see am dey do voodoo? Haba!!!

IBROHIM:
She is fine on both colours! The problem with the fair version is how easy will it be for her to maintain it and keep it uniform and also the health implications!!! Am cooler with the darker version of her!
The truth meanwhile is that for both versions she is Angelic!!!!

Exactly!!!! Her only mistake is talking trash but if she's using good products which are expensive and avoids sun,amongst others, then, she won't have a problem

evisexxy:
Just give her 2years she will start having grey ,black,green parches everywhere,she just started,thank God for giving me a dark skin, I love my skin. Eyen ekami how you dey?

Am not for bleaching but I disagree with u on the. Grey, black vein in 2 years comment.

The fact is , it depends on how a lady tones and what products they use.I Kknow of people that have being bleaching for years and there's no flaw up till this moment. So if she's using low quality stuffs then yes, she will understand her mistake

iamrealdeji:
Look at her lips like pomo,let the truth be told,i'm a light skinned guy,no case of been biased,she's naturally ugly,but she looks way better when she was dark skinned

Let's be honest,she's not ugly.

datguru:
ISLAM!

What do u mean? What has islam got to do with this? How many times has nairaland put up posts on rape and rituals in which perpetrators are christians?
Did any one shout "christianity"! Listen this is individualistic so stop exposing how low your iq is.

dabossman:
Er, why so many women over 30? It's because girls were also born in the years preceding 1985.

Mtschewww. Someone should correct this topic abeg.

Please kindly assist us in correcting it.if nairalanders had an issue with it, then it won't be viewed over 20,000 times and still counting neither will it have over 300 posts and counting

The message is clear and definitely we are all learning from this.

Do have a wonderful night's rest

Calebosko:
guys what do you have to say about this Heartbreaking photo of Syrian boy
protecting his little sister from air strikes
http:/// 8zzq0M

Yes touching. But air strikes, really and the person snapping took the time and right pose to be uploaded on internet?

I hear!

kpolli:
I can only assume you're a kid for this statement.... The plain truth is that those girls started with high standards and by the time they realize their mistake; it's almost too late....

It has nothing to do with money or how much you earn....

I am not saying date any guy, but if you have feelings for a guy; do not bring up reasons why you can't date him then dismiss him... He is too short, too dark!!! The feelings are already there but you then find excuse to rule him out...

There's no need for using rude words here, please. I believe we are all matured here and simply expressing opinions.

MrCork:
....so becuz u cant get punny, u blaming women over 30??......is it there fault u r broke??


...Listen up brother...ama lover nota figher..so please please please ....don't make me swaaar for u...Goat! (no oofeinsese)

Because am not getting punny and am broke What are u saying.
Do u even understand yourself?
Smh.............have a good evening

bigfrancis21:
That trait gives them an edge here in America. Nigerians have been observed to be hardworking, very self-confident, tough and very difficult to intimidate.

Perfect response. You last reason being ,....."very difficult to intimidate" is one of the reason we actually are not liked in western countries because they have tried to come and take over under the guise of " investment" or tackling"millitants" but we know their games well. We refuse to be south africa
You forgot to add very intelligent.

nzeaji:
The problem is, marriage is not for everyone.

Our culture just makes it seem that way.

Really? Where in bible or quran was that stated? And if adam and eve were not together will u be here talking?

Its not for everyone so,they should be mistresses, abi? Some have decided to be single mothers which is so bad

I believe most of you will understand what I mean

Its really saddening when you see ladies over the age of 30 still single. I don't feel its about character as I have seen many ladies with terrible characters get married.

Most these ladies are accomplished. Even with the programmes for singles in churches, stilll no show.The muslims also have programmes where they assist singles in getting married,still no show.

Please, don't state that they want rich men as we all know what is going on now,our women are practically becoming bread winners. Some earn higher than their husbands

These single ladies don't mind getting married to men who are of a lower earning capacity.

What is then the problem?!?

ILIDEFI:
You're good at conspiracy theories. Did BH start bombing and killing in the time of Jonathan or before his tenure? So who was behind BH as at 2009?
Top Christians behind BH? I'm sure those top christians are also behind ISIS, to which BH has pledged allegiance. Those top Christians are also behind Fulani herdsmen massacre in Benue, Plateau, Nasarawa etc.
Guy, use your brain. It's not there for decoration.

Hmm. It is clear by your arguements that you are not conversant or well read.
I therefore cannot go into discussions with you.

dafuturis:
Questions for Jonathan and PDP

1. Why was (is) "Boko Haram" busy
destroying states and areas that the opposition party will win convincingly in the presidential election?

2. If we are to believe that the opposition were the brains and architects of "Boko Haram",
then why is it that they have never
ever attacked and destroyed any prominent PDP figure or their properties?

3. If the opposition have the capability
of arming "terrorists" with armour tanks, RPGs, AA Guns, military uniforms, military trucks, helicopters and the ability to command soldiers to vanish from military checkpoints, wouldn't they have targeted to destroy PDP strongholds and their assets?

4. Why would the opposition seek to
destroy their own strongholds anyway? To achieve what?

5. Why was (is) "Boko Haram" targeting to destroy basically only prominent
northern politicians and their traditional rulers and their communities?

6. In the light of questions 1 to 5 above, why has there been a deliberate campaign of lies and propaganda by the PDP and their religious wing that collect bribes in billions of naira that "Boko Haram" is the baby of the opposition?

7. Of all the cars used by "suicide"
bombers retrieved from the scene of their attacks, to whom were the cars traced after forensic investigations? Why is it that nothing is ever heard after such evidences have been collated at the scenes since 2011?

8. At the last count, over 500 hundred
"Boko Haram" suspects have been in
detention since 2009, but why is it that government hasn't been able to come clean on those sponsoring the "terrorists", and why is it that, with such a huge treasure trove, government has not been able to know and curtail the operational methods of the "terrorists"?

9. Why did the "terrorists" become stronger after a scandalous 33 billion dollars (over 4 trillion naira) was expended on the so called war against them?

10. Why was it that, at a point from 2013, the Nigerian military was not taking the war to "Boko Haram" camps in the deserts of the northeast instead of waiting for "Boko Haram" to come on the offensive?

11. Since when has repulsion become
the best form of defence instead of attack?

13. Why did "Boko Haram" have the
most freedom to operate and destroy so
many towns and villages during all the period of State of Emergency that was supposed to have made them immobile?

14. Was the State of Emergency some
fraud pulled off to empower the "terrorists" and make the targeted communities sitting ducks for easy elimination?

15. Who was providing "Boko Haram"
with fuel and other logistics in their camps considering how they easily move with long convoys of trucks to operate without challenge?

These are not the only questions....
There are many more. But they've not
been able to answer any of these,
rather they always want to heap their scheme on others. These questions and many more could be the reason they are mortally scared of losing political power.

- Curled and replicated

My dear, its shocking that the handwrittings are on the wall yet people purposely pretend not to see.


The main reason why pdp does not want gmb to win is because of atrocities they have been commiting will be exposed e.g bh, nnpc missing funds,the clearing of our treasury,using pension funds for campaign etc

In the history of nigeria, this man is the worst leader ever.

ILIDEFI:
It's your brothers among the military top bosses that leaked the info. It wasn't about Jonathan. What has GEJ benefitted from the failure of rescue of those girls? Everything has been to the advantage of the opposition. So I ask you, why would GEJ foil an attempt that would have restored the image of his administration?

Bh was not initially the weapon of jona but he commandered it for his selfish purpose.

The funds budgeted for it, moves to a large extent to him
To distabalise the north , so as to affect some certain powerful northerners.
He has never like muslims and fears they will take over...... There are several reasons all political and selfish.
Mind you bh is not religious and has assistance of some top christians, yes you read it well, top christians.
Listen this is beyond your imagination, apc is fully aware as well as some top nigerians including western countries
One thing for sure is that bh will end once gmb becomes president
Jona knows that he will be exposed as to this
Or are u claiming not to have read the papers or interviews when late azazi who also stated that bh is in pdp and shortly after died In a helicopter that was bombed
Please face facts or simply just shut up

F22RAPTOR:
you are quoting the american military and
the English is shitty, the vocabulary is crap; the report lacks professionalism; na one APC tout wen no go school write this thing....Just so you know, the US will not release any intel about their operations....Nonsense

American military did not leak it, it was the report given as well as correspondence between our government and us government.mind u nigeria has no secret because jona is surrounded by men as hypocritical as himself
Whetther you chose to believe it is of no consequence to anyone or any issue in nigeriam
Save your energy as u will need it when escorting jona to otuoke.vox populi,vox dei

yibomustgo:
Your mother must have been an housegirl before for you to know how other people look like housegirl. I have to conclude you are a son of a slutty housegirl.

The question now is: how long was your mother in the profession of an housegirl?

Congratulations! You just brought your self lower than her by insulting her mother.
A simple correction was what was needed.

abouyusuf:
There was a minor fire incident at Independent National Electoral Commission’s Electoral Institute in Abuja on Saturday night.

However, the fire was contained swiftly and no harm whatsoever was done to electoral materials.

The Chief Press Secretary to the chairman of the commission, Mr. Kayode Idowu, confirmed the incident.

He also said the fire didn’t affect any electoral material.

http://www.punchng.com/news/fire-at-abuja-inec-office/

Okay.... Then atleast let's know which of the offices as well as what was lost.
Just of recent, fire gutted one of the offices in revenue and mobilization fiscal commission here in abuja

Jona thinks he is smart and we nigerians are being played but he doenst know he is the fool and we are just wqatching him like a parent watching a child play
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Very soon his toys will be seized.

Glamrock:
1. The food - GMO this and that. Unhealthy foods and seasonings giving us cancers and diabetes. Keeping people sick through foods. A science study has shown that African Americans will be extinct in America in 100yrs or less just from the food alone.

2. Weather - 9Months of cold weather and 3months of warm weather. I hate being cold I feel home sick. This is not my natural habitat. I need the sun 24/7. I need all my vitamin D intake

3. Floride - in our drinking water. We can not escape it. keeping our Pineal glands decalcified. Same thing Hitler used on his holocaust victims before he exterminated his whole camp, but that's another story..

4. Language - I want to learn traditional African languages. I want to hear it and learn to speak it. Whether it be Hausa, Yoruba, igbo, basic pidgin etc.

5. Culture - here we are not taught anything prior to slavery. It wasn't until about 4 years ago when I finally learned about the truth. About my cultural history. I knew I was of African decent, I just didn't know anything else. Anything we are shown about Africa is the poverty and wars. They really keep the greatness of the culture hidden. Probably to keep us from wanting to come back because now that I know what I know I'm in love with where I came from and who I truly am. I'm 27 now with an almost 9yr old daughter. She deserves to see, learn and live her true culture. I feel so home sick

6. Materialism - so much technology so many distractions, It's nothing wrong with having nice things. People just need to realize because you have something someone else doesn't doesn't mean you're superior . ThIs can happen anywhere. I just point it out because a lot of people think because this is the "western world" it's better. We can not become robots lost in technology and materialism we just can't. We are human beings.

7. Roots - I have every right to want to come back it's my home too. I hate hearing people say I wasn't born there. What does that mean? Had my ancestors not been STOLEN I would have been born there. I am of African decent. I take pride in Africa. I'm no invader. Doesn't matter where I was born I am a child of the sun.

8. Spirituality - this is a spiritual move. Peace of mind. When The ancestors speak I listen. I know you have Christianity and Islam but I really would like to see and learn more about African traditional religions.

9. Development - I think it's time for not just me, but majority of African Americans to take our knowledge and skills back to the motherland to contribute to the continents development. Why does the world Rob Africa and then eat without her?. you are a developing country soon You wil. Have all the things you think is so great in the western world. Your resources are RICH! Just be patient

10. I think you knew this was coming. The main reason of all. INEQUALITY / RACISM
I am so sick and tired of being treated different because of the color of my skin. I am sick of watching these white people kill my people and get away with it just because whites are dominant . It's Not right. How. Long do we have to fight for freedom? We are still fight after 400+ yrs Sometimes I can't even sleep in my bed at night because I'm wondering who's next or what's going to happen tomorrow. I'm sick of being seen as less than an animal. And it's so normal here a lot of people just ignores it! I can't its an insult to my soul. I can't take it I am not free.

Now believe it or not I just gave you 10. If I told you every reason I'd be writing all night. I'm use to being discourage about this big decision I've chose in my life. So please don't Comment telling me why I should stay here and shouldn't come there. Especially if you never been here. Its different when you live here. Every body here is not rich and everybody is not living like celebrities. Out of 43million African Americans only about 1% is really living that way. I just want the truth to be told because I read all the time about Africans wanting to come here because they think it's better here, and we have it so great. We are in a constant war here. You are blessed. You are children of the sun.

You wanna move? No issue. No one can decide for you, you know what's best.
I frequent the states though don't stay for more than 3 months and all your resons are good especially racism which should have been number 1.

Answer these questions what do u intend to do when you get back? Do u have a job? Have u secured accomodation in a good place, have you gotten a good school for your daughter?
Am sure you must have crossed your t and dotted your I.
Your decision is good.the good thing is. U have a blue passport.now, take a trip back and go round and see what is lacking here . There are simple affordable and neccessary items that we might not have, you could go into business with a shop that stocks such and since you have access to unlimited visits to states , would be easy for you to always jet out and scout for more stuffs

If you intend to take a salary paying job, still be an entrepreneur
I would recommend that your child should not do her university here.its up to you.

Akpan107:
if you are actually in one, may God save you!

Lol....rotf. Nice one.amen, and unto you, brother

Segeggs:
Hmm....

Our president loves party sex

An
And you knew that because you provide the ladies or participated, abi?
My friend, will act like a responsible person and not a pdp like attitude.

Akpan107:
there is no way the former coupist will ever rule this country again.

Never!!!

Hmmmmm........you are in trouble