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@poster; you maybe correct, but abeg, let us just allow her be. suffer her to still be mrs president. i know why. e get why.

first of all, i don't wanna believe that all the blame is entirely on her. yes, she must have contributed to the crash of the relationship does not mean she was the so cause. she must have been good somewhere unless you forced the relationship. the relationship is over and i see no reason why you should still kill your head over the past. it is over and you should make it over if you still want to go forward; into another relationship. however, sending her a gift or an sms doesn't necessarily have to be replied. that's my opinion. if you are sending her anything, don't expect a response back unless you're still dreaming about the relationship coming back. and from what you've said, if it comes back you would be a terrible partner. peace. - Earl Alright

everyman is by nature, promiscuous. besides, talk truth, e no get who (man) wey no like woman. na self control na e dey make the difference

i just think that they are so stingyyyyy. as in, STINGY but very reliable. yeah. reliable

i just think that they are so stingyyyyy. as in, STINGY but very reliable. yeah. reliable

i am a proud Nairalander and have not just suggested it to all my friends, but also to my co-counsellors and clients. i still insist that it is the best forum web.

i am a proud Nairalander and have not just suggested it to all my friends, but also to my co-counsellors and clients. i still insist that it is the best forum web.

this guy is not only good, but "bad".

besides, why should guys be so interested in sex and girls in money-things?

however see this article: boys are like babies. yet to be edited though. so be kind with any mistake(s)

boys are like babies; their mechanics

every now and then, i always here,read or percieve the fact that girls don't understand the sexuality of boys - their boyfriends. they see no reason why he is so sexually driven and does not boarder about their feelings. the boys may actually have sex with them or long sessions of romance,but yet the girl says "he is not romantic. the boys on the other hand don't eeven understand why they are so crazy for sex. they find it more difficult to understand why she says no and yet she claims to love him. "if she is not giving you, then she must be giving it to someone else" posited a young lad. however, this article is met to discuss the little i know about the male sexual mechanism and why he is different from the lady. here, i will use babies and child to mean the same thing.

boys are like babies in these aspects of their lives.
1. babies want everything they see.
bright colours are one of the most attractive things to babies. he just love it and gets excited. Benigna (H.O.D Heart Dept. Alright's Passion) onced asked me what was with guys and fair ladies. not only fair ladies now, but also very dark ladies. he gets excited and interested the moment he sees such a bright coloured person. women are sexually attracted to a guy not just because he lookes masculine but mainly because of what she feels about the guy. so things like these: "i think he loves me," "i just believe i can trust him, he would stay with me and be responsilbe," "i cannot just cheat on me." she does all her evaulation with her mind. if her emotions is at peace with you then, you are the mister right. this same emotional feelings is the same thing that makes every guy believe that he would return back to his senses even when it is clear that the lad is now with another woman. so, the more you keep on persuading her, the more she falls for you. she just want you to say the words: "i love you," "i miss you," e.t.c. even when you don't mean it. she just want you to always reasure her that she is the most important person in your life. she doesn't want kissing, smushing nor touching, but wants you to just hold her, stroke her hair and squeeze her shoulders. he may not want to have sex with her immediateley, but the erection does not want to go away. however, there is another thing about the male sexuality which ladies don't know. the fact that he has an erection does not necessary mean that he wants to/will have sex with you. he is biological make up is the one that is incharge of that. whether he wants it or not, the erection could come based on chemistry, weather/body temperature, achohol, food, drugs (not just hard-drugs but medications) or time of the day (morning most usually. a male child is always observed by the mum every morning to notice if there is any iregularity with the child's erection). remember that a guy's sexuality is mainly based on what he sees and not what he percieved as opposed to that of a girl. all he needs to see is the curves, the contours, the thighs, cleavages and his body will start reacting in that line. he then wants to reach out first with his hands and touch.

2. babies want to just reach for and touch.
i have a little niece - Jasmine, she won't stop crawling to the electrical extensions and the mobile phones. she is a toddler but think she has a better speed when crawling. so also are guys. they see a beautiful girl and they just want to know her. they compel themselves to know her. it does not boder them even if she refuse to return their hello which them have said ten times. a hand shake will not be bad they think. anywhere, any time, whether in the streets, bus or church, they just want to reach out to her. sit by her side and want her eyes to lock with theirs. most of all, they want their bodies to touch some way, some how. they sit so close that the lady becomes uncomfortable. no matte how much you try to stop my niece, she will only pause for a while and continue the moment she notices your eyes are not on her. so also are guys. no matter how busy they are, they just want some seconds - 5seconds out to just tell the lady their name. they can never miss her name. they just want to reach out. they know the proper way, but they just feel there is no time. they are supposed to first know you, just the same way jasmine is supposed to first grow up before thingking of using a mobile phone, but they just want to rush the fimiliarization now the same way Jasmine speeds off to the tv remote the moment i step our of the living room. some way, some how, the body of a guy just wanna have sex with any woman; daughter,, sister, mother and even grandma. this is becuase, his chemistry is not based on feeling or thought, but based on sight - what he sees. boys like babies, are so much in a hurry just to reach out and touch. the virtue patience is thrown out of the window and endurance is better forgotten. a teenage girl once lamented she doesn't know why boys (even the christians among them) just want to touch me because i have large boobs. are they kids who just want to play with balloons"

3 babies cry if you stop them from getting something
once a children's teacher in Scripture Union [S.U. Nig.], i understood from the kiddergarten class that the best way to stop a child from crying over something you stop him from getting is to remove that thing from sight. boys are alike. a colleague of mine didn't just understand why her boyfriend will beg for sex as if it is food. so also is the complain of most of our clients in the Alright's Passion. he said "if i don't slep with him he would kill himself" and he refuses to talk to me because i said no. babies are like that. atimes they could just refuse to answer your call because you stopped them a while ago; ignoring you. boys could go cheating on you. babies are still like that. they run off to somebody else that would allow them get the item to themselves. atimes, these kids could even attack with their finger nails and may even throw toys at you. that is the same way some boyfriends behave. they may committ assault and atimes battery on the lady. his passion to have sex most of the time is controlled by his chemistry; the erection doesn't just want to go and his heart is beating faster and his head spinning madly. so he believes if he doesn't have it, he would die. he tend to make all the promises in the world, ready to do anything thing including committing an assualt just to get the sex. as pastor Bimbo puts it, anything a guy promises you because he wants to sleep with you is true only before the sex. the moment he has ejaculated and lost the erection, he comes back to his normal senses and becomes logical. he says, "but you know that that is not possible. yes is true that i said so, but that cannot just be done." all he said at that time was based on the passion - the drive to satisfy his cheemistry which had a better control over him at that time.

4.babies always want to keep what they've got and don't share
nothing thrills me the way babies tend to hold on to something. most especially the one that is not thiers. i remember buying biscuits for a kid. i begged her for a tablet and she bluntly said no. the worse is before you give them a snack, you decide to remove a portion. they just cry on the top of their voice, so also boys are. the girl is not theirs, they've not yet married her, but don't want her to date another guy. some boys could have more than one girlfriend but don't want one of thier girlfriends to have another man even when tthey have broken-up the relationship. they get very angry when they hear that she had sex with her new boy most expecially if they never had sex with her while they dated. they just still want to have this control over the lady even beyond that which the girls parents have over her. when it come to women, men are so possessive and jealous and stingy. they see no reason why you should call yourself their girlfriend and yet still hug another guy or stand with a guy for five minutes in the street. they are just like babies who believe they are the only ones who exist and should be the most important thing. another terible part of a boy's romantic life which i'm yet to gain all understanding of is the fact that he doesn't want the girl to go even when he knows that he does not love the girl and have no intentions to commit.

5.babies forget previous pains and mishaps
severally, i have spanked most kids around me because of touching/picking a dangeerous item like a knife or electric extension. they cry but go back in less than ten minutes. they easily forget that they once got electricuted or burnt. boys are like babies. tthey easily forget the pains that they went through when they had that STI/STD from that unprotected sex. they loose the control of their chemistry and before you know, it has happened again. they easily forget that they already have a girlfriend and ask-out another girl. boys usually like kids, do not care about the negative effect of the romantic action they are about to make. they are only concerned what is in it for them. they easily forget what made their last relationship to end and suffer the same again in the new relationship. there is no difference between the stove fire and the paper fire, but the baby see them as different. it was the stove that burnt me last time and not the burning paper. so also are guys, they forget that sex is sex. STI/STD/AIDS is STI/STD/AIDS.

6.babies easily forget faces and pasts.
sometimes, and most times, guys easily forget they've met a lady before and re-ask for names making them look so stupid before the girls. babies are not different. they easily forget that you were the one that they ran to yesterday. they forget easily that you bought them that biscuits which the resfused to share. guys always don't remember what caused them the heart-ache in the previous relationship. they just seem not to remember the advice you gave them yesterday. sometimes, they always forget the wrongs they did her when they come back to beg. they just forget the promises and pledges they made. they forget how insulting and annoying they acted in the past, they just want the lady to "just" forgive them.

7. babies are babies; boys are babies
boys will always bee boys if they refuse to change. but there are somethings that is just generally their human nature unless and save unless the Holy Spirit transforms their life to the best. and that is only possible if they yield. if they decide to be born again and have not only their mind, but their full entity renewed. they just have to be born again from every normal - general nature of man.
they better you understand boy, the more you cope with them. i will soon write about the ladies. just watch out for it.

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IF there is a master's bedroom, who is the slave - the wife and kids? what kind of marriage is that which makes the woman to beg for consortium, and,

every time she needs something,or he wants something that is the only time she gets to enter the room or maybe unless if she wants to clean the room. that is a slave and not a wife - a house help, a sexual object.

i hate master's bedroom unless the wife is part of it. if you are married, then you are married, living in the same room and not cohabiting in the same house.

if,

AS for the season 1 which is said to be in CD format but yet to be made available public, where it is claimed the said lecturer wore a CD is possible. have you ever wondered how possible it will be for three girls to rape a boy? something must have been done or administered to make him regain erection. and this trick must have been carried out on the lecturer to make him get erection just the get the CD effect of wearing the CD.

we always fail to investigate issues properly before concluding. though i don't in anyway support sexual harassment, whether on a girl or on a guy, we must study this case carefully before we conclude erroneously.

as a student of the said Ambrose Alli University popularly known as Ekpoma and also a 500 level law student of the said institution and also as deliberated at the school's ASUU meeting today, i will boldly and without favour or special sentiment support the lecturer.

first, the lecturer accepts a friendship/relationship with the girl. in fact, he has been seen hanging out at pepper soup joints with the said girl. he was only at the girl's house that day on the distress calls (sms) of the girl that she wasn't fine and needed medical attention. and that the said lecturer should come with some apple fruits.

being a friend, the lecturer obliged. only to meet the saga which everyone knows about. some lecturers who where present at the scene of the humiliation of the lecturer claimed that there were some hefty-huge-ugly-looking-terrible guys present at the scene threatening any abortion of the humiliation.

from the video, which i have watched. and also the claimed season 1 of the said video as it is the season 2 that is common to the public, we could hear the sister of the said Judith complaining that the sister was going too far and that this was not what they initially planned.

everything must have been under duress. with the common incidence of kidnapping/false imprisonment, a lecturer could easily be a victim. besides, why is it that the video is only showing the lecturer and Judith and not the other persons viewing. how are you not sure that one of the viewer was with a deadly - life - threatening  weapon.

besides, any person under duress could pretend/act just to save his life. he could sign a cheque and say things he knows nothing about. just as many guys do after a good torture from the police.

i would also like to know if there is anything wrong with a man of adult age to have a romantic relationship with a girl who is more than 16years. if he failed her in the past even after sleeping with her, it shows that he doesn't in anyway, for any reason or favourism pass students. you must show yourself approved.

the said girl has about six other carry-overs as i hear which imputes in her a poor student.

some other lecturers have been dismissed because of sexually related offense. these complainants channeled their complain appropriately and even the V.C. at a time plus some other lecturers had to set up a lecturer. other cases of this nature are still pending as the senate is following the cases with our necessary care.

the video also shows the girl to be making more controls (calls) to other persons to come. this shows that the lecturer must have been kept there under duress - against his natural will. tell bro, what will make you pull your trousers when you are not a porn star? - only a gun or some other deadly weapon. what will make you sign a cheque of N100,000 when you have not yet been paid for two months? - only some kind of death threat.

these are what my lecturer suffered.

as we read, some lecturers are being investigated by the police regarding the issue. because i see no reason why a young lady (unless insanity) destroy her public image in such a manner. not my friend's friend can date such a babe!! no!!! i just can agree to work with such a colleague or employ such a staff that could embarrass my customers or other staff.

many more will come. just follow.

i don't know this answer yet cos i lost a very gud g.friend to it and , if not for the maturity of the present one, i would have also be afraid of also loosing her friendship. however, girls don't like dating their friends. till now, i'm still yet to get a reasonable reason and guys don't like gisting strangers. toasting still works, but depends on the guy/girl and what you want from the relationship.

maybe!!!

this is why i am [we are] crazy about nairaland. the best forum web that i know.

marriage crumbles when people fail to understand some basic issues during dating/courtship and even before any relationships. some of us cannot marry and remain married with the type of life-style we possess now. it is not possible. that's why by "building relationships, saving relationships and reducing divorce rate in Nigeria" we tackle four issues [communication, priority, character and sex] in pre-marriage relationships which we believe if not corrected/healed will lead to divorce.

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God bless nairalanders

if you've ever watched "cheaters" and read foreign magazines plus watch there E! and others, u will know Africans still dey learn when it comes to cheating. this is to all those who think that cheating is all about Africans. man is naturally promiscuous. whether African or American. Chinese or Arabs. plus the Europeans and the Asians, all races

that's because men are highly jealous and possesive. they don't wanna share with anybody, not even me. lol. they just have this believe that it is only their right and not another's.

as a final yr law student of A.A.U. Ekpoma, i will advice that being next of kin does not make the person your personnal administrator on your death, however, the person serves as the closest person that could be reached on any matter affecting and relating to you. if you die without a will and all your entries shows this person to be your next of kin, it COULD/MAY be easily accepted that this person should be your administrator. last year, in lagos, a driver of a transport company died. the man had no will and most of all, he wrote his brother as his next of kin even when he got the job after marriage. it was difficult for her lawyer my relative to negociate her benefits. however, also, it should be noted that according to the law, the next administrator or person entitled to the estate of a deceased without will is the surviving wife. so the next of kin thing will naturally be nothing legal.

if you could get over your man, him being ages. you can also refuse not to repay you sister and the innocent kid. you can do. i just trust you on this. yes, it will definitely affect the trust you have for your sister but that does not mean you should just pull away from the family. just pretend nothing happened but mind your trust.

if this is not too much, i wonder what will be too much. no wonder our girls hardly ever get young single bachelors or get married early. only an aristole or maybe a non-serious yahoo boy may fit into this her description. it has been a prob for me as a guy. i think my taste have just been to high. i'm beginning to slash some things out and i expect every one to do same. it will help.

i could marry from any where. dad approves of that but he doesn't want any daughter in law from a broken home and i am skeptical about some kingdoms in my tribe. but i don't see anything real wrong with inter-triber marriage ooohhhh

men are emotional but not to be compared to women. our lives as men revolves more around logic, but for women, round emotions

to me, the craziest I've ever done was to have sex with a girl that i had just known for four days. that was madness. i must have been crazy without any intention of even having or continuing the relationship even though she wasn't a commercial sex worker. she was a neighbour to a family member i had visited for holidays

this can console me. yea, its funny even though the super-eagles wan spoil my joy

Naija bam. most especial falcons wey fit cease nations cup and no gree commot for hotel for south-africa some years back. we no bad reach france

God bless her

i have a live show (the Alright's Passion www.facebook.com, www.myspace.com/naijapassion) and the topic to be discussed is "i didn't snatch your man for she was never your girl" could nairalanders help me with how to keep a man and a woman? for i have discovered it is easy for some of us to make friends but difficult to keep them. thanks.

because it is in their nature; their human nature. unless the become renewed by the holy Ghost, they will always cheat. e.g. one woman can never satisfy a man.

decent women are every where, not necessarily in the village. in my village, i bleed within with the number of teenagers procuring abortion and i wonder if those of the city aren't better. so, these days, i just look for a decent woman not necessarily from some kind of village. they may be worse. real worse. i'm serious