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You are neither her father or her husband, you are just a good Samaritan, she wl drop you whenever she wishes, reason she wishes to keep other guys by the side.
Learn to move with people you will celebrate not people you wl tolerate.

Oga, relax,worry about the future and not now because she won't voice out now until u become successful.

this is uncalled for, u needed not to take this too serious.

kennygee:
Unfortunate bastard who should have been aborted or shed during a monthly cycle.

Ozuo.

the reason you were single all your years back before the marriage was to "BUILD YOUR FINANCE"
The reason you dated was to"GROW YOUR LOVE"
There is time for everything.

whoever paid the pride price matters not,men will always be men and the head. RESPECT THEM!!!

Besides women who give men money to pay bride price always do it desperately, they want to get married by all means and if u think u can rub the man off his position by doing so,you are joking. The earlier women begins to learn how to be under men, the better 4 them.

Fathers care a lot,they go through a lot silently and because they don't talk much like mothers, we always think they don't care. Mothers have this habits of brainwashing their children about their father. The only difference is,when mothers are financially down, they go extra mile to convince and prove to u that they don't have but fathers,being men that they are,will only tell u plainly and go their way.
God bless our fathers!!!

all these ladies above and below me,you are entitled to your opinions, but surely, one day you all will become mother in-laws then you will understand better.

How dare she sit and watch the elderly woman sweep ,what she did is bad,she lacks respect.one day, she will be a MIL,she will be treated the same way.

just when you think you have seen it all,welcome back sex ,is that all she learnt from the country she visited ,and to think that this is "a child's" future mum.
Anyways, you are thinking of HIV but my little mind is saying something different, a pregnancy is about to be transferred to you. Goodluck and pls the update, very important, I will like to know what d child looks like.

women..........,always hypocritical.

madam, the pant is not turn,that's how the design is,taking a close look at both sides, will put you through.

,for where ,hubby has finally possessed what's his

Surebank1:
hope ur not still running


lol


hope ur not still running


lol

your are entitled to your opinion,I hardly quote people here, the only reason I quoted you was because you generalised your opinion, not every woman gives a damn about pre-wwdding pics.

Centrallock:
i find it hard replying to your post because its sparks out anger, my point is the issue is not worth the break up, and you cant judge her based on your assumptions till you hear her opinions, i wonder why your sounding pained over the issue. Anyway am done with the issue its just my opinion anyway.

If u go close to any man,u will be pregnant.
So am always on d run

By following your foot steps abi ,see him Moro head

oga not for everyone abeg bc I dont give a damn about pre_wedding pic, many women have lost the love of their life because of unnecessary excuses, that babe is stubborn and if the dude must go on,he must always dance to her tune,failure to always do her wish will lead to serious agguement and her type will always threaten to quit the marriage. Only a very calm and non-stubborn guy will cope with her type,if he can tolerate her,goodluck to him.

Centrallock:
like i said most things will not always go your way, you have to make room for her happiness too, and how can you ask why pre wedding shot is important to a woman, lol is like asking why dating a beautiful, loyal and submisive babe is important to a dudes.
Pre wedding shots is very necessary to her proving a point to her fellow girls, ladies hate having this feeling of being left out like she isnt meeting up to standards with friends, woman are naturally weird to be competitive against themselves so unless you cant afford the shots dont make it seem like its an issue, because its not.
your still going to meet real issues in marraige so start letting some stuffs that aint necessary pass so you can enjoy ypur marriage bro.
Regards

take heart and move on,your tears are too precious to shed for someone who doesn't value u

is she actually in love wirh u or in love with competition and pre wedding pics ,is that how she will be submissive to u?,ladies who tink they are "made already" are always stubborn. If u must apologize to her now,be ready to always dance to her tune. The choice is yours.

she doesn't know how to fry plantain but she doesnt want to learn. She couldn't even ask Google or YouTube to direct her on frying plantain, instead ,she chose to showcase her laziness. If she can't handle ordinary plantain, how will she manage her home. I won't blame you if u dump her.


If you can't cook while dating someone, is it after marriage that you will learn ,whatever you want your future to be like,start the preparation now!!!

Mr "Nice", why do u give her monthly stipend ,why did u make her your responsibility?, are u her father?, what has she contributed to your life?,the handwriting is very clear,flee!!!

maybe she was too young or scared to go on with u in the first place, some girls due to home upbringing, avoids love affairs till they are matured enough. 4get the past,focus more on who she has become presently.

that u are bad doesn't mean others are,am currently leaving with one as hubby,he's the reason I don't have an ex,I saw those qualities and held him tight even in his brokenness, even in my next world,I will not hesitate to say yes over and over again.
All men are never the same.

chenzen:
The guy u just described is Jesus. there's no such guys in Nigeria not even in this world.

when u start living with your spouse, that's when the true attitude of the person begins to show,some people can act very well just to cover their real selves but then,when the true colour begins to show and it turns out to be bad,how will the love which never existed before exist . Its love that will aid u in enduring some attitudes that will be displayed later.
-love is the reason a woman refused to leave her abusive husband.
-love is the reason a man took a prostitute home and made her his wife.
Love is very important, don't just marry bc u wish to settle down,you guys should take your time and discover love first, very important.

I pray this issue doesn't tear your home apart. Some men are too principled that when they say "yes", they mean it and can never change their mind. He is saying yes while u are saying no,tell me,how long will the agguement last . Since he insists, start selling all your stuffs gradually, save the money and when you relocate, find a good location there and start afresh. Frankly, its not gonna be easy,but then,be an obedient and submissive wife. Don't ever allow anything come before your home. Your home first!!!

I never had one