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Honestly, with the way am going with my hubby,I will say mine is a bliss. I don't know what I did to deserve such a wonderful man, he cares in and out,each time I recall our beginning, my eyes gets filled with tears,not that of sorrow but tears of joy.
I read horrible stories of failing/failed marriages on this platform everyday and that made me realize how lucky I am.
Marriage is supposed to be a bliss, the problem is that many settle with wrong partner,there is a perfect character (partner) for everybody but if you miss yours,then, yours will be a scam.
"Even if I come back to this world a million times,I will not hesitate to answer your" Mrs",I will not trade you for anything in this world, I will spend the rest of my life showing you how much I value you, Emeka Tiles,God bless you plenty for me "

Honestly am not the one traveling, my brother is,he wants to relocate,he has little change which I have advised him to invest here but he won't listen,he gas a friend over there that invited him

sonofthunder:
Why do you want to travel? do you have family over there? and what type of visa are you considering?

Travel-landers, please is it advisable for someone to apply for Canada visa at least when the lockdown is generally over and considering this pandemic period, how possible will that be. Your opinions will be highly appreciated

Relationship/marriage is all about understanding, mine gives me his phone to chat his friends sometimes and they wouldn't even notice he isn't the one chatting,same is applicable to me. Once you have nothing to hide, its no big deal. Once again, its all about understanding

the way some guys allows women to gamble with their sweat is amazing . You need wisdom guy,80k ,just like that ,

she's tired because she has been giving you free "chops" expecting you to go see her father and pay for what you have been eating but you have refused understand,that babe dey try,performing bedroom duties without payment(bride price) to her father. Op,you are the one owing her,clear your debt and stop fornicating

her husband still cares and values her that way

Graysons:
Your wife face yellow her neck come black.

Nawa

DanseMacabre:
Lol. I'm one sha...true for me.

I didn't say she didn't bleach beside I don't know her am only giving you an example. I once worked with a Chinese firm, I was accommodated so I was just working from home,for more than 4years I was there, I hardly go out like that and even when I do,it must be towards evening,even without changing cream,I became fairer than before,I have had the experience before,our skin differs.

Kingrexyl:
The bleaching is much and don't talk about poverty cause she attended a private school and her parents are well to do. when I see a bleached skin and a normal light skin it's easy to decode and obvious.

Btw I was fair in complexion then and am still, why am I not white like her now?

guy, everything no be bleaching, I have seen people who were naturally fair turn black due to situations and their colours returned normal or even better once God pick their call.
Poverty can take your true colour away from you,the girl in your class you are talking about may not even bleach and you just said she was a bit fair. Poverty and sun can take your true colour away but can vomit it back to you once your conditions changes.

oga nawa for you oooo,how could you allow a woman ride you like a kid , I don't see any thing called "love" in this your relationship, you can't control her now,what makes you think you will control her in marriage ,guy use your head oooo,how dare she report you to the police ,no atom of respect for you at all and you are here asking for advice.
You are in a relationcheat not relationship,trash the idiot asap and save your future.
And pls,don't allow someone you haven't paid her bride price to live in your house.

same way fair and handsome guys are always broke

exactly what I keep telling people, any lady you are dating especially if you are serious with her,find out her background,very important, 95% of our attitudes are as a result of our background/upbringing.
You shouldnt border about her committing suicide, you should be bordered about her stabbing you some day.
This is where you men always mess your future up. Stop being in a hurry to tell a lady you just met how much you love her,somebody you know nothing about, if you had befriended her first before confessing love to her,you would have discovered alot

You didn't give us the title of your story

That's awesome

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perfect, in as much as she not only exposed the man, but also her stupidity, I think I love it this way.

Nonsense and ingredients

Timbers:
Fvck you

Then why did you open the thread

Of all the problems you have in this world,this is the useless issue bothering your mind .

I laugh in swahili ,pot calling kettle black

Repent sister

sure

SweetCunt97:
Hope you married the Angel?

All men are not the same dear,lend him as that will enable you know him more. One huge risk I took while dating was to give my bfs account number to my company and my salary was being paid there. I later had close to 800k in his account, dude went to open a separate account with my name and also got ATM card,the money was safe with him till I needed it,(don't try that though), just to let you know that some guys are angels. Lend him but keep close eye on him

Noted sir

bonnyhope:
Good & mature advice

But please, can you change ur dp to something more decent even if you cant put ur pix

from the way you sound,your mind isn't even strong enough to fight any opposition, the moment your parents disapproves, you will back down almost immediately and if you continue this way,you will lose your choice. If you think the girl is good for you,why are you seeking for peoples opinion . All the same,be ready to fight, am Igbo and I know what it means to marry from another Igbo state not to talk of another tribe entirely so be ready to fight your way through. Before you begin the fight(I.e if any arises) for her,ensure she's worth it.

of all the things in this worldwide, its alcohol that suits your birthday for celebration, tomorrow, you come back and lament of how a guy raped you.

Many men are like that, once you agree to date them,you automatically starts playing "wife" role in their lives. I beg you to remain the way you are,don't break your rule because you want to please one unserious guy that will dump you as soon as he get what he wants. Keeping my virginity is the reason I don't have an ex and unnecessary drama that comes with heartbreaks. Am happy the owner came and paid a price for it.



But,there is something I did then that can help you,Never you demand or request any financial help from them,asking for helps,gives room for them to demand sex,I remember returning money and airtime back to my fiancé anytime he "willingly "gifts me one,it doesn't usually go down well with him though but I was determined to achieve my aim. Tell them to keep their money while you keep your body.

I so wish that God will capture your soul