Time is coming when woman,love,money,enjoyments, outings etc will become totally useless. We spend our time on irrelevant issues,the world is folding soon,covid 19 has just given us a preamble of what's to come. I fear that things may not be Normal again.


May God help us all

don't you dare enter Enugu,stay where you are with your orgasm

Please and please, if you don't understand the way a pastor operates,kindly mind your business, stop mocking or condemning men of God,God have not appointed you to judge them. We are all struggling to be righteous so we have no right to condemn them. Signs of rapture are everywhere, let's pray for his grace and prepare for what's ahead of us. I no many of us are weak but God will strengthen us. Let love lead.

You are still young, you never jam transformer before that's why you are thinking this way

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It wasn't intentional, I just finished secondary school then and dating was the last thing in my mind coupled with the way I was brought up, unlike now that some children in secondary schools are already dating,my upbringing was very strict, I dear not go close to a guy then.

Brunicekid:
You gave your husband tough time niiyen ooo.

Just thank God that he is a patient type... Some men no get chills.

some people are in hospital fighting covid-19,this fool is here worrying about pussy,receive sense bro

Whatever that statement means,all boil down to "money"&" future", women will dry your pocket and your future

I was wooed for 3years+,I was too young then, he was my first date and because of the way I was brought up,I didn't want to date anyone but after 3years,I fell for him, he's my hubby now. He went through a lot because of me,each time I remember those experiences,I respect him the more,he knows what he wanted and patiently waited for it,while he was wooing me,if he sends airtime or money to me,I return it back,this usually causes serious problems. If he call,I will pick and drop the phone while his airtime wastes, yet he refused to give up. Am happy I didn't lose him

Lucky you dear,your village people just remembered you,you don hammer

My problem now be say I get catarrh and if I sneeze, everybody shifts away. Somebody can not have catarrh in peace again

the husband is also committing adultery by marrying "wives" instead of"wife". The wife got tired of eating "ewedu soup" and decided to go out and taste"gbegiri",but unfortunately, akara come scatter for her head,what am I even saying ,in fact, both of them are sick.

you don't judge people generally just because one or two people you met are bad,check your extended family well,your cousins, nephews, nieces, even your village as a whole and you will see promiscuous ladies there.
You are also promiscuous, you met your types ,so why are you complaining

Its k by my family, other families can do their wish,there is no rule for marriage list as long as my kinsmen are concerned,if you like,give your daughter away for free,their only concern is that, on that day,you must give them their usual food and drinks(they recently included that in their constitution). Anyway, good to meet you here,am from Akpugo,you?

Phenomenal16:
..m also from nkanu west
This drinks Are too small.....

I have your time,Mr Thomas,let me clarify you, I dated him for 5years,suitors started flying in,my family started pressuring me to leave him and get married, I refused,this brought a lot of problems but he wasn't ready financially, in other not to Lose me,he gathered what he had and came to do introduction and paid my bride price, he pleaded with them to give him more time to complete all the rites,the introduction took place on 09-02-2019 and now I ask you "Mr Know it all",what's the crime in that ,anyways,am taking down my list before you commit suicide on my thread. I see no reason why you are pained

princeeze1:


I will not glorify u by throwing insults like u did, liars are easy to spot, d forum has a lot of smart pple u know. In case u do not know, nowhere in africa, not just ibo does marriage list come after bride price has been paid. Makes u story what?

For further tantrums u might as well throw, I am not available, d discerning already see d lies.

Thomas,why you dey vex on top my list na .see your head like collecting list before bride price, because you married "Ibo" lady,her culture and mine should be same abi,shift abeg.

princeeze1:

Half truths, I see. The list comes before d bride price and not d oda way round. The list is a fulfilment of what it takes customarily to marry a lady from a place based on family and it is usually fulfilled b4 d bride price is negotiated. In fact it is always checked to confirm if it is complete according to their tradition. If ur bride price has been settled as u claim, hanty this is not ur list but items requested for hosting guests at reception. Show is what it took to pay ur dowry.
Abi ur husband for no provide food and drinks for reception, bag of rice, palmy, beer na reception things hence there is no truth in it claims.

NB: I am not for exhorbitant lists, I married an ibo lady, and I think it's high time they do away with greedy exploitative lists in d name of marriage.

I have a friend that married that way,she has a son now and till date,nothing happened to them. My people(kings and high personalities made this move) to set up a team that will arrest any parents that will not let their children get married because of this outcast issue, so I don't think there is anything wrong with.

Unik3030:
the other day when a topic like this was discussed n many warned about d implications of marrying an OSU,some indomie generation children came here n were insulting everyone claiming "they are living in the past".

The reality is that there is a sharp difference between social Media n life itself.We all can come to social media n b saying shits all in the name of forming woke or civilised but there are some facts we have to face when we log out

Though it's still painful that this thing still exist in this time but at this point we all have to accept some bitter facts n learn to live with them till we finally find a solution to it

He's actually planning to bring more than he was asked to,he's planning to bring a cow instead of goat and more drinks,purely his will

Eulalia:
:
Wow.. It's similar to ours. Only a slight difference.
I'm from Abia. In addition to what you have here, ours contains,
snuff,
1 massive male goat,
Salt ( for Umu Ada)
Then 8k as bride price. Father takes 4k while mother takes 4k. That's all.

Everything on the list is what is used in preparing the food that will be used for the occasion. No extras, except your guy wants to show off by buying extra drinks and stuffs but no body will task him again.

And what will I gain from lying ,the post isn't for you

SpyAC:
U never talk true, no be only u from Enugu here okay?

I want to clear the air,for those of you who may think that marital rites in Igboland are generally the same or expensive, this is my own list,given to Hubby's family. I'm from Enugu state,Nkanu West precisely. Mind you,I'm doing traditional/wedding same day,only the things in this list, will go no where in entertaining people but we needed not kill the young man with long list because he's getting married, so my family will provide the rest of the food like anything that has to do with swallow and more drinks.
The 1st item on the list,"4 tudun of palm wine",I will post a picture of what we call "tudun" for clarification,(I dont know the English name of that long gallon).
Again, as few as the drinks on the list are, on that day,we will not serve Hubby's family any drink,we will only give them food,they said we shouldn't, that they will come with their own drinks,had it been that their drinks were among,extra 5 or 6 crates of beer and 2 or 3crates of malt would have been added.
Introduction and bride price have been done before now.

if it fails you move on,I don't know why a guy will propose publicly to someone he hasn't discussed marriage with before, each time you tell your girl"I love you",she replies with"thank you",then one day,you wake up and decides to disgrace your village people. Even she claims to love you,discuss marriage with her severally before coming out public
People date for different reasons,not just women alone,men inclusive,not everyone you are dating wants to marry you.

Who cares. many fishes in the ocean

sense is cheap and very affordable

borrow some senses bro?,very important

If its you,how will know , conji has taken his sense of reasoning

onecoder:

Hmm, you walked in recording and he never knew what was going on?

If you go close to chinese, you will understand that they easily get scared as long as they are in this country and they know that you know your right, I couldn't have done that with a Nigerian.

babyfaceafrica:



You are lucky, he didn't send hired assassins to you or killed you through diabolical means.. Never ever indulge in blackmail... It is very dangerous... Wish you d best

this boredom is really setting some people's brain upside down

Yes oooo,very frustrating, in fact,I was already doing the job,the sex was to keep my job. It was a Chinese company and they pay extra well so being sacked from there is a huge loss. I head that many girls has been sacked from there by my boss(not the overall boss though, he's a cheff I was working directly under) before my arrival.

One faithful afternoon, he called me into his room,as I was going, I set my video on,I walked in and met him naked on the bed,he made it clear to me that he doesn't need sex,all he wanted was a massage, I refused and he told me that am as good as gone,I left. The next day,I showed him the video and threatened to expose it even online, the stinking animal got scared and since then,we became best of friends.
Even when I resigned after 3years,he told the manager not to let me go that I was very hardworking, he pleaded on my behalf for my salary to be increased and it was done.

No Ex

the person that's trying to initiate the relationship should text first, after all, the other person was jejely on his/her before you showed up. You saw the person and liked him/her first so you must text first/convince the person to like you,as soon as the other person develops interest, the texting can then be balanced.