It’s possible he prayed for you to get married to someone else so you won’t accuse him of destroying your life if you didn’t meet someone else.

Sometimes a guy doesn’t want to marry you but sees it as unfair to leave you because you’ve done nothing wrong, so he prays to God to send you a good man. He’s happier than you that you got married.

People who said he was paid by Tinubu are now saying we knew he didn’t say it. It makes no difference whether he returns or not. He has no future in the APC and LP has no future.

APC does not treat returnees or decampees well. Look at FFK today, look how they treated the likes of Atiku and his G7 when they joined, they all had to run back.

What would you be telling your parents for? To help you decide if you are making the right decision or to alert them of the probability of never having kids?

It’s your decision to make, not your parents. However, if you think you aren’t doing the right thing and you need someone to talk you out of it, then talking to people who have your best interest at heart is a good idea.

Money is not everything.

A good name is better than wealth.

A lot of Yorubas supported Obi because they thought he was the best man for the job. Despite insults from their own kinsmen they stood with Obi. Election came and went and the Igbos started insulting every Yoruba person despite their mass support.

A lot of Yorubas are now beginning to ask questions, was this just about selecting the best for the job or was there more to it? From Bode George, to Doyin Okupe , to OBJ. Very soon Ayo Adebanjo will be seen with Tinubu, then Falz and Macaroni with Seyi.

If Samlarry was as bad as they say he is, most of these trolls would have been killed. He just has to make it look like herdsmen or suicide, so people can blame Tinubu.

Women are less likely to take risks with their own money. Behind most families japaing today, the wives are the ones pushing for it the most.

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I swr man. I've never seen where a single guy goes after a married woman. The married women are always the ones running after the single guys.

Facts! Most men generally tend to stay away from married women, it is the women who shows them it’s okay to come closer. Your wife is calling another man runaway husband and sending him her pictures, but the innocent man is the one kamar will deal with?

The fact is some women have come to value their husbands even more after getting mistreated by the guys they were sleeping with. A guy starts sleeping with a married woman, he starts wondering how many other guys are sleeping with her, then she loses value in his eyes. He starts giving her attitude, she then remembers she has a king at home. Win-win.

A man who doesn’t want to be cheated on should stay single. Once he decide to get married he loses that guarantee. He can only hope she doesn’t cheat or he doesn’t find out.

99% of the time when a single guy is involved with a married woman, the woman pushed for the involvement. It is married women who go about telling guys ‘just because I’m married doesn’t mean we can’t be friends’.

Married men should be at peace. Nobody is looking to take your wives. No sensible man wants to be with a cheating woman. Whether she cheats on him or with him is irrelevant. They will always return her to you.

Some people say Karma, someone else would sleep with yours. That’s implying the husband slept with other peoples wives in the past. The people who sleep with married women while single know the kind of women to avoid. They end up getting married to prayer warriors.

You should have planned it before she came. You would have told her to come bond with the baby for 4 months after which your mom would come for 4 months. That way the duration of their stay isn’t subjective.

As it stands now the only way to codedly chase her is to invite your mother to move in too.

I’m sure dating isn’t difficult for the locals in the UK. For a Nigerian in Nigeria, you meet people everywhere. A place you grew up in, you meet more people through the people you already know.

For people living abroad, what’s the countries population? How many people do you know? How many of them are single? How many of the single ones like you? How many do you like of the ones that like you? when you do the addition and subtraction, you have two girls to choose from. You have a dating pool in naija, you have a dating bath tub abroad.

Comparing both is like comparing shopping at ikotun vs shopping at eko/idumota. You get access to variety at a cheaper price at eko.

So according to you, A director earning 3m will now start earning above 6m and you think you are fighting for the poor?

A lot of women plan to get married, a lot of men stumble upon marriage. Most men are married to women they planned to just sleep with. They got in and could not come out.

Women in their 30’s don’t have time for the trial and error, they have it all planned out. Before you get their number, you have to commit, before they visit you, they have to make sure you are willing to get married in 6 months.

Desperation is one of the biggest turnoffs ever. When you are not sure whether a woman likes you or she just likes the idea of marriage. Trying to avoid ‘time wasters’ is one of the main reasons there are a lot of single women. You see a woman leave her boyfriend of two years because he’s wasting her time, 3 years later he’s getting married and she’s still single.

She would have gone for money like she had a choice. A rich guy and a broke guy wanted her but she went for the broke one? She has been single for a while now, why hasn’t she married anyone with money?

Girls who can collect money from other guys wouldn’t give you the heads up, they just do it. Just because you give her money wouldn’t stop her from collecting from other guys, nobody says no to multiple sources of income.

She’s just trying to get you furious. Tell her to give you something when she collects from the other guys.

It depends on several factors. Who did you sleep with? Was it necessary? Did you explore all other options? Just because I walk away from a marriage doesn’t mean I haven’t forgiven you. If my sanity and peace of mind depends on moving on, I’m loyal to myself first.

I guess my answer is ‘it depends’. I could put in effort to overlook it since she saved my life, but forgiveness isn’t a switch you can turn on and off at will. My decision to stay or leave would depend on how much I need her in my life.

A Northerner will win the election. PDP plan is to zone their ticket in 2027 to a Southerner so election in 2031 can be an all Northern affair. If Atiku runs again in 2027 then there’s nothing stopping Wike or Seyi Makinde from running in 2031. Nothing stops Obi from running in 2031.

This is why Atiku is trying to court Obi, so in 2031 he can then get back his SE votes. In 2027 all candidates from the major parties will be southerners.

Fury mocked AJ for been defeated by a middleweight only for the same middleweight to beat him. Hopefully now that he’s no longer undisputed he can fight with AJ.

This was how Reno use to insult Tinubu all the time, the one time he decided to not tell lies about Tinubu’s CSU education, he was insulted, maligned, threatened, until he decided to fight back and bully his bullies. Today the narrative is that he has been paid, he’s looking for appointment, he hates our people etc.

Farooq who has always insulted the president has openly acknowledged an error he made and he’s getting insulted because he should’ve stuck with the lies. When he decides to fight back, it’s because he’s a tribalist and religious bigot.

Smart girl, dumb fans.

It’s possible. It depends on what you stand to gain from the marriage that’s difficult to gain if you choose to leave.

It’s all in the replacement value of the cheater. If you are easy to replace then you will be gone. If it’s difficult to replace you then you will stay.

All the things you asked us to put into consideration is pointing towards your preference for the 38 year old. The younger woman may become established by the time she’s 38 too. These are very weird criteria to picking a future partner but I assume if a man is faced with picking one of the two, he will pick the one he likes the most 🤷🏼.

I will choose neither Rita nor Jane as they are not the only girls in the world. Even if they were, there’s an option of being single. Rita is a cheat and Jane is very comfortable with fwb situations, because how has she dated one man but has four body counts?

With a gun to my head to pick one, I choose the virgin. Women won’t tell you they’ve cheated in the past, neither will you be given an accurate body count. The only thing you can confirm in this case is the virginity.

I’m not particular about virginity, I’m more of a personality/character guy. If the perfect fit comes in a virgin package, good for me. If not, good for me too. The goal is to find someone whose value aligns with mine. Someone I can easily live with over a very long period of time.

I look at the kind of family that raised you, what are your values, how many male friends do you have, how do you dress, what kind of topics interests you, what do you post on social media, who are your friends Etc. with all these verifiable indices, I can estimate what a woman’s body count is and decide if it’s within my threshold.

Finally, what ever choice I make, I leave room for the possibility of things ending. That is a possible outcome I’m always prepared for even when things are rosy.

The people opposing the project are doing what they have to do. They aren’t call opposition for nothing. They should know however that the current president isn’t a gentleman, he will do what he wants to do.

It’s political for some people, if Nigeria becomes better, if people get some semblance of hope, how will they campaign in 2027? Nigeria is getting better but let’s remove the man who is making it better?

The president and his team will take the praise or fall for this government performance, they have the liberty to decide what is priority and what isn’t. If you want to be a decider, win an election.

20m is not so much for a wedding if the resources are there. The cost of the wedding usually wouldn’t fall on just the couple. Couples with wealthy parents can get the entire cost from their parents.

Also, the cost of a wedding is usually reflective of the kind of guests that will be there. If 30 guest give the couple #500,000 each as cash gift that’s 3/4 the cost covered. Some couples break even or profit from big weddings.

People have the right to choose what they want in a partner and stand by it. You won’t be the one living with the partner for life. Special or not, no one should determine the criteria others use in picking their partners.

If you don’t meet someone’s requirements find someone whose requirements you meet. As long as there are options, there will be choices and you can’t be everyone’s choice.

Maybe don’t date girls that are attracted to yahoo boys.

Does his wife know it’s a sham marriage? Or she thinks she’s his wife but he’s scamming her. It’s possible he doesn’t like the woman and he will divorce her once he’s settled but would you want to be with a man who will put another lady through all that? What makes you think he won’t scam you too?

Your bf of four years broke up with you, your response was ok and thank you, you didn’t realize you were almost 30. Now you find out he’s married and your age suddenly matters. You are clinging to him by granting him audience but asking why he’s clinging to you.

Let the man go and keep searching. It’s better to never marry than to be with a dishonest fella.

Thank God for cameras these days. In our days we didn’t even know we were bullying. These days big brother is always watching.

Fake. She remarried a man with the same surname as her late husband. Imagine a Yoruba man in 1923 telling his family he’s getting married to a widow and adopting her late husband’s name. He would have been sacrificed to the gods.

It’s one thing to allow the woman keep the name but to adopt it as mine. Na ment?

Looks like Asake was scared of him. Don’t worry Asake, they don’t shoot black people in Canada.