₦airaland Forum

Wealth is not a function of intelligence. There are so many stupid people with vast wealth. Have you seen Donald Trump or Governor Adeleke?

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I think prefectship positions should be by selection. It’s too early in the life of the children to introduce them to politics. The adverse effect of politics will always be there whether it’s general elections or primary school election. The losers will always be aggrieved, hate will be introduced in their young minds, some parents may start accusing the young voters of tribalism and implant same in their children’s mind.

Some kids will never want to compete anymore because they never want the humiliation of losing again. At this age they should all be getting participation trophies to encourage participation.

You had the fuel subsidy regime for decades and people still lamented. Fuel sells for #52 in Libya and $1.50 in Canada, how many of you will prefer to move to Libya instead of Canada?

People aren’t looking to buy cheap fuel, they are looking for a quality life. To be able to afford fuel at the original price. All past president wanted subsidy removed but didn’t want to deal with the outcome. All current leaders agreed to remove subsidy if they become president. Nobody is coming to return subsidy.

Subsidy is supposed to be for poor people. If there was a way the rich would buy at the regular price while the poor buys at subsidized price then it would make a little bit of sense. The government can’t keep borrowing to pay chief priest to drive in a convoy and power generator for houses nobody lives in.

He likes you but isn’t ready to marry now and doesn’t have an immediate plan to. What you are doing is trying to impose your timeline on him. Understand that he has plans for his life that doesn’t include a family at the moment.

Don’t mistake his not wanting to marry now for not wanting to marry you. You can wait it out for when he’s ready or you could leave. Most women would advise you to keep him while exploring other options.

It is my personal conviction that if you leave someone because they aren’t ready to settle down, you are more interested in settling down than in the person. While there’s nothing wrong with that, you are allowed to prioritize, but so is he.

Marriage that will end, will end, whether in naija or abroad. The mindset you use in doing something is what matters. If going abroad aligns with your goals and staying with your family does too, then do it.

Don’t plan your life on what a woman will or won’t do. Sort yourself. Hope for the best but be prepared for the not so good outcome. If your marriage ends, how easily can you transition to the single life? Will you go broke because you decided to be odogwu provider? Do you know your rights? do you know the laws and abide by it? Etc. Just do not lose your individuality to marriage.

Does your husband want miss Kelly to leave him? No be by beg o. Even if she leaves him, will he return to you?

Bobrisky was unjustly locked up. His major source of income is social media and he wasn’t able to earn while locked up. Kind hearted people donated to him. What’s the big deal?

Don jazzy is very generous, he has given money to a lot of strangers on social media, why is Bob different? The more successful you get, the more you learn acceptance. I’m sure in all of Don Jazzy’s business dealings he has met gay music executives. Would he turn down a deal because of their sexuality?

You hate gays but will kill to live in USA or Canada where they are accepted. Hypocrisy.

I’m happy a lot of women are saying their minds publicly these days. If a man says this about a woman he will be termed sexist and misogynistic. It’s always good to hear it from the horses mouth.

In the 80’s most men got married in their early 20’s. In the 90’s, most men got married in their mid 20’s. In the early 2000’s, late 20’s to 30’s. Today, mid 30’s to late 30’s is fashionable. By the 2040’s men will be ready in their 50’s.

Men generally will put marriage off until they can’t anymore. The man has no concern about never finding a partner because they grow old. A lot of women say they prefer older men today. Meaning a man can enjoy his youth as a single and still get something good in old age. Talk about eating your cake and having it.

Sometimes to not be responsible is a good thing. If someone dies and they say you are not responsible, that’s a very good thing. Some married folks are only responsible for the dilapidation of their partners mental health.

True love isn’t scarce, it simply does not exist. Everyone loves for what they stand to gain from you.

Extremely rich is subjective. Someone can feel extremely rich getting $5000, others could need $50m to feel the same.

All in all, unless there’s an impediment stopping one from fulfilling their goals, getting riches is more practical than finding true love in a romantic relationship. You can get it from babies, toddlers and pets.

Whether fake or real, this happens in a lot of relationships. People use the words ‘it’s over’ loosely to when things do not go their way.

The plan is to get their partner to apologize and make amends to a behaviour. Then ego sets in on both side and no one is willing to yield. Some will go ahead to delete their partners contact so they won’t be the first to reach out, but patiently awaiting the other persons call or text.

As I grow, I have realized the best way to end a relationship is amicably. Have a discussion. Ending things properly gives the needed closure. Men, do not leave it up to the woman to initiate these discussions, lead it. Take charge. In my experience, women are always willing to talk if the man leads it. It is men who like to play hard ball.

If that were the case, every married person would be prosperous. You do the math.

Marriage can be instrumental in bringing prosperity e.g. In a case where there’s double income, it can help reduce the couple individual expense thereby freeing up cash to spend on other things like investments or assets.

In other cases it could add to your burden and make you poorer e.g. only one partner works or they both work but only one spends etc. Either way there’s no spiritual connection of marriage to prosperity.

I remember a couple of years ago, I had this chick who liked me and wanted to date. I didn’t want to be in a distant relationship so I kept shutting her request down.

One time she visited for a week and some days and when she returned her love bombing increased. As usual I continued insisting I didn’t want to be in a distant relationship. She got mad and started telling me how she’s a faithful lover, she doesn’t like anyone but me, before she visited, she had been celibate for 2 years plus.

She sounded so believable, she forgot she loved me so much she gave me her password to look at her pictures. While I was not mad she was doing what she was doing, I was mad she was lying about it.

I personally do not trust anything that comes out of a girls mouth about her sex life, especially if she likes me. Women always have a friend they tell just about anything. Find the friend and all the secret is in their conversation.

Very important when you are in a long distance relationship. A lot of people talk about insecurities and trust when discussions about snooping comes up. Like trusting one’s partner will deter them from cheating.

Snooping will help you discover the truth so you can act accordingly. Some of you like being comforted with lies instead of being confronted with the truth. I hope a time never comes when I will be so afraid to catch a partner, I will choose to live in fools paradise.

Imagine putting in effort to love a woman who is warming the beds of guys who don’t put in 10% of the work you do. The people who talk about trust the most are the biggest cheaters.

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Attracting women isn’t really a function of what you do but who you are. Someone could tell you this is what I do, then you try it and it doesn’t yield the same result.

The guys who attract females have some natural features or abilities that can’t be thought. Looks, height, humour, class, demure, colour, nice speaking/singing voice, talent, genius etc.

Outside of all these, the only way you can attract women is by being successful.

I wonder who still knacks raw in SA where one in every two person is a carrier.

Women complain about men slut shaming them when there’s an argument, yet, you can’t see two women fight without one or both of them making an Ashewo reference.

Even a sitting first lady searched around for insults to a widowed former ambassador and the first thing that came to mind was ‘Ashewo’.

If a man had said half the stuff Ruthie said, they will gang up forming women power and calling for his disqualification.

1. She’s trying to put herself back out there.

2. she’s planning to post things she doesn’t want him to see

3. she doesn’t want to see the things he’s posting.

She blocked her mother’s slap? how dare she try to kill her mother?

She’s 37, at the time GEJ left office she was 27, why didn’t anybody marry her during ‘good government’?

How many married women today are thanking the government for providing for their husbands? How many employed people are thanking the government for having a job?

When you succeed you thank yourself for being smart, you thank your mother for her prayers, you thank your pastors for their prophesy. When you fail, it’s very convenient to blame it on the government. You should set your mother ablaze for not praying enough, kill your pastors for not prophesying, then jump off a building for being a dumbo.

It depends on your investment goals. What do you plan to achieve? Capital preservation or growth? Remove the urgency to invest right now as that is a recipe for failure. If you are afraid of spending the money, keep it with someone you trust until you are ready to invest.

Look into keeping your money in a high yield savings account. Like a cooperative society or banks that offers good interest rates, treasury bills etc. These are safe and guarantees return. Whatever you do, don’t put all your money in at once.

Invest on improving the skill you have or learn a different skill. Learn trading of goods like power bank, solar panels etc. or services like photography, tailoring, makeup, hair etc. Find something you think you can succeed in, something in tune with your personality and passion. Leave learning tech alone for now. You need a skill that guarantees immediate return for your sustainability.

Even as governor El Rufai couldn’t deliver his state for the APC. Atiku has been rejected so many times, if he chooses to run again, the crisis in PDP in 2023 will be child’s play to what’s coming. If there’s someone who hates PDP more than Tinubu, it’s Buhari.

The North is just as divided as the south. People misconstrued Buhari’s popularity in the north with ‘the north will always vote the north’.

These labour people will eventually settle for what the government offered about 2 months ago. Let’s hope the FG pays the arrears.

Daddy dearest needs to stop bailing his son out any time there’s a problem with a baby mother. Let him handle his business. Sophia is asking for heaven and earth because she’s negotiating with a billionaire.

Davido needs to sit with his baby mother to iron out the issues like grownups. If Sophia is being unreasonable he should let her be. The 17 million naira (5m rent + 1m upkeep) he’s proposing should be put in a trust for when the daughter turns 21.

There’s no law against DNA test so why are looking to make it a law? It doesn’t have to be mandatory either, as long as it isn’t illegal. The law can’t force common sense on people, it has to accommodate people without sense too.

Some people don’t want to know if they are the real fathers, some people won’t go to the hospital no matter how sick they get, they are afraid of what the test will reveal. The law can’t compel anyone who has chosen to find bliss in ignorance.

Lucky represented Naija well. Kudos to him.

Nobody was made for one person. Chatting is a two way street. For a man to chat with a woman, she must be chatting back. Men are not looking for women no other man want, we are looking for women who don’t want other men.

A woman not created for one man is the woke way to call a cheat. No woman was created for one man, being with one man is totally by one’s effort. The willingness to put in the effort is shaped by circumstances like upbringing, values, religion and repercussions etc.

She’s asexual or she isn’t attracted to the guy. A woman who likes a guy cannot deny him sex, she would be denying herself sex.

If a woman who use to enjoy sex with you suddenly no longer wants sex, it’s most likely she’s fallen out of love with you.

1. The tax system - I will introduce a luxury tax. You will pay a luxury tax on your third house, third car, third child etc. Nobody needs to own more than two of anything. Taxes will be reduced for businesses that employ over 100 people.

2. Basic education - The knowledge of the mind would be introduced to primary schools. Children would be thought how to think, what to think about etc. The curriculum would also be adjusted to enable children solve real life problems.

3. Beautification - Packaging is everything. The more appealing the package, the higher the value. We should be able to plan our cities. Have business districts, residential areas, house plans should get approval before building commences. You can’t build a 2 bed bungalow in a duplex area, you can’t move in to an uncompleted building etc.

4. The mindset of Nigerians - Nigerians want to see the end result of change but don’t want to go through the process of change. It is because of this mindset that we have leaders who aren’t willing to make changes. They do their eight years and leave the problem for the next president. See when Fashola was seizing bikes in Lagos, they said his govt was elitist. Sanwo was impounding vehicles driving one way, they said he was heartless. We get too comfortable with the status quo. The world is changing everyday while Nigerians are talking about how much rice was in 2014.

Bonus: I will invest heavily in entertainment, sport & Tourism. Those have the potentials to make the country a lot of money.

Letting go is the hardest. You doubt yourself, you hope things will get better, you calculate the sunk cost then eventually determine to cut your losses.

Moving on is the next hardest. You try to run back, you miss the roller coaster and for sometime you aren’t yourself without whoever or whatever you are moving on from.

starting afresh is the easiest. It comes naturally after the first two processes.