This is impressive. If they pull this off they get an A in my book. That punishment part is very necessary, knowing our penchant to cut corners.

One bill at a time. Nigeria will gradually measure up to saner climes. Tinubu Eku ise.

The number of visits does not translate to the number of people who visited it. Now you know porn sites gets a lot of visits, someone should be thinking of creating a Nigerian porn site, a Nigerian music streaming site etc. but trust Nigerians to murmur and grumble for sometime, then move on till a list is released next year.

Instead of advising married people not to cheat, we need to start advising cheats to not get married.

There are levels to success. A student with good grades is successful and bound to attract ladies in his cycle. A corp member who happens to serve in a good organization is successful and will get women on his level.

You can have success with women through your looks, height, intelligence, personality etc. I had my first girlfriend at 13 when all I had was sportin waves, a face towel and #70 lunch money.

Money only makes it easier when you already know how to get girls.

I understand if this was for students. How do you tell someone coming to work and settle not to bring his/her family?

Nigeria can benefit from reverse Japa. The reason people leave Naija is because of the comparative economic advantage of these foreign countries. We have the comparative cost advantage.

A Nigeria doctor spends about 3m naira to get his degree, his US counterpart spends about $300,000 to get same degree. They both find themselves in the US earning equal pay.

Our FG should put out a global advert urging foreigners to come study in Nigeria as it is cheaper, the stats are there. Would you rather be $300,000 in debt or get the equivalent degree for $20,000? by the time nobody wants to study in the US anymore, they will be the one looking to stop Japa.

There’s a $6 plan in Canada. It just comes with ads so people prefer the $13 one.

She say he’s alone but she has an amazing guy. Even her amazing guy wishes to be alone.

1. Some men have learnt of ways to please a woman from porn. Pleasing your woman is an ego boost.

2. Some men have been delivered from bad relationships because there is an option for sexual gratification.

3. Some men have been able to manage scarce resources because porn has deterred them from spending for sex.

4. Talking about people paying money for only fans, you have to have money to be able to afford only fans. Are you saying the people who waste their energies on masturbation still have the ability to be productive members of society?

5.If there was no porn, people will still masturbate. Before the wide spread of internet in Nigeria, people were masturbating to erotic books or the dvd poster of their favourite actress/actor.

6. Porn and masturbation are similar to activities like watching movies, music, sports etc. Eventually some people outgrow them, some don’t. These are leisure activities that wanes with responsibility and maturity in most people.

7. Unless you get to the point where you refuse to go to work just so you can watch porn and masturbate, there’s nothing wrong with you.

8. Your argument about porn destroying life is like saying garri destroys life. People have stopped working hard to better their lives because garri is cheap and they can afford it. I can say garri is a life saver, people are alive today because they can afford garri. It’s all perspective.

If the man has a job, he just lost it. If he has a business, sales will dwindle. Even his co-racists won’t be able to shield him from the backlash. Some thoughts are better kept in the head.

Appears to me a black man slept with his wife in the past.

The woman who isn’t putting the blames on her husband knows what she’s doing. She probably expected her husband would remarry, she didn’t think her friend coveted her husband.

She probably has flashbacks to how they both gossiped and insulted the man, how bestie adviced her to dump her husband.etc. Maybe the bestie called the man useless like the females are doing on this thread and ended up marrying the useless man like most of them would.

You can’t tell the offended how and to whom to direct her anger.

Don’t send her t-fare. You can give her money when she’s leaving if you like but giving her money to come is an indicator that she doesn’t want to see you like you want to see her. As a matter of fact, for the first visit I suggest you don’t give her any money and never make giving her regular, that just fuels entitlement.

A woman can give herself orgasm na. Plus there are more men willing to give orgasm than there are men willing to give money. Even if a woman has her own money, there’s nothing like too much money. I reckon women will go for the one who offers scarce resources.

Nobody can throw you out of a house you pay for. The police may advise that you leave until the situation is calmer but you can’t be ejected as long as your name is on the lease. The men who leave either want to leave, don’t know their rights, or are avoiding the police because they are illegals.

Until the court rules on who should keep the house or the kids, no gree for anybody.

I will rather work through the nap break and leave early. If there’s a one hour nap break, I will prefer to work through it then leave one hour earlier than I was supposed to. I can’t sleep unless I’m on a bed. I have travelled for 19hours and had my eyes opened the entire time.

What happens when it’s wake up time but my body says no? The thought of having to wake in one hour wouldn’t even let me sleep.

If painment was a person.

When a woman cums quick does she apologize? What you have is what you gave, try again another time.

A tribe called Judah

A girl who is playing hard to get will show you she wants you. She may want you to ask her out properly or get to know you for a longer period of time before she agrees to a relationship but in all of that she tells you she likes you and shows it.

A girl who doesn’t want you will show it. Even if she keeps you for certain benefits, she will talk to other guys, you won’t be a priority, you will do all the communication and make all the moves to meet up.

The difference is in the treatment.

Cheating - I’m sexually (not romantically) attracted to women who want to cheat on their men with me. Also woke and liberal women, the kind you could meet today and have them visit next day. They save time and stress.

Wait for her to come beg just like she’s waiting on you to come beg. In that time of waiting you will both forget yourselves. 1-2 years from now and nobody has broken the silence you will both assume the other party already moved on.

She will probably keep the kids away from you as a bargaining chip. Depending on the kind of guy you are, you can fight to see your kids and be in their lives or you can just go have other kids.

You can just tell the kind of person she is.

Most successful men like to chase. The girls in his church most likely throw themselves at him and present themselves as fan girls. Most of the girls in his church will throw themselves at Nat Bassey, Frank Edwards or even lil kesh.

It is not just her dance video that attracted him to her, it is the rest of her post. He went through the other posts, looked at her comments, the people who comment on her posts, her response to them, the people she follow , her pictures, the number of posts she has etc.

No one wants a girl who fights on instablog all day, have 15k followers, participate in every challenge, dances to Meghan the stallion WAP and follows Tonto and Bobrisky.

The questions you were asking wasn’t bad news related. Besides you should have an idea of how much reach a company has before you decide to advertise with them. What if he gave you fake numbers? how would you have verified?

If she was white haters will say it’s for green card.

This is one of the consequences of unemployment. See able bodied men assembled during working hours to fool themselves. Is there a law against indecent dressing? If there is, why not get the authorities to come pick her up? How many men have been harassed for going out with button open or wearing singlets?

We complained when SARS were arresting and harassing people based on mode of dressing then perpetrate and applaud the same thing when it suits us.

I hope the girl knows someone that knows someone. When the guy is found somewhere we will all blame Fulani herdsmen not knowing his inability to mind his business or unemployment is what got him there.

I first wanted to be like my dad, a banker. Then I wanted to be a car dealer like one of our rich neighbors, then I wanted to be a pilot like another neighbor, then a mechanical engineer like one of my dad’s friends.

Passion never dictated what I wanted to be. I changed my mind as soon as I saw someone richer. I guess I just wanted to be well off. I now work in finance.

Unless you plan to lecture there’s no need for the LLM. It’s not likely to improve your prospects in the job market. Instead of paying tuition to keep yourself busy why not learn skills that can help you earn almost immediately? You can decide to pay for your LLM yourself.

Unless of course your parents aren’t burdened with the cost, then going back to school beats sitting idle.

It’s funny when people talk about Naija guys liking white women. You haven’t met the Jamaicans. You go to a Jamaican concert/party in Canada, if 50 guys come in with a girl, 44 would have come in with white girls. If there are 60 girls at the party only about 8 would be black and about 5 would come alone or as a girl group.

Jamaican guys and white girls are inseparable.

African restaurants don’t get patronage like the Chinese ones. Asides from Chinese people, who by the way have a larger population than Nigerians, a whole lot of other nationalities eat chinese unlike Naija meals.

These Nigerian restaurants price their meals to cover their fixed & overhead costs. They pay for rent, electricity, water, salary etc whether they make sales or not. Just like it’s costlier to eat Chinese or French in naija than it is to eat Jollof or amala.

Your depression is self caused. You like being depressed subconsciously.

E reach to clarify say na from personal experience. Internet people want you to have same experience as them or have non at all.