The comment section is a clear case of why many Nigerians are unemployable.

When a woman has options you will know. She will treat you like one. The signs are different for different people but the bottom line is that she changes.

If you can’t decipher these changes then you deserve to be cheated on for not knowing your wife.

Whether it’s good or bad will depend on individual situation.

Disadvantages
It’s frowned upon in some society, culture and religion

When you live with someone, leaving them becomes difficult even if it’s in your best interest. Cohabitation can be a trap.

Advantages
Compatibility check - There are a lot of things you can’t know about someone until you live with them. Spending the weekend isn’t the same.

Ease on finance - When both individuals contribute, the cost of living is reduced for both, unlike if they live alone.

Convenience - Some people can’t afford to live alone so they end up sharing living space with strangers. Having roommates can be inconveniencing, it can be easier to be roommates with your partner.

Trap - it can be an advantage if you plan to trap someone, a disadvantage if you don’t want to be trapped.

Anytime a man gets in a relationship with that age gap, there’s controversy too. Timini and his gf generated a lot of controversy. Ned and Regina, Rudeboy Paul Okoye etc.

As a matter of fact older women dating younger guys get fewer public backlash. Tiwa n wiz, Davido n Sophia, Uche Ogbodo n her man, Nkechi Blessing etc.

So unless your equality means women should be given a pass for what men gets condemned for, you will endure the backlash and enjoy your relationship. No crime has been committed.

I have seen promiscuous mutilated women. The main reason why FGM was practiced in the past was for hygiene and aesthetics. The clitoris looked like a penis and women didn’t want it, they also felt the vagina was easier to clean without it.

As people began to clamour for an end to FGM, the people who were handed down this practice came up with several reasons to uphold it, some of them were women who didn’t undergo FGM would die young, would become promiscuous, would have difficulty having children etc.

Contrary to misconceptions, men did not introduce FGM to control women, women at the time asked to be mutilated, the mutilation was consented to by themselves or their mothers, as it was the norm. The persons who handled the cutting were usually women too.

100 years from now women can say men coerced them to do butt surgeries so they can die young or have health challenges in old age.

Leaders should learn to stay away from sex with the people they lead. It’s never worth it. When in leadership your female followers will chase you, seduce you, tempt you, just make up your mind not to fall.

The same thing happened with TB Joshua, once your disciples find out they aren’t the only one you were deceiving, the accusations starts coming. If four to five people accuses you, the bias to believe them is there; by the public and the judges.

Apostle that is nacking Nollywood actresses knows what he’s doing.

It’s not like you told them you were single or searching. Why are they suggesting that you leave your girlfriend? You need to stand on business like a man, it’s women they choose partners for.

You can as well get to know the other lady so that at least you have options. That’s what women will do. Shop around and pick the best.

Men your age are mostly married, the unmarried ones don’t want marriage or they don’t want it with their age mates or someone your age.

Younger guys know you won’t pressure them for marriage so they just want to be helping you in the oza room. Most of them will disappear when they hit once or twice.

The man’s wife is talking to her ex so he’s getting revenge by talking to his ex, you sef find your ex. If you don’t have an ex, let your wife go marry someone else and become one of the exes she talks to. Chikena yowa!

Two men in the video. One is shaken and heartbroken, the other is walking shoulder high after getting his balls drained. You decide which of the men you want to be, the smart fella or the fart smeller.

Waiting for the ‘haram’ commenters.

When you get caught, they will treat you like you stole the entire money anyways. The money isn’t yours, so even if they don’t give you anything as reward it shouldn’t bother you. You kidnap someone’s money and you are asking for ransom.

What I will do? If there’s a chance I could get caught, I will return the money. If I’m sure I won’t get caught, I will leave the money somewhere for an extended period of time. If nobody reaches out after 2 years then it’s mine.

Welcome back Ote$$

Whenever a woman cheats she finds a way to blame the man. If she isn’t cheating because he’s busy, she’s cheating because he’s too available, if it’s not because he’s rude, it’s because he’s too nice.

One day women will learn to open up on how they can be attracted to others without blaming their partners. Until then, don’t alter your life because you think it will keep a woman from cheating. You will lose yourself and she will still cheat.

Priorities.

Ever heard of family planning? Sighting a condom is not proof of adultery.

Just like men, women want to be single too. The compulsion to marry only arises from the need to have children before they can’t anymore plus the need to show people that they can get someone to marry them. Once those needs are met then it’s good riddance.

If men were the ones with biological clocks, women will charge men for marriage. We will have marriage workers like we have sex workers today. 2 million per year. Money for hand, ring for finger.

People vote according to the options they have. Sometimes they have no choice than to vote the least worst person.

The day I find out is the last time I will talk to her. We will go back to how it use to be before we met. Not enemies, just strangers.

The only thing you are allowed to feel is pity for the guy who married her. You got off easily, he wouldn’t.

1. When you love someone you won’t cheat - Cheating and love are two separate things and they can co-exist.

2. You need love to be married - Just like I don’t have to love my job to show up and do good at it. I don’t need to love someone to be a good husband.

3. Romantic relationships are born out of love - They are born out of desire and desire diminishes if expectations are not met.

4. Love don’t cost a thing - Leemaaoo.

More like things we do for clout.

Who says the girl is waiting? She probably just hasn’t seen anyone else. The guy should have told her to get married if someone else comes around. That way she will be waiting on her own accord and he won’t be held liable for wasting her time if marriage doesn’t happen eventually.

These ones are blackmailers. They want money to keep it secret or they are scorned the celebrity stopped talking to them. They like to lie that they are trying to warn others but na wash.

Same day by gf. Unless I tell her I’m going to be busy for some time. 2hrs can’t pass without checking up on ourselves.

If I was single, then next day when I don’t show up at work without notice and I’m unreachable. They will try to reach out to my emergency contact and if I don’t respond to calls or text they will inform the police.

The same Phyna insulted Groovy, belittled him by calling him a mummy’s boy. Talked down on him on live TV at their reunion. Insulted several other housemates on the show.

A simple I don’t know you has become ‘talking down on women’. Davido has talked down on Samklef, Dammy krane, Amaju and so many other men this year alone. It’s not a female and male thing. You got dealt the hand you deal others. Take the L miss.

She started the issue with Davido. Davido liked a post and then she commented asking him why he’s hating on her. We all know to be a hater means the person you hate on is better than you. Davido’s response was even very mild. Next time you feel the need to call someone out publicly, understand there may be a counter.

Six figures is anything from #100,000. That’s why babies don’t sleep at night. They are always ready to make it.

The bible didn’t tell men to pee standing up and women to pee sitting down. He looks like a potential adulterous daddy G.O.

One coke, one fanta. They look good together. Only a man in charge can pull off such a feat.

He’s not agreeing to the break up na. They are both taking the no gree for anybody slogan quite literally.

This man a couple of years ago said he wanted to take a married woman on vacation to Paris. He said all interested women should leave a comment. No one knows what woman won or if his promise was fulfilled but we do know a lot of homes were in turmoil at the time.

This here is why people bleach.