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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: How Long Should You wait before you Follow Up After A Job Interview? by eazzzy1(m): 2:05pm On Feb 03, 2023
I don’t believe reaching out changes anything. If they want you for the job they will call you. They ask everybody they interview about their availability to start. Just keep on applying for jobs until you get an offer.

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Family / Re: Am I Being Manipulated? Is Her Anger Justified? by eazzzy1(m): 3:25pm On Jan 21, 2023
Ask her what she wants you to do? Ask her if her definition of man up means to allow your sister sleep in the street or remain in an abusive relationship because she thinks she has no where to go. You would think as a lady she would be more empathetic.

She’s right, you need to man up, tell her you are not up for such trash discussions ever again. If she’s not comfortable that you care about the well-being of your family, tell her where to go and how to get there.

Her intentions may be genuine, she just needs a crash course on empathy and you need one on firmness.

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Family / Re: Can Child Support Amount Be Included In Prenup For Future Sake by eazzzy1(m): 4:07pm On Jan 15, 2023
The court will be the ultimate decider of what is paid in alimony and child support not a prenup. The court can decide the prenuptial agreement is unfair to one party.

You wouldn’t have to pay alimony unless your wife doesn’t work, or there’s a huge disparity in your incomes. With child support, as long as you get joint custody, you wouldn’t have to pay much or pay at all, the court may give you certain financial roles in the children lives but you won’t have to pay your wife anything.

If you don’t want to pay alimony or child support, asides having a prenup, make sure you have a working wife who makes money on the same level as you do. If you are the typical Naija man who likes to be the sole provider, then the court will say she’s accustomed to the lifestyle, now you are a provider to her and her new man until she decides to remarry.

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Romance / Re: What My Eyes Saw This Evening. FEAR WOMEN!! by eazzzy1(m): 7:54pm On Jan 14, 2023
Anyone who ‘invests’ all of their money in crypto deserves to be left though. That’s a level of stupid no stupid person should aspire to.
Romance / Re: Six Habits Men Hate About Women by eazzzy1(m): 4:40am On Jan 03, 2023
Cheating should come first and last on the list.

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Celebrities / Re: See What Lagos Big Girl Chioma Good Hair Wore Publicly (pics) by eazzzy1(m): 8:06am On Jan 02, 2023
She should have worn her socks on her boots too.

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Romance / Re: Relationship Advice Needed Pls by eazzzy1(m): 4:05am On Dec 29, 2022
Are you sure she’s saying the truth about the other guy? She doesn’t like him, yet she planned to visit him and he turned down the offer. Looks like the guy doesn’t like her or he’s tired of her.

Once he discovers she has a boyfriend and he isn’t obligated to marry her again, he will suddenly start liking her for something casual. Just be careful, most women usually fall back to ‘unserious’ men as soon as they get something serious.
Celebrities / Re: Beautiful Ladies Rush To Snap Selfies With Yul Edochie (Pics/Video) by eazzzy1(m): 1:47pm On Dec 27, 2022
It will shock you to know these are some of the women insulting him on social media, they would not mind being his third wife.

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Health / Re: Orgasms Can Trigger Cardiac Arrest Or Stroke - Medical Doctor by eazzzy1(m): 8:00pm On Dec 26, 2022
There’s no better way to die than dying from enjoyment.
Celebrities / Re: Random Question For Nairalanders (what Does This Mean?) by eazzzy1(m): 7:58pm On Dec 26, 2022
1 million in the currency you earn and spend in makes you a millionaire. According to the world bank, to be categorized as wealthy, you would have a net worth of at least 1.8m USD.
Romance / Re: Paul Okoye And Basketmouth's Divorce: One Reason Why It Happened. by eazzzy1(m): 3:20am On Dec 26, 2022
How are you sure their wives knew what they made? especially since their earnings are variable. It would be tough to estimate what an artiste earns.

Some countries of the world operates on a household income principle. So when you file your taxes at the end of the year, your earnings would get exposed to your partner.

I think one of the major causes of divorce today asides infidelity is that most people aren’t appreciative of their partners. Everyone thinks they can do better and they deserve better. So people split to prove a point. Some people do better, most don’t.

Divorce isn’t all bad, most times it’s a learning curve. Most people become better in their next union, most people make better decisions in selecting their next partner too.

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Celebrities / Re: 5 Untold Lessons To Learn From Basketmouth Failed Marriage by eazzzy1(m): 5:21am On Dec 25, 2022
The only lessons to be learnt are;

1) If you don’t want a divorce, don’t get married.

2) if you get married, prepare to get a divorce.

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Car Talk / Re: NAICOM Increases Third Party Motor Insurance By 200% To ₦‎15,000 by eazzzy1(m): 4:41am On Dec 25, 2022
With higher premiums, insurance companies will earn more and then pay more taxes, the taxes from these companies would be used to subsidize the cost of public transport for the poor.

It may be inconvenient but these premiums and taxes are very necessary, we say we want a working society, these minor inconveniences are the prices we have to pay to achieve one.

I would like to see increased taxes and duties on importation of luxury goods, increase taxes for car owners, home owners, high income earners etc. we must take from the rich for benefit of the poor. We can’t continue to depend on oil revenues if we must progress as a country.

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Romance / Re: Are Black People Attractive To White People Abroad? by eazzzy1(m): 4:05am On Dec 25, 2022
About 10% of white women are attracted to and date only black men. About 30% of white women would date anyone, no preference at all, as long as the chemistry is there. The remaining 60% are only attracted to men from their race, they will go for a Brad with bald head and pot belly over a Denzel Washington.

Money, looks and other superficial attributes aren’t important factors in getting with most white girls. White people in general aren’t as money crazy as Nigerians.

It’s not always about racism. My choice of a life partner has always been someone from my race, nationality and tribe. Not out of racism, prejudice or tribalism. Just preference.

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Family / Re: Give Ur Parents A Gift This Christmas. Do Less With Girl Friends. by eazzzy1(m): 3:47pm On Dec 22, 2022
Why should there be a comparison? If I gave my girlfriend a $900 wristwatch, translated to about 486k and gave my mom 300k, you would consider it giving my gf more, but would my mom be happier with a Movado or would she prefer the 300k?

Keep in mind I gave my mom money every month of the year. My girl play a strategic role in my life, appreciating her once a while isn’t a slight on my mother. Plus my girl will give me something in return, my mom wont.

Unsolicited advise rejected!!!
Romance / Re: How Would You Deal With This Situation With A 'friend' And Housemate by eazzzy1(m): 3:45pm On Nov 12, 2022
OkwuEziokwu:


Prior to this, I was naive and told the guy everything. They all visited and I introduced them. I don't care who she likes. I rejected her. My qualms is with my "friend"/housemate.

With the more serious girl, introduced them as well because I want a strong core of friends. The number exchange was not an issue. His sister knows her. Omo, I don reason am and don follow my guys yarn. They all said it's strange and that I should be careful.

Well, you know your friend way better than I do. All the best with however you decide to handle it.
Romance / Re: How Would You Deal With This Situation With A 'friend' And Housemate by eazzzy1(m): 2:27pm On Nov 12, 2022
OkwuEziokwu:


The girl told me. This guy has shown dodgy behaviour before. Approaching him will show my hand don't you think?

The one about the bed, perhaps the girl is playing a game. However, as per my guy, he suppose insist sey e no fit happen, or even tell me wetin happen first.

I don’t think you would be playing your hands, I think you would be giving a friend the benefit of the doubt.

It is possible these girls downplayed their relationship with you to your friend. A woman would relegate her man to ‘nothing serious’ just to get with someone she likes. Maybe she told him you were nothing serious, you wouldn’t know until you talk to him.

How did he get the girl and her sister’s numbers in the first place? This is why I don’t like having any form of relationship with my friends girls. Asides regular greetings and small talks when we see, all these over familiarity usually doesn’t end well.

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Romance / Re: I Prefer A Long Term Partner To A Husband by eazzzy1(m): 1:04pm On Nov 12, 2022
What informed your preference? I would think someone who chooses not to marry would want such because they would want the freedom that comes with being single.

Having a live-in partner would not be any different from a marriage, in some countries it is in fact a form of marriage.
Romance / Re: How Would You Deal With This Situation With A 'friend' And Housemate by eazzzy1(m): 12:30pm On Nov 12, 2022
Why not confront him? How did you find out he reached out to the first girl? From the girl right? She told her story, why not hear his? It could be your girls throwing themselves at him and he could be turning them down.

You saw him sleeping on the couch, you don’t know if the girl went to his room and tried to get cozy so he fled. I wouldn’t kill a long term friendship over some assumptions. Talk to him first.

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Romance / Re: Pls Who Has Successfully Get Ways To Spy On Her Wife Whatsapp B4 by eazzzy1(m): 11:46am On Nov 06, 2022
Why not just ask for her pin? If she doesn’t give it to you that’s the only confirmation you need. I can’t be in a relationship where phones are off limits, if we can’t have access to each other’s phones we are just friends with benefits.

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Romance / Re: My say On Women's Late Marriage Issues by eazzzy1(m): 12:34pm On Oct 16, 2022
Sweetplum:

She said her story. Are you her?
Stop this.

I’m not quite understanding you, what exactly should I stop? she said her story to get opinions, to start a conversation right? You are not the OP, let her say I have said anything offensive and I would apologize for it.

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Romance / Re: My say On Women's Late Marriage Issues by eazzzy1(m): 12:23pm On Oct 16, 2022
Sweetplum:

See generalization. The lady cake out plain to explain herself. Men like you love lies

Love lies? How so? People date from within their circle, you can only choose from what’s available to you. If she has never liked someone who likes her, who’s she going to like?

There’s a difference between not wanting to date because you have other priorities and not liking anybody that has shown interest.

Although you are right on the generalization bit, I would think a 23 year old final year student would be getting a large number of “chykers” to not find anyone good enough, but this may not be her reality.

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Romance / Re: My say On Women's Late Marriage Issues by eazzzy1(m): 12:04pm On Oct 16, 2022
I don’t agree with the narrative that a woman not been married at a certain age is due to one fault or another, but as a final year student, if you haven’t met anybody you like or the someone you like never approached you then there’s a bit of a problem. You are picky, you are shooting your shots too high.

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Family / Re: The Get-rich-quick Syndrome by eazzzy1(m): 5:48am On Oct 15, 2022
The get rich quick syndrome is usually common with high power distance societies like Nigeria. A society where the differences between the quality of life of the rich vs the poor is just abysmal.

In a country like Canada where a CEO and a cleaner can drive the same cars, have their kids in the same schools, live in the same neighborhood etc. the get rich syndrome isn’t as compounded.

My mentor would say, whenever you see a rot, ask yourself how did I contribute to it? The tweeter is probably a nairalander calling boys broke, she probably treats sales girls and madams differently, she probably only respond to the dms of guys who look rich etc. Everyone is trying to come up to be treated better.
Romance / Re: How Can I Help Him To Stop Womanizing ? by eazzzy1(m): 5:39am On Oct 11, 2022
That’s a code for telling you he wants to sleep with you. No man thinks he needs help from womanizing except a married man who gets caught.

He’s either indirectly telling you he wouldn’t be womanizing if he had a girl like you in his life or he’s indirectly telling you a lot of girls like him and you would too. Looks like a tactic I would have used some ten years ago.

Except you are a therapist, the only way you can be of help is to be DTF.

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Romance / Re: Is There A Law That Says Guys Should Do The Asking In Every Situation by eazzzy1(m): 2:36am On Oct 11, 2022
She did the right thing. Most of the time when girls do the asking out it ends in a casual relationship, if she wants something more serious than just sex, which I think she does, she has given you a blinding green light.

If you feel same way she feels about you, you wouldn’t mind asking her out. You want to get her in a situation where she will start asking ‘what are we now’ after six months of knacks.
Romance / Re: Is Dancing With Other Girls While In A Relationship Good Or Bad? by eazzzy1(m): 4:39pm On Oct 10, 2022
Would you dance with other girls if your girlfriend was present at the party? Whatever you can’t do in her presence shouldn’t be done in her absence.

Dancing a few metres apart isn’t bad, rocking and touching body is bad.
Family / Re: The Kind Of Women We Rarely Talk About by eazzzy1(m): 3:31pm On Oct 04, 2022
Nebes:


Financial misfortune for a man is a different situation. We're referring to women who do not want their men to be successful even a little bit.

A woman not wanting her man to be successful does not stop her man from being successful, wishes are not horses. How many men would be with the woman they are with if they were more successful?

There is a reason why a woman would not want her man to be successful or more successful than she is, and most times it stems from insecurity, not diabolical practices. It’s also a general human tendency, like someone pointed out earlier, there are men with the same outlook towards life. Would you call them diabolical?
Family / Re: The Kind Of Women We Rarely Talk About by eazzzy1(m): 7:34am On Oct 04, 2022
It’s mostly connected to insecurity, the guy they are with is basically perfect except for his finances, they think if he gets money he definitely wouldn’t be with them or he would cheat on them, or his character would change. A change in their partners finances would alter their relationship dynamics.

I really do not see a problem with women holding things down, as long as it doesn’t breed disrespect. Men should learn to allow themselves get taken care of.

You don’t need to have a penis to make money, you don’t need one to spend money either, if your woman makes more and is willing to do the spending, let her.
Romance / Re: . by eazzzy1(m): 2:44am On Oct 02, 2022
Is this your first breakup? If yes, it’s a lesson to give you the strength for future heartbreaks, if no, how did you move on from the previous ones? recall the techniques of the past.

First, know there’s no one above breakfast, if the likes of Bezos and Gates could get served, who are we mortal men?

Secondly, be empathetic. Know she didn’t leave to hurt you, she left to please herself. Except you are an enemy of progress, you won’t wish to stand in her way of happiness. It’s left to you to make her look back in future and regret the decision of ever leaving you.

Thirdly, There’s nothing you can do to ease the pain, the more you want it gone the more it hurts. You aren’t only angry that she picked someone else over you, you are angry that you are angry and can’t move on, that’s double anger. Let one go.

It’s okay to be pained, time is your greatest ally, just keep living. In four months time you definitely wouldn’t be hurting as you are now, in 12 months time you probably wouldn’t remember how she looks anymore.

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Romance / Re: Lady Educates Men Who Ignorantly Refuse To Date Women Who Have Kids (video) by eazzzy1(m): 1:43am On Oct 02, 2022
She’s right, but there are several other reasons why a man wouldn’t want to commit to a single mother. If na by toto, most guys wouldn’t turn down sex because you have children.

People are allowed to have standards and choices, it doesn’t make them local boys, primitive or ignorant.

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