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idahme:
You think such deal is usually signed? You are a novice, they went to UK as common law partner. If you can't do something don't take part, the guy would necessarily be the one to sponsor everything and then she just pays her flight ticket. Can she use flight ticket of 700 pounds to travel to UK if she has to do it all by herself? A lot of people are so greedy, you see someone who has made things easier for you but you want to be smart .

The agreement was skewed to favour only the guy. They were going to part ways after school whether she paid up or not. The op said they both paid the initial deposit, now you are talking of 700 pounds. You are just adding and subtracting from the initial story to support the guy.

At the end of the day she would never have been on his post graduate visa because the agreement was they would move on after his schooling. She saved £7000 by wising up. She didn’t lose anything that she would not have lost anyways.

KingintheNorth:
There's nothing to back it up. The whole process was legit. It was just a verbal agreement.

I don’t know how UK immigration works, but the fact they didn’t live together and she was removed from the visa after he graduated is sufficient backup.

If after school they both go their own way, what is the benefit of the arrangement to the girl? Should she not start schooling while the guy pays half of her tuition too?

She should have exposed the scam to the home office before they told her to leave the country. They both would have been sent home.

Combined performance fee for Beyoncé, Drake and Taylor swift will not reach $2.7m for a 45minutes performance.

You can change a man from kind to unkind if you have a bad behaviour.

VDM himself is a clout chaser. What is in it for him to dole out #1m for fare? If not that there’s a plan to recoup the money somehow. See him shouting justice like he’s the commissioner for justice or chief judge.

He was 33 when he started dating you at age 18. If that isn’t sufficient evidence that he likes children, I don’t know what is. He’s waiting for your sister to turn 18 so he can prey legally.

See the space between he and his dance partner. My generation has not danced if the butt isn’t rubbing the phallus.

A single Nigerian lady found you working as a dispatch rider, liked you, expressed her feelings for you, gave you an apartment, 300k, laptop, phone and router.

The things that happened in Star Wars and Matrix are more believable than this crap.

This isn’t Russia. Looks like Calgary, Canada.

I use to sing that song as a kid and my dad would shut me up. He would tell me to stop confessing negativity to my life. He said the song was an anthem for the frustrated.

Many years later, after NYSC, guess who brought up the subject of leaving the country? Well, to be fair to him, I was supposed to study and return.

About 20 years later, the content of the song is still very relevant. People are still begging and praying for visa to leave the country.

Generally men are more submissive in relationships, we just do not call it submission.

A man cooks, he’s a great husband. A woman cooks, she’s submissive.

A man spends his money on his family without letting anyone know, he’s just a man. A woman does it she’s submissive.

A man cleans after his family, he’s a neat guy. A woman does same, she’s submissive.

A man is quiet and doesn’t like trouble, he’s a gentleman. A woman is the same, she’s submissive.

A man puts his wife needs above his, he’s an intentional man, a woman does same, she’s submissive.

What most women consider submission is basic respect for their partners. Today, how many men can tell their wives to quit working? Or to stop talking to someone, or to pack up and move to a different state with them?

These days it’s a negotiation. I will cook, you will clean. Do all the chores, maybe you will get sex tonight. I will give you head only if you give me head. Make the chicken and blend the pepper, I will cook the stew. Etc.

Women don’t even force submission on men, they just make it look cool to be submissive . They call you sweet names like real man, intentional man, problem solver, provider. Etc. Now you are spending all your money, standing on the unsafe side of the road during walks, cooking every night and fighting your entire family for her.

The moment Tyson walked in I knew he would lose. He looked tired and lost. After the first round he was done. He didn’t throw a punches, just bounced in the same spot. I think Jake was merciful to him, he just threw jabs, didn’t go in for the kill.

The Tyson training videos must have fooled everyone, the old man looked like it was past his bed time.

Did you ask them for a relationship? Most girls don’t want to do the casual sex thing. They may sleep with you if they think you are in the talking stage. If after a few session you don’t start asking for a relationship then some would ask you the ‘what are we doing question’, others would just leave.

A second reason may be your attitude towards them changed after the sex. You stopped being affectionate, communication reduced etc. If they move on fast enough, they can subtract you from the body count. This is how most girls keep a body count of three to four until they get married. Those sex that happened five or less times don’t count, relationships of less than six months don’t count either.

Must we always threaten? Same thing during Osimhen’s time too. Let the judges do their work.

People record intimate moments for the same reason they record everything else. People record concerts, family time, accident scenes, emotional moments, happy times etc. to rewatch them, to preserve memory or to show people.

People allow it because it’s a show of trust between lovers. You are trusting your partner with your privacy, same way you will trust them with your secrets. As long as both faces are revealed in the film, a lot of people don’t have issues with it.

Also, the emotion of sex overpowers people’s thinking faculty. When you are sleeping with someone you like, you just want to please them. A lot of people have done things they never thought they could do like having raw sex, having period sex, anal sex, one night stands, threesomes, filming etc.

Work out - when you are in shape, even rags could look luxurious on you.

Sunscreen lotion - I don’t think a man should be obsessed with skincare routine. Just protect your skin from the sun with sunscreen and you should be good. If you insist on skin care, try Cerave or Iope. Avoid the sun when you can. Use a hat or umbrella if you need to go out.

Eat well - Get balanced diet in all your meals if you can. Eat light for breakfast and dinner.

Perfume - stop spraying perfume on your clothes, spray it on your body. Shots to your wrist, neck, the back of your ears, the front of your elbows (I don’t know what this body part is called). These are heat spots that amplifies the fragrance. I recommend 1 million (paco rabanne) creed, gentleman(givenchy). It is recommended to have a collection so you don’t smell the same every day. Some people mix several scents to get a distinct scent.

Groups - Follow pages like men with style and men with street style to keep abreast of fashion trends. Focus on wrist watches and shoes. These are one of the most noticeable things when you look at classy men. Don’t wear fake. An original Casio is better than a fake Rolex.

Mind care - There is a glow that comes with peace of mind. Let go of things that trouble your mind, if you can’t immediately let go then accept it. Get atleast 8 hours of sleep daily. Take naps during the day when you can.

Hygiene - Take two showers a day, brush twice a day, rinse with mouth wash, visit the dentist quarterly or twice a year for general cleaning, whitening etc. shave your under arm, trim your beards, cut your finger & toe nails, use deodorants, body mist etc.

More hygiene - keep your environment clean, put plates away after eating, wash your bathroom weekly, Mop your floors, put clothes away after use, do laundry regularly, fold or hang your neat clothes, put dirty ones in your laundry basket. Keep a neat environment at all times.

Personal development - Every thing you know how to do now, strive to be better at it. Practice grace, talk, eat, walk, dance with grace. Practice doing everyday things with a little panache and royalty. Remind yourself and catch yourself slip. If you were an important person and surrounded by equally important people how would you act? Start practicing it now because you are a VIP.

Last word - Glowing up is not a destination, it’s the summation of glow up actions. The things you do daily, weekly, monthly is what adds up to become glow. Even after you have glowed up, you still have to continue ‘doing’. So focus on the ‘doing’ instead of being obsessed with becoming. The end.

You are cursing him, his new wife is praying for him. They will cancel themselves out. Life is not a Nollywood movie and God is not from your village.

The US has oil and refines oil yet petrol per litre is almost $1. Where anyone got the idea that Dangote will crash fuel price is surprising. Why would he sell cheaper when he can export for market price?

A litre of crude cost almost $0.45. When you factor the cost of processing + profit you will understand why petrol is expensive. Previous governments are responsible for your entitlement mentality. Petrol was never cheap. Someone was paying part of the cost for every litre you bought.

Those of you saying Davido should be inaccessible like wizkid are trying to kill his career. You have to be talented and extremely good at what you do to be lowkey and still be successful.

If Davido deliberately stays away from the limelight for two months, nobody will remember him when he comes back. He needs to jump on trends to stay relevant.

In the abroad, people get into relationships so they can split bills or they rent a room in the house to someone to augment.

‘I just want to be happy’ - every girl favourite words before making bad decisions. What makes you happy now will turn into don’t judge me by my past in a few years time.

A guy who’s thinking of getting with his friend’s girl isn’t trustworthy. The decision is ultimately yours to make, my advice is to use your head not your heart. Even if it works, will he trust you with his friends?

They both are still relevant today because of the beef. Without the beef they would have never lasted this long at the top. Davido would have been gone years ago while wizkid would be still be relevant like Tekno, tubaba, Olamide etc but certainly not at the top.

Davido’s entire career is anchored on this beef. Bad voice, use of song writers, scandals, constantly getting dragged online, no real talent etc. Wizkid on the other hand is beloved, great personality, nice voice, writes his songs and just minds his business.

Wizkid, like Genevieve is a celebrity’s celeb. You see how his colleagues react to good news about him vs the reaction to Davido’s or how they celebrate his birthday vs Davido’s. Even Davido is a fan of Wizkid. You can see the emotion in his eyes whenever they reconcile.

Davido is the biggest beneficiary of the beef. Wherever Wizkid is mentioned his name would always come up and that is what has sustained his career so far. Little wonder when Burna started popping he found a way to start a beef with Burna too. I hope Cuppy borrows a leaf from his book. Just keep releasing music and find a way to beef Tiwa, Then she too can be the female 002.

His website says he uses electromagnetic induction to generate power.

Logically never!!! Marriage is man-made and it was made under certain assumptions that are no longer relevant, one of which is; The man has to be the head. That is, a woman’s entire life is subject to the control and direction of her husband.

People get surprised at the above 50% divorce rate stat today. Meaning 1 in every 2 marriages will end in a divorce. If you replace car tires with bicycle tires, you can’t be surprised that the tires collapse under the weight of the car and the car becomes undrivable.

People who get married today are getting married to divorce. You are building your happiness on something that will most likely crash and leave you unhappy.

The best model of relationship for today’s world is casual or short term relationships - You have sex with people you are attracted to once in a while, or you date someone for 4-6 months and move on to someone else when the spark fizzles out.

My first time of seeing Reno speak. I think he should stick to writing. However, I agree with him that Peter was never the guy. His response to questions have always been very shallow and over simplified.

They ask how he would conquer insecurity and he started talking about sixty million, one hundred and thirty five point two hectares of arable land in Zamfara. Like a bandit will quit the lucrative business of kidnapping to go and plant cassava.

Whether he’s talking about ending corruption, fighting insecurity or reviving the economy, you will think he got the idea from a twelve year old or a mad man. Peter is like the shallipoppi of Nigeria politics.

Red all the way.

There are women everywhere telling men body count does not matter, accusing men of slut shaming and trying to dictate their sex life. Yet, you can’t see two women fight without slut shaming and this happens everywhere in the world.

She didn’t snatch your man, she provided him an option. If it’s easy to snatch, snatch him back.

1. Confide in your wife let her find a solution.

2. Talk to a therapist, this isn’t normal behaviour.

3. Relocate the girl. Let her go live with another relative or let her get her own place.

4. Help yourself. Paint a vivid picture of how this may end. Create a mental image of the shame you will feel when people find out. Replay this image in your mind whenever you lust after her.

5. Sleep with your wife whenever the thought comes. When you cum, you come to your senses.

What will be the crime? I’m pro choice, I think men should also have a choice in the decision of whether they become fathers or not. If the decision to birth a child is solely a woman’s to make, then you shouldn’t compel the man to contribute to raising the child.

In the spirit of equality - her body her choice, his money/time his choice.

These two people are agemates. One is semi famous for kissing Denrele, rebelling against his influential father, and generally being a menace. The other’s call to fame is having a PhD in Mathematics, inheriting a one branch village church and turning it into a global outreach, with presence in every corner of the world.

This 70 year old boy should return the money they paid him to cover the assault of Eedris Abdulkareem by 50 cent’s crew.